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RomanceSingle Ladies, Why Date Married Men! by effisyman(op):
Married men going after young girls is a trend that is more than common in our society today, But why?

Some single ladies are the ones that chases after these married men, either for job oppurtunity or money.

Some ladies have claimed ignorance of not knowing that the man they are after is married, What?
Someone takes you to brothels and friends house all the time, he never gave you his address for you to check on him and you say you don't know his married.

All the single guys that came your way, you said they are not your standard, is that enough reason to go after married men. Later, when you finally get married and Karma takes is place when other single ladies chase your husband, you will now be crying.

Parents, ensure you meet the need of your wards .... buy them sanitary pads, cloths, shoes and bags, mobile phones and take them to eateries.This what these men uses to lure them, or they think a single cannot provide.

Most importantly teach them the way of the lord while they are young and they will not deviate when they reach adulthood.

Single ladies, have faith in single guys and nuture your relationship, married men will use and dump you.

Let the one who have ears and brain act!!!
SportsNuga And Nipoga Games by effisyman(op): 8:42pm On May 19, 2013
Left the University 8yrs ago, love going to Nuga then, it was fun.

Its been a while since I hear anything of both Nuga and Nipoga, am I missing something.

Has it been scrapped or what?
FamilyRe: Can Marriages Be Devoid Of Cheating.... by effisyman(op): 8:36pm On May 19, 2013
Women too do cheats in relationships, nobody have reference that!
PoliticsRe: Northern Governors Support State Of Emergency Rule In 3 States by effisyman: 10:42am On May 19, 2013
Surely, they have no choice when GCON have spoken!
PoliticsRe: Army's Offensive To Continue "As Long As It Takes" by effisyman: 10:37am On May 19, 2013
If that's what will bring peace and stop their insurgence...

Make una carry go!
PoliticsRe: Kalu Gave Obasanjo N100m For 1999 Elections by effisyman: 10:35am On May 19, 2013
Nigeria democracy.. Govt of the rich cabals by the rich cabals and for the rich cabals.
PoliticsRe: Reuben Abati - Exclusive Interview by effisyman:
Reuben Reuben Reuben, don't say what oga @ d top will ask you to rescind later!
PoliticsRe: ACF - Force Will Not Stop Boko-Haram by effisyman: 10:25am On May 19, 2013
Naija politics is different from the rest of the world!

Even when someone is loosing, he will be singing victory song.
PoliticsRe: CP Orders Arrest Of Rivers’ Speaker. by effisyman: 10:20am On May 19, 2013
See gobee!
Nairaland GeneralWhat Will The Society Say Or Think! by effisyman(op): 10:17am On May 19, 2013
Making personal decisions that impacts ones life directly largely depends on what will the society say or think?

Society in this context are family members,friends and the likes.

We are both directly and indirectly responsible for actions, decisions and the result.

Why should one consider society in making personal life decisions?
FamilyRe: Can Marriages Be Devoid Of Cheating.... by effisyman(op): 9:55am On May 19, 2013
Will open relationship help?
RomanceRe: No Man Is Complete! Manage The One You Have!! by effisyman: 10:43pm On May 18, 2013
Who is now managing who?
CareerSocialization And Career Advancement! by effisyman(op): 6:24pm On May 18, 2013
What is the correlation between socializing and career development?

It is often said that one should develop a good rapport with his boss, and extend the boss-surbodinate relationship from the workplace to visiting your boss occassionaly, attending parties and clubbing.
Some even went as far as constituiting a group or call it cabal, they decide who to be promoted at club house, golf course and other social gathering.
No matter how good you are on the job, if you do not socialise with them or the powers that be... Your career growth will be stunted.

I hate partying, same goes for clubbing and the likes and is affecting my career.

Why are there so many unfavorable condition attached to career growth?
FamilyRe: Can Marriages Be Devoid Of Cheating.... by effisyman(op): 1:59pm On May 18, 2013
Noting d key points...
PoliticsRe: 35 Killed In Raid On Boko-Haram Hideout by effisyman: 11:31am On May 18, 2013
Naija soldier should watch out for innocent souls shaaa.
AutosRe: 2011 Toyota Prado by effisyman: 10:55am On May 18, 2013
how much...
FamilyCan Marriages Be Devoid Of Cheating.... by effisyman(op): 10:36am On May 18, 2013
I wish i can be totally objective on this issue...

Can marriages of today be devoid of cheating considering the numerous wrong things/people that surrounds us.

The internet is a tool for development which is highly welcome, but the number of dating site, porn and the likes are disturbing.

The total neglect of culture/tradition and embracing of western culture that have led to perpetual display of nudity by woman, even the rate at which females go after men is totally alariming.

The upsurge in club house, brothels, night crawling is another menace to marital life.

Also, our women now compete with men all in the name of gender equality, my husband must cook why i carry the baby... he must fetch water when ever am washing his cloths. Hmmm.. Africa is not America oooo.

if truly we have more women than men in terms of population ratio, is it not proper to allow our men marry more wives if they can cater for them, may be it will reduce promiscuity....just maybe.

What can be done to stop infedility in today marriages??
RomanceRe: Who Will Marry The Lady/guy You Spoilt? by effisyman: 10:21am On May 18, 2013
Why did the spoil lady/man allowed himsefl/hersefl to be spoilt in the first place.
FoodDid You Ever Cooked Or Eat University Rice... by effisyman(op): 4:54pm On May 17, 2013
I could not stop laughing when i stumbled on Blacky ( real name is williams)today,My room mate in the university then.

Blacky is an expert in cooking concoction Rice...when every one is hungry and tired after long lecture hours and the strenght to cook is gone, my guy will just add rice to boiled water with ground pepper, salt and onions at a go.

In a twinkle of an eye we are all eating...God bless u blacky.

Whats cooking like in your shool days, did you ever eat colored rice or university kind of food.

share your experience.
RomanceRe: If Couples Doesnt Want Children, What Then Is The Motive Of The Marriage? by effisyman: 8:28pm On May 15, 2013
I met a lady in my first year and in a bid to show how much I love her, I told her I careless if we bore children or not.
She never returned.
PoliticsRe: Obi Is Yet To Find A Suitable Successor by effisyman: 6:59pm On May 14, 2013
That will not make you get 3rd term.
The people of Anambra will get a suitable replacement through election.
FamilyRe: Capital Punishment And Child Upbringing! by effisyman(op): 6:56pm On May 14, 2013
Hmmm... Western culture have taken over and result is what u see on our street...boys piercing their ears and braiding hairs.
The ladies are crying not being married after exposing it all.
God save this generation and the ones to come.
PoliticsRe: President Jonathan Addresses The Nation - 14th May 2013 by effisyman: 6:40pm On May 14, 2013
Another committee setting speech.

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