Lightway:


What men want from women..... Women are born with them

What women want from men... Men have to work for them.

There are three things that make the world go round in a natural sense.

Money (resources, food etc)
Pleasure (Sex)
Children

Women are born with the other two... Men are born with none. Men work for money and need pleasure and children from women. To get this, they provide.

Men are born with none?
You mean men are not born with sex organ?
Can women impregnate themselves?

Women are born with pussy and a womb. They need money and get it from men.

Men also need money.

That is how life works in the patriarchy. That is why men think they love women for who they are.

Men don't love her for who she is.. no man can love a woman born with a dick. She is not longer a woman.

That's all

You have arrived.
A man loves a woman because she is a woman. She has feminine characteristics.

Lightway:




I took
love between man and woman is caused by the misfiring of some neuromodulators (oxytocin, dopamine) in our brains which have been set off or stimulated by one of the possible catalysts like wealth, physique, physiological patterns. In reality, what you feel when you see someone is just dopamine, or any of the feel good chemicals; Serotonin or Endorphins. Remember that feeling that comes over you when have sex. Remember how you feel when you touch a woman's naked body and you want to have her. Remember how the lust dies off after you have her. The same thing happens when you see someone and you say you love the person.

I took my time to educate myself on what emotions are. That is why I like discussion like this. This is what I found out
"Our emotions are controlled by a group of brain structures called the limbic system. The limbic system releases chemicals which spur on our emotional states. The type of emotion we feel depends on which chemicals have been released. For example, the hormone oxytocin allows us to experience feelings of love"

Love is just one of these feel good chemicals and after a while they fade. You can reignite them via memory or by doing something new. That's why you see couples going for therapy, going on vacations, going on trips to experience something new and rekindle their love. YOu can search for this on Google and you will see evidence. True love doesn't need to be rekindled, but you see couples doing that, because true love doesn't exist.

Please read this
https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/news/20131125/how-the-love-hormone-works-its-magic

Love does not exist, but the feel good chemicals oxytocin, dopamine, seretonin, and endrophin exist. What the world tries to do is make these chemicals last longer in the brain by telling people that a man can love one woman forever. These chemicals are being interpreted as love. Think of yourself fuxing a woman, and you love her smell, her figure 8, her breasts, just think of her naked. After some months of fucking non-stop, you will definitely get tired and want something new. Because emotions don't last forever. In fact, leaving the girl might make you want to go back to her, because you start missing those feel good chemicals. When you go back to her and stay again, you will get used to it and your body will begin to yearn for more. I'm just trying to explain how these chemicals work.

"When we are intimate with someone, oxytocin, also known as the "love hormone" is released into the body "during intercourse and other forms of intimacy," Dr. Sal Raichbach"

"Oxytocin release causes the sense of trust and makes us miss our partners. People with high levels of testosterone may probably not feel the connection, because this hormone suppresses oxytocin activity."

There are animals that have one mate for life and there are animals liike lioness that sleep with many lions when mating. Humans are not the kind of animals that have one mate for life. But love teaches us that this is possible. Love does not exist, but these feel good chemicals exist.

Love is an emotion how does it teach?
Are you sure your understanding of love isn't based on the western fantasy which you attack.
I never knew you were meant to love one woman your whole life. Men of the past didn't love like that.

To the poster, I will like your input on this.

Love exist and just as any other emotion is caused by neurophysiological changes.

A man's love is unconditional
A woman's love is conditional

A man loves a woman just because she is a woman
A woman loves a man cause of how he makes her feel and what he provides.

Lightway:


Love is about fidelity, allegiance, commitment, being there with each other through sickness and in health, and establishing a well fortified bond underneath all that sexual dopamine bullshit.

This is what another redpiller describes as love.

Do you agree with his definition?

The truth is that, this love we talk about is a social construct. Just the way sexual harrasment is a social construct.

Here is the meaning of social construct

Interesting, are other emotions social construct too because they don't have physical representation?

It is not something natural but something that was born from the West. It is something designed to make life look more beautiful. Because in life, no one wants to be alone, no one wants to be lonely. And love means someone will be there for you always. So humans or white people created this belief of love to make life look more beautiful.
But since there isn't anything like love in nature, the feeling wears off after a while. Just like any other feeling (anger, hate, sadness). The feeling can last long just the same way depression can last long.

Can you say that other emotions such as fear, anger, happiness etc don't exist because "the feeling wears off after a while"?

When I say the feeling, I refer to the feeling we think that is love. There is no such thing as love, but we as humans have managed to create a feeling that we can be with one woman and one man and hope that it lasts forever.

Remember they say that "true love lasts forever". Remember I say that no one wants to be alone or lonely in this life. This is why so many people are chasing true love.

However, it is not real. That's why you see some men after marriage start cheating with younger women with fresh bodies. But some men will stick to their wives no matter what. These men believe so much in the social construct and will not want to pull out because if you say that there is no love in this world, then the world becomes a on dark place with no colour.

Men don't fall in love
Women don't fall in love

They said... What do you say love is? this is a very important question.

The reason why a lot of blue-pilled men provide so much for women is that they see themselves as providers, they have low self esteem, and they think that by providing for her, she will love him back. He want's to her to be his. And he thinks she is worthy of his money. He thinks that by doing this she will see it as a sacrifice, he thinks that it is love. No. it is a Hollywood dream, because women are smarter than that

Would you agree with me that they were taught that was how to express the feeling they call love?

Lightway:

the rage
Men don't fall in love. Men don't love sacrificially

What is your definition of love?

Sophistry! Sophistry! Sophistry! you are quick to use the term ego but you have no idea what ego is.

A man with a weak ego is easily manipulated while a man with a strong ego is not.

This is not a curse but this man's marriage can only go downhill from here.

softguy1:
[b]STORY

This my guy was very very stupid to accept sex and such kind of money from her Ex because he was ignorant of the redpill. had it been it was me, I would have rejected such offer because of these reasons:

- I am an Alpha redpiller.
- I always put myself first
-. She is from Nigeria and no Nigerian woman can offer such kind of thing.
- There are millions of women that could offer the same thing ( so why should I accepted it from her)
- and many more readpill reasons.

When he told me he accepted that offer ignoring those redpill reasons above, I was just laughing at his stupidity for accepting such an offer from an Ex.

So Ubunja stop all these your argument you are not a redpiller if you can accept a gift from your Ex. You are simply a simp.[/b]

Law 40: Despise Free Lunch.
But I find the reasons you stated above to be insubstantial and puerile.
Accepting a free gift from a machiavellian can be dangerous but if you are a higher mach the danger can be averted.
I agree when ubunja said it all depends on your level in the game and I'm not even a mach.
Accepting the gift doesn't make you a simp or a redpiller.
Let's everyone just do what they feel is best.

I hate giving free advice tho.

But buy this book "The rational male by Rollo Tomassi" for him

Aunty you have 50+ unreplied messages but still found time to open thread and write a polemic for us. SIMPs don suffer for this life I swear.

Reality check, those guys in your DM are just after your hole, because let's face it's the only valuable thing you have to offer to men. You are 26, I'm sure fuckboys must have already bash that pussy to death which mean it's only leftovers you have to offer to SIMPs.

I will advice you to find a simp to marry quickly. Because time is not on your side.

eyizlive:


So take what you can from both ideologies and rest. E no bad if you too form your own doctrine and e generate widespread following.

So fellas, stop the disputes the core message is the same *BETTER YOURSELF*

Peace!

This is what I want the op to understand. But I see he is not smart enough to understand it.

SmartMen:
Feel big over what exactly? You guys come on Nairaland, instead of teaching kids growing up ( not sure you are aware of the number teens and early twenties that grace this section, do you?) how.

You are your crews are idiots but you don't know it yet.

You are a prefect exemplar of people who would argue that a car is useless because it doesn't prioritize moving on water over land.
You are so shortsighted by your ego. You think you are smart but smart people are open-minded.

What is purpose of gaining everything in the world, only to lose it spending it all on women.
If you knew anything about the redpill you would know the redpill advocates personal-development. Chase your goals inlieu of chasing women.

I percieve that I have bruised your ego and made you seem irrelevant, but that was necessary because you had nothing new to offer.
The redpill has something to offer, what do you have to offer to men.
Instead of whining like a bitch why not create something that adds value to men.

If you think the redpill is missing something. Please with no further ado create a thread that hightlights those other areas you have listed. If you can't do that then craw back to the hole you came from.
I will say it again, op be prolific with your time.

PS: If you recall I didn't say your post is rubbish. If that is what is paining you.

DONFRANSKID:

Idiot how about we meet face to face. You're even worse than a simp idiot your a disgrace to manhood and a disaster to mankind

Hehe guy calm down. The guy just dey show himself. He wants to feel big, no disgrace am abeg ignore he is not worth replying.

As nairaland feminists, evening newspapers and SIMPs have discovered, shaming tactics can never work on a redpiller and probably you know this.

This your post was made to discourage bluepill simp from escaping the matrix. And that is good because the redpill doesn't need weak men who will feel bad because some bluepill cuck said he is not a man. Only strong people can handle the truth.

Also that redpill thread you are attacking never graced front page but has gleaned over 200k views and 152 comments and counting.
After today this your thread will fade into oblivion. Nobody will remember what they read here. So I will advice you op to be productive with your time.

CaveAdullam:

Without much ado, how do you want to receive the soft copy? Witchcraft? Prayer? Teleporting? Gmail? Or........?

I'm done ranting. Lol!

Through witchcraft please.