₦airaland Forum

Rejouir:
God bless you for this advice, From the previous advice i read. Honestly most of the female users of the NL are emotionally bitter. I have telling you. The Bitterness and emotionally trauma is choking.

jamesversion:
See as the woman belle be like drum.

outoftheworld:
Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?

I actually meant you should hustle and have a good source of income first.
I'm far older than you, that's why I'm advising you.
I learnt through experience, it's hard to get a nice girl to date you and remain faithful if you can't take care of her. Channel your energy and attention on standing up yourself first, girls can only weigh you down. Besides you can't keep a girl you can't take care of.
If you are doing well financially you can have any girl you want.

abdeefggh:
That is why they are looking for new home to destroy, SE is already gone, criminals control SE now and no reasonable person wants to stay there

immortalcrown:
Punishing him will not resurrect the dead. But I wish he faces a serious torture or life imprisonment.

Meanwhile, it is Igbo vs Igbo. Tribalists will use this post to condemn the entire Igbo race.

Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out. Woman are like that ,u too luck up

So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.

Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.

I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.

After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.

So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.

We have not been in good terms since then,

Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement?

Queendiamond398:
My husband prefers been busy on his phone with his numerous exes, divorcee and single ladies than gisting with me if we are together, i have always want him to have peace of mind but it seems he doesnt think of that about me

Am begining to find peace gisting with his friend anytime he comes to visit, some persons may say i saw the handwriting on the wall before i married him,Hell NO! .He succeded in making me chase all my friend both male and female away but now have numerous to chat with and laugh and please himself.

He thinks his smart but i pity him, is just my home training that is limiting me to do some kind of evil things ,we will go for party or club he will leave me and go and be sitting in midst of other ladies, while some men will come and sit with me and making advances at me and he doesnt know. Some of his friends that are as useless as him and come with their wives or Fiance doesnt know young and energetic men do have quickie with their wives at the rest room

My religion and the way i value my body can't make me to stooop so low to do all those things but why will a man choose to neglect the wive to be dieing of boredom .

Because of lack of attention my Male Colleagues always try to take advantage of that and be chatting with me till midnight without him even seeing it.

We lived in a separate room that this his attitude can make someone to be cheating without him knowing but i dont want to do that Please someone should help me out
Please am dieing slowly i have confronted him so many times but he will tell me i dont have the right to tell him what to do

Jangolover:
I think it's an invitation to Bleep her but nah i don't Bleep people's wives. Godforbid.


See eeeh fear women i repeat fear women

obinna58:

Cash out time

Chinny024:
Two people can't sit together in peace again..😉😉😉😫😫😫..Everything is now cheating right?..They were not seated in a compromising position na..

But hanty, u no try at all...Ur mouth come sharp ontop..Apologize first!

Wahala dey o oo..

Chinny024:
Two people can't sit together in peace again..😉😉😉😫😫😫..Everything is now cheating right?..They were not seated in a compromising position na..

But hanty, u no try at all...Ur mouth come sharp ontop..Apologize first!

Wahala dey o oo..

Nice2023:
I don't like eating it but the first time It was used to cook spaghetti,that was the day I loved it all.

It taste different from Nigerian ones...I mean it.

Jennyclay:
Someone should come and take me to UK biko!!

Aaaaarghmed:
The bad news coming from Anambra is always more than the good news

vazsily:
Them say who dey ask questions no dey miss road. Although with the Internet crazy people are bound so I am circumspect.

I have been married over 15 years and in that time I have always complained about the way my wife over cooks and then start looking for who to share the food with in the name of giving alms. You would think having managed kitchen and home for that long, food measurement should come naturally.

I have not taking much interest until with the recent inflation and high cost of goods in the market. And why I struggle with the Grace of God to earn a living, madam on the other hand thinks going to the market regularly and living above my salary na achievement without any adjustment. The matter don tire me, I want to simply pick my bags and run but for the kids.

Responsibility is a choice but I think she's abusing it. Giving to the poor comes naturally for me but you must be wise about it. How do i resolve this?

duduade:
OP only you five paragraphs saying the exact same thing but using different context..

No worry you will be fine

Marriage isn't for everyone.. it's not a do or die affair...

Open your heart to true friendship 💖 and watch it lead you

MikeofKd:
Good day Nlanders, pls I need the wisest counsels of wise Nlanders. I have a problem which is lack of commitment to women, ive been this way since I left uni, and pls know that this isnt due to masturbation or any sorts, cause I havent done that thing since my teenage years.

I meet a woman today , we vibe, connect and all but i'm just damn too scared to commit any woman no matter how good she is. I'm scared that if I continue this way I may likely find it really difficult to get married.

Seeing and experiencing different complains of men in real life and on the forum as made my commitment issues with women only worse. I'm currently working, fair pay, got my own place, I'm doing quite well for myself. Ive met different women this year that were good women, but I fear if I give my heart to them they may switch up, women are too complicated naturally to cope with.

This fear of commitment is seriously holding me back from getting a serious relationship. My only fear is if I continue this way I may not get married. I need the counsels of wise nairalanders to advice me on what to do concerning this commitment issues cause it quite depressing no lies.

I form hard guy, but deep down I really be craving for a romantic relationship, I'm just too scared to give any woman my heart cause ive been hurt in past relationships . So hurt that even when I had a good woman I couldnt see it and I lost her.


Your Wise advice and counsels would be deeply appreciated thanks.

Prospertochu:
My x wife and I share 3 children together ( 4 years old triplets 2 boys 1 girl). I live in another state due to the nature of my job.

The girl lives with her in Lagos and the boys are with my mother and sister in the village. I rented another apartment for them far away because I don't want my x or her family to come and kidnapped my boys the same way she kidnapped the girl .

My x wife and daughter are going to the village for xmas she want me to give her my mum adress so she can see the boys she said she bought plenty gifts for them .

I refused because the last time she visited she took all 3 children to her parents house only for her to kidnapped the girl leaving behind the boys.

I don't want her to kidnapped my boys and she has threatened to take me to court for custody she said the judge will grant her custody because the children are tender .

I told her to go ahead and report me anywhere she wants. I am scared to loose my boys. I love them so much they are my everything I won't bear to lose them.

My boys are only 4 years old is it true that the judge will grant her custody because they are tender ?


Edited 1 : https://www.nairaland.com/7112098/x-wife-demanding-me-more#112551530



Edited 2: https://www.nairaland.com/7436944/ex-wife-kidnapped-daughter#118450454

LikeAking:
Cost of living is cheaper there..

Way cheaper…


At least they earn big and spend big, unlike Nigeria.

Samantha124:
Can you use pure English? Because you keep confusing me.

Samantha124:
Wait, are you a lesbian?

Samantha124:
We're tired...😏😏😏

Savedday2:
I believe that's for all our 9ja girls.

May God heal her so she can continue with her oloshio business. Customer are waiting?

MadamVanessa:




Go girl, congratulations to you. I gifted myself the same gift last month. I am spoiling myself this Christmas again.

concreteaffairs:
In a dream

N3TRAL:
The only thing you should worry about as a man is poverty.


Every other thing is secondary. Posts like this should come from girls.

jeromestarks:
Which of the following is stoping you from getting married?

1. Lack of finance?

2. No serious suitor?

3. You're simply not interested in marriage?

4. Your parents want your elder sister to marry first? ( some tribes do this).

5. Your pastor/imam said this is not your year?

6. The person you love doesn't love you?

7. You are scared of the troubles that come with marriage?

8. You lover is in abroad and s/he wants you to wait?

9. You're passed marriageable age?

10. You think you're too young to get married?

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