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WoundedLamb:
Was he cheating or not?

Meanwhile, see them above always quick to justify any shit from men. Imagine if the woman was the one jetting around with her ex here. It would have been "women! They can never be trusted". Sense of objectivity has been eroded by sexism.

You don't get the point, From the write up, you can deduce that ''Bill'' draws inspiration from that lady, though he loves his wife but the ideas, motivation and feeling of sharing your dreams with someone of ''like-minded'' can never be traded for anything.

Do they indulge in adultery? The write up didn't state that, so it's wrong to assume they did.

The wife is aware of this friendship, she is ok with it, The said lady was part of his greatness.

I hate it when people throw away years of friendship because they want to please a very insecure fellow.

For me the code is simple; respect and honor your wife and the holy matrimony but don't trade your friends for anything.

The heart of men is desperately wicked, Such young life has been wasted, The days are evil, monsters moving around in human form. May She find peace in the afterlife.

If your stool(poo) is hard, or comes out in balls, then it's a sign you are having a chronic constipation,
1. Take more water
2. It can lead to pile(haemorrhoid) with time if not given attention (treatment).
3. change your diet and take more fruit

A stitch in time saves Nine; get immediate medical attention.

PINLAYlove:
Please can anyone help me confirm the authenticity of this interview invitation. Help a brother abeg

Questions you have to ask yourself after receiving a Job invitation:
1. Did I apply for this job?
2. Does the company have a physical address.

If any of your answer to the above question is NO, brother kindly delete the message or ignore it, two likely scenario are:

1. They are GNLD, Networking, hawkers etc
2. Fraudsters, kidnappers, ritualist,organ harvesters or human traffickers

Don't honor a job invite, you didn't apply.

ComradeOJ:
The world is my stage and I've played deligently so far.
Though our hearts are ladened and grieved due to what the nation has caused and is still causing us, we need to appreciate Heaven for having a rare privilege to celebrate birthdays in a country where we wake up every day to tales and reports of killing and unimaginable atrocities.
Since birthdays comes once a year, i hope to be of great courage, display a noble and fierce expression of reign in the years to come.
Am surely in love with the feeling of this new age already.
Since i wish everyone 1000 years of meritorious and blissful living on their birthdays, i wish to take this time out to wish myself a very special day filled with joy and happiness, and 1000 years of meritorious and blissful living.
What God has started, He'll surely bring to completion.
Happy Birthday from me to me...

Happy Birthday Enenche, longst time, it's bn 15years now, Nairaland would have been a better place with real names and photos.

[quote author=CHoccolaTE post=101179323][/quote]This was my thought, At the point the Op talked about the benefactor stuff, He could have sat her down & politely correct her, Tell her his expectations and why he was offended by her questions, apologize for snubbing her ( which he did) at this point he would have gained her Respect and submission.
Last-last, what is worth doing is worth doing well. It's your service to humanity,do it well else you will end up destroying the relationship the both families has built.

ChelseaArmy:
Sai Tinubu the PDP slayer!!!
the Jagaban of Africa!!!
the famous one!!!

ChelseaArmy, I'm wondering how you sleep at night, when you read news of killing and kidnapping, when you drive pass poor neighborhood that the inhabitants can't boost of ordinary food to eat, poor shelter and bad roads; in all these instead of thinking of correcting the mistake of the past, you want to consciously sell your future and that of your children by making a bad decision ( if not influenced by material gain). Your almighty jagaban didn't better the life of lagosian when he has the power, so he is not going to make life better for Nigerians if your likes succeed in imposing him on us. Say no to bad leaders, awake your conscience. I come in peace

He can still combine his talent with his calling to serve God

prinsam30:
I said it Ole is so clueless, how can u start defending on one goal, who does

Jose Mourinho would have done same thing too

Dear OP, After reading through your write up and the reply you gave to people's comment, I can unapologetically say you don't have any iota of integrity left in you. You are morally bankrupt. " No body holy pass" as you claim, means your in support of your boy friend defrauding people as a means of livelihood.
My advice to you is to seek for genuine repentance both of you. Start all over again in your business, work deligently and with all honesty. Build a home with him if he is willing to give up his evil ways and become a better person else dump him and move on. #MyOpinion.

OduntanGabriel:
I hope you didn’t die ���

He died, he is typing from the spirit world. Smh

Op I think your abnormality can be corrected with surgery, I think with the awareness you have created so far its easier for u to raise the fund if u seek to correct it.
Instead of seeking validation to be accepted, I do suggest u seek financial support to correct it and live your normal life.
My 2cent

anitabella:
They will send the sms to all his contacts... So your number was on his contact list which he will give them access to before he can apply for a loan... All the loan companies do this..

Thanks for the clarification, but hope I don't have any cause to be alarmed?

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Nairaland / General / Gocash And Fraud Alert by ekineme(m): 6:50pm
Please someone knowledgeable about this situation should help a brother.

I received a message from gocash, The message read" Good day, kindly inform ***** ***** on 0803****** that he has defaulted in his loan repayment to gocash as you been the guarantor, he is advise(....).

I have no knowledge about this transaction, the person in quote was my room mate during our NYSC days, we have not spoken for long before today.

I called the number and he picked and I asked him if he has knowledge about the transaction which he agreed but that he didn't use me as a guarantor.
I called the sender of the message, he said he is the manager of gocash and I query him why someone used me as a guarantor to obtain loan without my knowledge and consent, he was rude in his reply..he told me I should go and ask the person and drop the call.

Please my fellow nairalanders, should i seek legal help or I should go and block my accounts to avoid unauthorized debit( if it's possible).
Or it could it be a fraudsters??

Please MOD push to front page to gain maximum attention

Please someone knowledgeable about this situation should help a brother.

I received a message from GOCASH, The message read" Good day, kindly inform ***** ***** on 0803****** that he has defaulted in his loan repayment to GOCASH as you been the guarantor, he is advise(....).

I have no knowledge about this transaction, the person in quote was my room mate during our NYSC days, we have not spoken for long before today.

I called the number and he picked and I asked him if he has knowledge about the transaction which he agreed but that he didn't use me as a guarantor.
I called the sender of the message, he said he is the manager of GOCASH and I query him why someone used me as a guarantor to obtain loan without my knowledge and consent, he was rude in his reply..he told me I should go and ask the person and drop the call.

Please my fellow nairalanders, should i seek legal help or I should go and block my accounts to avoid unauthorized debit( if it's possible).
Or it could it be a fraudsters??

Please MOD push to front page to gain maximum attention.

1. The society has blindfolded people to an extend of not been able to see evil for what it is.
2. Stealing is bad, there is no justification that can make it right.

Back to the topic, OP if I am in your shoe, this is what I will do;
1. I will call her attention to all I have observed
2. I will tell her point black that she is a thief
3. I will remind her that there is no justification to her action
4. I will tell her everyone deserve a second chance, I have forgiven her, I won't tell my Bros abt it but will tell him to be more vigilante/ observant towards her.
5. I will tell her to talk to my Bros for an increment if her present salary is not sufficient to settle her basic needs.
6. I will make her write an undertaking, I will video her while she is writing it as part of my evidence.
7. I will tell her if she ever steal from my Bros again, I will use the evidences against her, she has an opportunity to correct her mess.
8. Thereafter, I will tell her to forget we ever had this encounter.

AlhajiNatty:
What's wrong in her killing the chicken bikonu?
Will the meat in the chicken reduce if not killed by a man. Ndi uwa enweghi mmeta.

Nwanne m ike gwuru mmadu

I don't understand the OP, I have watched the fight and the biafran Guy won. Pls stop misleading the public just because you want to instigate Tribal e-war, I don't understand the reason why yorubas and Igbos keep bashing themselves on nairaland, And people like this OP keep instigating and fueling the fight.

Op, How much is he( your husband)
budgeting for the barbing saloon business(Rent,equipments etc). You can ignite his spirit by having the conversation with him. Help him get a feasible plan, then let the problem shift to financing, your post would have make more sense if you had used it to solicit for assistance, i.e in a scenario where he already have a plan.

Just reading the comments and am forced to comment; what has happened to being our brothers keeper?, This girl is lost and need proper guidance, if everybody keep minding their business then we ar all doomed, sometimes as an elder ur faced with d responsibility of not only raising ur biological children but to join in the collective effort to make the society a better place.
Please OP ur in a position to talk to the girl, please talk to her as father, forget abt all this crabs n bullshit blablabla ...private life hoax the devil is trying to sell to the society. Caution her if need be and she will be gr8tful u did if not now at least latter.
And ur conscience will be at peace. Shalom

Amanee:
Everything abeg


From the forceful religion to the heavy discipline to maiming of dreams to the ignorance...

I keep praying that I never raise my child the way I was raised

Amanee which religion are u into? Just curious

bukatyne:
Instead of telling your husband to stop 'spending on his family', point him to projects he can spend money on.

E.g. 'My friend said there is one cheap land at Igbo Tutu' or 'how I wish we had our house, we wouldn't be bothered about Baba Mulika asking for rent every year' or 'there is one mutual funds that the entry is N200k and you get 15% returns per year. We can be paying Junior's fees from the interest'. You can also bring up investment for your kids etc.

You know what works with your husband so explore that. Also appreciate him for what he does so far.

@buying your land: I am not a fan of spouses buying stuffs behind each other so I will say deposit the money in mutual benefit/Chapel Hill/Piggybank for now while you try to make him see reason. I particularly don't like the fact you want only your name on the land; recipe for disaster as your husband is not hiding his own funds; he is just not spending it wisely.

You should also understand where your husband is coming from: in some cultures, the 'worth' of the first son/husband of the first daughter is their ability to fund everyone's lifestyle without complaint while their own immediate family suffers.

It is a recurring theme so you re-orientate him in love and harmony to see that his family can and will survive without his handouts.

Also note that if he goes 360 and stops funding his siblings, it can cause problems for you'all.

I don't know how old you are; but these are words of Wisdom.
Words of elders the Igbo's say they are words of wisdom; Op, kindly adhere to these advise and you will experience happiness,peace and prosperity in your marriage. Your husband has a kind heart but he needs wisdom of som1 like bukatyne to bring out the best in him.

iCauseTrouble:
I swear. Some questions are not even worth asking. It shows stupidity.
It will take him over 4 years to make 5m. Then you have 5m once in lump sum and you ate still asking for people's opinion.
To even get a secured federal government job in a good agency, you don't need more than 1m

Guy if you know a sure link to any govt Job kindly msg me, I need one for my cousin.Thanks

Nazgul:
A state where a state civil servant earns as low as 20k per month and has a family to cater for, of what use is a vocational center to him?

if not of Agriculture, most Ebonyi indigens would have long died of hunger. Dave should build structures that would be affordable to the average Ebonyi man and not for show off to social media.

You can't satisfy everybody; Letz appreciate the little he is doing before asking for more.
The Governor is focused on infrastructural development which for me he has performed very well, let the next governor focus on human capital

I saw this post late but I will still drop my comment; I took my time to read your post am I have really learnt alot, I think I v 80% of the attributes of your husband except the beating and unappreciative tendencies.

I think the solution is for you to take a stand, Don't apologize and tell him since he has failed to appreciate ur little effort you can't kill yourself, tell him you will cease to put effort.
Bliv me he will wish for ur old self.
Make sure you don't carry out the threat once u v noticed a change.
He will change

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donbachi:
Why dont u say same to that carpenter's daughter in ur village...gold digger

Please respect people occupation; What ever put food on the table and its legal should never be categorized as either been meant for the Rich or Poor.

Absolute Rubbish, Nigerian govt officials are good at copying other countries policy, How Good is our mobile banking platform?,Issues regarding transaction failures takes time to resolve, while delay in alert notifications to d receivers also delays transaction, some time it takes days before the money reflects on the acct.,Several Fraud cases on internet banking platform and many more challenges the government should focus on curbing , instead they are rushing to implement foolish policy that is of no benefit to d common man.
We are not ready for the cashless society.