After school closed i called my mum and told her i was coming home with a female friend and she joked if she was my wife and i said i hope so... unknown To me my dad was back from his trip on getting home he asked who the girl with me was and i introduced her as my course mate whose parents lived out of town so i offered to accomodate her since the holz is only 2weeks...

tho my mom understood... She cut her visit short and left the next day saying her parents had sent for her.i didnt read any meaning into it till she refused to pick my caals for two days

now shes claiming i dont value her more than a friend based on how i addresed her to my dad since her parents and sibbling know clearly that im her boyfrnd having been introduced as such by her.

the truth is i totally value her but i cannot introduce anygirl to my dad as my girlfrnd atleast not at this stage

the relationship is on a new low eversince and everyappeal is falling on deaf ears.i told her shes the first girl ive had the guts to bring home as thats hoiw far i can go to show my commitment to d relationship buh she insists i should introduce her as my girlfriend

btw im sure my dad knows shes more than a coursemate buh i cant say it with my mouth.her family is very different from mine buh she wont hear of it.

Abeg what should i do
help a nigga!!!

Eeyah

Invite her home and introduce her again. Or pretend to call ur dad in her presence and hand the phone over to her. Ur male friend can act as dad for the phone call

Prayed for you

As if you read the whole story

ladyF:
Eeyah

Some girls tho...

Girls like to wail about everything......just try to explain to her or better still introduce her to your mum as your girlfriend that should calm things dows

The girl doesn't understand u, and Dats a big problem. sit her ass down and explain things to her so that she can understand. Any girl who doesn't understand u, doesn't deserve ur affection. I know I sound like a bitchhh ryt now... buh that's the fvcking truth.


I couldn't even bring a boy to the house, let alone introduce him as my 'boyfriend' until I was 18

My dad is so against boyfriend and girlfriend stuff, it makes me pity my mum.. sometyms I ask her 'how do u endure daddy as he's nt romantic and stuff lyk that' my mum knows I had a bf, buh my dad saw us as frnds I dnt av the guts to tell him, even tho I'm of legal age to date. buh I hope u ain't lying o op

All I can see is a desperate chick!

mecuzee:
As if you read the whole story

I did...just like u

some girls sha! just simple understanding, does that mean the guy dont love her again?...i think its immaturity here!

my brother forget that girl now now if you no wan get fault o. She no love you at all.

Ma guy, why u fear to yan ur ol man wetin dey na?....im suppose understand say u be man na, uya, u better go beg the gey wif better gift, then take her back and reintroduce her to ur popcy...him go understand....

do you have a job that would be the reason for you and your girlfriend wasting nairalanders' time with this type of foolish thread?

you are still collecting school fees from your parents and yet opening this kind of topic like someone who is not.

eyah...all dis small small girls sha.

Sorry ehn

tpiander:
do you have a job that would be the reason for you and your girlfriend wasting nairalanders' time with this type of foolish thread?

you are still collecting school fees from your parents and yet opening this kind of topic like someone who is not.

im used to being silent on issues like this buh for your sake i'll pass

if you had a job u probably wont be reading a folish post let alone finding tym t comment. Im so sorri im nt a saddist and loner like you...faggolomo

pls take your job fustration somwhere dont vent it on NL you wont like the comment you read

least i frget there is a job oppening @ joblesspple.com try and drop ur CV wjsh you goodluck

I guess the op is just a young boy of less than 20

gabazin080:
I guess the op is just a young boy of less than 20

iddduno what my age has go to do hwver im n final year and above 20... So what

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your sorried...

gabazin080:
I guess the op is just a young boy of less than 20

probably not.

the fake "bad english" is a giveaway.

Since ur mum is more understanding of the situation, let her call ur girlfriend and give her the assurance that her position in the family is secure.

ladyF:
Eeyah

Invite her home and introduce her again. Or pretend to call ur dad in her presence and hand the phone over to her. Ur male friend can act as dad for the phone call

runs babe experience talking

Your girlfriend is not serious, lol

why does she want to be introduced to your parents, did you say youre marrying her

I wouldn't even come there unless the guy was announcing that intention

if you guys break up (tufia) and she ends up with another sango, and he introduces her to his own parents as his girlfriend. and this keeps happening until she eventually marries

how many families will have seen her? does it not sound ridiculous

Most girls are drama queens

ladyF:
Eeyah

Invite her home and introduce her again. Or pretend to call ur dad in her presence and hand the phone over to her. Ur male friend can act as dad for the phone call

from experience, i guess? Maybe your bf did d same to you

femoDee:
from experience, i guess? Maybe your bf did d same to you

nah.... I've never made such requests.

What is mine is mine. Whether introduction or no introduction.

If you're old enough to camp a girl in your house for two weeks then your old enough to tell your dad you've a girlfriend.... Man up