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Fiscus105:
I think this behaviour is more prevalent among female gender than guys, most especially on Facebook or WhatsApp.

Nevertheless, immediately you notice your partner is putting up such behaviour, just know, it's time to move on, unless you like to be dating yourself going forward.


This has been the most effective way to end relationship amicably in recent times.

God bless u for this baba, women are d pioneer of this strategy. They will just leave u in the relationship to be dating urself.

TheTundeMuniru:
I made a decision 2 years ago and it's paying off big time.

I decided to leave the wailers bandwagon. Because it have come to my notice that opportunities lies in solving problems. Meaning, where many problems exists, opportunities abounds.

Why can't many of our so-called graduates and rational thinkers look around into many problems we are faced with and furnish a solution that come with a price?

We just can't continue like this as it is evident that crying, wailing, criticism, protesting will change little or nothing in this country of ours. Many expects the Politicians to be the change we hope and pray for, they can't. The Politicians are a product of our problem but not the major. Because, last time I checked, Leadership isn't limited to Politics alone. We have Religious Leaders too, the Cooperate Leadership is there among the few.

We need a breathe of fresh air, we need fundamental change across the country by sensitizing and reorientating the citizens.
It is evident many of us have lost our minds and we need quick fix as soon as possible.

Baba, if I may ask. Pls help with more examples of how a graduate can find solutions to problems with little or no capital. Because a lot of graduates are stuck inbetween (little or no capital).

Mind u, I'm not against Israel defending their sovereignty. Only surprised with US decisions.

Just an observation though. They always claim ignorance whenever Israel attacks d enemy, but put their forces on full alert immediately after such attack/incursion. And they also tend to send more forces to reinforce against any attack on Israel.

Why can't US just come out straight.

WhatIf:
.......and now they are teaching the kid on how to be violence.

Is that the best way?

Would love to really know wat ur comment was wen he was kidnapped....

After d trauma, I'm happy it's not badits, cos I believe he would av been sodomized.

Don't worry, just pray u are kidnapped, den if at all u make it out alive, I wanna know if u will make dis comment.

U see they eerey dem now. Same police dat will be given peanuts and highness/morale to intimidate us wen we are fighting for wat they will benefit from. Now dey are crying, n expecting our sympathy.

We go do una same thing wen una dey do us, divide and rule system don hit una too.

mmadu4:
Chai , i wanted to type May she be found alive and strong until i saw ogun state, all the best sha

No cause for alarm, make we get hope say dem never mine her skull...

And also, they should interrogate her bestie/besties. They must have an idea of wat happened.

amfinishedhelp:
I'm praying that my wife would be able to plead with him to talk. I'm praying heavily.

LoL, u are not funny at all. Baba use ur head. I don't need certain answers from u, but by ur narrative, u av already casted ursef.

According to ur story, it's clear dat u are a yahoo boy...

Now I will ask u these simple questions.

1) Did ur wife ask for money for something dat u deemed irrelevant and didn't give her chi chi, or is there anything she requested for n u said no money??

2) Both friends u had, did anyone of dem ask u for financial help, likely an amount u see to be huge and u said u can't n did d little u can??

3) Why would a friend wanna unalive u, wen he got nothing to gain from it? It's always someone dat has something or benefit most dat will do such.

U r too lousy, and it seems u are not mature anough for d my ney u av. I just talk carelessly. U even sent same msg to friends again, u get sense so, if truly wat u said is true, don't u think dat nigha dat leaked d info will be killed, cos dey will say dat he is also capable of selling dem out to d popo too if he can do dis.


Answer my questions and I will tell u wat to do.
LoL, na simple scam, I will tell u how to get d person. I had such experience as well.

OP u sef d exaggerate ur success pass as e be too and u like to dey talk too good abt ursef.

Just quote me, lemme give u d code jor

en0uwem:
Read with interest till I got to this point:

Timothy also decried how a HND graduate was appointed Bursar of the university contrary to the provision of service of the university which spelt that only candidates with a minimum of first degree would be considered for appointment as Bursar

Long hiss...
Imagine the discrimination. One would've thought it was an SSCE holder that was appointed.

LoL,,, hope u ain't hating cos u r Hnd holder. It is already spelt out dat a degree cert is needed for dat position. Come to think of it, if Hnd is equivalent to Bsc, y not just call a polytechnic a University instead.


What do I know??

But nothing annoys me more dan those dat uses "This" instead of "These".

I know Israel is fighting a gud battle. But US is just somehow I don't understand. Though it's their business Sha. You talk about cease fire during d day and u send arms and war supplies to Israel at night, like u don't know wat dey are using for. I just love these guys.


[i]In a statement, IMoD said the package includes $3.5bn for "essential wartime procurement", which has already been transferred, and $5.2bn for air defense systems such as the Iron Dome, David's Sling and an advanced laser system.[/i]

Edojoma:
I tire too o brother. They think it's dat easy to be rich or wealthy. If it was dat easy, Elon, Gate , Mark and d rest of dem would av employed people in thousands dat will be tapping for dem daily.

Nigerians always looking for d easiest route to make it.

I thought I saw between 1 to 4 dolz there as payment. How is it ok??

If it's ok, why are dey lamenting now??

SensualMan1:
I only heard and read about this hamster stuff from Nigerians and on nairaland here. It's just funny how majority of youths of a country could devote their time and energy in tapping what a kid somewhere in America developed for fun in the hope of cashing out money and Tinibu is pillaging their resources under their very nose.
Sha eon all the youths of Nigeria.
Shame on you all.
Tinubu will kpai all of u with taxation since una no wan get sense.
What a wasted youth of a nation.
Tinubu, Ganduje, Shettima are really the type of leaders y'all deserve. Bastardssssss!

I tire too o brother. They think it's dat easy to be rich or wealthy. If it was dat easy, Elon, Gate , Mark and d rest of dem would av employed people in thousands dat will be tapping for dem daily.

Nigerians always looking for d easiest route to make it.

dododawa1:
This man should cover his mouth

5 sins he commuted


1 Stealing is not corruption

2 Nigeria economy started grumbling under him

3 Releasing power to the DULLARD

4 Not MAN enough to removed subsidy

5 Working for buhari govt as errand boy.

I know u are saying this because of the current economic state of the country. You believe it wouldn't av been so if he didn't give power to dem. I will reply all ur points. You just have to free ur mind from hate, nepotism, tribalism,favoritism n religious fanatic to understand him.

1) Go listen to d full speech, not the part apshit extracted for political reasons. He actually meant d root cause of corruption, which is making money available for political office holders to steal. Dat was y he brought bvn. He meant dat stealing is not actually d root problem, but making money available for dem to steal. You know ur people now, wen dem see money, dem must steal.

Same with wat he is sayion today, technology is not d solution (but it is the solution in other countries) but d people who controls it. Shey it's same useless eyeneck dat will input d data's as well into d system? So can technology do it on its own without humans influencing it, it's until we change our dubious ways no t technology.

2) He did his best under d circumstances den, crude price was dwindling drastically den towards d end of his tenure. How did buhari cope with it wen he entered, he destroyed everything cos he is a dullard and birds of a feather, flock togeda. Apshit was just abt power, not leadership. They never had d interest of d people at heart. I was even laughing wen I read apshit manifesto den, how can u make #1 equivalent to a dollar. It's only a dullard dat will believe. And how far everything dey promised u den.

3) If he hadn't done dat, u would still be saying apshit is d best, dat PDP is worse Dan dem. Google comments buhari made b4 the elections on how he will make d country ungovernable if dey don't win. His comments about the baboon's blood. U realized how d northern politicians all betrayed him, including saraki and dino and amaechi. Karma is a bitch. Same amaechi dat instigelated governors against him for our oil savings to b shared amongst state, was same bastard saying he didn't save. Even wen he was begging dem. Nigerians are really gullible.

4) Same set of people u believed wen dey said subsidy was a scam are same people paying more on same subsidy today. U remember d ojota protest ba, same people oo. He was making appropriation for d subsidy for national assembly approval, same set of bastards dat have non existing companies getting money from d subsidy. U see, same issues till date with dangote refinery. Dangote refinery cannot solve d problem cos doz bastard politicians won't let him steal d market and make all d profit. It's no longer abt country and service, it's just personal interest.

Even nnpc GMD den (Maikanti Baru) said they were still paying subsidy, yet buhari was deceiving u all. Paying for subsidy without appropriation for it, only God knows how much he stole as well. He even made himself minister of petroleum.

5) He wasn't an errand boy, he only had d people's interest at heart. If he doesn't help, it won't affect d bastards elite bit is d people. Look at wat is happening today, are d political office holders feeling d heat. He didn't wanna play d useless politics in Africa.


I only blame him for not implementing d national confab resolution. Though d north didn't want it, and kicked against it, he should have found a way. But he used it for politics cos he was afraid cos of d betrayal from his party members and wanna use it to win.

The northern leaders are all mad, dey don't wanna go on dia own cos of free oil money, and still won't live in peace with d hand dat is feeding dem. They secretly mine dia minerals and scare people away by making d areas ungovernable yet dey share from other people's own. Same madness dey are doing with alcohol tax money, u call alcohol Haram, yet u enjoy eating Haram money.

This is d reason d southern governors, especially Niger delta a re angry, cos it's just pure cheating. And d ordinary northerners don't even no wat is happening.

This is an insult to humanity, not just borno people.

I believe it may even be covid 19 palliative dat was re-bagged.

Pls, I am finding it difficult to apply. Can't proceed from uploading CV. Always showing email is invalid. Don't know wats wrong

Na wa for US and gun violence. Pls wats the Ruth cause of this mass shooting all d time

Is it much guns/firearms in circulation or beef??

Because I can't believe everyone dat was shot offended or had beef with d shooter/shooters

femi4:
Wrong approach, though good intention

That's forcing people to give by trick

Naija Christians prefer to give money to their pastor that's not hungry then the church members sitting beside him/her that needs help

Not wrong at all. He did d right thing and Catholics worldwide understands. He is telling dem dat whatever u do to d least of ur/my brothers, u do unto. It means whatever hthey gave those in need, he is the one dey gave it to.

He could av collected the money from all doz that wanted to give, den call those dat needed it n give to them himself.

But instead, he used it to pass an important message/lesson.

Alphamentips:
It's far from me. Better luck next time

I do same, I'm at Ebute Metta/Oyingbo

Ashawo don drop quote

Buy a big van instead, the one with doors dat u can lock. People no longer move like b4 again. Only goods that move daily, and with a big van u will av d advantage. Register it with transport lines, u will be carrying their packages, inter state. 5 to 6 state route. Wherever u drop, u pick u again.

And market women need this a lot, expecially those bringing in foodstuff from neighboring states. U can also hire it to construction n oda companies.

Also u can use for those relocating within or outside d state to move their properties. And also market women buying goods from balogun market or tradefair, they will combine to hire it, cos it will be cheaper for dem.

How I wish I have even a small van right now, I for don blow.

Kobojunkie:
Read closely what OP wrote, and what you wrote. The problems you describe stem from your upbringing... ideas that you were raised to adhere to... ideas that don't seem effective in managing your relations out in the real world. OP can't confront his brother who wronged him, and his family members think the only way they can be on good terms with the rich one is to walk around on shells around him. The father and mother equally also do the same to avoid falling out of favor with their rich son suggesting that their relationship was never a solid one to begin with.

Thanks a lot. But mine and OP ain't same. I was well brought up with a good family. OP's own is his immediate family, mine is with my wife's family.

I am not timid, I don't take nonsense. I av already deleted all their contact immediately I noticed their true intentions.

Sirjamo:
So, You can survive today on your income of 20 years ago?

Obasanjo minimum wage 5500 Buhari 18000


Obj population 120m Buhari 200m



Beside, Why didn't you compare life under obj with your beloved Jonathan? Jonathan had the highest revenue in Nigeria's history, plus the $60b reserves Yar adua left for him, he destroyed everything and his finance minister sounded the first alarm. Maybe she was the first Zombie.

That ain't d issue, inflation is not d issue because it is inevitable, it's estimated to be 3.1% annually. The issue is d rate at which it's climbing. Same with developed countries, wat u can get with 1 dollar 10yrs ago, can u get it at same amount today

We judge money base on its present value. For instance 18k minimum wage can get u a bag o rice, bag of garri, 1 month transportation to n fro.

But can same 30k minimum wage do dat for u as it were during buhari tenure.

Sorry I'm replying after 4 yrs, I really love dis topic.

One love bro

Kobojunkie:
Please train your children do better than you and those before you. Teach them social and emotional intelligence so they can grow to become better adults and realize that age is nothing but a number and respect should apply to all and not based on age.

Tradition/culture only makes sense when it benefits those who abide by it. Like any standard or system, the moment it ceases to be of value, it should be thrown out completely; blindly adhering to practices and laws that instead clearly damage families and communal relationships makes no sense!

Don't get u bro, don't know if u can make it clearer.

Thanks

Which kind wahala u put ursef now @OP. If u are in Lagos, hot me up. Or mention me here, I have a mechanic dat will fix it for u here, it will reduce the fuel consumption, but won't be 100% Sha.

I'm at Oyingbo, spare parts market.


Since u just bought d car, there should b a return policy na, so u change it to d one u want, den u n d dealer can do it plus and minus.

Kobojunkie:
These are all signs of a severely dysfunctional family relationship for Pete's sake!

That's to tell u how petty those we consider to be elders can be. You can see dat age no longer come with wisdom. Imagine a father apologizing to a son cos he has money, even wen we all know d boy was wrong. Cos he gives him millions. Me I won't sell my right or prestige, it's d last thing I will ever do. I believe if I keep working hard and smart, God will answer my call too.

All these shit I keep to myself, cos I don't want my family to know. I know my family, dey don't play with respect n traditions, it will lead to total breakdown of d relationship, even my marriage. Cos dey will force d father to provide his son, so he can apologize to me.

And I don't also wanna put my wife in a position of chosing between her marriage and her family.

The most painful part is dat, my wife brought dem up wen d father couldn't even afford admission fees and rent. I knew how much of my money she was diverting to dem to make sure things are good. She sacrificed her all, carried 3 siblings to d city, fed and accommodated dem, sacrificing her own life for dem, paid for d training dat made d eldest son who he is today. Den d father was respecting us, now dat d son is made, he now his son.

Now dey want us or only my wife to beg b4 she is given peanuts. And dey even used d word ENTITLE MENTALITY. How I wish we used doz resources and money to improve our own lives.

I'm already in tears right now. My advise to anyone reading dis, help ursef b4 any1, even b4 ur family and wife. Cos u will b called someone with ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY wen u need their help. People change, but never believed it would b family.

Hmmmmm, so a lot of families are facing this issue as well. Bro, u are not alone, it's like a general problem here in naija. Be glad dat it's ur immediate family, not from ur inlaw's family. And be happy u were not even asked to apologize to ur brother in-law u r 10yrs older dan, when everyone knows u dat u were d one offended.

My advise is for u to maintain ur distance, and cut of all those dat support him because of his cash. Anyone dat love's u because of money can betray u for same money.

If there is a family celebration that u are expected by tradition to attend, pls do. But don't let d fine face and gossip others will tell u too abt other family members get to u. Don't ever take anything they say to heart or hate another cos of wat u were told. They will do dis , if they are not already doing it now, just to get favor from u too.

Hold tight to ur principles, so everyone knows who u are and wat u stand for. And never attend any celebration/get 2geda unless invited.

Nor involve ursef if dem nor involve u too

190:

eww she's thiccer than a bowl of oatmeal!

see belle

Una nor get joy at all for dis place ooo

Can't u just lie 😂

lazkizz:
pls elaborate more on this 🙏

It will help me alot

Ur sex life, nor Bleep for now.. Be clean spiritually

EndBuhariNow:
They no teach u for school say nah pillars dey carry deck .. blocks are there to cover spaces... Most of the high-rise here abroad the walls are fibers not even this Ur 9inch or what... As far the foundation are solid and the deck are well structured if U like use paper bags or ddite cement bags the building go stand

Thank u my brother. I'm a civil engineer as well, I see it as a marketing stunt. Even Onyenka said we can build bungalow without columns. They don't even know d basics, they think all walls are load bearing, they don't know we av framed structures as well and a lot of factors contribute to structural failure, and block size is negligible. So far u no ur total load, then u can adjust ur fdn to accommodate it and give tolerance, same with ur columns and beams, and slab. If these mentioned elements are ok, I don't know wat I need 9" block for. So far it's not even a public structure like school or church dat I will consider varying life load ratio to dead load.

Why are duplex built with timber still standing?? Structures for this pattern. Roof load to beams, slab, column, fdn

flexyrule:
This issue is becoming too frequent.

What exactly is happening?

Noticed same as well, I'm suspecting it's d current inflation and hardship, though it's not an excuse. Everyone seems desperate at the moment, people are ready to make money at any cost right now..

We just have to be careful out there. These are some of the effects of bad governance

ENGINEER, EDUCATOR, ENTRETRENEUR COMPTIA, COMPUTER SERVICES, AGRO


Good day Nairalanders, this is my second (2nd) post since I joined nairaland forum I have been regular here as a visitor though I had my account. I was coming here to get first hand raw information as it is happening in our neighbor. This forum gives information about what is happening around our locality.Right here I have seen the “good, bad and the ugly”. Hardship in Nigeria has driven a lot of people into crime life, thinking it’s the easiest route from poverty. I have seen a lot of people demeaning themselves, selling their birth right, compromising their beliefs/morals, betraying both close friends and family all because of money, according to them “SURVIVAL”.Though some are justifying their actions, it’s paramount we tell ourselves the bitter truth. The state of our economy right now is really bad, and it has changed a lot of law-abiding citizens to monsters. So many people are indulged in different crimes just to make ends meet. A lot of us are dying inside silently, but the only thing that keeps us going is the fact that “BETTER DAYS ARE COMING”. Something I really want those perpetuating such act to know is that they are not the only ones experiencing this hardship, there are others doing worse than their situation, but didn’t go into crime. Nobody has the monopoly to violence. What even pains me most is the fact that such people tend to steal from others who are also facing the hardship as them. Why not go to the politicians that made our lives and country miserable. For example, will such people be happy if another person like them that is facing the current hardship robbed them of their valuables and even take their life in the process? THE ACTUAL PURPOSE OF THIS POST.What I am getting at is that I want us to know that there are ways to get out of this current tinubulation legitimately without taking lives or inflicting pain and losses on same people suffering same fate as you. Don’t let anyone discourage you that you didn’t go to school (higher institution), you have no handwork, not fluent in English language, you are poor and or broke, nor a computer literate and thus you can’t make it legitimately.There is good news for you today and I will share you the simple secret, just be honest, disciplined, dependable and sincere, then you will make money. You may be thinking if I know such, why not do it myself. Something you don’t understand yet is that I can’t be everywhere, every time. So, is it not better I still make part profit even when I am not there and you represent me? It is faster for we humans to be more successful working together than to work independently. That is where honesty, discipline, trustworthiness comes into play. I have vast knowledge in various fields as this economy has turned me into a jack of all trade, from being an engineer to computer engineering, hard and software repair, procurement, logistics, dredging, building, piling, highway, content writing, human hair, hair care products, make up and make up products, wig installation, frontal, nails, manicure and pedicure, running a computer business center (Assignments, projects, thesis, term paper etc.) for students. Finally, if you live around Unilag and its environs, Lasu and its environs, Ikorodu Poly and its environs and Yaba tech, kindly hit me up on how we both can make money. And if you also have any capital, no matter how small, you can also hit me up. But if you are a shy person and not vocal, pls don’t chat me up, I am a busy man. I only need those who can help me while I pay them in return. I am in Lagos Ebute Metta, if you are having doubts, you can meet me at Oyingbo market for confirmation or via video call. We will survive this tinubulation, by being sincere and honest to ne another and by working together. But once I find out that you are dishonest, we are done. I hate dishonest people.I will also share with those interested on how to make money from your neighborhood. The money its in abundance out there “even if I update u everything, u go still make money and I go still dey make my own”, so why this greedy lifestyle of typical Nigerians.Lets win together, thanks.

Makunnahatata:
which one be kallon....1k per kallon gallon na steal o...send me address make i con buy 100kallon fr 100k🥹

It means the manager dey collect 1k for every gallon u buy fuel inside @1,200 per litre. So if u buy 20litres for gallon, u will first pay d normal amount den still pay 1k extra for him to sell into dat gallon for u.. if u carry ten gallons, u go pay 10k extra ontop d normal money as Jara.

Tinubu is doing magic, dey play. THEM GO FEEL IT, we dey feel am oo

Available, it's just ur money dat will do d talking.. You know how much for a litre of fuel right now...

If he is ready to pay, hit me up.