₦airaland Forum

Edoreborn:
Na so ooo,,d guy konji hold am that na why e no get standard... Everything goes when konji set in..

Dats wat dey don't know, but ask those guys if dey will marry her now, dey will all say NO

thesicilian:
Why must you people always force yourselves to chose between 2 bad options? Is it forbidden for you to have a virgin with good character?

God bless u my brother, they always trying to make themselves not feel bad abt losing their virginity....

Between a virgin and a non virgin, who even has d potential to av a gud character

Someone who couldn't control her urge or temptation or someone who was able to abstain and overcome temptation

immortalcrown:
My comment applies to both males and females.

A virgin with a bad character is better than a non-virgin with a bad character.

A virgin with good character is the best.

I don't mind getting married to a good girl who is no longer a virgin. But people should stop talking down on virginity as if virginity is not a great achievement. Virginity is a great achievement. I failed to keep my own virginity but I will not talk down on those who managed to keep theirs.

People should stop talking as if all virgins have bad characters and as if people that are no longer virgins have good characters. If you cannot identify a virgin with a good character, you cannot identify a non-virgin with a good character. As there are vagins with bad characters, there are non-virgins with bad characters. As there are non-vagins with good characters, there are vagins with good characters.

Virginity is one of the reliable signs of self-control. If you see a healthy adult who is still a virgin, give the person his or her flower.

God bless u my brother... Imagine d trash talk... Someone is chaste n immaculate enough to keep her virginity in dis modern era dat gen z has taken over. This era of fraud, dat almost all ladies can do anything for money, dey even proudly fight themselves to date yahoo boys...

Someome has d courage to abstain n keep her virginity... And dey go ahead to water it down like nothing... Some overcame a lot of temptations, n yet dey believe such person is not well brought up or has good manners....

I can still bet it anytime n day dat if statistics is taken abt who makes a better wife between a virgin n non virgin, virgins will win hands down....

I'm not talking abt doz women abused or raped, I'm talking abt doz dat gave it out willingly... Someone without manners n gud upbringing can't keep her virginity in dis modern era...

Some give excuse of being young, ignorant n were deceived... Who nor pass tru dat stage of life too, who was dat young as well, n yet were able to overcome it...

Women were never designed to av sexual experiences b4 marriage,, some crazy ones who already lost dia way will say u av to sleep with a lot of guys to gain experience n satisfy ur man, rubbish...

Marriage is a place of learning, u don't bring sexual experiences dere, u learn every sexual activity in it... If u n ur man don't know more dan missionary style, den enjoy ur lives like dat... It's not a must to do all styles in d world to b able to enjoy life....

And moreover,, dere is even internet now, u can simply Google how to satisfy ur woman or make her climax, n u get or ur info... So d excuse of experience is rubbish to me n doz pushing it already have lost dia way n seeking souls to destroy... U can never see a virgin advocating for this rubbish, always non virgins...

No more purity in marriages again,, guy man go marry, e go later hear scores of men when don knack im wife, like 10 different niggas, so wats now special abt d wife... Some will even find out dat a nigga dey know in d street dat is wayward and a lot has dated ur wife b4, wat pride is in dat...

Like d one my guy is facing now, he just found out dat one of our guy back den in score with d biggest gbola we've ever seen dated his wife..... Den we were even making a joke abt d guy dat we will never date any girl he has dated... Cos dat pussy will never remain dsame again,, someone dat his dick is very fat n long...

LordIsaac:
This one just watched Jack Bauer for the first time

Lol, yes na....

So happy for their FREEDOM..

But d military needs to pay attention to details, no matter d division dat did d rescue, dey ought to use camouflage....

U dress according to d terrain.... One can easily spot black in-between green grasses n vegetation..

Patnome:
All these CRYnaldo fans self

they can no longer compare him with their failure but with mbappe who is still very much younger

Even at that, Messi at 39 has 8 goals and younger mbappe has 8 and you say mbappe is better

Oga, wetin you smoke?

Even mbappe said he can't equal Messi's achievement, it's already too late, maybe he can be like Ronaldo...

Consider how old mbappe is right now, n add 8 yrs of ballon d'or, 6 European golden boots, 47 trophies, 2 FIFA golden ball n all... Den u will know it's over already

babacos:
This is just a coping mechanism. You think fifa will consider this stat. Peadog fansgare really funny. So you think fifa will take into consideration mpappe world cup stat of the last two edition in the giving mpappe the golden ballquote author=Freshtruth post=139980498]Men lie, women lie but numbers don't. Mbappe is better than Messi. It's a fact and not an opinion. Don't bring emotions here please. The numbers tell me who is better. Messi played more world cup games. Remember World cup is the highest and most prestigious level of football.
#FIFAWorldCup #FIFA #lionelmessi #Mbappe

Mbappe is clearly giving Fifa headache this time around who deserves the Golden ball, Mbappe is giving fifa headache this time around who the golden booth, mbappe is giving fifa headache this time around who had the better stats.

If meesi is considered in the top3 in the baloon do or rating then Mbapppe should be up there in top2 according to fifa logic.

Mbappe thank you for fighting for the whole world, thank you for telling fifa the truth with ur performance and stat rather than using it voice. Make we see how fifa wan take give messi golden ball or balloon dor this time around

Stop deceiving urself,, mbappe ain't d only french player doing well... Dembele will AV to win it again, cos he won every cup available plus world cup of France should win... Mbappe has nothing apart from d world cup...

Even Doue will rate higher Dan him.....

If Argentina or spain should win d world cup, it will b more complicated as Messi or yamal n pedri will b rated equally with dembele...

According to ur logic of mbappe winning,, if spain should win d world cup, den u will also agree dat yamal will win d ballon d'or....

At least he won supercup n la Liga, den world cup,, mbappe has nothing apart from dis world cup..

princepee:
You are comparing a 39 years old man with a boy?
Your head dey pain you.

God bless u bro.... D hate for Messi is so strong dat dey begin to talk like APC supporters..... Same werey dat will argue till death d figures between Messi n r9, it's same person claiming stats here... Even comparing mbappe to a 39yr old... Was Messi ever compared to a 39yr old wen he was in his prime....

Same stats dat showed dat Ronaldo played more games Dan Messi n thus has more goals, but on average per game against goals, Messi is better...

He is comparing mbappe to Messi, nu forgot to compare him with r9 dat has left d tournament already...

Simple answer,,, according to his stats, it means mbappe is far better Dan r9...

Omoawoke:
There should be zero mercy for anyone who say that because they want to live a good life, would then end another person’s life and do horrible things

Like zero mercy

U are on point.

But this news don old na, OP nor try, n it even made front page, after reading same news on nairaland..

I don't blame dis guy, how some educated south Africans still supports d rubbish he is vomiting is wat I can't understand..

Believe me u, some south Africans will still support d dis trash coming from his mouth n say it's truly possible...

He is just oozing of illiteracy, naivity, ignorance, foolishness and LAZINESS. Like someone who is retarded... And folks will still vote someone like dis into power is he comes out... With dis level of illiteracy, he will just run d country into a bottomless pit...

Someone who doesn't think b4 speaking... He doesn't understand basic economics....To him SA is rich, he doesn't even understand how SA generate n make d money...

U WANT FREE MONEY, YET U DON'T CONTRIBUTE ANYTHING TO D ECONOMY,, SO LAZY DAT HIS OWN IS JUST TO TAKE...

MANDELA WILL BE WEEPING FOR D IGNORAMUS HE LOST HIS WIFE N PRODUCTIVE LIFE FOR...

eepeepook:
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U just catch her.. Everybody one must trend.. They have notice dat controversy is d quickest way...... But dis update don cast too

MarketDispatch:
Any man who goes there should get ready to live in a dirty house with a dirty lady

U should understand that she's just blabbing, she is looking for attention. Just another clout..

Just read through list again, are these not necessary for a man to marry a woman, non there is negotiable in Nigeria, even female marriage counselors says same..

She just wanna be like dat other clown 🤡 dat said she takes 20million for relationship or sex.... But e go shock her say she nor go trend or blow tru dis cheap publicity stunt...

Okonsbecky:
I hearby reseign from wizkid fc, am fully 30bg. Davido is for Nigeria

Welcome onboard bro.... 30BG always say speak for d people, he did it during end sars as well, he was even there...

Not like other yeyebrities who care more about their brand n forget dat it's same people who made dem blow...

Food4Thought:
If Tinubu and his security personnel get liver make them touch VDM.
Nigerian youths dare them to touch him and see if them no go collect.
Enough is enough.
Tinubu it's either he resigns or face Nigerians in the 2027 polls.
Any attempt to rig the election will vehemently be resisted.
We dey wait for them.

U don start ooo, na urself u know ooo.. Nor speak for Nigerian youth ooo... Nor go ginger vdm enter grave oooo...

Na so Nigerian youths gbaga leave us for end sars.. Regina daniels even had d guts to call us kids den.....

So speak for urself ooo

OAkanni001:
I don't need to read beyond your first sentence to know the whole of your argument is not worth my time.

All religious practices must derive their legitimacy from the a sacred religion book they believe to be divine from which practices are established.

The fact that a lot of Nigerians all over the world are known for pushing drugs does not means it has a constitutional or moral backing in our society.

Secondly, we will rather advocate for the particular individuals be punished rather than stereotype a whole country for the crime of few.

Islam also advocate love in numerous texts which you and your biased media will intentionally ignore. Let me serve you some to educate you.

"None of you [truly] believes until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself," (Saheeh Bukhari)

"....whoever kills a soul unless for a soul or for corruption [done] in the land - it is as if he had slain mankind entirely. And whoever saves one - it is as if he had saved mankind entirely." Quran 5:23

I want you to note where it says "soul" and not "Muslim" because are souls are sacred before Allah and you only where necessary and with the backing of those in authorities.

Under Islamic law, those bandits and Boko Haram that claim to advocate for Shariah would be its first to be brought to book because their conduct is totally against the Shariah.

So you mean if I slap you now, you will turn the other cheek back to me?

Well, we both know how foolish that sounds.

Islam will tell you to take revenge and ensure you don't trespass. But if you forgiveness is the best option.

"If you punish, then punish with the like of that with which you were afflicted. But if you endure patiently, verily, it is better for the patient" Q42:40


The fact that few people choose to misinterpret the Qur'an to suit their whims and desires does not represent what Islam is.

I will also want you to know that most of the crimes happening in the name of Islam have political undertones. This has been well established by lot of American officials confessing live on camera to sponsoring terrorism.

Now give me those justifications, so we can both have a look at it.

I don't want to talk about the bible or the pastors or whatever.


Those things you listed there shows you lack understanding of what Islam is. I put it to you, What is Jihad and What is Shariah?

You just keep parroting whatever you heard online.

Do you know it part of Shariah to do good to your parents, establish family ties, be good to your neighbors and never consume each other's wealth unlawfully except in a lawful manner e.g trade?

And as for Nikkah Mut'ah, Sunni Muslims (i don't know if you will understand) are against it. It was once permissible but later abrogated.

There's nothing wrong with them only that you lack understanding of what it entails and rather than sit and learn from authentic sources, you choose to be blinded by your ignorance and desire to be woke.

That 90% you quoted now was from which source please? I'm educated and I don't entertain unsubstantiated proof. Quote a source to back it up and then you establish the accuracy of your source.

If you can't do that, I repeat you're better off putting down that lie you wrapped up there as a fact.

For each one of those claims you make, come up with the evidence as we Muslims back up our practices from the Qur'an. We don't take our practices from daddy GO or missioner or one founder.


You just displayed your ignorance once more. Surah means chapter and Tawbah means repentance. How does that correlate with the sword verse?

Those verses you quoted were taken out of context.

I will give you a brief context and I believe if you're sincere, you will understand but if you choose to be blinded by your hatred, then know all you spew there are lies.

Those verses were revealed to battles ongoing between the Muslims and the unbelievers then. After so much persecution, they were allowed to retaliate as found in the verse below:

"Permission [to fight] has been given to those who are being fought, because they were wronged. And indeed, Allah is competent to give them victory." Q22:39


For the last part, The verse was talking about Mahr (bridal dowry) not that definition you gave to it. This is the view I hold and other billions of muslims except for rare minority who have a distorted view of the Qur'an.


I won't dignify you with a response anymore because it shows you lack knowledge of what Islam entails. All you did was some copy and paste from some website some where. I'm better off ignoring you.

Nikka was never abrogated, shiite practice it... They are Muslims, are verses are valid, just because u chose humanity first doesn't mean others do, so u chose to practice d verses dat are comfortable with u, dats how other Muslims practice others dey deem comfortable with as well...

And u can't touch d problem, dats d difference with Christianity. Jesus came and ended all u quoted in d Bible, yet dere is no place dat categorically claim in Islam dat those verses are invalid. Cos u can't review or edit d quran, since it was revealed directly to Mohammed by allah...

If u have d guts to do so, den claim n say right now dat Mohammed marrying a 9yr old n sleeping with her at 12 is crap... Can u give out ur 9yr old daughter in marriage

Say Mohammad at is wrong if u can, cos I no u exercise ur rational thinking as human, thus I believe u won't marry a 9yr old..

Just say right now dat wat Mohammad did was rubbish.... As a Muslim say it, u can't ...

OAkanni001:
Let's point out your selective hypocrisy.

From the first verse you wrote. Did you read where it says kill them wherever they fight you. That alone should point out the context in which the verse was revealed.

Secondly, just like you decide to turn a blind eye, I will help you point out the obvious. It was stated explicitly that when "in battle".


So, safe to say that your hatred led you to reject critical reasoning for blackmail.


Now help me explain the below verses

1. Now go and smite Amalek, and utterly destroy all that they have, and spare them not; but slay both man and woman, infant and suckling, ox and sheep, camel and ass. 1 Samuel 15:3 KJV

2. 10-15 Before you attack a town that is far from your land, offer peace to the people who live there. If they surrender and open their town gates, they will become your slaves. But if they reject your offer of peace and try to fight, surround their town and attack. Then, after the Lord helps you capture it, kill all the men. Take the women and children as slaves and keep the livestock and everything else of value.

16 Whenever you capture towns in the land the Lord your God is giving you, be sure to kill all the people and animals. 17 He has commanded you to completely wipe out the Hittites, the Amorites, the Canaanites, the Perizzites, the Hivites, and the Jebusites. 18 If you allow them to live, they will persuade you to worship their disgusting gods, and you will be unfaithful to the Lord. Deuteronomy 20



I think this is the best source of inspiration for bandits or what do you think?

Ur whole argument is void from d beginning, cos u don't even understand wat u r saying.. Religion is in practice not texts... Assuming Muslims are not killing people in Allah' s name, most people wouldn't know these verses exist, Islam in practice is a time bomb n not good for any society...

Mind u, d verses u quote from d old testament l, when Jesus came in d new testament, it all changed. It's no longer an eye for an eye, no longer d law of Moses, but just one

LOVE THY NEIGHBOR AS UR FATHER IN HEAVEN LOVED YOU...

TURN THE OTHE CHEEK WEN U ARE SLAPPED

NO GREATER LOVE A MAN HAS FOR HIS NEIGHBOR DAN TO LAY HIS LIFE DOWN FOR HIS NEIGHBOR....

That's y u don't see Christians go haywire like Muslims, cos there are no verses dat support killing, instead forgiveness...

That's y wen u c or hear a Christian or pastors commit atrocities, dey always say it's d devils work... But a Muslim will never say dat, cos dey have justification in d quran...

And a book (quran) dat is believed by muslims to be dictated by allah, directly to prophet Mohammad, n such it's content can't be altered, edited or revised, cos dey believe it's revealed by allah...

U c d problem now..

A religion dat believed in dat if someone leaves he should be killed, Jihad, sharia, nikka mutah(which I call prostitution), yizia, fatuas n all... U still here defending such in dis modern era....

A religion dat makes up 90% of terrorists in d world, yet u defend it.. a religion dat uphold itself above humanity, yet u believe it.. baba, u must be sick

A religion dat rapes, kill, behead, give out kids for marriage, makes women second class citizens, commits suicide, a religion believed to b above d constitution of any country dey reside... Dats madness

Surah At-Tawbah (9:5): Often referred to as the "Sword Verse," it states: "But once the Sacred Months have passed, kill the polytheists wherever you find them, capture them, besiege them, and lie in wait for them on every way.

Surah Al-Anfal (8:12): Describes divine intervention in battle: "I will cast terror into the hearts of those who disbelieve. So strike [them] upon the necks and strike from them every fingertip." 

Thanks be to God who says: "O Prophet, fight the infidels and the hypocrites and be harsh with them. Their abode is hell, and what an unfortunate fate ...

Surah An-Nisa 4:24
"So for whatever you enjoy (istamta'tum) of marriage from them, give them their due compensation as an obligation. And there is no blame upon you for what you mutually agree to beyond the obligation." (This is nikka mutah, temporary marriage in Islam,it can be for a hours, den u pay) Wats d difference with prostitution, cos both gets paid..

Let me end here.... If u wanna debate Islam, just let me know, so we arrange n bring facts from ur Quran n surah

ExudeLoveToAll:
She is as deadly as those boys, if they tell you the statistics if deadly STIs prostitutes spread you will hold your hands and keep quiet. The number of people dying because of deadly STIs isn't even compared to the number dying from yahoo boys.

Can I disagree with ur point

U av a choice with prostitutes, na u decide to Bleep, nobody force u, it was ur choice..

But d others like yahoo ritual, robbery, kidnapping,,, it's not by choice. Them go just kpai u without ur consent...

Kobicove:
Fake story - so you expect me to believe that a married woman doing olosho would ask her husband to come meet her outside in the presence of the driver who had just seen her leaving the home of a client?

Abeg make una dey lie with common sense

True story, n it must be Lagos, saying this cos I be seen n heard worse...

I base in lag, not stereotyping ooo, it's common with d younger yoruba women..

U don't understand ladies at all, dey want everything, a good looking guy, fair, chocolate, well built, tall, rich, intelligent, faithful, non smoker, no woman beater, no anger issues, holy, tolerant, forgiving, ready to die for dem, has bad boy character, vocal, rugged, controllable n all...

Which man get all these character on earth.

So they marry d young one dat is still finding his feet, n cheat on him with d rich bad one to feed him... They can't just chose,, dey want it all...

Some will tell u dey can't marry a rich man in his 70's, but will cheat on d young fresh one with same rich man...

That's y u see guys with money treating dem like trash, make money ooo, so u can move on whenever u like.. So u nor go come online come cry say u invest ur life on her n u don't no where to start from...

It's almost impossible for a rich guy to find true love ooo, cos u can get any gal u want, ask urself if doz gals would love u if u had nothing...

TylerForbes:
With how the country is right now, I don't even have the strength to judge anybody again Make everybody just dey run their package and face whatever comes out of it.

​Besides, she is not even as deadly as all these secondary school boys glorifying yahoo-plus and ritual killings everywhere.

U c dis bro, d best writeup... That's just it....

Just to add to it... Everyone is responsible for their actions n consequences. They beg, complain or seek pity wen it happens...

Actions n consequences

Reference:
But is it a cardinal sin for SCHOOLS to have electricity in a 2026 world. How much will it cost to provide 5 kw solar kit to every school in Oyo. I bet a lot less than is spent on frivolities.

But it could power some serious learning aids that both teachers and students could do with.

U are very correct... It's not a sin, in short, dats how a standard classroom should be, including AC n fan...

But, oyo state is not d only state, my bro, come to lagos, Delta, Edo, ansmbra, imo, bayelsa, rivers, Akwa Ibom n see schools, some are even worse, no desk, collapsed roof, students still using black boards n all, students sitting on d floor while learning, some hanging around windows.... Northern Nigeria is even worse

So, d point I'm making is dat u shouldn't particularize it, u av to generalize it. Cos all Nigeria governors are guilty of same thing u are accusing Makinde for....

I could remember vividly wen I also experienced dis, I was writing dis same waec as well. We had to rent gen, since we already aware we won't meet up, and d connection was done b4 we started...

And for ur solar, ain't against it ooo, but believe me u. U won't see a single panel or battery in less Dan a month after installation in a public school.. I can even bet my balls dat u won't even see d bulbs.....

If some humans can damage desk n take home to be used as firewood, tell me wat dey can't do.....

To do dat, all classrooms must have protectors, security personnels, lighting system all over d school (solar security light), iron doors and windows, well fenced and gated.

Thanks

CJStarz:
Hair wey dem cut us during our time and our mam dem no send.

Cos ur mama nor send den nor mean say e dey right.

yarimo:
Makinde is just wasting Oyo state tax payers money on his dead on arrival presidential ambition, instead of providing good governernce

The waec team in charge bleeped up big time, who writes exams at night.... Was dat d time d exam was suppose to start

They shouldn't blame it on insecurity, oyo state is not d only state were kidnapping has occurred.. We are angry with d kidnapping n insecurity dere, but waec should not use it as an excuse .

Is d transportation system not working, are people not doing business dere, is dere no movement of people n goods dere, didn't some of d student travel dere as well.. They shouldn't blame dia logistics issue on insecurity to escape blame.

QuinQ:
Sad thing is that the ones who do all that running around ("bad" girls) marry first. The quiet plain ones come last. "Badness" always finds a way to win

It may also shock u dat d 'quiet plain ones' u are referring to are d ones doing x10 of dat same shit in secret, just because u don't see dem doing it, doesn't mean dey are innocent. Fear women ooo, fear d quiet ones most.....

If ur story is true, baba I advise u to lock dem up in ur vault... Live ur normal life as if nothing happened....

REASONS

1) How will u feel if roles were reversed, u are d guy n another guy u did transaction with in haste leaked ur private videos

2) U don't owe dat young lady any advise, she made her decision and choice, and everything comes with consequences.. Only if she were family, dats wen u can do dat.. Cos d guy will understand it's family...

3) You can be sued for it, cos u leaked another person's video without their consent. It's not ur intellectual property.

4) Since it's PH, dere is possibility dat d nigga is a cultist, and he dere are chances he may come for ur life. You sef imagine am, u sold phone to someone who said he is in haste and forgot to delete ur personal stuff, after he leaked such private videos, dats against bro code, n u av d means to Bleep d person up, tell me y u won't.

5) You may be a murderer, cos if she decided the shame is too much n she commits murder, her blood is on u....

So my guy, just assume say u nor see anything n live ur normal life... Cos if u show her, she must tell dat guy, n d guy will know dat its true d phone he sold....

U should b man enough to accept rejection from a lady, not by blackmailing her. And wat do u intend to benefit from it....

Be man enough and get a gal( or sex) legitimately without blackmail or out of fear or shame.

And finally, don't tell me u are just trying to save her from d guy, she is mature enough to make her decision. U are not Jesus Christ.. And she is not family, which we'll understand dat u are obligated to do...

U may be even shocked dat most gals prefer guys like dat nigga, gals love guys dat every other babe is dying for, or has access to different kuntus...

Dats y u will see a lady throw a guy out of her hux, but d moment another lady takes him into her house or abt to, she will call d guy back...

Reason1313:
If the tape self cut, e get how you go use selotape tape am back Aje. And me never marry ooo

U na legend too oooo

For u to know dis update

But na d lacoco wen be modern drink come confuse me like ancient n modern

Mirasteel:
How comes the laser dome couldn't stop all Iranian missiles entering Israel? all these things are trash and their will never be Isreal without USA.

Wat u don't understand is bigger Dan u, and u just displayed ur ignorance here....

Don't av d time to lecture u, but it's just simple ECONOMICS..

Jossyman0007:
Then why the police officers harass and arrest any young man with dreads,ear piercing and the likes,all in the name of looking like a Yahoo guy?.
I ask again,why do they stereotype the youths due to their looks??

This is d reason Trump called Nigeria and Africa at large a jungle....

U know very well how much u will make from court ruling for profiling in YANKEE...

Here dey profile u and harass u, yet our people still support dem n say u look or dress like a thief... Surely u wonder if thieves or yahoo boys now av a special uniform...

We are even going far, how may companies in Nigeria do u think will employ u if u are making ur hair as a guy or have dread?¿?

We av along way to go