I suppose the poster knows the truth but his morbid desires would not let him accept it.  We humans are fond of not wanting to learn until we fall into very murky waters.

What is the usefulness of this thread?

I am in.

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This is incestuous.  If you are very sincere to yourself, you will obviously notice your feelings are carnal and inordinate.

Please, desist!

~Sauron~:

You have over-reacted.
Let her choose the best man. . . . . U must also choose the bridesmaid(one of your pretty exes).
When she starts chatting with the best man, you should also turn to the bridesmaid and crack old stories. . . .

What is good for the goose. . . . .

Never have a mind of "what is sauce for goose is sauce for the gander."  Good marriages do not ride on ti/t-for-tat.  If you go this lane, you will burn yourselves out.

This is an acid test for you. In your best interest, do not give in to her wish. If you can stand your ground now, she will grasp the idea of how manly you are. Women go beyond limits when they are given a tiny fragment of an opportunity. This is your marriage, and you ought to be the man and the lead. This does not, in any way, suggest that you are dogged and unchangeable.

More important, I feel you have to investigate the nature of the relationship between the proposed best man and your fiancee. There may be more to it.

There is copious information on the ETS website (www.gre.org). If you're able to surf the "Test Takers" section thoroughly, you'll realize you may not have to attend any tutorials or lessons elsewhere. A sample test software is also available on the website. We could chat on yahoo messenger if you deem it necessary. That way, I may be able to help you. Let me know your opinion.

Cutey23,

Could you holla me? I lost my phone, so I couldn't get the news down your lane.

That was a disaster, I suppose. But what could have warranted that affirmation? Wasn't his acceptance letter genuine or were there conflicting documents in his application? It would pay us good to know his weak points. Nonetheless, God will help us. You can reach me on 0803 363 5387.

Cutey23,

I hope to submit mine latest Thursday this week. It's nice to know my little suggestions did a pretty good work for you. Wish to meet you in Canada --- you might call that an outright optimism, but I am more than convicted all would work out fine. Be at your best!

RJ4,

You've done a pretty good work posting this information for everyone. Do you have the slightest idea about what a guy who's going to complete his NYSC programme by Aug/Sept, 2007 could fill in the space alloted for discharge certificate number?

Cutey23,

Strong ties to Nigeria can best be reflected in your replies on the accompanying "Q&A" form.  Your expressions should inherently suggest you have a keen interest in ploughing back your newly acquired skills and experience to develop your country.  Then, in case you are invited for an interview, never show that you are only interested in jetting out, but make them realize your ambition(s) are tailored towards moving Nigeria forward.

Hi guys, this is really a big nut to crack. Could someone tell me how the NYSC discharge certificate number differs from the call-up number? I would round off September, 2007. What do I fill in as my , number?

Cutey23,

Since you alma mater will not give you the transcript by hand, it will make a lot sense you include your certificate or statement of result. At the same time, ask Unilag to forward your official transcript to CDHC, Lagos. It's compulsory you suggest in your visa application that your alma mater will send your transcript. This way, the embassy guys wouldn't assume you have stylishly shirked including your transcript.

Do this on time and turn in your application latest the last week in this month. Wish you the best.

Hi Cutey,

I am also running along to make the Fall semester by September. Could you tell what hitches you got with your visa application?

Essojay, I do hope you weren't distabilized beyond refocussing your abilities? It's good you were referred to Abuja instead of missing out totally. Get yourself together, concentrate on success; you can't perform otherwise.

I took out time to check if you (Seun) had posted some striking contributions. It's rather ridiculous you haven't made a single line to attest to your strength of critiquing. There is no point making a mince meat of you.

With all candour,
Einstein

The first indication of whoever comes from a good and relevant university is reflected, to a precisely attestable degree, in his command of the English Language. Virtually all of your arguments holds no water.

The claim that our first generation universities (UI, UNILAG, OAU, and the rest) only thrive on their past glory is too parochial to possess the elements of verissimilitude. Before an acceptable arrival at the object of your quest, the best university in Nigeria, you must define some parameters or criteria against which every school could be fairly tested.

Stop all this tug of emotional wars. You all have not only disappointed the pro-Nigeria spirit, but you have disgraced your universities altogether.

And to our colleagues in Diaspora, you have not done well at all. Change your attitude, redefine your mentality.

Insisting that respondents should include very sensitive information (real names, school address, etc) violates the first rules of free moral contribution. Everybody, given the widest lattitude of anonymity, prefers to contribute to such issues without a "tie-down." If you are interested in getting replies, I deem it better you do away with that strict condition.

The fact that you chose a path to tread during your infantile-innocence days does not guarantee you have reached a decisive conclusion as to what line should be drawn between virgins and non-virgins. You have simply followed the subtle push of your mind to hold aloft the branded idea of pre-marital sex.

I have painted a picture that reflects the school of thought that everything is not all good about too much sexual intercourse. Do you not feel that a good number of young guys and gals have given sex a first-rate priority? Everybody is in the wagon for the fun and the excitement he derives from the act; nobody attaches some sanctity to it anymore. Pleasure you call it!!!

Lets add a bit of realism to this discourse. Cimonjorr, Vierra and Jogego, could each of you share with us how you felt after much intercourse with one your gals? I don't intend getting too poky, I only feel we could learn from live scenarios.

tayotina:

Einstein when I say I want a man who is good and active in bed, I know what I mean ok? I want a man who can do and undo. A man who can make me cry blood.

Tayotina,

Going by that quote, I can't clear the air about which horse your back. Nevertheless, we have a merging interface. Any man can do it the way you want it. You only need to show him in love.

By the way, are you an exponent of premarital sex?

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tayotina:

Honestly, I would love to get married to a guy who is very good and active in bed. I can't imagine myself settling down with a man who has never had sex. Gosh!! It's going to be boring

Getting a guy activated is a mere one-time-experience job. Moreover, if you lead him by the dick on how to take several 'tumultous' forms, he will get acquainted, and even evolve sensual tears from your eyes. Remember this, every man is ferocious when it comes to bed affairs

IAH,

Be careful the way you join in the wagon. I'll advise you remain a good gal with impeccable lifesytle. There is a good ground for those who bag the the keg pot of morals and ethical values. Never build a mindset for a guru, but pray your Mr. Right comes your way.

Sincerely yours,
Einstein.

I am not concluding virgins make good house wives.  Subjected to equal yardstick, a virgin's innocense is an advantage a man could count towards trust and fidelity.

This discussion can not absolutely declare one better than the other.  Change is the only constant phenomenon in nature.  So a virgin could go negative while the deflowered rings the bell.

The assertion that virgins make better sexually growing marriages does not outrightly annuls the welcomed idea that deflowered girls could make good homes. What matters, aside the issue of compatibility, is open expressions and understanding of human differences before marriage. If the two concerned parties can cope with past lives and be willing to adjust, life could be beautiful for them.

Lets not give the non-virgins the impression that the are societal misfit. Beauty of character and an open expression of remorse could convince one's partner he has turn a new leaf.

This is to serve a warning for ladies who engage in premarital sex with their supposed husband-to-be. A guy's sexual composure is such that he refrains from particular fannies after much rounds. Ladies, in the view of a guy, gets stale after much sex. Premarital sex does not make a harmony or substantiate a relationship.

Virgins are very wonderful beings to glue to. I am of the opinion that virgin ladies make better and sexually trustworthy wives than the 'disrupted' ones.

Sex is a flaming fire that never dies down. Once one ventures into it, he/she is bound to long for more. A deflowered girl can hardly stop asking for more unless God's does a profound miracle; because of her urge for 'variety' , her husband would suffer much infidelity. I am not saying virgins are excluded from this misdaemenour, but theirs is reduced.