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Today is my wedding anniversary. I got married in 2010. I actually don't know if my marriage is a curse or there are other forces affecting my life.

I went into my marriage with 6 trucks and they were all working within southwest. All the trucks are gone!

I am a 37year old man from Enugu state. I got married at the age of 31 to a beautiful lady from Edo state.

I started my logistic company when I left my salary job in 2007. I started with 3 trucks and I was able to grow and acquired 3 more trucks before 2010.

I met my wife when she was serving in Enugu. I visited my parent in enugu that very year. We got talking and one thing led to the other. She got pregnant towards the end of her service year and moved in with me immediately after her service.

We had our traditional wedding, though her mum (father is late) wasn't at the wedding. She didn't inform her, she said she doesn't have a relationship with her and that they are not in talking terms. Though her aunt (her mum sister) was actively involved and present. She made up with her mum years later and they are both fine now.

I lost my 6 trucks in 3years with debts that I had to settle by selling my uncompleted buildings in Enugu and Lagos. I have not paid some debts till now. Note that I acquired those properties before my wedding.

I lost 2 trucks in 2010 December, lost 1 in 2011, then lost remaining 3 trucks to accident in 2013.

It usually happened whenever we quarreled and she got really angry. That very night, I would see myself being locked up by a man in a room with an iron gate in my dream. The next trip for any of my trucks would be an accident or there would be a major problem on the road.

I was out of business in 2014 to mid 2015 when I decided to travel out of Nigeria for some hustling. I told my wife about my plan but she said she is sure my plan is to marry another woman when I get to Europe. I made some promises to her before I left.
On getting to the airport in holland, I was put into the next flight to Lagos from Schipol airport in Holland.

I became very broke after the failed trip and I had to open up to friends and family who still thought I was a big man. I was able to secure a 35k salary job through a friend. My wife came to my place of work, told my boss that I beat her. She lied! (I have never done that before and I didn't do it). I lost the job.

In all this, I have always struggled to pay our rent, we pay our son school fee together while she handles 75% of food stuff in the house. She works and earns around 65k. She has been supportive.

I have prayed and she has prayed too, but nothing has changed in my finance. It is getting worse everyday. One night, I prayed and begged God to reveal to me the source of my problem, I had a dream that night. In the dream, my wife told me she is married to the prince of their kingdom and that the prince is always with us sometimes on the bed when we are sleeping. She said his boys are the one I always see fighting me in my dreams. My wife told me all this in my dream. I am scared of discussing this dream with my wife because she is a prayerful woman and it will sound like I am saying she is the cause of my problem. I am confused.

I also consulted a pastor, the pastor said witches are seriously dealing with me. He also said my wife has a spiritual husband that is very powerful. He warned me never to discuss any of my plans with my wife again. That I should always tell her after the execution of such plans (plans that has to do with my business). I find it strange and hard to believe, what is the essence of having a wife if we can have 100% openness. I continue to discuss my business plans with wifey and they are always failing. Sometimes I will be too happy to hide it from her. (Lol)

We have a small car that is strictly for taking my son to school. My rent expired in May and there is no hope of money for me. Landlord is already on me. If I sell this last only car to pay this rent, what are we going to sell to pay the next rent? I think maybe we should separate for a while and when things change for better again, we can come together. I have not discussed this with my wife. Is this a right step? Her mum and her mum sis (they are both widows) has a big house here in Lagos, she can move to the house while I get a driving job with an accommodation package. This way, I can support and pay my son's school fee.

Please people advice me.

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Dis girl no sabi something oooo. She na fine girl wey no get money , everytime
she go dey ask for subscription money be big girl? At least d boy dey leave for rented house and owns a car. Make the big girl get her own apartment and pay her bills by herself before she go dey answer big girl. Mscheweeee
Yoruba say Oshi oda alakowe

Good day house, please anyone with any job info for me. I am an engineer mechanical Engr to be precise. Please after I lost my job almost a year now ,I have not got another. Please help so that I can help support my family. I can be contacted at solomoneke2012@yahoo.com

Sir
I have attached and sent my cv.
Please have u received it.

The man is confused. How can u divorce. Her thirty years ago and she left with stephene when she was small and still stephene is twenty something years. The man is a mirage

Really girls do not know what they want. What if he earns 200,000 naira and Marry and after the marriage he losses his job. Girls atimes act like dafts. Are u marrying his job or his person. What are bringing to the table. The same way u went to university and later search for jobs is the same for him why
African ladies say marriage as financial relief. You people should be careful and act right. I rest my case.

Bleep Nigerian Managers
They are the worst managers in the world. It is betther u have a non Blackman as a manager than a Blackman. Nigerians are are known with nepotism, Tribalism, Greed, and Wickednes.
Imagine bakerhughes Incorporated was rubished in Nigeria because of One Ayo Sote who used to be the Country Manager.
He diverted all workers emolument to himself and gave only his yoruba people juicy position. Alas he thought the whites are fools he was later sacked.
He connived with his brother Tayo to Kill Union.

Yorubas are the greatest Ethnist in Nigeriia work force they only want their families and brothers to grow in the work force denying others of promotion and Trainning.
Bleep Him for having being demoted , Weatherford plase dont let them rubbish you like they did to BAKERHUGHES. slumberger and others.
Afonjas stay clear of Oyibo companies and lokk inward to develop your own comnpany

ajimuby:
some people and can lie/discourage/say nonsense in africa......if you know people even if you don't buh your result is good you can lecture.....dre are plenty hnd holders lecturing in kadpoly don't mind dose discouraging / saying rubbish

Bros Kaduna Poly is not a university.
Please don't embrace and spread Ignorance
Be careful

bymigokeph:
Go to Uniport and do post HND ( a one year conversion course) in management, then do ur M. SC. That is the fastest way you can be a lecturer with HND in Nigeria

Bros another sweet One
Uniport Post HND IS 3 YEARS
Now have u being able to verify if a degree from Uniport post HND is registrable
Well that is a discussion for another day
You can make yourself available when i lunch my progarmme
EDUCATION MADE EASY

There are some rules to succes
These includes, Ask, Inquire and Use( AIU)
Just be in touch for Academic seminar in Port- Harcourt

fados4sure:
There is definitely room for upgrade cos am in Germany right now upgrading

I started with HND + MSC

Bros if ure ugrading try and come back with a degree.
Do you Know that many Universities in Eastern Europe with an Engineering degree there you can not be registered to be a member of Nigeria sociiety of Engineers.
They are many time downgraded for more enquiries visit Nigeria society of engineers membership requirements.
So don go and flood your cupboard with degrees not registrable in Nigerai and please advise other Nigerian you meet in Europe.
All these i have said is chrismass gift to all Nairalanders.
Seeking the right know is shortest cut to fighting financia feedom.
soonest i shall lunch my web
[b]EDUCATION MADE EASY

Carmal90:
Sir which federal university of Technology?
And what is d fees then? Where u admitted to 300 level?
Thanks

Federal University of Technology Owerri
Got admitted to 300 level after rigoriouse aptitude test
I was the only one offered admission then
so thread carefully with HND in accademia

fados4sure:
I use HND to get MSC in Cyprus & am currently lecturing in Nigeria now

Age is not a barrier what matter is finance & dedication

Bros In Nigeria there are universities overseas that are graded
most especially in Eastern part of Europe
I tell u Bros Most Universities especially Federal University wont lecturing with HND+MSC from Cyprus university.
I guess you re lecturing in a private University.
Like i am reterating in my ealier opinion, the minimum entry requirement in a university is a degree not a post grduate degree. so make the haste while the sun shines.
My candid opinion
I rest my case

Hear it goes bros
Well i was a victim of this catastophic system of discrimination in Nigeria before i decided to go for my B-Eng through D.E.
I Had Hnd as at the time i was 23 and having completed my NYSC at the the said time , I applied for a job in a bank and got invited for a test and i did extremely well in the test and was invited for interview. When i got to the interview room, the HR came in immediately asked if they had any HND here i raised up my hands. Even some 2-2 made it to interview but to my surprise i was asked to leave the hall despite having graduated with HND Upper credit.
I felt disappointed that same year applied for a direct entry and after 3 years of Hard word i graduated with 2-1 at the prestigiouse Federal University of technology.
Now bros let me let the point it out.
The minimum entry requirement in a university as a lecturer is Degree so HND is never a degree and will never be an equivalent to a degree in as much as this country is concerned.
Bros toe the the right track and go for a degree then a masters if you are keen about working in academia.
HND+PGD+MSC= SCRAB IN ACCADEMICS IN THE UNIVERSITY.
NOTE THIS.
Google university criteria and see for your self.
Again Online degree+Online Masters in Nigeria = Scrab in Nigeria university
please be warned

Hello
The most important thing in finding the right partner is having to see it as one thing that come from God.
My name is Solomon, i would like to have your contact details so that we both take it from there.
We can further discuss to know what we want for our selves.
I can be reached at 08068529043.
God willing it shall work foe both of us.

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I REST MY CASE

This is clearly an indication of a failed System, where workers are treated with disdain and obscurity. I want to vividly state that the near collapse of the Nigeria state is an affront and an indication of the comatose and destructive tendencies of Nigeria employers of labour. There is no more dignity in labour as said before now. Why wont an employ steal when he know his fate is lying in oblivion para venture his employment is terminated.
All these vulavoo in Nigeria work ethics is as a result of the gross misconduct in our labour relations where Politicians at the helm of affair seek for oil licences under the disguise of foreign technical partners at the end , they turn semi-gods among their followers and politically install their stooge as labour leaders. In these all the vision of MICHAEL IMOUDU of blessed memory is made caricature of the century.

I rest my case.

Eke ( In God i trust)