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WhiteJacket:
Need to put this on a plague. Reminds me on back then in primary sch when I often questioned why girls preferred the rich kids, even though we were all 'supposedly' in a level playing ground.

Even in higher institutions. The rich kids smash chicks left to right. The intelligent kids have a lot of female attention for study sessions.

Only a handful of ladies actively encourage their male friends or boyfriends to study hard. If anything they are a distraction.

I'm glad men are gradually waking up.
Like I always tell my friends especially those guys that are doing church love "Do not be ignorant of the devices of women"

The key is not giving a Bleep.

Guys need to learn to spend more time with each other to refresh their masculine energy

Ball hard,
Bleep hard
Hustle harder

Ekemeze:


That doesn't apply to Nigerian men, infact, African men as a whole.

We all know men in the western world are 3rd class citizens because dogs and pets are more and more valuable. Lolz. so their depression is understandable.

Allow them suffer, they call it civilization. Its a saner clime for some people.

Actually it does. Maybe not a serious.
If you're paying close attention you'll realise that we are heading there. African men, particularly fathers need to wake up before it's late

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MichealKin50:
Honestly I'm confused. This girl never shows any sign of cheating.

Women are more complex, cunning and manipulative. It sounds misogynistic but it's true. They tend to use drama (such as crying and shouting) to cover up.

Let me let you in on a totally unrelated secret. The reason it seems like men cheat more than women is because women are the ones always complaining and talking about it and crying about it. Men are more stoic, men prefer to suck it up and move on.

iammolise:
Brov U're in for a long ride...
How in da fvck should u ask a woman if she has cheated on u b4 and expect a sincere reply, if she tells u yes know that she's not gonna marry u

So true.

executive12:
Keep quiet. It's necessary that we know who we are dealing with in a relationship.

So so true

friendl:
I have always said this over and over ,never go through your lady's phone unless you wanna die young

Personally I don't see anything wrong with my bf checking my phone. If both parties are truly faithful. This should not even be a problem.

But then, what do I know

instinct57vm:
You’re entitled to your opinion.
However, asking the girl if she’s cheating sounds desperate and condescending especially that he can’t prove it. People ending chats could mean different things and cheating is one of it no doubt but one still needs to have facts before asking such because they are most definitely gona deny. The guy has to find out himself and prolly delay proposing in the process till he’s sure. That’s the ideal way to go about it.

I agree

RealGOAT:
Have you paid her brideprize or just fiancee for mouth, if you haven't, please don't condemn her bcus you are not yet hers and you can still disappoint her.
As long as you are still dating,she has the right to entertain other suitors.

Yes o she has the right. He also has the right to know that she is entertaining other suitors and to what extent.

That way it is fair game

instinct57vm:
There are questions better left unasked. I think you were wrong to use that tactic to get the truth from her coz she ended up outsmarting you. If a woman is cheating you’ll know, it isn’t rocket science bro. If you haven’t seen any visible traces that she cheats then its better you just ignore and propose. If truly she cheats you’ll catch her just give it time. You don’t need to try too hard to catch her you might make a mess of it that way

I disagree
When questions are left unasked there is a higher probability of entering into a contract (or relationship in this case) without all the necessary information to make the best decision thereby leaving you at a loss.

I would NOT advise you to take this issue lightly.
The absence of evidence is not an evidence of absence.
She may be faithful or she may not. Either way your gut is telling you something. Probe it further.
At the very least, hold off your marriage plans till you are sure.

The officers on patrol are actually collecting money from people. Someone I know was arrested with some others. Before she was released, they collected money from them. Don't believe everything you see on the news it's mostly propaganda and sham