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Two Wrong does not make a right.
A scammer is a scammer, In respective of who you scammed.
This is the bitter truth, next time just preach to them, wether they change or not is left for God and their consequencs his choice.

Black Substance is found in the intestines

A case of this magnitude and a hospital as big as LASUTH don't have enough equipment to test and
determine what the substance they discovered is,

The doctor in question having acknowledged that the substance could be anything (poison, engine oil etc) and he still went ahead to conclude the cause of death, then in my own opinion
I feel envelope has changed hands.

If he didn't make impact as a state governor with all the state resources,he has no business asking for more responsibility.
If we rate the 36 governors am sure yahya bello won't come among the top ten performing governors.

GeneralOjukwu:
15 - Sunday Oliseh
5 - Uche Okechukwu
7 - George Finidi
4 - Keshi Stephen
Squatting
9- Rashidi Yekini
3 - Ben Iroha
14- Daniel Amokachi
10 - Austin J.J Okocha
13 - Sam Siasia

Of course Keeper = Rufai aka dodo mañana.

Thanks

GeneralOjukwu:


Africans and fear of juju.

I remember when we met Cote D'Ivoire in Semi-Finals of Tunisia '94 Nations Cup.

Extra time and penalty shoot-out.

People accused Alain Gouamene the CIV keeper of breaking an egg around the goalposts.

They said it was rainfall before the match that saved us.

Pls can you name the players on the picture?, I can only recognize Okocha(10), uche okechukw(5), Daniel amoakachi and Sunday oliseh

ggood:
Anything to stop Tinubu is welcome, The frog eye drug Baron can never rule Nigeria.

I am not a fan of tinubu,neither do I want him as a contestant in the forth coming election.
But he is a father, grand father, an elder, an ex elected leader, at least our culture teaches us to respect our elders.
Please let's learn to pass our message without insult, calling someone father a frog eye is not a good habit.
How we talk especially in private/faceless forum is the Expression of who we are(mannerless,polite, arrogant etc).
A literate is not only those who knows how to read and write bt also an individual who has allowed school to pass through him/her which he expresses in how he assimilate,talk,act and react to situations and circumstances.
This message is to all those who cannot make a point, pass a message across, make a sensible argument or disagree with your opinion without insults especially insults to those old enough to father them.

"what is" Is the answer.

No fight will happen, they will change it to stage contest and freestyle after catching cruise with fans. It's part of a planned publicity stunt.

Offpointng:
Lol ours prophesied good things like lotta folks getting married, new cars and youth flying abroad but what spoil my mood is the one of lotta uniform folks dying. I hate it when I hear military folks died or dying

I Guess u are in Abuja, Am I right?

I can't stop smiling; you are technically correct in the analysis based on what we read everyday on nairaland.
Fact is that the deed is not gender based, it's individual differences.

Nairalnder's ...Am just curious why no one is talking about the daughters entrepreneurship skill and her ability to carve out a niche for herself instead of focusing on her cleavage.
We need to redirect our focus and prioritize what is more important.

blackpanthar:
THIS GENERATION ARE SO MYOPIC.... because they didnt read the right books and learn the UNFAIR LAWS of LIFE and RULES OF ENGAGEMENT.

BRO, learn this ONCE AND FOR ALL.... your FRIEND IS ABSOLUTELY RIGHT... how you feel does not MATTER and WILL NEVER MATTER IN LIFE if you ever want to succeed.

NO BODY OWES YOU ANYTHING..... NO ONE.... I repeat... NO ONE.

the arrogant FEELING OF ENTITLEMENT is what has made people offended instead of challenged.

Our youths these days can not be CORRECTED without claiming it is TOXIC or WICKED.... see bro, it is time to GROW UP.

now let me help you with 5cents of balanced insight... so you stop seeing things from your emotional lenses

YOUR FRIEND HAS ONLY HEARD BADLUCK AND BADNEWS about your life from you..... NO WONDER HE WON'T HELP YOU... your BIG MOUTH CLOSED THAT DOOR ALREADY.

LEARN IT TODAY.... TELLING PEOPLE ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS IS NOT HELPFUL MOST TIMES BECAUSE 90% OF THE PEOPLE ARE HAPPY YOU HAVE THE PROBLEMS AND WILL SPREAD IT TO OTHERS.... 95% of the people CAN NOT HELP YOU.... AND the few ones that are really concerned and can help will have helped you before you ASK.... If your friend waited for you to ask... THAT IS NOT A CLOSE FRIEND. Be warned.

Now, let me speak from your friend's point of view... HE IS DOING A BUSINESS and HE IS SURVIVING, MAYBE NOT THRIVING, EVEN IF HE IS THRIVING.... then he sees another friend who is always complaining of setbacks, roadblocks and badluck often coming to want to JOIN HIS LINE OF BUSINESS.... and be his COMPETITOR....
HE WILL SEE YOU AS A THREAT NA ...He will also feel you will reduce his progress or may secretly feel you will do better than him.. SO HE WOULD NOT HELP.

HE HAS A LOT TO PROTECT.

We must be very careful in this life, to know how people see us before we trust them with anything... EVEN JESUS HAD TO KNOW HOW HIS DISCIPLES AND OUTSIDERS SAW HIM.... this is another sacred law of life.

YOU MAY THINK HE IS YOUR FRIEND, AND HE MAY LOOK AT YOU AS AN UNFORTUNATE ACQUAINTANCE.
Lastly, YOU SOUND DESPERATE... to even go further to reach him on whatsapp is desperation and that fake friendship will end this month.

Thank God for teaching you BITTER LESSONS that will make your life sweet.

NOW HERE ARE MY LITTLE SUGGESTIONS FOR SOLUTION

1) Disappear for 6 months or more(IF YOU CAN O) and create a NEW LIFE time table for yourself
2) get books on practical businesses, join whatsapp groups for free teachings- learn something you can start with no or little money
3)IF YOU ARE 101% SURE THAT YOU MUST START THE BIZ WITH MONEY... get 5-7 loan apps and borrow a sum of 100k from them(this should be a last resort else you life will go down) you can check nairaland for business ideas to do with little or no money, or just look around your area and FIND what is LACKING AND MEET THAT NEED.
4) START.. LAUNCH THE BUSINESS AND START MAKING INCOME like you calculated in your planning phase.
5) Don't buy luxury or even so much basic needs till you pay back the LOAN, so you can have peace.
6) before doing all these steps, FORGIVE YOUR FRIEND but NEVER EVER IN YOUR LIFE FORGET THE BITTER LESSON THEY TAUGHT YOU.
7) USE THE PROFIT FROM THIS FIRST BUSINESS TO MAKE THE BUSINESS VERY STRONG-get lawyers, accountants, assets like land,etc
GIVE BACK TO THE SOCIETY BY FINDING SOMEONE WHO IS WHERE YOUR LIFE WAS IN THE PAST MONTHS, THEN UNLIKE YOUR FRIEND, REACH OUT AND HELP THE PERSON OR PERSONS TO RISE.... But be wise because PEOPLE ASKING FOR HELP DON'T HAVE LIMIT O... so know your giving limit.

HE IS NOT A GLORY HUNTER.... infact he is trying to protect his little success from hawks and hyenas... He is doing it the wrong way.
YOUR GLORY IS INTACT BOSS, ONLY WOMEN CAN STEAL YOUR GLORY through sinful sex.... OR FETISH MEN CAN REMOVE YOUR STAR by taking something from you to a jazz man... but that is spiritual level, ask your alfa or pastor to explain.


I WISH YOU WELL BOSS... you will rise

You did well in your advice and suggestions but I will differ on the idea of him borrowing from loan app to start a new business, that is a suicide mission.

The best option for him is to try modern apprenticeship ( affiliate marketing). Sell for someone.

The kind of comments I am reading here is making me question my sanity.

Where is the love? How can a single individual be so deceitful and fraudulent?.it is fraudulent marriage because the very sole reason it's supposed to be built upon(love) is obviously missing.

Maybe op was busy looking at big bumbum and fine face and refused to check character and her brain capacity, so he should enjoy the manifestation of his choice in peace.

@ OP, Own up to your actions, he who find a good wife....e get why this phrase is in the Bible.
Out of all the millions of women available on this planet, you picked a stingy one, maybe that's fate, but I called it bad choice.

BKayy:
Giving few people scholarships is good, no doubt but that isn't a feat.

Ebonyi is still listed as Education less developed state in Nigeria.

So, if I may ask, what exactly did Sam Egwu do?
List some if you don't mind.

He gave Ebonyians free Education.Have I answered your question now?

BKayy:
Umahi is the first real Governor of Ebonyi state.
Please don't hype those mediocres

Ebonyi came to limelight during the tenure of Dr. Sam, I can remember some of my friends then that got free state scholarship to study abroad, I think he deserve credit especially in terms of Education no other governor has come close including the incumbent.I have many enlighten Ebonyians as colleague

Ebonyi state is not doing bad interms of development in my opinion.
I think Ebonyian has been lucky in terms of leadership from Dr sam egwu(Education), to Martin Elechi( empowerment and Engr.Dave umahi( infrastructure).
The positive trend is that each government trys to continue from previous administration effort instead of abandoning it.

ndidibabe:
Pls what's the name of this school?

You passed through the umbrella of Pro unitate too?
FGC...

izzy4shizzy:
FGC Vandeikyaa

Which year was that?

izzy4shizzy:
Bullying occurs in almost all boarding houses that's a fact.

During my days , a senior will walk in with an empty bucket and ask us junior students to "garnish it" meaning put garri, sugar, milk, bournvita, kuli kuli etc, para venture we don't have, na serious beating

Not to talk of pocket money those miscreants collect from us on a daily basis.

Fetching water for senior students na the worst, them go give you like 10 buckets

I have seen first hand where an ss3 student used a machete (Langa Langa) to flog a student putting on just boxers .

After my JSS3 nobody tell me before I carry my two legs jakpa never to return again

This has a trademark of FGC..... My alma mater.

Chiden:
My mum never fought for me. No one ever did, I was always a victim. It kinda made schooling difficult for me.. but it made me stay out of trouble. Always minding my business, people could step on my toes and walk away. I'll still tell you sorry and cry...

Sometimes when I tell my mum she'd blame me for being there at the point I was bullied.. so I'd always conceal. No one cared that much..

So sad, I can relate

A friend once said
1. " when I give birth, I will teach my children to know that their teachers and fellow student don't have the right to punish nor beat them in the name of discipline"
2. "If a teacher asked you to kneel down,say no and put a call to me, I will gladly come and pick you up and change you from that school" this are lines he will remind them every morning before dropping them off in school.
3."if your fellow student/pupil hit you or offend you, don't fight back, daddy has enough money to get the student/pupil arrested and punished legally".
4." Don't let anybody make you do what you don't want to do, know your right and stand by it, I am your father, I will tell you what is right and wrong, anything else don't pay attention to it. Remember this, don't ever let anybody intimidate you, I will stand by you and defend you".
5."I have laboured to make sure you enjoy the good things of life, your responsibility is to enjoy it don't let anybody tell you otherwise, suffering is not an option for you".

We argued about this until I gave up as he insisted that is how he wants to raise his kids.

His reason was because he was bullied, molested and his parents never stood by him or believed him when he complains that he don't want his children to feel what he felt.

This Dowen story is making me understand the guy better now.

ItsGoodToBeGood:
They should be dealt with accordingly without fear or favour

In Life you cannot control or determine what should happen to you but you have control of how you will react to what happened to you.

The school management should have done a thorough investigation without favour before releasing that official statement, because as it stands now, if at the end it was discovered that the boy died as a result of bullying and not injury sustained during football game then the school mgt are an accomplice.

domesifa:
https://punchng.com/breaking-sylvester-oromoni-lagos-orders-indefinite-closure-of-dowen-college/?amp

Reactive Government, though the decision of the State government is highly commendable, this is to ensure proper investigation but I think it would have been more fruitful if the decision/action of the government is channel towards preventive and proactive measure like mandating all school proprietors, principals etc to sign undertaking that if any related issues like bullying, cultism etc are found to be existing within their jurisdiction they will pay a fine and the school close down. This will make the school management to sit up.

Those who are conversant with boarding school environment knows that it's either the school is ignorant of the activities going on at the hostel or they are deliberately and consciously shielding the culprit.

The problem now is that this is not a secluded issue, it's happening in most day and boarding secondary schools but as usual we do prefer to live in denial.

Let other schools authority be proactive, take a lesson from this incident and put a preventive measure not when it happens they will start releasing counter productive statement to save face, now is the best time.

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In my opinion, the boy was told by the bullies what to say, it is possible the incident happened during football exercise, if you are conversant with boarding school environment you will know the confrontation might have Happened while they are using the football game to disguise.

Secondly the boy out of fear because of intimidation won't tell the parents what transpired. The only person that can unravel the truth is the elder brother. Elder brothers especially the ones that attended boarding school can easily get the truth out of the boy.

The school authority should know activities like this one often take place among boarding student and highly confidential, the the only way they can get the truth is not by questioning the boys mentioned but by introducing an insider to blend among and become the ear of the school authority in the hostel.

Bullying in hostels are under reported, usually it's a clique but due to rot in the society they are now bold enough to present themselves as cultist just to create more fear and respect.

The school has work to do and it's applicable to all boarding house in the country.

Mercychen:
I really understand what you are getting at cos I initially told my sis to just go there and place a judgement on her and leave but after a while, when I remembered the whole scenario, my head just sparked because what if it was his nose or forehead that hit the table or worst still, what if he had died? Hm.. I just cant take it anymore.

This is not the first time. The boy still has a dark mark on his neck from the flogging she gave him. Now this. Each time I remember it, my heart just goes out to this boy because hes my twins son. He's just like my own son.

You won't understand.

My dear, I feel your pain, things are happening and frustrated individual are on the rise, but in all these, love conquers all.
Let her go and hear her out first I believe her conscience will be better positioned on the next action to take.

Sometimes we ought to let go and call it Mercy.

What the teacher did was wrong, But I do suggest the mother go to the school and have a chat with the teacher, thereby letting him know the implication of his action if she should take it up legally.

The outcome of the visit will determine her next line of action.
If the teacher is remorseful enough I think he deserve a chance to redeem himself, his action might not really be his personality especially where they have been no record of such or similar scenario before this incident.

Getting the teacher sacked, imprisoned and made to pay for dentist bill to serve as deterrent for others sometimes has adverse effects of producing carefree teachers and dull pupils.

Mercy in this scenario get the message passed with better results for all parties involved.
Let your aunt call it Mercy ( that is Incase the teacher show remorse and own up to his actions when she confronts him else legal action is justified)

Pull the child and enroll her in a lesson centre, this is to keep her busy and also use the opportunity to be preparing for next year Jamb

The Nigeria University curriculum is actually design to favor people in her situation.
For the fact she is a fast learner is enough reason to pull her out of the school and save that money for more important stuff.

Everything they will teach her in SS3 will be repeated during her 100level. This is to ensure that those who missed out get equiped before the main courses will be introduced.

Let her start preparing for Jamb now, by preparing and testing her self with past question.

If you still want to spend the money,use it to pick Prescience or remedial form for her.

This is my own opinion and to the best of my knowledge,the best decision you can take for her.