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Mgada1ne:
You won't understand bro, i am someone who hardly talk,so i find this disheartening.

calm down bro. Some are wired to react in a way they saw it.

SARSCoV2:
Experience is the best teacher

I am sure you have not seen lines of cooling trucks in an hospital. Neither do you have access to cable tv

Experience can never be my best teacher, the Holy Spirit is.

What business do I have with hospitals

And I know you wouldn't mind getting me one cable tv Mr dangote

SARSCoV2:
Way to go. This is a welcomed development.


You cannot kill people with personal foolishness.

how many people have died of covid in your family

At the mention of Pastor Chris Oyakhilome Dsc.Dd Nairaland catches fire. Don't play with the President.
I salute sir.

Happy birthday Esteemed Pastor sir. We love you dearly

kroosx:
Whats the difference between a plumber and a pipe fitter

I'm a plumber tho.. I learnt this skill after graduating from the university and no job.. currently 3years on the job and its what I feed with

Also currently acquiring skills on water treatment

So I want to know about pipe fitting.. if I can add that to my skill aswell

Skill helps guys... its very good... I'm very greatful for the opportunity I got to learn plumbing

just be very good, infact be very perfect and jobs will look for you. I'm a welder. Planning on leaving the country tho

Tallino25:
Most people work with their spirit when choosing a church to belong

While some others join churches based on happenings within the church

While some are in a church due to their parents or family association with the church

And so many other reasons...

So given to this what particular attribute or aspect got your spirit to accept your current church...

Modified:Pls Indicate the name of the church and what got you there,somebody here can be searching for that particular attribute and be in church today you know

The Word and it's works

KiNg0G:
Exactly bro.
The game has changed... except they start giving modern vibes.

If they still focus on those old school pattern, sorry for them.

which old school, they have their own unique beat ok.


Mean while you can check my signature

Too late in ur opinion thank you, next

paulolee:
simple...than waiting for only tapins or depending on a creative team to keep loading him with assist...
d moment mendy gave away dt ball to Fred in dt chelsea game, I happy as fred went for goal n try to lob Mendy bt missed...
e for pain me say e pass d ball to cr7 bcoz dt wan go score empty net with his normal tap in, rush n offshirt asif he did everything n his fans go flood nairaland dey shout say he won united all 3 points bcoz he always perform in big games..
player dt can do nothing without d help of mistake from defense or tapins from team mate

lol, where these people de come from sef. Everyone is now a pundit

So it's only tithe that's with him and no other money abi, the way you guys twist this tithe of a thing just to suit your dellusioned narrative is something to be commendable.

nzeobi:
Sometimes when you have nothing meaningful to say you close your mouth. Who told you your state has better roads than anambra and does your state have an airport

if he has been to Anambra before

Bad belle. How much where you paid for this

Saintmary:
Eyah, very smart guy.

I hope your voice gets amplified.

if the hungrier won't devour them overnight and claim it's part of their national cake

southniyikaye:
WHT a country

For those quoting me, if they've had their covid 19 vaccination, will this happen?
We too get strong head for this country

oga read

FalseProphet1:
I see Nigeria qualifying for the world cup, I see them making it to the semi finals.

This I have seen.

thank God you are a false prophet

Brightw278:
I was discussing with a friend of mine during one of his visits this past weekend, we talked about politics, football and a whole lot of interesting topics. We were in the middle of discussion when we tuned in into this popular reality tv series on dstv, “finding the one”. So we switched topic

I was trying to explain to him why we have many ladies looking for suitors in Nigeria and the main reason being this harsh economy. I told him no man would want to settle down until he has something to fall onto and has a good job that can sustain a family but my friend thinks otherwise.

He said the reason why some ladies get really old without suitors coming their way is because they must have ignored a lot of guys during their prime (20-28) and once reality set in they become desperate.

I told him I have a sister who is perfectly fine and doing well but good men ain’t just coming her way, but he just wouldn’t agree. I can’t believe people still think this way in this 21st century. He was telling me no matter your looks and all someone must approach you, I had to calm him down what if those coming your way ain’t even somebody you can settle with. Guess his reply? You just have to endure and get married like that.

This a guy went on for some hours before I just decided to call it a quit and told him we should just enjoy our football match.Personally to me I think nobody should be forced into marriage when he /she ain’t ready.

I just want to seek you guys opinion, he will also be on nairaland reading this. Should the sole reason of not being able to find suitors be attributed to youthful exuberance alone? Do girls who find it difficult to find a man must have been to choosy in the past? Your opinions will be highly appreciated

you have reason 1

And he has reason 2

In conclusion, you are both right

IdreamOfUnicorn:
After four years of being with her you don't have intention to marry her and you expected her to stay put? You want to turn her to lord of the rings

there's difference between intention and finance

Covid plandemic. Covid debacle.

Baawaa:
On top how much

it's not about the amount of money, it about the amount of publicity

Sirlancelot:
I won't bother you guys much. I married my woman last year June during the lockdown. Things were rosy for us as a young couple till we brought in a girl of 15 years from my wife's family to stay with us in order to help my wife with house chores and other things during the time she is heavily pregnant.

Mind you, from day one I have been dating my wife, this girl has been on my neck, telling me how she will come stay with me in Lagos if I get married to her sister. That would be my greatest undoing as I grudgingly obliged after many persuasion from her Mother as well. After my marriage, she came over to Lagos to join us.

Now, she is very useless to me. She will go to school from 7am to 5pm. After coming back from school, she will take another excuse to go for evening church and come back by 8pm. No help in doing house chores. COOKING, she no sabi.. My turn off about her now is that she can eat for Africa. The little provision I manage stock at home don't go anywhere now.

The last straw that break the camel back is that she always steals my babies food, like milk, biscuits etc.

My wife is in dicey situation because she once lived with the girl's mother for like 15 years back then, and such can't just pursue her away like plague.

Right now I am fighting the urge and anger to mess her up. I have advised her on numerous occasions but it seems she can not learn easily except with hard handling. Everything bad about human traits, she has it; Lies, false swearing and the likes.

Mature minded people in the house, if you are in my shoes, what would you do?

buh I see no wrong here o sir, save for the milk and biscuits

Havilaah1:
Good day all, i want to pour my heart on what's bothering me and get people's view and possible solutions to the issue.

I've been in a relationship with my boo for a couple of years now and it's a serious relationship, we're are very close.. infact we're practically besties aside relationship. For some months now i noticed he no longer gives me attention like he used to, the vibe between us dropped and it was getting me angry. He stopped doing the things he knows i like, he knows my love language is attention/care as well as complement but he stopped doing all these. I'd send him a photo where i look so beautiful and he'd only say you look good, at a point i started preparing my mind for the worse.

Just yesterday he told me there's something he wants us to talk to me about and it's been bothering him and i asked him what it was, he said it's about us. He said 2 of his siblings asked him same question on different occasions but, he didn't see it as a big deal the first time but when it was asked the second time he got angry and that's the reason he hasn't been flowing well with me.

The question was how can you get married to someone who is not close to your siblings, when he said this i was weak. I know when we started the relationship he told me his siblings are free people i can relate with, i told him i will try. I was in contact with 2 of his sisters before this year( i sometimes chat, text or call during birthdays, new month and festivities).

This year i started chatting with the 3rd sister, her wedding was coming up and she sent me IV. I congratulated her and she asked if i will be around, i told her i will try and create time so i can travel down to attend. I really did travel down to attend the wedding, she was surprised when she saw me but i noticed my boo wasn't happy with me all through the event.
Now he's saying he's in close communication with my mum and siblings, they talk all the time but same can not be said about me. He was thinking how can he get married and his siblings will refuse coming to his house because there's no relationship between us.

I'm a very introverted person while himself and his siblings on the other hand are extroverts and ambiverts, i don't find it easy building up ties with people from a distance. I have very few friends, i can be in a place and i won't talk if I'm not used to the people or there's no serious thing to talk about (that's the reason i talk to his siblings during birthdays, new month or festivities). I don't know how to build up a strong relationship with them before marriage, it's even worse because we don't get to see often cos they're in a different state but I've visited them on a few occasions.
How do i handle this issue. I was in deep thought all through the night, i couldn't get up to 4 hours sleep.


God knows i love his family as much as i do mine, he himself said he knows i care about them 100% but his family cannot read my mind to see that i have them in mind. After our discussion last night i couldn't sleep, I've been feeling bad about the whole thing. Introversion is making me look like I'm not a good person.

I really don't know how to go about this, please i need advice from people who have been in similar situation.
Moderator please help move to front page to get a wider view.
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farano
Please help move to front page for wider view.

first of all, how old is he

ChangedMan1999:
I am not a hater, but can't Akwa Ibomits buid a city by themselves.


Is this not an embarrassment for Africans to considering Chinese, Americans and Asians as Second to God.


For how long are we going to be playing second to these people.




Many of you may think that employment for Akwa Ibom people is more important, but one thing you don't know that the rest of the world will keep seeing us as Subhumans.











There was a time we read news here that a certain country in Europe doesn't score their students "F" in the University. Reason being that it is morally wrong to give the "F" score when students put their precious time in doing assignments and coming to school.

In my comment, I said that it Nigerian universities should adopt the system because the "F" score reduces the morale of students who have been attending lecturers.

One girl tackled me. She said that such system will reduce or kill the producing of quality graduates.



Now, you all should tell me if Nigeria would be depending on China to build a city if it really produces quality graduates.

Now you all should tell me if Nigeria would be borrowing money up and down if she produces quality graduates that would be advising the politicians.

You all should tell me if Nigeria will be calling the Chinese to help her build railway and tard road if she really produces quality.







Listen my point here is since the country educational system thinks that it is right to score "F" in order to produce quality graduates, now why is she depending on China after she pushed a narrative that she produces only quality students.

There's something called investment oga.

Abalado:
Are you sure this woman is not having extra channel so? U gerit? If u don't gerit forget about rit

spoilt shide

bigpriik:
I brought up this topic two years ago, it was about a girl i loved so much we were good friends, but she is Just into a kinda flashy lifestyle funded by runs. She always posts twerk videos on her Instagram and whatssap status and of course she is very beautiful and the kind of woman I want to spend the rest of my life with.

Hoestly I don't know why I love her, it's just crazy. Last year I deleted her number and pictures from my phone, because we had a fight over the tatoo she drew on her upper arm so I avoided her..

But yesterday I saw her in my street, meeen this girl don fine scatter and she is looking so fresh like those men are really paying her well. She called me and I answered we talked and believe me all the nuts in my head was loose because I talked to her.. ,i felt all the old emotions back again and it was so strong again. I immediately collected her number and she sent me a hi on WhatsApp so we begin talking again, we chatted all Night and she told me how she missed me so much and all.

Is it sensible iI take her in, i am 29 now and rounding up for marriage and she is the only one i see but i am afraid because i feel runs girls don't really retire even after marriage..

Elders please i need your help..
I need

you want to marry her because she's beautiful and fresh. You are not ready for marriage

Glory to God!
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joshawesome:
Good morning happy people of nairaland.

I will try to be brief as possible. During the lock down my elder brother was seriously ill, we all thought it normal malaria and typhoid but getting to the hospital he was diagnosed of kidney diseases at it last stage (CKD). We all brace up and gave him all the support needed during the stage from one dialysis section to another something thrice a week.

It became worse and no improvement at sight, I literally do all thing for him, from bathing to feeding and carry him around the hospital but he faith he will come out of it. During the process he used all of his life saving to the extend of collecting and seeking financial assistance from people because the doctor advice to undergo kidney transplants.

On 2 April 2021 we went from dialysis, nurses were complaining that I allow him to drink a lot of water because at that stage he have a daily water intake and also needed blood. He did the blood transfusion and the dialysis but he had a breathing issue, the nurse place him on breathing machine the oxygen got exhausted and he was normal.

We went home by 12am, on getting home we ask for water, I told him to wait because I can even hear noise of water around his thoracic cavity. He was having difficult I had to call one of his friend so that we can take him back to the hospital but he gave up the ghost and we bury him that the same day because that was his wish. Due to his name, I was confused and angry at myself and everyone that we lost him due to 5 million needed for the transplant.

Months later I was able to get over his death a bit and went back to school, wrote the exam and graduated with first class even though the examination I didn't prepared much due to what happened. It was just God hand at work ( It only a fool that say there is no God).

Now the problem is that I can't sleep and remember my brother death that I should have done more. His death is like 5 months from now but it still fresh in my memory recently. My brother play a vital role in my education from paying my fee and monthly allowance and advice. I was thinking of using drugs so that I can sleep at time but talk me out of it. Pls how can I re again myself and also am an introvert I don't have people to talk to and I hardly go out.

stop worrying and sleep at the first instance at night. Don't try to fight off sleep when it creeps in allow it and sleep off

Normal like their regime

Ezendimmuo:
My girlfriend likes food a lot...
Sometimes what she wants might be above my budget
I just graduated...no job yet ..
She can call guys on the phone in my presence and beg them for money...
There is this "married" man she sees and has actually spent the night with him and she swears that nothing happened between them...
I can't provide for her needs....
I can't also stop her from getting them...
I love this girl so much
She loves me too..
Anytime I think about this...
It makes me sad
I wanna end everything...
But I can't...
What do I do

lol. Can't stop laughing. Oga go and find work. Get urself busy with something, leave her for now. Just make sure no relationship exist until u find ur feet o.




That's my advice for u as a fellow

Humanbeing1st:
Pls I need a loan of 20-50,000 naira my location is kwara state and I want to invest the money on my charcoal productions bussiness and I'm ready for any verification process

jus dat amount

Ehen nau.... She go remove others teeth nau

siofra:
All these broke boys on here. Maybe sēun should make nairaland a paid site so that you people will reduce.

your man was born very wealthy