intruder15:


I don't get your angle. Are u single or you are dating someone? If u are dating, how will you feel if the message u sent ur boyfriend on WhatsApp last light is no longer on his phone this morning? Be honest with yourself. Won't u be suspicious? The least u can do is ask him what happened right?

Talkmore of someone the OP wants to spend the rest of his life with. It's not just about she cheating or catching her cheat.
Its not boyfriend and girlfriend. It's fiance and fiancee. A marriage shouldn't be built on distrust or questionable actions.

Marriage is in the balance here. Do you think a couple that distrusts each other to the point of always snooping into the other's phone should be together? If there is trust, if things are well, shouldn't he have peace of mind? Its obvious he doesn't trust her, and he can never trust her. If they marry, is this how he will live with high bp, checking the phone for twenty and more years?

It will also make her unhappy that he does not trust her. Its better to leave if he cannot have that confidence in her, without running to check the phone.

Tozic:
Any thing your mind tells you which I know you know where I'm going to is what it means.

Exactly.

I have always said this over and over ,never go through your lady's phone unless you wanna die young

[quote author=NobleSeed post=89333618]oga

Dnt mind me bruh

purples25:


Marriage is in the balance here. Do you think a couple that distrusts each other to the point of always snooping into the other's phone should be together? If there is trust, if things are well, shouldn't he have peace of mind? Its obvious he doesn't trust her, and he can never trust her. If they marry, is this how he will live with high bp, checking the phone for twenty and more years?

It will also make her unhappy that he does not trust her. Its better to leave if he cannot have that confidence in her, without running to check the phone.

With your response, it's implied u have no problem with ur boyfriend deleting all conversations on his phone. Be careful what you wish for. Karma is a bitch...

pTomz:
Haq haq haq..... baba you’re just one of her fiancé, in other words you’re dating yourself

Yeah right. If that's the case, then why are you spying on her? Stop being in denial.

MichealKin50:
2yrs plus. She's very good and open hearted. She doesn't hide anything from me.

Really? You just said that she refused to swear by the Bible that she has never cheated on you. I will take that to mean that she has cheated on you.

intruder15:


With your response, it's implied u have no problem with ur boyfriend deleting all conversations on his phone. Be careful what you wish for. Karma is a bitch...

Oh i used to check the phone. And found what i was looking for. When you find that person. You will not even bother to check.....your heart will be at rest, i tell you.

MichealKin50:
This is the same girl December last year before proposing to her, I asked her if she has cheated on me before. To get the truth from her, I lied to her that I've cheated on her she also told me she has cheated on me. When I finally told her that I was lying about cheating on her that since we met I've never seen another girl she also told me that she was lying too about cheating on me. When I told her to swear with the Holy Bible she refused to swear. I went ahead and proposed to her on 31st December hoping to marry her before end of this year.

Dafuq with the deception tactics

Guy you're insecure.

MichealKin50:
My Fiancée Does This. What Does It Mean?

Good day all.

The lockdown has brought my fiancée and I more closer. She spends most of her time now in my place than hers. While staying with me, I one day carried her phone to make call I discovered she doesn't put password on her phone.

Just few days ago while she was sleeping, I used her phone to Google something online and something pushed me to open her Facebook app. When I open, I realized she deletes chats after conversation. I was looking for the messages I do sent her on Facebook and could not find any.

I can't figure out what this means.

It will end in tears

You Just want to kill yourself for nothing, we are in HD high definition age which means anybody can login in and out of any available harddrive so adapt your mind bro

Bola146:
Kikikikikikikiki... wake her up and ask now

Why the laff

Ohun ojuwa lojuri!

Hanfield:
Stop snooping around because if you do you will find that thing you are looking for. What you are doing is responsible for crashing many relationships. You have no right going through her phone while she is sleeping.

Keep quiet. It's necessary that we know who we are dealing with in a relationship.

friendl:
I have always said this over and over ,never go through your lady's phone unless you wanna die young

Personally I don't see anything wrong with my bf checking my phone. If both parties are truly faithful. This should not even be a problem.

But then, what do I know

executive12:


Keep quiet. It's necessary that we know who we are dealing with in a relationship.

So so true

MichealKin50:
This is the same girl December last year before proposing to her, I asked her if she has cheated on me before. To get the truth from her, I lied to her that I've cheated on her she also told me she has cheated on me. When I finally told her that I was lying about cheating on her that since we met I've never seen another girl she also told me that she was lying too about cheating on me. When I told her to swear with the Holy Bible she refused to swear. I went ahead and proposed to her on 31st December hoping to marry her before end of this year.

Two can play, una no trust una selves.

Its obvious, you've got deputy

MichealKin50:
My Fiancée Does This. What Does It Mean?

Good day all.

The lockdown has brought my fiancée and I more closer. She spends most of her time now in my place than hers. While staying with me, I one day carried her phone to make call I discovered she doesn't put password on her phone.

Just few days ago while she was sleeping, I used her phone to Google something online and something pushed me to open her Facebook app. When I open, I realized she deletes chats after conversation. I was looking for the messages I do sent her on Facebook and could not find any.

I can't figure out what this means.

That girl is smatter than u. meaning if she wanted to play u, she will do that successfully.

Advice,
Ask her what u did and how u got shocked, open to her u no longer trust her.
Don't say much again, she ll begin stammering to defend herself, meanwhile follow ur heart whether to wife her or not.

MichealKin50
my candid advice for you is to get a strong spy app(paid or free I don't know), install on her phone and monitor the phone since you have access to her device. You can as well hide the app and she never finds it. But the app ends up doing what you wants it doing.

I destest cheating.

Then you can monitor her messages, calls and all.
Thank me later


PS: Do it smartly and don't get accused of spying illegally that might attract some legal consequences (which I don't know about).

UyaiIncomparabl:


And you came to this conclusion, how?

Go ahead and disprove it. Use yourself and 4 of your friends as case study

It's only people who are not straightforward that delete chats simple. Phone lock is understandable, but deleting your fiance's chats who the hell does that

MichealKin50:
This is the same girl December last year before proposing to her, I asked her if she has cheated on me before. To get the truth from her, I lied to her that I've cheated on her she also told me she has cheated on me. When I finally told her that I was lying about cheating on her that since we met I've never seen another girl she also told me that she was lying too about cheating on me. When I told her to swear with the Holy Bible she refused to swear. I went ahead and proposed to her on 31st December hoping to marry her before end of this year.

you have all these evidence and want to marry her

Buy yourself some sense

She's not the one for you, keep looking...
She has something to hide and a bad liar

MichealKin50:
Honestly I'm confused. This girl never shows any sign of cheating.

Is she showing signs of coro 19?

MichealKin50:
This is the same girl December last year before proposing to her, I asked her if she has cheated on me before. To get the truth from her, I lied to her that I've cheated on her she also told me she has cheated on me. When I finally told her that I was lying about cheating on her that since we met I've never seen another girl she also told me that she was lying too about cheating on me. When I told her to swear with the Holy Bible she refused to swear. I went ahead and proposed to her on 31st December hoping to marry her before end of this year.

Sorry for your loss bro.
Emi maada

MichealKin50:
This is the same girl December last year before proposing to her, I asked her if she has cheated on me before. To get the truth from her, I lied to her that I've cheated on her she also told me she has cheated on me. When I finally told her that I was lying about cheating on her that since we met I've never seen another girl she also told me that she was lying too about cheating on me. When I told her to swear with the Holy Bible she refused to swear. I went ahead and proposed to her on 31st December hoping to marry her before end of this year.

wow, she said she was lieing too

My brother, that girl is a smooth operator. I pity your destiny with that girl

MichealKin50:
The day I realized this, the morning of that day we chatted on Facebook and I can't find the chats. I went to her WhatsApp and discovered the same thing. In fact she set her Facebook in a way that if you tagged her on a post, nobody sees the post unless she approved it. I am just confused

I want to believe she doesn't trust you too. Think about it.

Bross we can help you hack her Facebook account if you want oooo. Free of charge. You’ll be in charge of her Facebook.

stormborn28:
i hate this stupid advice you deceivers normally give... Does it mean God doesn't monitor the devil? I feel like slapping you right now

I never see comment way make me laugh like this

U already know

purples25:
Why must you actively DIG to find what she is doing? You didn't see anything on her phone. You are complaining. Why do you seek to satisfy yourself with evidence that she is cheating, she is evil. I know you will search heaven and earth until you find something to satisfy your claims. I don't know why you want to catch someone else so bad. Maybe you just want to be the victim in the relationship, while you really NEED her to be the bad guy in your life. You WANT and NEED to be the ANGEL in your relationship. Nonsense.

here comes her lawyer

She don land.

purples25:


Marriage is in the balance here. Do you think a couple that distrusts each other to the point of always snooping into the other's phone should be together? If there is trust, if things are well, shouldn't he have peace of mind? Its obvious he doesn't trust her, and he can never trust her. If they marry, is this how he will live with high bp, checking the phone for twenty and more years?

It will also make her unhappy that he does not trust her. Its better to leave if he cannot have that confidence in her, without running to check the phone.

nonsense

if it was a lady that checked her guys phone, and saw shit, u will defend her and condemn the guy

Reverse is the case now, u are condemning the guy for checking her phone

Hypocrisy kill you