₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
1. That you came here to announce that she is igbo speaks volumes of your relationship with her. That is like a white man coming to announce that his black wife has disappeared with his baby. For one, it sounds so much like she was married to a racist arsehole.

I can't change your comments its allow ,for I know u are an Igbo, support your self.

Fahdiga:
Tinubu is a big threat to the unity of Nigeria.

oga vote your candidate leave tinubu,na person papa,use your PVC not your mouth, am sure u did not go out and vote na to seat at home and talk nonsense,

So my Igbo wife took the baby and Japan back to her late parent house ,for no good reason,just because I said wait a while let me get some money and established u,she felt she can't wait couple with how her senior sister who is still not married at 33 came to my home to cause wahala and convinced her kid sister to return home,the funny thing is that I was the one that called cab to take them to pack not knowing she would pack finally all her belongs back to village ,I wonder why Igbo's don't like north,I have been sending money for 1 yr this yr I stopped, not even a flash from her since 2 months, each time I called they use me do shakara or hiss or cut my calls,them say na them born the baby alone while I paid bride price.many Igbos are rude,arrogant, pride, I did not see all this in her ,after we marry and before ,her single and rude runs girl sisters are now his pillar.ho god igbos na wahala I think I would remarry from Jos or Yoruba. But how can your daughter return home without no one to say go back ,marriage is patience as long as he did not beat u ,if its shop u want obey your husband he will established you. No body said anything ,hmmm ,them dey wait make I come explain why I dey build house and not taking care of her,or I should pack all my salary and be given to her .I told me them I would come so we can do meeting, but actually my own eyes too has open I am planing to remarry by yr ending.

LocalStandard1:
For some time I've been meaning to put up my personal opinion and review about Nigerian girls here. After the rave about Yoruba men married to plenty Igbo women thanks to this elections I think now's the right time.

Igbos girls are clean, dress well and are on average fair skinned. But then what? I mean, let's also talk about the inside or characters of them.

Igbos girls are very materialistic than average, very condescending and rude than average. Igbo women are also very wicked and oppressive to people under them. They are more likely to kill a spouse and even run with valuables. Let's be honest here.

I am personally more attracted to Yoruba ladies and many times I end up discovering their tribe after sometime. They have the chocolate complexion and a better skin torn to me, if natural. Yoruba girls are also more open and level headed even more accepting. Personally!

But then we most talk about the Yoruba ladies' other side too. They're very promiscuous and cheaper than average. They're also not very clean and lack a good dressing IQ. I personally think the South West have the highest paternity fraud cases in Nigeria. They're loud and more out of control even in public.


South South girls are too violent and combative, very rude too, they're the kind that give men high blood pressure. "Hookup" seems to be there second name. But I think they're beautiful too and can cook.

Middle Belt women to me are the best. They're humble and manoeuvrable. They stick to even the most struggling man, through thick and thin. They're generally beautiful and naturally so, with the best skin complexions. But they're cheap and very much so.

Core Northern ladies. I can not really put them anywhere aside they're beautiful, quiet but some say that's only pretense.

But at the end of the day, Igbo ladies are too over hyped and exaggerated. Ehn too much!

. My Igbo wife took my kid and ran away saying am not taking care of her ,make I give her all my salary

gidgiddy:
And when asked to provide one proof of all these allegations, you will only have your mouth, same as others

Unfortunately, anyone with a mouth can make any allegation

Igbo people will never agree with u ,say them no Luke them self,one Igbo person here will insult me now ,

Good day everyone,
During last yr,on several occasion, like twice ,I suddenly spilt salt ,while I was rushing or cooking, I mean the kind of way u mistake spill something unknowingly or unpredictable ,3 months later I start noticing some bad lucks like
1.my dog committed suicide with his chain while truie to fly through the fence.
2.I lost my phone of 100k easy buy, thank God I had finished paying already.
3.my superior took us to guardroom
4. From one challenges to another

manutdrichie:
The only body language that is preventing us from setting the country on fire

make I see were u and your likers go stay if una set this country on fire ,them tell u say na only u vote for obi nii,many Nigerians still vote for that jagaban make I tell u,Jesus did not come as a rich man,he was born in an menga ,they even old jagaban can still do better .go rest alaya peter obi is over ,jagaban nazua

I naked my self lock my door and pray favently,till am ok

Arewadkiller:
I am female 29,never married/ no kids,based in Asaba and a graduate/Artist....needs a working class or a business guy who is loving, caring,understanding and ready to settle down. Aged: 32-39

wow am here

lizzyfearless:
I am Elizabeth, 27yrs old ,living in Lagos.
I need a serious man from the eastern part between the age of 32-34 for a serious relationship.

i see

Jespet97:
Jessy
A deltan
Fair in complexion
Graduate
Self employed
Almost 30yrs
Watsapp 09017088101

hey

Bimpsforfun:
I'm Bimpe
Female 29
Average height, dark.
Looking for a life partner
Serious minds pls
09056359866

its nice to know u

Blessedarethepe:
so Church guys are only within the confines of the church? I'm a church guy man.

lol

imagrg:
I'm in my late 50s.
Does that make a difference?
If not, message me on WhatsApp: zero eight zero three five zero nine six three four two

ok

08130971314

ItuExchange:
Some people know how Ayinla Omowura was killed. Bayewunmi smashed a tumbler on his head.

Ayinla was very popular then and he had a lot of connections.

He was once a thug… Especially before he started his music career.

And after he became a successful musician, he was still known for being, “sometimes, but not always” temperamental, jealous and stubborn.

As he had gone to Bayewunmi and a fight ensued, what if he was the one that “accidentally” killed Bayewunmi?

Would he have been sent to jail? Would he have been acquitted or just fined? Would the matter have been buried?

Just because Ayinla was popular and he had money?

still wondering

JASONjnr:
I had a girl I was madly in love with and we dated for a while and I opened up my salary to her ...


The next month ending...I got billings from her...

Infact, it was very difficult to tell her I don't have money...

She knew everything about my finances and my worth.


It wasn't long I ended the relationship and took another girl in...This time around, she tried to know certain things but I kept them secret and the relationship lasted, she never complained about anything as I provided but she always wondered how I did it.

So OP, you can't open up to a woman, she will never understand the purpose of being sincere to her.


And the example you give...The man will lose both wives and his kids of he dares.....

Your last paragraph said something about understanding. No woman's will understand that you have another woman you visit. She will poison you or she will begin to cheat on you l.

thats true it has happened to me too,i won't be too honest now

Daniel7543:
I go still vote APC. If Bandits like make dem burn the church members to death. I go still vote APC.
God Bless our incoming President Bola Ahmed Tinubu

i feel u,i dey your side too,

AntiChristian:
Get married o!

Invite me for owambe!

But the cost of weddings this days far exceeds that of fornication!

Make them bring am down!

lol,dont mims them so if sex dey hungry man na,we should just be ensuring ba

Good morning Nairaland, i hope our today is going perfectly well.

I have noticed recently that lagosian dont marry on time,unlike the north were things are cheap,and non stressful, i mean lagos is populated just like new York the city that never sleeps,and lagos the city of hustle and bustle.,

I have seen several lagosian of age 40-45yrs still single,and still hustling,and few % are called single mom or dad, i left lagos to the north because i believe if lagos dose not work our for me,i should try relocating and hustling in another state, lagosians ,are pure hustlers,and i too was like that until i got a job in the North,things are bit diff from lagos,a journey of 20 mins bus is 20mins,unlike lagos were hold ups are much,
If i was in Lagos still hustling ,and am sure i may never have settle down,i deceided to remain here in the north,because life here is much cheaper than lagos,u can marry cheap here, renting a house is also cheap,not to talk of transportation fair,from iyana-ipaja to dumpemu round about is like,100naira,if it was in north here,on same distance it will cost you,a charges of 400naira,

My point is that due to the hardships in lagos, most people dont settle down on time.in north here a boy or a girl of 20yrs old may have being married or have one or two kids,but many of them are struggling or suffering with no hope of giving the kids a better education, often an average northerner live on labouring jobs.

I noticed that woman of these say,don't listen to the pastors ,or who so ever is joining them matrimonially, they are always egar to get to the part where the pastor says ,you may kiss the bride,Forgetting the bigger and important words like,,for better for worst and for richer for poorer, till death us do part.

Now my point is that,why do woman act a victim if the husband is broke,or can't meet up financially, sexualy,or when the man change.

occfx:
How did you manage to have children with a broke man or was he doing well before. If he lost his major source of income, be patient. Women like to act victim when the going is bad. As far as he is not lazy and he still goes to work, one day things go better. This is when you need Christ the most. You will surely love him when the money flows

you hv said it all,but them no no ,dey want things to go alrite sharply

Kobojunkie:
1. Only fools think it makes sense to raise a family on luck and placing of bets.

i still believe it will pay off and u shall smile, knowing that there is no risk, no reward

[quote author=Kobojunkie post=119931293]That life throws stuff at you beyond your control is no excuse for the foolishness you throw at your own self abeg! :- that ones husband is playing bet,risking it to earn bigger over nite,its try your luck with faith ,not foolish, i notice you are the type of madam am too perfect ,lets take things slow here,ok if i may ask, what your intention now,would you divorce him.