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PoliticsRe: A Vote For Buhari Is A Vote For Tinubu – PDP by Eden007(m): 7:06am On Dec 15, 2014
It's not your comments here that will win election for apc in 2015. Election will be rigged, mark my words! Gej has already won even before the election. Gej isn't bothered because preparations for rigging has been completed. His camp is only trying to paint a picture of concern, but deep inside there are very confident. In this system, you can never unseat the incumbent president, even obj knows. Stop wasting your time my people.
RomanceRe: Attributes A Guy Will First Notice About A Lady by Eden007(m): 12:02pm On Dec 13, 2014
Totally true! I am not attracted to slim girls.
RomanceRe: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Eden007(m): 9:16pm On Nov 19, 2014
I used the legendary ebola line today and it worked like magic! I and the babe I just met got talking and laughing like we've known for years. I told her she must have drank a gallon of salt and water and bath a drum. She laughed and told me her funny ebola story. At a point she even said I should get her number that she'll soon enter the next taxi(I met her at a bus stop). I got her number and she told me her name when I joked if I should save her number as HIV. I've never had that easy mehn.
RomanceRe: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Eden007(m): 10:22pm On Nov 18, 2014
Hi guys, this is a classic line I just came up with..it's legendary.

You: I'm ebola, can I meet you? You smile when you say this. Make sure you are well groomed. You get to talk about ebola without mentioning your name and make interesting gist from the whole ebola story. You guys will rapport well that when you'll ask for her number she'll easily give you.
RomanceRe: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Eden007(m): 6:59am On Nov 17, 2014
Nice work op, there's something I think you've missed. without this thing, all the lines and game play in the world won't get you any girl. It is GROOMING! Guys clean up! You don't need to be handsome but just be well groomed. Have a neat hair-cut every weekend, shave your armpit, ur groin area and ur a*s hole, cut your nails short, brush after every meal. If you have stuff on your teeth, get a new razor ask someone to help you clear those stuff carefully or possibly visit a dentist. I do visit a dentist once a year for teeth washing, it's just 5k. Wash your shirts and apply starch before ironing. Wear well ironed clothes and neat ones at all times when you are going out. Cut your toe nails. Don't use excessive perfumes, deodorant is just okay. Some people may find ur perfume. Irritating. Shower anytime you comeback home sweating. If you have acne try and treat them. You don't need to have money but if you follow this tip you'll look fresh. I forgot to add you should try to wear neat undies at all times. Some of the reasons girls turn you down is because of your hygiene. Mouth odour is common among guys pls brush your tongue as long as possible to eliminate that. You can as well get mouth pef. Also note that once you approach a babe, smile!!!! Even before you say a word.
NYSCRe: NYSC BATCH C 2014 AKWA-IBOM CORPERS...lets Meet Here!!!! by Eden007(m): 6:35am On Nov 03, 2014
You've corrected the impression I had about you with this post. Kudos Bro. I am not being desperate, I'm being blunt. Sometimes you've got to hit the nail on its head. Akwa ibom is a very peaceful and loving place. Welcome to Akwa ibom Bro, looking forward to meeting you in person.
SirElaw:
Stop the "any lady pick up line" for your own good, it doesn't even portray you as sharp. Let's assume you don't have any dangerous intention, the line actually puts you in a position of an extremely desperate guy. What you should have done was, put out the offer and ignore the guys (which I'm sure won't be too many cos of their ego) and follow up on the girls. You did a good job trying to put a tribalistic spin to this issue but it won't fly. I plan enjoying Akwa-Ibom and loving the people therein. However, I feel one can't be too careful and plan getting there and accessing the situation myself and not taking a guy on desperate p**** hunt's word for it. Take a chill pill. Relax. My next reply on this will be to a fellow C14 member's comment. Peace.
You've corrected the impression I had about you with this post. Kudos Bro. I am not being desperate, I'm being blunt. Sometimes you've got to hit the nail on its head. Akwa ibom is a very peaceful and loving place. Welcome to Akwa ibom Bro, looking forward to meeting you in person.
RomanceThe Hidden Strategies For Attracting A Rich And Handsome Bachelor For Marriage by Eden007(op): 6:27am On Nov 03, 2014
Hello ladies I am hiding somewhere to
type this write up. This is because I am
being pursued by scores of angry
wealthy young bachelors who are
furious over my insistence on leaking
these hidden secrets to you all. I have
chosen to leak these secrets because if
I don’t take care of my single female
friends, who else will?
My dear young lady do you want to get
married to a rich man? I am asking you
this question because i want us to be
on the same page. Oh your answer is a
big Yes!? You believe that love is
overrated. You know that getting
married to the love of your life only
happens in the movies. You agree with
the cliché that it is far better to cry
inside the comfortable and plush
interior of a luxurious Porsche cayenne
than to laugh inside a rickety taxi or a
crampy keke tricycle.
There is an adage that says if you come
from a poor family background it is not
your fault but if you choose to marry a
poor man, you are totally to blame. So
you are a sensible lady who wants a
man that is financially stable and who
can provide for all your needs. You
belong to the “no finance, no romance”
school of thought.
I mulled over this topic while drinking a
bottle of my favourite soft drink brand
and came up with the following
strategies that which if carefully
implemented will result in you walking
down the aisle arm in arm, grinning
from ear to ear with a rich and
handsome man this year.
1) The Packaging strategy
If you stand in front of a shelf in a
super market and you see two products
lying on the shelf, one with a shiny
package while the other with a drab
package. Which one will attract your
attention first?
The shiny one of course!
The crux of the matter is that rich men
like me*pats wad of mint dollars in his
pocket affectionately* are attracted to
ladies who are sound and complete in
the major facets of their life.
You have to package yourself well to
get attention. Your packaging begins
with your physical appearance. Why do
you ladies think that a semi nude
dressing will attract a man to marry
you? Sorry to burst your bubble, the
truth is that rich and handsome men
are all looking for classy and
responsible ladies as wives. When you
dress in a way that displays all your
“assets” to the public, you will only get
ogled by lusty eyes. The rich bachelors
that you are looking for may stare at
you and initiate contact but none of
them will have the remote thought of
putting a ring on your finger. The
attraction will only be shallow because
the name of that farming implement
used for weeding will always be
plastered all over your face. You will
only be a side chick good only for a roll
in the haystack every now and then.
You don’t want to be a side chick, you
want to be the main chick, a Mrs with a
stable family, don’t you? So think, do
you still want to buy that same outfit
worn by Amber rose during the last Mtv
music video awards?
Your face is a major component of your
packaging strategy. Try and smile more
often for Pete sake! All these frowns
and poker faces you keep putting up
ain’t helping matters. Grab your make
up kit and apply five layers of pancake
to further enhance your looks.
How do you talk? Do you talk at the top
of your voice? Can you keep secrets?
Do you have good table manners? Do
you chew chewing gum noisily? Do you
blow the gum into a balloon in public
places…..No? Wait….What’s that in
your mouth? A chewing gum? I have
caught you! Get rid of it and please
don’t stick it under the seat or table.
You don’t know if that rich dude is
looking at you right now.
How is your body carriage and
posturing? Are you physically fit?
I don’t get it, why do ladies walk
around these days with big bellies even
when they ain’t pregnant. If you are
one of such, you’d better hit the gym
fast.
Apart from the gist that Joan Rivers of
fashion police on E! is dead, can you
hold intelligent conversations on other
topics?
All these and more are the different
aspects of packaging that you must
work on to have a complete package
that will compel that rich bachelor to
get down on his knees to propose.
2) The Damsel In Distress strategy
We might not admit it but every man
has a secret fantasy of being the
Knight in shiny armour rushing into the
scene in the nick of time to rescue his
lady from destruction. When a man
claims to be in love, he will take over
the battles of the lady that he loves.
The knight in shiny armour expression
has its origin in the medieval times
when young men rode on horses and
acted as heroic rescuers of their love
interests, sometimes not hesitating to
use their swords to inflict damage and
death on anyone who troubled their
lovers. It is now being used figuratively
as a romantic gesture in our modern
times.
My dear young lady, a rich bachelor
would do anything for you with all the
resources at his disposal if only you can
activate his “knight in shiny armour”
personality. In this case you want him
to notice you and to marry you but first
of all you have to be in a distressed
condition for this to work.
There are many distressed conditions
that you can be in. You have to
simulate one that will get his attention
instantly. Think.
Have you seen that rich Adonis that
you want to marry? If you have not,
you have to be in a gathering where
there are many rich eligible bachelors
to select your pick. You should know
that the damsel in distress strategy
only works in the presence of the
knight.
Now, the easiest distress condition that
you can simulate is to slip and fall flat
on your face before your knight.
Yes I am serious. Dearie have you read
the book “She stoops to conquer” by
Oliver goldsmith? Oh you havent’t? You
skipped literature classes back in
secondary school?*sighs*. In this case
you are not stooping to conquer, you
are falling to conquer!
Now you are set to go to a gathering of
men with fat wallets. It could be a
birthday party, church meeting,
wedding reception, convocation
ceremony, house warming party,
anywhere. You have to look stunning
facially because your face will play a
major part in your stunt. If you don’
have a pretty face don’t worry, your
make up kit will come to your rescue.
Apply ten different layers of Mary kay
foundation powder, concealers, eye
liners etc. At the end of the makeup
session you will be looking like a Barbie
doll set to charm your target. Do you
have a perfume that irritates the eyes
making them watery or misty? Apply a
generous spray of the perfume on your
white handkerchief which should be
held in your palms at all times.
Wear a pair of high heeled shoes. It is
easy to slip and fall when wearing a
high heel.
Your intention is to get noticed by the
rich bachelors in the gathering.
When you get to the gathering, look
around, you will see the rich dudes
standing together or seated in huddled
in small groups. Choose the bachelor
that you are most interested in and try
to get his attention with a smile. After
sometime he will notice your eye
movements.
When he starts returning your smile,
look at him in the eyes and start
walking towards him.
This is the tricky part.
When you are just one meter distance
apart from him, suddenly twist the
stiletto heels of both legs of your shoes
in the opposite direction. This will make
you lose your balance and you will fall
flat on the ground.
My dear please don’t make any
attempt to get up. You don’t want to
ruin your hard work now, do you? Just
lie down there like a log of wood and
start counting slowly from 1 – 10.
I can assure you that the innate knight
in shiny armour mechanism in the men
will kick in. They will stop everything
they are doing and will rush towards
you. They will make attempts to lift you
up.
While they are fussing over you,
quickly dab your eyes with the
perfumed handkerchief. The tears will
stream out and melt their hearts.
The men will be hustling among
themselves to be the lucky one to lead
you away.
Imagine a group of rich men struggling
among themselves to take care of you
which is what you really wanted in the
first place. Your Adonis will eventually
emerge victorious. He will lead you to a
seat or take you of the hall r room. He
will comfort and start chatting with you.
He will request for your phone number.
Give it to him. He will even offer to
drive you home. He will call you
afterwards for a date. He will date you.
After a few weeks he will propose to
you.
When your wedding card is printed,
don’t forget to invite me. I am very
much interested in chopping the
wedding Jollof rice.
3) The Surprise gift strategy
Question 1: How do you attract the
attention of someone instantly?
Answer: By giving him or her a gift!
Question 2: What kind of gift do people
like the most? Answer: Money!
It may sound absurd for you to give
money to someone who already has
lots of it, do it anyway. Do you know
that by giving a man your money, you
have completely set yourself apart from
the rest of the female species.
The truth is this; majority of females
have sworn never to give money out to
any man. Wealthy men are continually
besieged by women with different
financial requests. They want airtime,
they want money to buy iPhone 6, they
want money to make their hair, they
want money to buy Brazilian and
Peruvian hair, they want money to buy
the latest designers clothes and
whatever is the reigning fad. It is all
about the money for them. You can’t
blame rich young men for having the
mindset that all women are after their
wealth.
If a lady deposits money into the
account of a rich man, no matter how
small the amount he will be pleasantly
surprised and will definitely look for the
lady to find out whether she made the
deposit by mistake.
My dear young lady looking for a rich
husband, look for the account number
of that rich guy that you fancy and
deposit something into his account.
Make the deposit with your full name.
That will be the fastest way of gaining
his attention. He will make contact with
you. He will want to meet you and from
there you can weave your charms
around him and get him to marry you.
*Clears throat*All my crushes here is
your golden opportunity to get my
attention once and for all. Send me an
inbox message requesting for my
account number. You know a rich guy
like me*pats wad of mint dollars in his
pocket affectionately* needs a pleasant
surprise to enable me date and marry
you. Yes I will marry all of you J
4) The Playing hard to get strategy
I can see a smile on your face now. This
is the oldest trick in the book that you
ladies use to keep us guys at bay.
Many a young man has wasted his
time, money and resources chasing a
lady only to end up in frustration. The
underlying principle behind the hard to
get strategy is that no woman should
cheapen herself by saying “Yes” to the
first request made by a suitor. The man
must crawl on his knees through a path
littered with nails & thorns and endure
all sorts of fickle behaviour from the
lady to prove his love before being
granted entry to her heart.…smh
Playing hard to get is counter -
productive sometimes. Many ladies are
still single and searching at 45 years
because they were playing hard to get
while their biological clock was ticking
away. The times have changed and
with the scarcity of husbands many
ladies have abandoned this approach.
You can still use the hard to get to get
strategy with slight modifications. The
hard working and rich eligible bachelors
do not have the luxury of time to chase
ladies. They have the belief that their
money can buy them everything
including love and women. Can your
love be bought? Can you resist the lure
of the greenbacks?
While you are playing hard to get, spice
it up a little chase yourself. When the
rich guy comes around you, you can
act cold and disinterested in his
presence. But when he does not expect
it, act warm. Give him a call out of the
blues, surprise him. Remember there
are millions of ladies like you looking for
this same rich man. They will snatch
him away without battling an eyelid if
you give them room. When the time to
say “Yes” comes, scream your answer
for the whole world to hear.
5) The Center Of Attraction
Strategy
The center of attraction strategy is very
effective if you can play it well. It is all
about you using your talents and skills
to draw attention to yourself. It is about
creating a star and infallible
personality.
What is your natural talent? Is it
singing, acting, writing, dancing,
cooking, painting, a pretty face and
body structure for modeling?…etc.
You have to develop whatever talent
you have and go public with it. A huge
base of star-struck fans will form
around you. Many facebook groups and
pages will be opened in your name.
Do you know that Shakira with over
100 million likes on her official facebook
page is the only person in the world
with the highest number of fans online?
What if she didn’t discover her “hips
don’t lie” talent?
Tell me which wealthy man in his right
senses wouldn’t want to marry the diva
Shakira? I will give up my right arm to
spend one week with her. I hope my
future wife isn’t reading this :p
Rich, handsome and successful men
will chase you like bees seeking for
your hand in marriage when you are
the center of attraction.
Oh you don’t have a talent? You have
not discovered your talent yet? You are
over weight, plain looking and lazy but
you desperately want a rich man to
look towards your direction. Sweetheart
what are we going to do about this eh?
Let us think of something…………….You
must discover your talent today!
……………..
Eureka!
Do you know Kim Kardashian? She is
married to a millionaire American
rapper. She has her reality show and
fashion line. She is rich and famous but
she doesn’t have any recognizable
talent.
Do you know what made her famous?
A scandal.
A video tape was released online by her
ex-boyfriend. What was the content of
the video? Google is your friend.
So since you don’t have any
recognizable talent, go and
manufacture your own scandal. This
will throw you into the limelight making
you the center of the media storm
which will ultimately result in men with
thick wallets making inquiries about
changing your marital status.
6) The social media strategy
The social media strategy being last on
this list is kinda ironic isn’t it?
Is it possible to get a rich husband on
Facebook, twitter, instagram, watsapp
and bbm? Is there any rich eligible
bachelor left on this facebook platform?
Oh You don’t know, you have been
searching for a husband on facebook
even before Mark Zuckerberg opened
the site in 2004…..Please don’t cry,
remember the comforting song of Bob
Marley….”no woman no cry”….
The problem with social media,
facebook most especially is that
everybody is rich, everybody is cool,
everybody has the best houses, cars
and gadgets. Everybody’s life is
awesome.
Ladies if you are targeting that guy on
your friends list who snaps photos of
himself with dollars, Pounds, Kenyan
shillings, Cedis, Rands and Naira notes
all the time, your natural instinct
should tell you that he is probably
faking it.
Why are you frowning at me?
He is not fake? Sorry I don’t want to
pour sand sand into your garri but you
can’t deny the fact that there are lots
of fake profiles here.
It is Confession time!*looks left & right*
Mr A got a friend request on facebook
from Gracie which he quickly accepted.
Gracie was a very cute girl, always
posing with exotic cars, gadgets and
clothes. She began chatting with him,
told him her dad was a millionaire. He
got her number and house address
over time. They lived in the same city
with him. They spoke on phone twice.
One day on his way back from work he
decided to pay her an impromptu visit.
Got to the address, it was the same
house he had been seeing in her
photos, massive black gate, lovely
flowers, big dogs, nice duplex. He was
interrogated by the gate man who said
the only person named Gracie in the
house was one of the house helps in
the house. In disbelief Mr A dialed her
number and asked her to meet him
outside. A short almost dwarfish lady
who was clearly 5 -6 years older than
him walked out answering the phone. It
was the same voice. She had a darker
than coal complexion and was wearing
a big gown stained with red blotches.
She smiled at him, opening up her
mouth to reveal a set of hideous teeth.
Mr A simply turned around and fled.
NYSCRe: NYSC BATCH C 2014 AKWA-IBOM CORPERS...lets Meet Here!!!! by Eden007(m): 5:11am On Nov 03, 2014
Guy why being overzealous? Calm down nigger. Tribalism is the order of the day in Nigeria. How can reasonable citizens of Nigeria believe that their fellow citizens eat human alive. The fact that you are ibo, hausa or yoruba doesn't mean other tribes are lesser beings. Take this, there's no place in this state that such barbaric act is committed. You are coming for nysc, that should mean you are university graduates. Please reason as one not like an illiterate. I don't want to pick up a guy. Sorry if I am being arrogant but I think you know my reason. Enjoy your stay in Akwa-Abasi ibom state.
SirElaw:
God bless you Lilian. Imagine him sounding like a social worker who wants to do something great for humanity. A stranger helped you, are you a girl? So why are you so particular about helping only ladies? Someone told me the same thing about AK people eating humans and you come here to dispel those facts. Look here young man you have some really dark stuff going on around you and I'll advice you leave this thread and ply your trade somewhere else or I promise I'll take you down.
P.S: any lady here that falls into this guy's trap will not be pitied. You have been warned.
Guy why being overzealous? Calm down nigger. Tribalism is the order of the day in Nigeria. How can reasonable citizens of Nigeria believe that their fellow citizens eat human alive. The fact that you are ibo, hausa or yoruba doesn't mean other tribes are lesser beings. Take this, there's no place in this state that such barbaric act is committed. You are coming for nysc, that should mean you are university graduates. Please reason as one not like an illiterate. I don't want to pick up a guy. Sorry if I am being arrogant but I think you know my reason. Enjoy your stay in Akwa-Abasi ibom state.
NYSCRe: NYSC BATCH C 2014 AKWA-IBOM CORPERS...lets Meet Here!!!! by Eden007(m): 11:09pm On Nov 02, 2014
liilian:
Goodluck on ur driver work!
Thanks! That was really polite of you. When I served, a stranger helped me out when I visited that city for the first time. So, over the years I've been trying to reciprocate. I also see it as an opportunity to make friends. I'll suggest you ignore me if you ain't interested.
NYSCRe: NYSC BATCH C 2014 AKWA-IBOM CORPERS...lets Meet Here!!!! by Eden007(m): 11:03pm On Nov 02, 2014
liilian:
I was told dy eat human meat in akwa ibom.. So we all gat 2 b careful n mind d knda pipo u trust
lady calm down. There's nothing like that in Akwa ibom state.
NYSCRe: NYSC BATCH C 2014 AKWA-IBOM CORPERS...lets Meet Here!!!! by Eden007(m): 11:00pm On Nov 02, 2014
Pretty ladies only...
liilian:
Hmmmmm! Must it b a lady?
Pretty girls only...
NYSCRe: NYSC BATCH C 2014 AKWA-IBOM CORPERS...lets Meet Here!!!! by Eden007(m): 10:53pm On Nov 02, 2014
Any lady coming into uyo 2Mao? I can pick you up at the park and drop you off at your camp. . That's my. 2a386141(BB pin)
SportsRe: Keshi Resumes; Recalls Ikechukwu Uche For Remaining AFCON Qualifiers by Eden007(m): 8:52am On Nov 01, 2014
I write this with heavy hearts! I've been
Jonathan's number 1 fan until he
reinstated keshi as super eagles coach.
From what I read online, he had major
influence in that. My question is, why
should he not respect nff's judgement?
Mr president I don't care if your
government mis uses government
funds, I don't care if boko haram
bombs aso rock, I still loved you. Right
now I feel nothing for you but hatred
because you tempered with our only
source of joy in this country which is
football!!
Please for your political sake, show
keshi the door. I beg you with all due
respect. You can remember the
reaction of fans towards keshi in abuja.
It will be worse in uyo especially if we
fail to beat Congo convincingly.
NYSCRe: NYSC BATCH C 2014 AKWA-IBOM CORPERS...lets Meet Here!!!! by Eden007(m): 9:03pm On Oct 31, 2014
luvspa:
Hi guys.. Akwaibom at last!!!!. Am so looking forward to camp. grin Count down cheesy
Welcome to Akwa Ibom.
SportsMr. President For Your Own Political Good Stay Away From Our Football!!! by Eden007(op): 8:59pm On Oct 31, 2014
I write this with heavy hearts! I've been Jonathan's number 1 fan until he reinstated keshi as super eagles coach. From what I read online, he had major influence in that. My question is, why should he not respect nff's judgement?

Mr president I don't care if your government mis uses government funds, I don't care if boko haram bombs aso rock, I still loved you. Right now I feel nothing for you but hatred because you tempered with our only source of joy in this country which is football!!
Please for your political sake, show keshi the door. I beg you with all due respect. You can remember the reaction of fans towards keshi in abuja. It will be worse in uyo especially if we fail to beat Congo convincingly.
NYSCRe: NYSC BATCH C 2014 AKWA-IBOM CORPERS...lets Meet Here!!!! by Eden007(m): 6:49pm On Oct 31, 2014
Hi everyone. Any lady here, coming into uyo for the first time and will need someone to pick you up at the park and be a nice friend to you when you newly out of camp? Contact me on 08039295318. Welcome to akwa ibom state! I bet you'll enjoy your stay. You can also add me on 2a386141. Cheers!
PoliticsRe: FG Withdraws Tambuwal's Security Details by Eden007(m): 8:31am On Oct 30, 2014
Events'god Of Soccer' Competition Coming Soon... by Eden007(op): 6:39am On Oct 30, 2014
..a platform for football lovers to prove their deep knowledge of football and be crowned 'god of soccer' of their city, rather than just argue in viewing centres. It will also involve a live show where audience will have an opportunity to win lovely prices by showing their knowledge of football too...details later. For sponsorship contact victor on 08039295318, or 08057169388
Nairaland GeneralRe: FG, Boko Haram Agree On Cease-fire, Chibok Girls Release by Eden007(m): 4:56pm On Oct 17, 2014
Interesting
RomanceRe: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Eden007(m): 7:26am On Oct 15, 2014
First assignment, look around you, who disobeyed the parent's wish when choosing a life partner and still flourished? As a guy, if your parent, your siblings, even the smallest has one reason or the other to ask you to stand down, bro that is not your wife. When you find your wife, it'll be naturally accepted by them.

It all depends if you trust your parents. Besides, why should a lady force herself into a family she's not being accepted?? You definitely won't stay with your husband alone. You are being married into the family, you bear their name.

No matter how deep in love you are, I promise you it'll be a disaster if you force yourself into a family. People should not neglect the fact that this is Africa, Nigeria! What you just do at this point is to let go!

To avoid being in this situation, watch the kind of people you open up yourself to. Don't fall for someone you cannot marry.
RomanceRe: Help! My Ex Is Still Keeping Tabs With My Friends And Family. by Eden007(op): 11:45am On Oct 14, 2014
izaray:
Op, i can sense dat, u still love dat girl very well,
i understand wat u are passing tru. But d best way is gettin another girl
dat will make u happy and keep u busy, so u can easily 4get about her.
My elder bros ex- still communicate wit us seriously, as if they is no misunderstanding b/w dem
But my bros is not complaining either, cos he has moved on already!
You are right, I still love her but I can't be with her anymore. I can't move on with her still 'stalking' me. I need her out of my world!(atleast for now).
RomanceRe: Help! My Ex Is Still Keeping Tabs With My Friends And Family. by Eden007(op): 11:40am On Oct 14, 2014
littlemistress:
From your analysis, ΐτ̅'s evident you don't like her anymore & she thinks she can still reach you through your family. Well, ΐτ̅'s obvious she hasn't gotten over you. But since you've parted ways with her., she should also move on! She seriously need to grow up & move on!!
Thank you very much for seeing my side of the story. That is what I expect from her. Now the question is, do I contact her and tell her that? There are so many people on planet earth. If she wants to make friends, she can but just leave my peeps alone so that I can move on. Please what is the immaturity here that some people insinuated??
RomanceRe: Help! My Ex Is Still Keeping Tabs With My Friends And Family. by Eden007(op): 10:08am On Oct 14, 2014
phrancez:
I think op needs to grow up. She send u make you end ur relationship with her friends. Gosh, this Op is so immature.
Thank you very much for being so insensitive. I see how mature you are.
RomanceRe: Help! My Ex Is Still Keeping Tabs With My Friends And Family. by Eden007(op): 8:59am On Oct 14, 2014
Yes, sometimes one has to think through their emotions.
RomanceRe: Help! My Ex Is Still Keeping Tabs With My Friends And Family. by Eden007(op): 7:37am On Oct 14, 2014
esof1:
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Bros, you are still not over her.
I won't deny that I loved her, and having her around makes it difficult for me to move on completely. She knows this and is manipulating me. I didn't break up with her because I don't have feelings for her again, but because of 'irreconcilable differences'.
RomanceRe: Help! My Ex Is Still Keeping Tabs With My Friends And Family. by Eden007(op): 7:30am On Oct 14, 2014
stanconnect:
Bro that u guys are x's now doesn't mean u are enemies, up till now, am still friends with my x..when ever she have got issues she calls on me and we sort it out...we understood our differences and forgave each other...that's maturity, and she's still in touch with my family and friends as well so I don't think there's anything wrong if she's keeping in touch with em...its a small world bro..so act wise!
Thanks for your advice. I can't be 'just friends' with someone I once loved. Not that I say we should be enemies, I just don't want her around my world. I know very well she'd feel bad if reverse was the case. Just like I did, I withdrew myself from her peeps without making any scene. I don't chat up with them, I don't contact any of them. I am no enemy with any of them, I just moved on. I expect her to do same not to make them enemies.
RomanceRe: Help! My Ex Is Still Keeping Tabs With My Friends And Family. by Eden007(op): 7:19am On Oct 14, 2014
Recently, she saw my Bro at a mall. From the account the dude gave me, she tried to initiate a conversation with him which he didn't give room for. As far as I am concerned, when things like this happen, I get to hear about them and it makes it difficult for me. I need an advice on how to stop this.
RomanceRe: Help! My Ex Is Still Keeping Tabs With My Friends And Family. by Eden007(op): 7:06am On Oct 14, 2014
esof1:
She's your Ex, not ur family or friend's Ex
If you do this, it's really not cool. Why don't one just MOVE ON?? I didn't say she should have a fight with anybody, what's up with the chats?? It's more like you are indirectly asking them to beg me. It's not that there were close before our break up, I'd understand if that was the case. The whole chat only intensified after our break up.
RomanceRe: Help! My Ex Is Still Keeping Tabs With My Friends And Family. by Eden007(op): 7:02am On Oct 14, 2014
Afrok:
Ok... Ayaf heard, shey make she become ex to ur family members, friends and loved ones because she's ur ex? Kindly tell all of them to date her and dump her so that she can become their ex. If they don't want to be friends with her, they'll definitely do the needful.
Please free the girl johr, she's just trying to tell and show u that there's more to dating or becoming someone's EX.
My sister complained of her chat up. She's been reluctantly chatting up with her so as not to make it obvious which I commend.
RomanceRe: Help! My Ex Is Still Keeping Tabs With My Friends And Family. by Eden007(op): 6:58am On Oct 14, 2014
Tallesty1:
People sef, why don't you attack your family and loved ones?
Abeg free the girl
Well, I am considering that.
RomanceHelp! My Ex Is Still Keeping Tabs With My Friends And Family. by Eden007(op): 3:01am On Oct 14, 2014
I broke up with this girl because I felt we weren't compatible in some ways. I'll spare you the details of that. What annoys me is that she has refused to move on. She still chats with my siblings on social network, keeps up with my close friends on Facebook, comments on every event concerning my family.

I overlooked it before, but now it is really getting on my nerves. I don't keep in touch with anybody I met through her, and I expect her to do same. I've moved on and I want her to move on too. I don't want her to 'monitor' me through my loved ones.

I've been thinking about confronting or sending a message to her, but I don't know if that's the right thing to do.
I'll appreciate any advice you can share. Thanks

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