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wilsonchilboy:
My brother once a hoe is always a hoe.. lemme nt lie 2 u o, me i dnt believe in love covering multitude of sin, i can 4gv but i no the 4get shii cus as time goes on it wil flash back anytime she misbehave. Trust me if i am in ur shoes i wont marry a lady who lie asf... I am nt saying i'm perfect but i alway thnk of 2maro b4 taking any action.. I put it to you that after ur wedding she wil tel u tnz that u wil jst kuku die so i wil advice u 2 discharg her nw b4 lawyers start eating ur hard earned money as filing fee and appearance fee for ur divorce matter ... God save us frm all dis hoeloshos distracting my fellow men

Ygrette:
I beg to disagree. Nothing in this life is perfect, so is love. If a woman finds a good man who loves her.. that's all she needs. A good man who loves you will treat you right and will never cheat on you. He would place your needs above his. Loving him back is just a plus, not all that's required. If a woman is wise, she would respect that man with her life and learn to love him too. If she's waiting to find someone to love and who loves her in return, she may wait forever.

Even as you grow older, chances are that your priorities will change cos maturity will set in. By now you're thinking of having a responsible man who's financially stable cos love don't put food on the table. You're thinking about your kids (even though unborn) and how you want them to have a good life. You'd realise that getting a man with marriageable qualities is more important than your feelings.

If you have a man who loves you to the moon.
A man who would have done anything for you.
A proactive go-getter who sees nothing as a problem or challenge.
A man who's ambitious, hardworking and honest, with the highest standards of integrity.
A man who gives you open access to his phone and declared since you met that you were his wife...pls which kind of "loving him back'' are you looking for again.

If a woman is privileged to find this kind of rare specie of a man, she had better husband him. Respect him and love his family and most importantly, learn to love him.

frankyychiji:
But there is no problem when a wife discovers her husband has been telling his mistress all the sweet jargon he tells his wife? Some even gifts the mistress same clothes they bought for wives!

properties4sale:
19 years for PH. Interested? Let me know.

WoundedLamb:
Men are being more dramatic these days. Morning, afternoon and night, it's women related threads all the time. Women are now watching and ignoring (something men should be doing).

2buffagain:
Brothers, I think you dedicate too much time and energy to this victimhood mindset.

Leave all this complaining to the weaker sex.

Honestly, a woman at 25+ is even more marriageable because she has had a chance to get to know herself a little.
There is nothing that guarantees that the clueless 21 year old you claim is best will not still experiment.

Everybody has a ho phase, men included. Let them enjoy theirs, you enjoy yours.

At the end of the day, we will all choose the best partner for ourselves.
That can be a clueless 21 year old or a seasoned 25+ woman who by that point SHOULD have a lot more to bring to the table.
If she does not, then you know she is useless and should only be used for fawks.

At 21, you can't really know what she will be. She hasn't yet discovered herself.
The risk is higher.

NtiObaEneke:
Yes he did. Let the OP let us know where and when he installed a speedometer in our vaginas to measure the mileage and came up with 2000.

efeteb:
I can see you only read what I wrote to reply me, not to understand what I said.

Zzor:
most of the rape accusations are true,some just lack evidence

madone:
u bother cos u are naive,unexposed and still living in a milky cloud world. if that statement unsettles u then u have a lot u have not seen. i like intelligent quote not trash talks . there are ladies and guys who are virgins. they have done all sex practice except penetration. the helm have not been broken so u call them virgin... there are many of them living among us while there are kids who loose their virginity just few months after birth as a result of some Randy stupid people that God will punish for ever.

so oga placing virgin as a standard for good character, stable relationship is absurd and unbalanced. and a total insult to every sane living person..... from every indicatoon i are not a virgin cos true virgins don't brag about virginity. you are just one bad guy hoping to find a virgin to marry ...

madone:
it wont make sense to u. keep reading it over and over till u get the sense out of it. next time if u don't know what to say don't ever quote me.

LagBae:
There are also men that have taken women for granted, but I don't see men bashed to this extent on nairaland, not that I want to anyway.

LagBae:
Ladies don suffer for this nairaland romance section. It is well.

Walk:
Haha. Some were raped and some gave in willing. Then again, you don't ask for what you don't have, unless you can offer higher but never less.

Walk:
Some were forced. Raped. So?

madone:
i don't like typing but all this ur points are trash my guy. i have virgins as friends who are doing shits the o my problem is that a dick has not enter their vg. don't forget every one was once a virgin. even you . but we all loose our loyalty at one time or the other wy we no bond spiritually with the people we got disvirgin with. any one can be a role model to his or her children virgin or no virgin oga go and sit down with ur idle mind thoughts and ideas e not dey work for the society we dey now.


for my guys and baes out there find a good person u like and marry build ur life and forget all this virgin shits . i do match making i i know what am talking about. u want to be meet a serious people to date quote me and i give u my contact.