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Nice thread, one of the many issues affecting every home today.

Firstly, am a muslim and my religion accept of polygamy. I have also discorvered that many muslim females despise polygamy. These i find a bit intriguing because, i expect everybody to accept the doctrines of his/her chosen religion.

Secondly, of 1000 men out there it is very hard to find 10men that have not sleep with another woman after marriage.

Thirdly, when you think of the problems associated with polygamous home...my dear na no go area.

Finally, non muslims have been marrying more than one wife and have either enjoy or regret it.

Am still baffled by the acts of muslim women who reject polygamy, why not embrace your religion in full and all christains to also abide by their religious doctrines.

Let the man who has no claim to either being a muslim or christain lives as it suits him, and everybody carry his cross.

Don't mind all these people wey dey condemn you, continue enjoying your sexcapade with your friends dad and extend it to all your friends dad too. You must even allow your dad to have a taste of the pudding, its called growing up.

On the day of your introduction and engagement, you must have slept with all the elderly men there present and then you can now stop and take their son as husband.

Nna na wa ooo, a whole CUU.

If the "STATE CAKE" is shared among these people only....how will the other citizen enjoy dividends of democracy.

Heaven don open up for Agbara to Okokomaiko...
The rain no get part two...

See this Money Miss road girl sef...

if na naija babes wear this tear tear jeans, na craze we go call am ooo

Now Oshio baba is calling for Gobee ....

Lavishing money on things that will not benefit his state, and will be praised for it.

Really...

wiliwili don come back ooooo...

good one

you guys tends to believe all the politicians, Smart Adeyemi too is no saint.... he definitely has an angenda.

lynpetra: Yes I can!But I don't go about dishing out every details of my past to someone no matter how hard he wants to know.There are things I rather take to my grave.

Not you telling him, his been your bf's friend and happens to come in during small small disputes, is aware of what you did wrong that led to his friend opting out finally. Now his asking you out, would you think his out to have his share or that his aware of your weakness and seems to accept it?

Derailers, allow us learn from peoples experience and advise.
Biko
Please
Eejoor
Wetin be hausa version(make I check).

lynpetra: As long as him never kill,no problem.Can't risk sleeping with a murderer for fear of having my life sniff out of me while I sleep

In this case you know his past, would you marry someone who is aware you have aborted, or knows the details of your past relationship?

Can you go into a relationship with someone who knows your past, his/she knows your previous patner and also aware of what has transpired.
He knows your have aborted or have been sexually active with your previous patner and still wants to date you.
For the ladies, would you accept to date a guy you knows his past? his been sexually active or have rejected a pregnancy before.

mollytinrox: But one Dr said the body isn't ready for digestion until 12noon. All these your contradictory findings. Who should we believe?

Breakfast must be taken, and should not be beyond 9am.

fela say.. zombie o zombie ooo

idnoble135: okaylife goes on, if the lady loves her spouse, it wont make much difference as if he were working. [color=#000099]But to be sincere,only few ladies have the character of still remaining humble if this kind of incidence happens.The wife must have at the back of her skull that things wont remain like this forever. So she better behave and have the consciousness that tables can turn.

This is exactly my fear.

Why not disclose what u did wrong, it will free your mind and serve as a learning point for others.
However, I think his gone for good and will advice you hang out with friends to enable you move on too.

funny indeed.. they shd uncloth him.

yellowpawpaw: Unless d wife is not a responsible one,normal family life continues.
I know of a lady in shell,PH.d hubby was somewhere in anambra working too.hubby has to stop cos her own was juicier than his.they tot that he can easily get work in PH with her connection.one month,one year,two yrs.in b/w a car,two cars and a plot of land.we knew cos we were close to them.this man is such a very neat man so he is always cooking,arrangin d house and washing.one day we saw d man dryin some private stuff.we joked with it and d lady told d hubby"shebi I told u to stop all these,u r really embarasin me and pple will think I send u work"
She has to fight seriously to secure a contract job for him.d woman don't know how to drive when she bot d first car.she learn with d 2nd.I learnt a lot from her.
it only requires an understandin man and woman.period.

my dear, this is a bit dificult oooo.

We use to have confidence in NL before, but with the advent of Cooking with celebrity, posing with politician and rate my pics...everything don pafuka.

lie of the millenium...

what if its true...wetin be my own.

Abi wetin concern cow with roforofo dey road.

And when will Nigeria surpass US in terms of development?

Husbands generally are expected to be responsible for the family upkeep, feeding,school fees, clothing and Rents to mention a few.

But, in a situation where the wife shoulder most of this responsibilities if not all, Maybe due to the fact that she earns more or her business brings more profit.

Men generally may not be comfortable with these,as exerting your powers as the man of the house may be jeopardise, and the woman may also be full of ego and pride.

How do one cope or behave if you are in these situation?

Ban outdoor smoking, whoever wish to smoke may do so in his/her privacy.

how far with her divorce court case...


Na so she snap for court too....everything na picture

They choose her out of pity.