sayittome: Exactly my thought too. However, i think he needs like six months (may be more or less) to reflect, pray, plan, get counselling from well-informed pple and strategise. And i suggest your wife should go away for those period. The essence is for her to appreciate the seriousness of her wrong ways and repent of them and appreciate you as her husband. Dont be desperate and dont go begging for her. People change, sometimes, when they know what is at stake. So you need to be sure that she has really changed. The six months is long but it serves as a discipline to her and a test of her repentance, faithfullness and loyalty to you. If she is a changed person (and a wise woman too) she and her family should come begging. But dont accept her just like that. You should give conditions for accepting her. Moreso, i reckon she needs counselling too. She needs to undertand the value of a family and the dignity/holiness/blessedness of its purpose. Essentially, you need to take back control of your marriage, and, the time is NOW. Try not to be emotional now but let your actions be based on grand rational sense. Also be guilded by God's words which discourages divorce. Taking back control of you marriage is possible but i reckon you need expert counselling to succeed. Anyway, dont hesitate to contact me if you need more advice. Obviously you do need more as this piece is insufficient and will require clarification. GOD BLESS YOU.
Acidosis: Please do not create problems for yourself. To buttress Ishi's point, majority of the problems we face today are man-made. We spend 20 hours creating problems for ourselves, and then struggle through the remaining hours of the day looking for solutions.
You have saved N800,000. Go ahead and marry a woman that shares same orientation with you. Many women out there do not need the 'ovation' kind of wedding... don't be scared of anything, they all possess the same body structure and endowment. Spending N1 trillion on a wedding won't automatically give you access to four brea.sts on your wedding night.
A group of businessmen just sat down and derived a way to suck out money from intending couples and they felt the best way to go about it is to build wedding dress worth millions, event centres, etc. Since they are aware that many people out there are mu.mu "sheep-ers" to celebrities, they make sure their services and products get endorsed by celebrities.
You are a human with a mind of your own, you can break the chain!
About the car talk, I sincerely think that you're about getting married the wrong woman. If your woman is not ready to take that public transport with you, then quit. Get a car at a convenient period when you're sure that YOU (not a girlfriend) will NEED it.
If Danfo is what you use, ensure you get a woman that feels comfortable in Danfo, if she bothers you with Uber requests, quit! She's not your type.
Your last paragraph...exactly what was on my mind.
toluxe0075: I wasn't surprise when i saw Izu Ojukwu as the director, his movies are usually of high quality with good storyline. I'm hyped for this movie.
Yes, you are right. The production quality is high. Please like my facebook page: facebook.com/efilimu
isaacsegun: Sometimes ago I created a thread to seek people's advice, but to my surprise I was bashed beyond my imagination. Some even went as far as coursing the op,so I see it as a matter of necessity to let everyone know the full details of what prompted me to seek for people's advice. As I stated in the first thread, the abortion brouhaha happened in 2008.And after the abortion I did everything I could to stay away from her due to so much friction that the issue has caused between our parents and most especially the strict opposition from her mother, but she will never leave me. We even came to know that we are closely related. I got admission in 2009,and I left her in village. I was happy thinking it will give me the opportunity to cut off all my contacts with her,which I did. But after some years she got my phone number through a friend,and we have been calling/chatting on phone but we only saw each other once in 2011 when she came to village, and we could not even talk because her mother was around that day. Since 2011 we have only been talking on phone up to this time. I actually appreciate her love for me and I was already having a rethink towards her,but through one of our recent conversation I discovered that her mother was still strongly against our relationship likewise my parents, though I understand the reason my parents gave to me. So,I felt what is the essence of keeping a relationship that none of our parents ascent to. But she's still insisting we must marry.
wristbangle: I sincerely hope they changed from their repulsive/impossible attributes they want from a man before they start seeking for deliverance when they clock 50.
Na so I DM one pretty slay queen and if you see the demand of this broke olosho eh!
Here are her demands and I am not fabricating the story.
1. Must be resident of lekki-VGC area in Lagos (for my mind I meet the criteria becos I dey stay for one ghetto area whey e dey Jakande, Lekki) but the rest wan make me go coma
2. Must be tall ( 6.5ft , I am like chai me whey tyrion lanister call short man )
3. Handsome and 6packs ( She said the face of Jidenna and the body physique of CR7)
4. Wealthy ( earning 7figure salary as a start).
She wan continue with point 5 before I rudely end the useless conversation.
Am sure she is still searching for her maga
In as much I agree that the requirements of these ladies are unrealistic, we the guys shouldn't relent in hustling hard to make it in life. Not for them, but for ourselves and family.
USUKUMA: damn!!!! this is tots better than the over hyped wedding day, 10 days in sun city and the rest receive boring movies. Nollywood don the act war scenes!!!!!!!! mods pls push this to FP!!!
I hope they will. Films like this deserve attention, but in Nigeria only comedy films make money. The production quality of this film is top notch.
TonySpike: I suspect MOS 2 will be announced after JL. Announcing it now might be too early as Superman has a uncompleted arc in JL for now. Just my though.
EdoBoy90: Fact. Experience jobs, they will just ask you about your experience and your place of work to ascertain if you actually worked there. And it is very easy to get a job with experience.
My guy left a chemical company to a pharmaceutical company because of his experience. Did you know what the company did? They only invited those with experience. That is the pharmaceutical company.
I am always busy . if dragnet calls, we will go. If dragnet doesn't call, we will manage where we are. By God's grace, they will call me.
I prefer the Oral stage, where they will ask you what can you offer and your little experience or your undergraduate courses. #Shekina
Abi oh, our lives doesn't have to depend on Dragnet.
Minemrys: kai. U no dy tire? You've c0me with this your blame it on snyder again. Is it snyder thats holding the MOS sequel? Whats stopping wb fr0m hiring a different director and writer for it just like they did suicide squad? What else? The man's g0ne. What do u need again?
My oga no vex. You know my stance on Snyder since day one. But you are right by saying it rests on the shoulders on WB. And if you've noticed, WB are in the habit of hiring directors they've worked with before.
Minemrys: seriously, thats the problem i have with hollywo0d. Rebo0ts. I still can't rec0ncile the fact that marvel passed on an inhumans m0vie for an0ther spiderman reb0ot. N0t that we needed one. And the h0mec0ming one wasn't like it it was that special or s0mething. And i hate the fact that wb is rushing a w0nder w0man sequel this s0on when man of steel [the film that started the EU] hasn't gotten a solo sequel. What abt the flash and so on? Hollyw0od is loosing it. We need variety.
if you know how annoyed I feel that we'll get a sequel to WW before MoS. Blame it on Snyder!!!!
TonySpike: Yeah, I saw pac man on gotg 2 in the third act and I was like, "WTH is this?". I felt nothing after watching gotg 2. GOTG 1 was a far more superior product even with its own silly "dance-off" third act.
Even some the first class graduates will fail that test. It is not by 2.1 or First class by God's grace and mercy.
The verbal reasoning you can't even read the comprehension passage before answering the questions because of limited time.
questions 1 to 5, 6 to 10, 11 to 15 and 16 to 20, each comprehension passage before answering the questions for just 17 minutes.
Everyone is calm here now. I was expecting such from them.
This is the why experience jobs are better. The will interview you base on your experience. Sometimes, even when u failed the written test they will still consider you base on your experience.
Well, I give all the glory to God.
The hustle continues till we get feedback from them.
Pls don't put all your hope in Dragnet/NBC and let the hustle continues as we await.
God knows, I hate anything management trainee even though most times I'm qualified for it. Even when you scale the hurdle of the first assessment, you still have to consider other stage hurdles that you'll have to conquer, of which someone might get dropped at any one of them. And provided, you are still able to successfully move from one stage to another, the time frame for the recruitment is something else. If someone doesn't have anything doing to keep busy, one might die of hbp. I still prefer jobs that are based on experience like you said.
jaszplus12: see how you jus spoil my gist! so, woman be my motivation? sorry! obviously you missed the point, no need trying to reason it out! cheers man.
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Who else is like me biko?