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missimelda01:
So I get this awkward reaction when a man asks for my position in my family and I say I'm the first child. I really want to know what the issue is...is it just the bride price??

Catapault:
WOMEN?

IF YOU ARE NOT CAREFUL, WOMEN WILL SHOW YOU PEPPER IN THIS WORLD.

smasher1:
Only God can save us from toxic women. And most people believe the negative impression they give about you. Only God would reward sincere men and give them financial capabilities to overcome such, because without money, you can't succeed or remarry a better person.

Righthussle:
This is just funny. You're not only happily enriching another man but also deceiving yourself into thinking it is beneficial to do so.

I suspect you're a pastor trying to get more people to give tithe

sisisioge:
Hmmmmm.....I dont understand how a man thinks his wife would completely forgive and forget domestic violence! You turned her to a punching bag and still expect her to love you with all her heart.....OYO.

He should go find his feet. She is not his mother biko. Let everybody dey their lane abeg.

smasher1:
I'm not stereo typing. My first wife did this. So I'm speaking from experience. Note that I didn't say girlfriend.

bfeather1:
In Marriage, you must learn how to forgive one another for progress so that you can enjoy peace and breed loving children that are mentally unaffected by the disunity of their parents. No one is perfect.
Men, take it easy and avoid physical engagement with your wives. Forgive and let peace reign.
Women, same goes to you. Avoid physical confrontation with your husband and show respect for your marriage by avoiding anything that could give the devil a chance.
Everyone has their faults in marriage.
Women stop learning how to break a home by killing a man or throwing him out.
Men as well, respect the home.

bfeather1:
In Marriage, you must learn how to forgive one another for progress so that you can enjoy peace and breed loving children that are mentally unaffected by the disunity of their parents. No one is perfect.
Men, take it easy and avoid physical engagement with your wives. Forgive and let peace reign.
Women, same goes to you. Avoid physical confrontation with your husband and show respect for your marriage by avoiding anything that could give the devil a chance.
Everyone has their faults in marriage.
Women stop learning how to break a home by killing a man or throwing him out.
Men as well, respect the home.

ahnie:
I said it on the other thread...women don't just dump their husbands like that,she must have endured his toxicity for years.

We masked our feelings n hatred alot and always wait for the right time to strike, underestimate a woman at your own peril.


Immediately I read the topic,I already knew our bobo was a toxic
Person who must have dealt massively with his wife...some naija men and toxicity.

When you start hitting on your wife she channels all atom of love she has for you to the kids and that ends it all,she may be giving you her body,and patiently waiting for you to slip then she strikes.

If it were me....I would do same to him no hard feelings.

OboOlora:
U nor fit provide for her and u de get erection, dem suppose castrate u.
All the testosterone wey u suppose use work hard, na preek u de make an stand lol

Amumaigwe:
Gbagam.

Mandela27:
Accept reality and channel ur energy to ur son.

Realashbobby:
Dear Nairalander,

How do you cope with your life after your spouse failed you and took the whole matter to the worse level by seeking for divorce?

I woke up everyday of my life in the past nine months thinking about this man. I heard he has moved on in Lagos, while I am still here bothering myself about him. This is the only man I have ever known in my life. He just left without looking back not even to check on his son.
What can I do to forget him totally?

I am down emotionally and it's affecting me.

Kindly advise.

frozen70:
Well just move on, no one is guaranteed of a happy marriage

frozen70:
Well just move on, no one is guaranteed of a happy marriage

Ishilove:
Don't you have something productive to do with your time?

Don't bother answering.

dkidd:
So u no fit blast without coco samba and u wan even come do am come be her front. See as u no get sense

frozen70:
The real reason OP and the other men he mentioned here are all in the same category is because

They will date an igbo woman, pregnant her the same way they do to the Yoruba girls and never done any marriage RIGHTS and then you call her your wife, just like that as they do in Yoruba

Of curse she knows that you just hired her to bear children for you without doing the proper marriage rights and if any alarm blows she japa with your children which is more important to her and also important to you

There is no way you will do the proper thing and pay her bride price and she will return home to her father and they will not summon you to come for settlement

We have lots of bastards in Yoruba lands and they are the one constituting nuisance every where because they are stray children from improper marriages
No home, no parents just because the parents that gave birth to to them weren't responsible in the first place to do the needful

So they sleep under the bridges all. Over Lagos

So my opinion is marry an Igbo woman properly and complete the marriage rights by paying the bride price

Let me see how she will run away with children to her father's house
And her father will not call you to explain what happen

Bride price is a commitment to marriage

So if she runs home and you never paid her bride price, then she is open for another marriage

But once the bride price is paid, even if she runs home and later found another man,

For another man to marry her, the bride price you paid must be returned to you, to make her a free woman to marry

So OP, if you are sure you have done all necessary marriage rights and bride price on your wife, go to your inlaw and claim your children, they have the kind men who witness the marriage take the matter up with them

But if you skipped that part, then your inlaw will remind you that you did not do the needful and the children belongs to his family

Kingpin1000:
So how will his creditors be paid?
Na to go exhume his corpse and sell his body parts to skull miners.

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Islie:
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