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The highly esteemed multiple award winning Gospel star, Osinachi Kalu Egbu who is known for stage name SINACH, celebrated her birthday in Grand style with notable dignitaries in attendance. Dele momodu, Fela Durotoye, Frank Edward, Ada Ehi Moses, Sammie Okposio, Mercy Johnson Okojie, etc.

Amotolongbo:
na by number of members?

Even Satan has many members.
You are perishing with your pastor for the lack of knowledge

Amen!

Amotolongbo:
Oyakhilome lacks knowledge

Hosea 4:6

But the real issue here is that the church members will be the ones to be levied and pay this fine through tithe and offering.

Just like the final consumers bear the burden of the increase in the cost of production

he doesn't have knowledge but am one of his numerous members, what of you that have?

Foxmovies

pozehnani:
Lag.

it's four to five hours o from Delta

pozehnani:
Ok. I challenge you to cook and send it through waybill.
I'll be waiting o.

where are you then

Daum:
Tah you lie
Edo people can make Banga soup also.
The real soup for Urhobo is Owo and Starch.

sir, please be calming down ok.

Travel, look for Banga soup to buy. And notice the seller by tribe then come back again.

pozehnani:
Oh.. as their THEIR special? Ok.
Do Hausas have food?



O yeah? I'll still go for my oha soup over it any time any day.



I have eaten Banga. I've even cooked the delta version ( as directed by a warri woman) and it was nothing compared to my favs. In fact, I didn't look forward to it again after tasting it once. So??.. But I know a deltan woman who is always craving our oha soup that she begged me to give her the receipe so she can be making it at home as she used to practically go buy it from a canteen just to have a taste everyday.

Maybe the one made by deltans might taste different.

lol, u cooked it ursef, lol.

Come over and eat or leme do a waybill for u ok

martineverest:
Edo black soup is what?....banga soup is derived from black soup

lol, what is black soup and what is banga soup oga

martineverest:
loool.....banga is originally Edo soup.

Banga is originally from Urhobo. Where can u get Banga soup in Benin?


Anywhere u see Banga being sold in this country is prepared by an Urhobo.


Where, is it Lagos, Port Harcourt, or Calabar.

Anywhere.

pozehnani:
When afang and oha is there? Nothing special about Banga.

u ve never eaten banga my dear

Simplyleo:
Lagos greater than all the 5 landlocked villages.

God bless the jagaban
God bless PYO
God bless Gov Babajide Sanwo Olu
God bless Lagos state

Jagaban of Lagos

bwambasolomon:
I have a fiancée whom I started dating about two years ago. We work together and we are on the same level, and earn the same salary. Each time we hanged out to just have fun, if we got to a place where prices were too expensive, I would say to her but this things are much cheaper elsewhere.

For example, we went to a place though inside the same premises, one part of the lounge sells bottled water for 250 while the other one sells bottled water for 500, she then suggested that we go to the part where water was sold for 500. Note that it was in the same premises and there was absolutely no difference between the two, it's not like one was VIP area and the other was not. We ended up going to the 500 naira side. All that we ate which of course was double the price, I paid.

Each time we went to the mall, we buy things normally. But there's something about malls which some of you may have noticed, certain things such as pots, plastic rubbers, electronics, and so on are usually unreasonably exorbitant. So I said it would be better for us not to buy things that were too expensive that we could get outside for cheaper prices, but we could buy other things whose prices were reasonable. The next thing she started saying was that I don't have class, it's classy people that buy such things.

So one day we went to a pharmacy in that same mall, because she wanted to get some drugs, the price they called for her was about three times what it was outside, so she said it was better to go outside to buy it. So I just told her that since she has class she should buy it now, the next thing she started insulting me, she gave me the insult of my life. That wasn't the only scenario, there were many other cases like that.

She had started to stay with me after a while. Every thing in the house belongs to me, and I made sure everywhere was conducive for us. Air conditioners every and so on, good house, good compound, surveillance cameras and so on. Initially I was shouldering all responsibilities like food, the car washer who washes the both of our cars, the security man, fuel in the generator, NEPA light, repairs in the house and so on.

Please note that we work in the same place and earn same amount. Sometimes when I was short of cash, since I knew that her own money would still be there, I would borrow from her to buy food stuffs and other miscellaneous, and pay back by next salary.

She contributed just about 10% of expenditures in the house which was majorly just food stuffs. Note that I buy much more foodstuffs 5 times more than what she buys.

That was not just it, the relationship was usually filled with arguments, I can hardly have a conversation with her, she would begin to argue.

I want to ask few questions here:
(1)please is there anyone who doesn't know that Egusi causes pimples for those who are prone to having pimples?
(2) Is there any one who doesn't know that if something is very hot, it is not advisable to put in the fridge?
(3) here anyone who doesn't know that garlic is medicinal?
(4) Is there any one who does not know that it is not advisable to put on a generator when it has been drenched by rain?

But this girl will argue with me, insisting that I must put on the gen when rain has beaten it, because apparently, it is not her property. And the fridge is also not hers which is why she won't care if it gets spoilt. In short there's usually too much argument over what is clear for everyone to see, thereby it is always difficult to have a conversation with her.

I was later transferred out of the state we were, so I decided that because of her, I won't take anything away from the house, I would buy everything I need in the new place I had been posted to. So I bought a bigger TV for the house we both shared and took the smaller one to my new place of posting. I bought my mattress, kitchen utensils, got an apartment, and bought every thing I needed in the new place. So now, I have most things in two pairs, just so she would be comfortable.

Please note that we aren't yet married, and I agreed to not having sex with her because that was she wanted, I respected that. The only thing I know we do was romance.

So I started insisting that it was high time for her to be responsible, that we can't both be working and she won't be buying reasonable amount of food stuff because I noticed that sometimes, she would go out and buy 3 packs of spaghetti, which doesn't make sense to me. She said her dad is the one that buys food stuffs in her house and her mum contributes for petty projects. But I am not her Dad, I have my own mind. Also note that she didn't volunteer to bring any amount for my project oo, because I won't want a woman to contribute 1 naira to the houses I am building. All I said was that she should be contributing reasonable amounts for food stuffs in the house. We hardly stay two weeks without fights, she must look for one insult or the other.

We went for counselling and the pastors said she has to be contributing for expenditures in the house, we agreed on 60% to 40% sharing formula for all expenditures. So me as the man would contribute 60 while she will contribute 40. Please note that rent was not inclusive, as I volunteered to pay for the rent in the house we were and for my apartment in my new place of posting.
Later on, when she began to see the brunt of the responsibilities that I used to bear she started saying we (Me and the Pastors) are forcing her to contribute. But I didn't know these Pastors before, that was my first time of meeting them, she was the one who knew them before me. But simply because they told her the truth, she started saying we are forcing her.

Please I need your honest opinions on this issue.
Thank you.

Bros, your lady na heavy drama queen. Buh u know what, just relax a bit and not get into argument with her too often, what I mean is avoid arguments with her. Jus love her like that cos me, I hate boredom sometimes

thebosstrevor1:
The governors of various western states begged them

Keyboard warriors will be here typing nonsense.

This is a lesson, Northern farmers and cattle rearers are United, any attack on us in the future, we will withdraw our services.

who are these miscreants

ThatFairGuy:
You're bereaved of what's going on then. There's hike in food price due to shortage in Enugu as I type. Ask your brothers.

When you talk of instigation, I don't know what you mean. I'm just rubbing it to your face that there's food price hike in your Region, especially Enugu due to diversion of foodstuff from The North

Meanwhile, HAVE YOU EVER HEARD OSUN, OGUN OYO, EKITI, AND ONDO LAMENT ABOUT SHORTAGE OF FOODSTUFF? WHY WOULD YOU SAY NO FOOD IN YORUBALAND?

ONLY LAGOS WITH MULTI-ETHNIC GROUPS AS INHABITANTS FEELS THE HEAT.


NO STATE IN SOUTHWEST ASIDE THEM SUFFERS FROM FOOD SCARCITY. GET YOUR FINDINGS CORRECTLY.

IF THERE'S ANY, BRING EVIDENCE HERE

here in Delta, sachet water is now N20, is it still coming from the north too. Inflation is everywhere oga. It knows no ethnic, color or region

Cashsteady:
how many people wan buy am for east? they can't meet their demands selling their products to the east alone unless they sell it to the west cuz the west has more purchasing power than the east.. what u people don't know is that Nigeria economy starts and ends in the sw

lol, how many people are in West apart from Lagos

maikbanj:
I will at the right time man. There's no hurry in life. They saw the key just by the gear where she kept it. They were about lessening the tires but I didn't allow them because it would have been a disaster. Anyways thanks for the input

u would allowed them deflate the tires

Ufemia26:
Where can one learn this and obtain a certificate for it?

through tertiary institutions or skills acquisition centres.
I do welding and Fabrication.

Welding and Fabrication

Happy birthday sir

SmartPolician:
The question is where do you know in the South East? You struggle to breathe in your cesspit and the next second, you write trash about places you have never been to.

While no sensible person would recommend Buhari for a primary school headboy, I have to commend him for this project. The rational Igbos will always remember him for working round the clock to deliver this project before leaving office.

I will always prefer long-lasting infrastructure to yeye appointments. Appointments are just for the moment (transient), but projects empower today's people and unborn generations.

u mean working around the clock for a bridge?

Bros wetin nau.

Why is it that u guys cease not amaze one

QuotaSystem:
That is simply one of the fringe benefits.

You forgot the value it would add to our huge gas reserves & revenue the plant would generate for the country.

Kudos to the FG.

must u quote me.

Am talking of job creation u re talking about economic benefits. U can be the largest economy still have huge unemployed

You have to spend $3.6b to create 5k jobs.



Isokay

What kind of market is that?

babakb:
Look at how heartless people like you sound, do you know how hard it is to make money out there, the useless guy has been leaching on her for 4 good years yet she should keep quiet and listen to all his insults on phone, it's like you guys want OP to develop high BP or become a slave to that egocentric guy.

OP listen with your 2 ears, harden your heart and dump that bastard, take your mom and sister and cruise your car, focus on your hustle and the right guy will approach you, if you accept him back you will never be happy.

did u jus asked me how hard it's to make money? Like who do I think I am? Jobless? See my guy, u ve not heard from the other end, so u base ur assertion from one end? Check her writeup, she was so defensive before attacking the guy.

Habby222:
Advice needed pls.

I've been with this guy for close to four years now and its not really been a perfect relationship. Lots of ups and downs due to what I can term insecurity. At some point we're cool and the next minute issues arises just like every other relationship.

He's a good guy to some extent as he showers me with love ( my thoughts)and a lot of times he gives gifts not money though. I've had to give financial assistance to him alot of times, he returns some if he deemed it necessary and doesn't return if he so wishes. I've never complained about this and still always willing to help him out whenever he is in need. Pls note that we're both financially ok.

This gesture of me offering him financial help stopped when I realise he doesn't do same to me. I've had to test him on serval occasions that I needed financial help and he has never for once helped out on those request despite knowing he has. I never needed the money though, I made those request to know if I could actually fall back to him if I'm in need.

Last year October, I told him about my plans of getting a new car as I got tired of the one I was using. Pls note that I did not request him to buy for me neither did I ask for any support whatsoever. I contacted my source in the US with my budget and spec, was able to find one in a short time and I paid for it. All of this moves were known to him. By December, the car arrived and cleared accordingly with every expenses incurred payed by me. He gave some moral support though.

A week after getting the car, he called me one morning and started apologising for not supporting financially in getting the car which I told him I had no issues with that. I told him I wasn't expecting more than moral support from him since I could afford getting the car on my own. I also made him realise he doesn't owe me no apology as I wasn't t his responsibility since we weren't married and that even if we were married, ill always want to get my stuffs myself as long as I can afford it. The next I heard was him ranting on phone that he doesn't expect less from me, said I'm a proud and that he knew I wasn't going to be a good wife. He said he has always known I wasn't going to be a submissive wife and a whole lot of other derogatory words despite not having issues whatsoever prior to that time. I ended the call as I was so surprised he could say those mean words to me.

All through that day he didn't call back and I did not as well cos I was expecting him to realise I was hurt by his actions. A week pass and still no call from him so I decided to call him and he didn't pick. I'd sent a lot of of messages to him and has not replied to any. I'd gone to his house to check up on him and not met him too. Its been three weeks now and we haven't spoken and seen despite all of my effort to talk to him and or see.

Guys please I'm confused and do not know how to handle the issue. Pls advice.

He called and you ended the call. Do you know what you did. It's like walking out on him while talking.

You don't do that to me, no matter how financially helpful u might ve been. I ve ghosted many ladies becos of it. You re full pride, and he meant everything he said.


Even from your writeup says it all.

Omihanifa:
I think you allowed your wife to see you finish

How can you be escorting her to go and pee and also escort her back when she's done peeing
Which kind love be that one

As regards the things she said to you via SMS and verbal exchange. All I can say is that you have a snake over your roof.

are you married

Ok

Trayceey:
not really. The first time he came to see her, which has been a while now, he didn't come empty handed

really, babe u no try. Jus talk with ur man, ok. Sort things out with him

NGpatriot:
What's sad about this unfolding American tragedy is the fact that the President of the US instigated this armed insurrection against hos own country.


Sad.

how did u know. Chochocho.
U guys jus talk nonsense

Kobojunkie:
You remind me of the Pharisees who accused Jesus Christ of teaching and healing with the authority of Beelzebub...

Look, if you can show that anything I have said so far is antichrist in origin, I say go right ahead andshow it so...else... Crawl back into the holee you crawled out of abeg!

can u explain this below

Kobojunkie:
Are you high on something?

I loose Satan's hold of ur mind. In the name of Jesus