₦airaland Forum

People go die more o,if u match me without saying sorry,I will go and bring my guy and shoot you,if you owe me money and saying nonsense I will shoot you,if amaka disappointed me ,I will shoot her.

tyinfinity:
Marry first .build a house and travel with your family if you desperately desire to leave Nigeria

that will cost him 2 or 3 yrs before the house is finished.

Nackzy:
It will still be peanuts, no matter what he will agree on it will never meet up witht the currently economic realities, it can not still afford a bag of rice, you can't do Dorime with it

I want to put it to you that the committee hasn't been set till this very moment according to labour, so when is he going to implement it, scammers

How can you promise people 35k wage award 4 months down the line you've only paid once
Yet you went for COP28 and spent 2.9 billion

omo I support you o,that money pain me o

NwaIgboBoy:
Negative attitudes I'm gonna stop is believing everything a yoruba man tells me and stop trusting them too


Most yoruba people and saboteur are like Burna boy & Pride

abi na igbo get pride , except the ones who stay in north .

robbase:
Sex, Smoking and Drinking

na that smoking and drinking I quite this yr ,sex is not my problems,weed and cigarettes is what I have decided to stop.so I can refresh my kidneys and lungs.and rub cream to my body will change.

Smoking weed and cigarettes,that was my last one .

Mystic216:
Dismiss kwa
If I’m a personel and you dismiss me for that, I would do what is not good after

and later the law will still catch up on u

Giftedhand47:
I have a chronic anger problem I've tried not to get angry and overlook things but this demonic spirit will just do his thing
Pls help me i really need tips from Nairaland family.don't know I may get help here . Thanks

when u feel angry on any issues monitor your anger when it's comes ,and say nothing or walk away .

Happy new yr in advance
Pls if your gas cylinder is up to 7yr ,pls make sure, it is replace immediately this yr,infact it should be one of your today this yr.
Now the normal reasons why u see cylinder explosion in few places,is because the cylinder has used it's yrs of endurance ,and with time the inside of the cylinder gets old and rusty ,caused by the chemical composition of the gas on metal,it's eats the metal and make it get rusted inside out.
Go to a gas station or any gas appliances around u,and add some money then swap.Trust me you will be doing your families a great favor.

The yr of challenges thank God

Melagros:
That's nice of him, and the so called winner of the 2023 general election is eating cassava and suya and balling girls in Lagos and does not care

u are funny,bro obi is determined and continue his own campaign after election has ended ,it's the responsibility of the state governor to shear money to them not tinubu ,he has order the culprit to be killed .obi dey on him own o,wait make obi become president and watch people still complain

lovewinner:
Sometimes is good to marry the classic we claim to love someday but she might bring us pains if they is no proper understanding.The mistake had been done.you need the way out.What you admired in other ladies do it for your wife.You can train her,invest in her as well as bring the beauty in her because she is now your wife and it doesn't change even if you live the county. sit her down and look into the good things you can put together to make her meet your taste.Take her out for shopping,playing.Get her classic movies and tell her you appreciate if she look like this for you.Get her cream,cloths and nice shoes.Dress her hair and change her taste. Tell her you love to love her.she will improve and before you notice she will give you a nice look.

, every ups had it's down,I too had a beautiful wife but something happens that I wish I married an ugly girl.life no balance soon the guy will understand,in one way or another life no balance at all,

letstalksense:
There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.

oga marry her ,na who no dey have sex in one secret way or another,see what happens in mangu stays in mangu,after all na pikin woman go give us,sex with another man did not take her Yash and breat away,that's her past life , telling it to u self she was honest,if u are not ready that guy they had sex may be ready and better than u in future ,one can't predict,na who never had sex because,na make we see our children make me wan marry.

EnkayDezign:
As we enjoy this yuletide season let's us beware of this fuel stattions and their antics. The fuel wey I buy for 35K at N600/litre no even reach half tank!! how nah!!?

Please be very vigilant of these fuel stations during this period, especially in Ibadan.

when u start th car it will raise

StrongAlphMale:
Dear Women,

Men are not put on this earth to simply pay bills, stress and die. Men need love and care too.

That brings us to the question, what did you buy for your boyfriend as gift this December? Or what are you buying for your boyfriend this December?

mY God bless you for this ,na Yash and breastfeeding na nothing more ,u know them na

Globad:
If we hold genes constant, check your lifestyle. This includes what/when/how (much) you eat, drink, rest, sleep and exercise as well as your attitude to life

all these for Nigerian job,even dangote looks old,na mostly woman dey look younger ,you know it's a woman's world,even in mortuary na men dry die full there than woman.

Seasons greetings to you all
I would start by Saying tank your God for keeping me alive and making me over come my challenges gradually
My greatest challenges for 2023 was , having to decide who or what is more important between my family and building a house through one source of income,let's look at it this way, sometimes we gain some and sometimes we lose some.
When u find out as a man,the basics thing in life are food , shelter ,and cloth,I some how Ballance all but kept my high earn salaries in financing the house more than those two,yet yet I was running a family too, which made everything tough.
But today my project is almost done in osun state ,were I live and Also work, sometimes when you have a particular goals to achieve,alot of trials ,pains, challenges, obstacle, jealously,and hatred will sholly comes your way,but when you get to the top,soon one forgets those ugly incident,it was quite difficult , building materials went up after I had already roofed ,so I thank God,I really faced some few hard thoughts and challenges.,but by his grace am 85%complete .

Good day all,seasons greetings,so my labourer,was working on my site and moulding blocks, can you imagine how people are wicked,this dude went to my master bedroom toilet to sheet,it's was already roofed but no concrete floor yet,just leterate sand,when he was done,he just went there to break the record that na him shit there before me, although we have not done the filling,am like chia enemy of progress,the funny thing is bushed and shrubs were all over the area o,how wicked even your labourers can be,the guy wan be the first to lunch him sheet in that toilet section,what an idot,I was trying to be annoyed when a friend said ,oga if person build a house and them no sheet inside ,gaskia that house no go Strong and fear that house,oga no lie o,u self go done shit for one uncomplicated building before o,that were when I swelling the insult I wanted to raign on the labourer and started to laugh. lololollololoolol lol lol.,hahahahahahahaha.

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Good day all,merry Christmas
Am so excited am about to move into my new house close to the area I work.
If u have built a house before no doubt , everyone while say it's not easy ,and their stories with the Maison or contractor,even your labourers can give u a small headache while supervising the project ,I have been on the project since 2021,it's a quarter plot of land in a remote area that is now commericalized.

My lard now has called and asked if am renewing the rent or moving to my own site in that area ,I told him am yet to decide,the house is in a quarter plot ,and the shape of the house is an (L) pattern,with a fence ,but not yet done.
To cut the story short ,oga,I have suffered o, to build no easy o ,I have gone through a lot, few of my stuff were stolen,the one wey pain me is my 1 bundle of PVC I kept in the roofed building then ,left just one couch of the window open,for light purpose so later we can fix the aluminum window,oboy can u believe the carpenter I was nice too,took 2 weeks to nailed the PVC after given excuses that rain and its the area is a bit swampy due to the rain ,he told me to give him the key that only he will continue,I refused and said when ever both of us are less busy,I shall come to call u,now am busy at work,two day later, after a went to check on were we stopped,and discovered ,a bundle of PVC is missing, somebody actually passed,the small whole on the window and move my PVC,as a man of peace and a man of the people,I jejely suspended the carpenter.

Now am about to move in by feb,but can stay there without ,well,borehole, electricity connection,but I bought a solar (4 )bulbs,no suckaway,no pipes any were,but I can enter bush close to me,or use my work toilet,or shit in the nylon and fling it at the farm bushes close to me,(lol optional)am the last building ahead.
How do I manage in such situations,I can't even invite any one till am done with the sockaway,but the land is a low land were it's usually flooded a bit ,how do I built a suckaway when at 4feey one discovered water coming out,pls I need your advice about the small sockaway am about to embark on.

StarRida:
every man must collect no be toy car again

it's toy car

Freshtruth:
Am very sure the woman who is looking close to her 40s insist this marriage must go on

is like I will wait till I see a very matured lady to marry o,so she too won't wait ,she be like today I must enter that marriage,while me I will be laughing

Valoromega:
My wife and I are expecting our first child, so currently I'm saving up money before the baby comes, we are also trying to get baby things of almost 400k.

But she wants me to buy Christmas rice for her mom. I've already decided that I'm not buying anything for anyone this December, including my own mom. But she wants me to buy for her mom which I refused becauze my baby is more important.
Mind you, she has elder ones who can't even get anything for their mom this December (she's the youngest). I just lied to her that I'm broke and I don't have any money. But I have close to 1.7 million which I want I to save for the baby and also get a car for when the baby comes.

I'm I making the right decision by ignoring everyone this December or should I take like 100k and just buy a bag of rice and share to the mom.

Personally I don't want to spend a dime on anyone because my child is the most important thing right now

bro pls listen to me too,I already had kids and I swear I was on you shoes once ,pls if you love your baby,learn to sacrifice to her and keep it as an important record,your wife will later remind you when u have small issue,that u did not buy a bag for her,to justify the issues get her half bag and watch reactions ,think about it,you won't lose anything,what if that's the last favor her mom wish for ,do it ,for now divide your self now to pls both than pleasing them for a longer time,I give u my word ,u will be just fine,I wish I could rewind the hands of time but I did not I was too blind caring for my daughter,than my wife wish,what if her mom dies next yr or today Godforbid,at list u will know peace with the brothers ,that last yr u tried .pls 🙏 buy half to show u tried ,it won't take a blood out of u,and it will moltivate your wife too,pls listen to me, tomorrow make u self get mouth and respect for were her in-laws dey , double respect for u,next yr u won't buy ,now she is pregnant do it for the unborn baby, keep your mother inlaw incheck ,by using your wife advice as a chess pond to keep her mom eyes away from your marriage.

GreatAchiever1:
I admire the persistence but you should not leave your husband no matter what, I don't know how hard you've tried helping him overcome his gambling addiction, probably it's the kind of herd he has ganged up with that introduced him to it. I believe you should try and challenge him to become a better father(be respectable and submissive about this) and back it up with prayers. There are Men coaches online including pastors where he can listen to their messages and be motivated to take up fatherly responsibility, encourage and cheerlead him in doing this.

And for your boys, don't bad mouth their father to them. No matter what a boy when growing up needs his father even if he is not responsible(afterall they are the result of their father's seed). If your husband is lacking the father figure they need at that age, I don't know if you have relations that can teach and guide them in the right masculine path. A boy needs mentors to look up to to become a man so as not to become a nuisance in the society and a woman can't be the mentors they need. Again I will say look up resources online they can learn from incase you don't know relations that can help guide them.

same advice I will recommend to u too. For better and for worst

brain54:
If this guy is your only friend…

Then just take it that you no get friend.

You are friendless like this!

I support u bro.

vybzkartel:
What's your advice

if u don't want another man to chop your wife pls run

When a woman knows she was a hook up babe before u marry her,small thing she will tell u that, after all u knew what I was doing,and if your salary dey slow come , another man with big money entice her ,she will easily fall, because she feels like nothing dey there , putting u to shame ,she will even tell u that sorry baby done be angry ,u did not send money ,for 2months what did u expect ,I went back to do what I know best na, another diff guys will be laughing at u even u go dey fear your naybour because of her,each time your hook up wife will be telling u don't u trust me,so u don't trust me,that word alone shows she dey go behind your back,soon worries will kill u ,if thinking of her betray don't kill u, fear of her leaving when u are broke may kill u,them done tire them wan side under marriage,if I can't satisfy her , another man is always out there .know this and know peace

Quality20:
In the past, many pastors married and converted ashewo women and they became responsible and religious but these days, many guys flow with hookup girls.

Guys can u really marry those religious hookup babes u are dating or u guys are only having fun? Are u trusting enough of ladies? Remember some of them only did hookup because of some problems bordering on finances, like been with younger siblings who need money or sick parents etc.

oga leopard doee not change the color of her skin,them wan marry to hide Thier shame , after the marriage ,u will see problems

braine:
People don't change, don't make that mistake.

e be like say woman never make same mistake and still cry to u telling u or shout at you that after all you meet me as ashawo,u knew my work before u marry me,na Thier u go know say change is constant

May God bless you for now being arrogant ,and pridefull,na wetin me too dey tell them.

Rejouir:
God bless you for this advice, From the previous advice i read. Honestly most of the female users of the NL are emotionally bitter. I have telling you. The Bitterness and emotionally trauma is choking.

pls never get back at him ,it will back fire at u,never tell your family or friends they will tell u to do this or do that ,my advice is focus on your marriage,kids ,be obidient to him,feed him,talk to him without emotions,if u feel he hurts u,call him at night ,talk to him about how u feel,make sure una settle anything before sleep, marriage takes yrs to perfect or get use to,do you best as a good wife,it's only when u catch him with your two neked eyes u can take any decisions u want,stay away from his phone, avoid seeing any nonsense that will make ue jelaous ,then u start given him emotions.i have a wife that could not take this advice am giving u, they advice her to pack and leave me, checking my phone secretly is what she dose and I told her stop this ,what I do with my phone is my business ,it's why it's mine,she tut I was cheating , with cathing me,now she has pack and go,am still alone ,am planning to finish my house and remarry,the rate of unmarried woman even single mom is too much,if u notice single mom takes time to remarry by then many younger girls are grown and looking for who to be with,keep your marriage,call your pastor to help u out than even family or any one pastor first.3 stage in marriage
1.the love journey and 🍯 Honey moon
2.the reality , challenges,ups and down,worries , disliking your spouse, argument, nagging,etc
3. Finally the understanding couples ,both of u will know adjust to each other , understand,etc and a happy home . marriage is a war zone and a peaceful zone only a woman wise woman follow the husband jeje.,even Pastor self have problem o,even prayer worriors , ushers , Choires ,etc ,just find that right spot not to confront or show emotions to him,when God want to expose him he will korokoro and that's were u strick,but never review or use your man's weakness to deal with him,many marriage are broken because of the word UNFORGIVING.

jamesversion:
See as the woman belle be like drum.

abi like frog belle,u too funny,it's show the wife dey enjoy the barista money na