kingkoboko:
Simple! Jst force simps 2read THE RATIONAL MALE by Rollo Tomassi

I learnt many things from that book.

The problem is some guys are uninformed (society has programmed them to behave that way) and don't like to read. If you have the book pass it down to your male friends that can help a lot.


But I recommend you read

masculineprinciple..com/2015/03/the-masculine-principle-table-of.html?m=1

before The Rational Male.

So in summary, you want her to be a feminist?

The point the guy was trying to make just flew over your head.
This is why comprehension is taught in school.

Redwater666:
I'm learning so much from him, i was empty but he gave me ideas and encouraged me to start my business which I'm making serious profit from, he's intelligent, business minded and really cool + cute but I'm afraid I'm not even the right one for him because I'm not in his league intellectually, swag etc etc But we've been friends for years...

(edited, added paragraphs for easy readability)

Hypergamy at work. You don't really love the guy.

My best advice is tell a mutual friend (a guy) to convince him to ask you out (let him not know you sent the guy).
Never ask a guy out directly, it will end in tears.

But it is better to stay friends with him, your relationship with last longer.

Or read about "Sirens" in Art of Seduction

Stop masturbating, that shit ain't worth it seriously .

Herodutus:
Please guys and ladies, this is not just another how to stop watching porn kind of thread. there is this experience i have been having over time now. Most times when am watching ponography, i often feel a sharp cut on my skin, as though a person use a blade to cut me. When the cutting happens, i will feel the sharp pain and when i look, the lines will be fresh and redish.
At times, i can feel this cut at 3 difz

Yes I have observed it too. Like thin line. But I always notice mine when i'm about to bath by that time it has already clotted.

Now that i'm abstaining, I don't notice it again.

Stephenmoka4:
I think I'll try that, I'm good at handling rejection (just in case), I'm a pessimistic person, so I can get over it.

Being pessimistic has it's advantages, that is you'd hardly get disappointed. But you need to be optimistic that girls will like to meet you.

Sometimes what you call rejection is resistance that is why you need to persist. Don't take no for an answer. But don't go overboard, if you persist and she still says no then that is rejection, just divert your attention to someone else.

Stephenmoka4:
Oh, then number 3 is my problem. here. 1. is like 59% and 2 is likely to be 95%+ according to the definition there but, 3 is likely to be 30% of control/dominance/charge. Reason is that I don't want to be seen as a jerk, player or trying to take advantage of...

And yet players have better luck. I'm not saying you should be a player in fact if they sense you are one they will put up more resistance.

Doing no. 3 shows you are confident and that you want them and they want to feel wanted.

Besides that you are attracted to someone doesn't mean they are right for you. You have to keep sampling till you find the one

Stephenmoka4:
More like the opposite of me
I'm
1. Somewhat shy, not much.
2. I am not really a stylish person, If that's what charming means.
3. I'm more of a laid-back guy and like people who takes control.

From what I know.

Shyness is not so exactly opposite to confidence, they are considered as near antonyms. The stricter antonym of confidence is self-doubt.

1. To be confident takes more than not being shy. To be confident you need to be dominant, shameless, optimistic, selfish, ambitious, feel important, not feeling inadequate, never seek approval etc.

2. Charming is the ability to make people around you feel good about themselves. When you are around people they get positive vibe. To be charming you need to be happy, caring, funny, protective, selective etc

3. Well you need to change. A girl will expect you to take charge so you won't see them as cheap. That is they expect you to approach, go for first kiss, isolate them, initiate sex, persist etc.

When you lead they can just follow along, and in case things they are caught doing something they are not "supposed" to do, they
can blame it on someone else, specifically, you.

MOnkeyBabe:
so this is what you have been doing with my pics. No wonder you refused to call me over.

So you decided to follow me here. Nice try.
I still won't call you.

MOnkeyBabe:
what is Pomo?

Pomo is Cow skin

PMO is "Porn Masturbation Orgasm"

Stephenmoka4:
I think they don't like people without confidence, I'm gonna work on that.

They don't.

There are three things you need
1. Confidence(Many things in this one)
2. Be charming
3. Always take charge

Stephenmoka4:
They ain't my top priority, I don't have an ugly character. I think maybe cuz I don't give attention. hehehe

Work on your confidence bro, you won't need any girl to approach you. If you are confident enough you can get any girl you want.

If you don't work on your confidence when a girl finally shows interest you will Bleep it up.

Look at me, two girls approached me on the street. I'll summarize by saying what played out later was embarrassing for me. They were expecting me to take charge since they worked up the courage to approach.

Bro awkward silence everywhere. I have lot more stories like this I've Bleep up many times. I see it as a problem, I'm working on my confidence now.


Also If you are addicted to PMO try hard stop it. Cause I'm addicted to PMO(trying to stop) so I don't have any interest in real life girls.

They always say just joking . It's only one that said she hates me.