₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
1. There's a difference between what life throws at you and what you endure.

2. Now we are getting somewhere. Why did your wife make the decision to refuse you sex? Why do you send a woman who refused you sex for over a year money for her upkeep and that of your daughter? Surely, we all know that you had a hand in the reason here, right? So, it ain't that you are enduring but instead accepting, as far as you claim, the consequence of a fault of yours in your marriage.

3. Stop thinking you are speaking to imbe_ciles abeg! Tell us better story abeg!

Kobojunkie:
1. There's a difference between what life throws at you and what you endure.

2. Now we are getting somewhere. Why did your wife make the decision to refuse you sex? Why do you send a woman who refused you sex for over a year money for her upkeep and that of your daughter? Surely, we all know that you had a hand in the reason here, right? So, it ain't that you are enduring but instead accepting, as far as you claim, the consequence of a fault of yours in your marriage.

3. Stop thinking you are speaking to imbe_ciles abeg! Tell us better story abeg!

Kobojunkie:
1. I bet you have never had to endure much of another person's wickedness yourself.

2. You say because you have never endured much in your life.

Kobojunkie:
1. Talking to someone close to him will make him change?

2. If your wife changed in the same way, will you yourself continue to be a good husband to her until the day she too "will reflect on change", no matter how many years that will take?

3. So, if the wife uses feeding money to gamble too, what will become of the kids? How will they feed at that point?

Kobojunkie:
1. Talking to someone close to him will make him change?

2. If your wife changed in the same way, will you yourself continue to be a good husband to her until the day she too "will reflect on change", no matter how many years that will take?

3. So, if the wife uses feeding money to gamble too, what will become of the kids? How will they feed at that point?

Kobojunkie:
Keep enduring to what end?

JoeRizzla:
Once I notice you can so concerned about a girl or women that's not related to you well-being i will withdraw myself from you, The only person i can help without thinking twice is my mom and sis,

Am more concerned about myself, family, niggaz and my weed

Bayonet40:
Good evening nairalanders.
Why do Nigerians believe that you must have to cut your baby's hair (especially male babies) immediately they reach 1 year?
Is there any theory here?
People have been suggesting that I cut my boy's hair when he reaches 1 year which is some days from now, he has much hair which I plan to maintain and keep in a good shape.

SmartPolician:
The legislature has no business constructing roads when we have the federal ministry of works.

This constituency allowance madness should be stopped. I thought that Buhari would have some balls to stop it.

By the way, the last picture above even shows that the road was poorly constructed.

Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I han



I no dey reason woman again, as long as i have weed and x1 and my two step,if pakus no come to me,it will stay there and get old,nacking is not the end of the word,i too have been deprive going to two yrs yet i no die.still i have found a way to keep doing my responsibility as a father

NwaMamaIwota:
come and live with me let's have children oh my beautiful Adenrele

sultan003:
1. Boomslang ke?
2. You say a boomslang is harmless?

Jennyclay:
The guy is simply wicked. Infact just take the whole 24 hours a day to fear men. if I were to be in her shoes, I would've poured him acid if I ever cross path with him.

Karma is a bitch. What goes around comes around. Same fate will befall his daughters.

Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.

We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.

On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.

She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.

I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.

We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.

I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.

Oberhiri141:
Ever since i packed into my new house, my landlady and her daughter have been disturbing my life one way or the other.

One day, I gave my landlady 10kg of mama gold rice which was given to me at my place of work and then the following morning she called me and asked me to lend her 10k.

I think she has taken my kindness for weakness and as for her daughter, her own inordinate request for money is unbearable. If it's not meatpie today then it's recharge card or even hair cream.

Please, Elders in the house, how can I cope with this burden?

3verblazing:
if you truely understand the concept of how pple gain experience and respond to pple feelings you won't be saying this.

Pple turn out to be who they are based on what they have been exposed to or how pple around them have reacted to issues.

I still maintain that a 15yr old in general isn't not yet fully equiped to set priorities, what is important or not important in a giving circumstances. Especially if he or she has not been through such.

If the guy can be honest and give us the exact conversation that ensued between them word for word, before she altered that statement. Then we'll be in a better position to judge. But you need to establish that the guy is even with an old enough woman in the first place. Before you start judging.

2saviourfriday9:
Pls what can we do to prevent thief from coming to our compound i wakeup this morning around 6am to sweep outside immediately i raise up my eye i now release that the zine that we keep close our window was stolen.
but last time the came and carry metal that we were about to use and hold a piller, We built 3 new house here but one is done while 2 is under construstion. We also put a very high fence i don't know how they claim enter i saw their foot map on this ground the time i were about to sweep.
pls help a brother

3verblazing:
nop a 15 yr old is too young to understand the true depth of grief.

A more matured woman, even if she's not into him, will have that self awareness and understanding that the situation doest no warrant that kind of frivolous demand. If shes a minor, it is understandable. You need to clear that out first before drawing your conclusions on the woman. So oga that's not a stupid question.

SLAP44:
The truth is that Nigeria will never remain the same again. Peter Obi has woken up the spirit of Nigeria of the 1960s, everyone is feeling like we will get our independence again.

Nigeria will rise again.

3verblazing:
How old is she?

Zionmdde:
It's painful, certain projects are going on in other regions and these projects are suggested by people from those regions. But if we Igbos are told to go and scout, research on how some of those projects can be sited in SE we refuse blatantly to go. The last time we even visited it was a very fearful journey.

These stupid people don't know what they are doing to igbo land in the name of "at the end Biafra will come" we weaken our economy, we weaken our security, we drive away investors.

I used to be very proud, but when some Igbos started asking "what of Boko haram? What of Bandits?" I knew it was finished. Yorubas started Endsars but knew when to withdraw but SE allowed UGM continue the destruction

Zionmdde:
We are reaping the fruits of the trees we planted. It started with Angels now it has turned into beasts terrorising the whole region. We didn't learn how BH that once had the support of Muslim northerners later turned against them

And would FG tell us that they can't trace the communication between Simon expa and these boys. Las las ofe nsala day is turning into ofe ahuhu. Maybe when my people are tired they will gather themselves and fish out these terrorists. Even kanu will be in regret wherever he is