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cionon:
I confided in my husband when he accused me of listening to people. I then opened up and gave him an instance that if i listen to people i would ne doing what they asked me to do.I told him the advice a former neigbhour of his gave me. Of which I told her I can't do such. Now he uses it against me. I feel bad because he didn't even say what I told him exactly. He changed the story. He lied about it.


My husband goes about telling everyone i am diabolic because I jokingly told him that he should be grateful I don't have a wicked heart if not I will use magun to catch him and his mistress. Which he even replied that he knows i dont have that mind. That i am still a child.
this was said around march of 2015

Fastward to November he started asking for a divorce because he of his mistress he met online. Telling both his colleagues and family members that I am diabolic which is not true. I feel bad because this same man have also confided in me telling me things about his boss and others. We are currently separated

I just regret everything. I regret confiding in him and opening up to him. With pleas from everywhere, he is still insisting on divorce.

kola1930:
We've been married for a year now and blessed with a pretty daughter. My wife feels little or no urge to be intimate. Its been more than a month now since I had s*x. Reason being that, am angry inside of me that she is always not in the mood, so I decided to hold myself and see when she'll realize it that am angry about it and do the needful. But it seems like am just suffering my self because she seems not to realize she needs to do something fast. I am feeling like cheating on her as a way to punish her maybe she'll realize it that she needs to satisfy her husband to keep him away from other ladies outside. I urgently need advice from married nairalanders... Is the situation d same or similar in ur marriage, and how do I resolve this differences. Am really disturbed

Bro you no fit hold yourself hahaha. Sex is not everything in marriage oo, try and understand your wife and your marriage bro, it's a life time course/studies. Though a few women taking family planning contraceptive pills/injection hardly have orgasm (wet) so sex isn't pleasurable for them, I understood this after 2-years in marriage. She's your wife and you both should share intimate issues, her mood swing might be due to fatigue, stress, or you. Having sex outside to punish her will be very stupid and risky of you cos girls out there contract too many disease nowadays (no go give your wife gono cos to explain that one hard ooo). You just started your marriage, your interest at the moment should be how you will become a good father and not sex abi if you no pana.shook you go die? Here's my advise, talk to her like your baby brother you love so much, ask her if there's any problem, if she refuse to talk leave her alone. Call pizza/food shop and send to her @ home/work during the week, find a weekend to take her out with/without your daughter (like me I dey give my wife shark then we discuss intimately then later @ night a different shark in bed), buy her good stuffs she least expect and above all give her surprise gift's, I bet you your wife mood will come back in 1million ways. BRO, ALWAYS MAKE YOUR WIFE FEEL LIKE SHE'S THE GIRL YOU LOVE EVEN AFTER MARRIAGE AND ABOVE ALL SATISFY HER VERY WELL, YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN .

proxillin:
SO this your stewpid argument butress that fact that Obama hated Africa and Trump is showing love to africa. May be you have a mental/reasoning issue. You are shooting yourself in the foot. Let me remind you, The argument was who loves africa between Obama and Trump. Your gay excuse above says alot about Obama. FYI trump doesnt like homos.



Please what weapon? Like the Sakorski helicopter? SMH for you. We had weapons and our military guys are contributing money to buy bullet. I understand you are here to argue, but atlease have a fair of God and argue fairly.



So its an act of war right? yet obama carries out ones-a-month bombing. USA bomb ISIS ones in a month compared to Russians who are flying shorties per day. See you dont have to fool yourself to make a useless point. Tell me, suddenly Russia is now more powerful than USA? hahah. Russia declared no-flyzone for chicken Obama and he abide by it. Dem born Putin well to declare no flight zone where Bush is?
Remember Russia threatened to fight USA when Bush was about invading Iraq. Bush entered Iraq and Russia kept quiet. You dont mess with the U S of A

I can see you are toddler. You need lessoned.



Exaclty. Arguing with you is becoming irritating. Its like arguing with a nincompoop.

blueseacats:
Bro, I won't even look obamas way , there is bankruptcy laws in United States they for people to use, them and the smart ones did and still doing so. In fact economists will advice a failing company to file bankruptcy and start afresh . Whether you are being truthful about it or not. It's your business.

Yes there are two kind of billionaires , inherited and self made, it's only a smart kid that will double his father's wealth, and it's only a genius like dangote and their likes that will make something out of what's given to them. Whether you like it or not any person that turn $1 into $2 is a smart guy , Donald did more than that.If not, kola abiola should be competing with dangote today, after all his dad left billions.

Bush is an idiot he took U.S to a war in Iraaq and took America from surplus to deficit. But he was so engulfed in fighting that he became a master player in decoding terrorists .He warned Obama about withdrawing American troops early from Iraq .But the rookie's arrogance and pride took the better of him. American troops came out of Iraq.

Oops! now look what we have , ISIS they have taken over the Middle East, look what his smartness has caused in Libya, how about Syria ? A big mess if you will be truthful to yourself . Safe ?what is safe about obamas administration ? ISIS is everywhere in Europe nobody is safe as you can be blown up at anytime.

Americans scream free people every time yet they are told where to visit and not visit. In NYC you practically have to watch your back just so you don't get blown up. That's not free people to me ,they scared people .

Moreover law enforcement personnel always on the edge. With bill Clinton, Kerry and Neville chamberlain on one side and Winston Churchill, bush, Reagan and Donald on the other side I will choose the later any day , for protection. Sheep don't protect dogs it's the other way round . If you hit me I will hit you harder, there will be peace in a world after that .

like this Obama is a casualty, how can he protect anyone else?




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MyLady11:
Is 9japredict a scam site. I WON since three days now, they refused to credit my Bank Account and they already confirm the withdrawal request. I regret staking with them.

MrFootball:
Godwin

proxillin:
So based on your logic now. Trump is wealthy because of stupidity. I want to be stupid too.

Trump was Bankrupt...then name a rich man that has not engaged in bad business in his entire life.

Failure makes us better. From all the downfall, Trump has become better. Its obvious from his business.

Ted Cruz has spent $150mill on campaign, Trump has only spent 25mill. Can you see the difference. Thats what we call a "business man". Common sense is free like oxygen. We only need to tap into it.

Obama dashed out $150billion to Iran to beg them to stop Nuclear weapon. The most stupid deal the world has ever seen.

Why?

1. No one can stop Iran from building Nuclear bomb except you use force. Few weeks after the deal, Ayattolah Komeni says, nbody can stop them from wiping off Israel of the map.

Few weeks ago, Iran launched another ballistic war head.

I know Obama is feeling ashamed now.

2. Despite the 150bill, Iran captured US marines, paraded them on the street of Teran. They were naked. Obama did not alter a word.

Is that a thank you for the 150billion? hahahhaaaaa.

Is that the type of leader you want to become. The world is in a disaster, we need leaders. And you are example of a future leader. It shows that the world into a long shiiiiii**t

GEJ is better than Obama by far.

blueseacats:
Back in 08 Obama told us how he will make America heaven on earth, I saw through his lies, how can a community organizer whose only achievement on a public level is saying that he was right about Iraq. Back then non of the candidates mentioned what I think is Americas major problem, Trump did.

They did not emphasize that bush had put United States in the hole to the tune of $ 8 trillion let alone how to solve it. The professor was elected based on his change mantra.

Fast forward to 2016 the debt is now $19 trillion , equal to U.S gdp. And trump has been screaming about this since 08 . And has rightly pointed out that bad trade deals with the rest of the world except Europe is the cause of this. Am willing to give him a chance to solve this.

You can't imagine how much lobbyist are there in Washington. Foreign governments run this U.S through their proxy, and members of the congress are cohorts. Trump is a billionaire and I think he will not take money to sabotage U.S economy cause he's been consistent about fixing it, and trust me if you fix US economy every other problem is ideological .

Obama had not run anything in his life and he was given a chance. This man has ran a multi billion dollar business and thousands of workers it will be unfair not to give him a chance.

Moreover it will be nice to be able to say what I think without being forced to be politically correct.

blueseacats:
Back in 08 Obama told us how he will make America heaven on earth, I saw through his lies, how can a community organizer whose only achievement on a public level is saying that he was right about Iraq. Back then non of the candidates mentioned what I think is Americas major problem, Trump did.

They did not emphasize that bush had put United States in the hole to the tune of $ 8 trillion let alone how to solve it. The professor was elected based on his change mantra.

Fast forward to 2016 the debt is now $19 trillion , equal to U.S gdp. And trump has been screaming about this since 08 . And has rightly pointed out that bad trade deals with the rest of the world except Europe is the cause of this. Am willing to give him a chance to solve this.

You can't imagine how much lobbyist are there in Washington. Foreign governments run this U.S through their proxy, and members of the congress are cohorts. Trump is a billionaire and I think he will not take money to sabotage U.S economy cause he's been consistent about fixing it, and trust me if you fix US economy every other problem is ideological .

Obama had not run anything in his life and he was given a chance. This man has ran a multi billion dollar business and thousands of workers it will be unfair not to give him a chance.

Moreover it will be nice to be able to say what I think without being forced to be politically correct.

proxillin:
I know some people are just here to argue their point. Logic is missing.

How will Trump wipe out ISIS.

We know how effective Russians are bombing rebels and ISIS in Syria. Syrian Rebels are crippled because of Russian war planes.

Even a school kid knows how to. trow that question to the little ones at home.

manny4life:
Let's start with this discussion: what exactly would he change about America?

Well, I enjoy watching him but sincerely he has no presidential traits at all.

proxillin:
I will vote him free of charge. American blacks are racists. They even mock native African residence. I have many of them. They are bunch of deluded racists.

Donald Trump is interested in Africa unlike Obama.

blueseacats:
I have not bro., but I have a friend who's been there, and he said being a supporter is wonderful, being a protester is not desired , but fine. Finally ,violent protesters will be met with violence before the police arrives.

Mind you, violence includes being foul mouthed and in the form of verbal abuses. And the last time I checked, black Americans are foul mouthed.

livinbygrace:
Keep quiet,I have had encounter with many black Americans and can tell from experience ,they bunch of cunny,dubious and lazy species.Try do business with any black Americans and you will understand better.

blueseacats:
Pls tell them, they are all screaming Racist! Racist!! Racist!!! They are so loud that they can't hear themselves, . Black Americans ke, am disgusted at how they behave. Oh! Racist me.

livinbygrace:


Keep quiet,I have had encounter with many black Americans and can tell from experience ,they bunch of cunny,dubious and lazy species.Try do business with any black Americans and you will understand better.

Godsonkemz:
Trump is a racist and the most controversial mental retardedd US politician who opens his mouth so wide to talk bullshit not minding the consequences. The whites will vote for him because they too are racists. CNN is using media to promote a racist.

MrFootball:
My Super Single. Madrid to Score in Both Halves @ 1.70.

lastpage:
Hahhahaha!

You must think "self-induced poverty" runs in my family line, .......like it does in yours!

Abeg, use your time & resources productively (so you can prosper generously), instead of #WAILING all Day and [b]Nightly.

"In the midst of PLENTY..... the FO.OLS still SUFFER".[/b]

Kontinue to #WAIL, you hear




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refreshrate:
Ok so I'm commenting on this cos the wr3tch (an unfortunate or unhappy person) who posted it is trying to express himself.

Oga now that your life saver says that the subsidy thing won't be removed how do you feel with yourself?

You can see your stupidity has been pursuing you since a long time ago?

I'm coming to the post where you insulted yourself o Sebi you know how to type?

Olori buruku .

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#WAILER ALERT!

Educate yourself below.



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MrFootball:
hmmm
seems to me dat buhari is out to witch-hunt those who offended him during his dictatorship..
Eg Dansuki
am sure dis guy is passing 2ru all dis because fela dealt wi Buhari 2ru his songs, and his brothers Beko etc were civil rights activists.

What a bitter/unforgiving old man we have as our president!!