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Susily:
Merry Christmas brothers, I'm a silent follower of this great thread and have learnt a lot from it to elevate myself and become a better version of myself

Concerning what you said boss about teaching our craft to redpillers here so they can become a better version of themselves this coming year, I've gladly volunteered to FREELY teach in my own little way US STOCK MARKET INVESTING

I invest in the US stock market and it's quite an interesting experience

We'll go through Value Investing (Warren Buffett investing style) which entails identifying HIGH QUALITY BUSINESSES that increasingly generates CASH FLOW year-over-year and how to determine it's INTRINSIC VALUE to determine if it's Overvalued or undervalued when compared to it's share price in the market

Once again Merry Christmas

Very nice development. I wish I had something to contribute. Do mention me when you create the thread.

Tobedated:
ode bring proof it bad

Bring proof that it is good. So far all your comments have just been filled with insults.

Emmynator:
That's how one asked me yesterday, told her "no wahala, but we will share the bill", her reaction was like "why will i pay half?", lmaoooo, she cant imagine paying half of expenses incurred on a date , she go dey chop, dey flex, while I go dey calculate bills wey i go pay
No be only Christmas outing. If I need to have fun, i know road. I fit chop without looking at fine face. Make everybody dey him lane.

Maybe she wanted to pay the whole bill. You were too quick to judge

Martinez39s:
You sef get am. There are lots of things I could point out, but it's not everything one will always explain. Anyway, we move.

It was very obvious what the intention of that post was. I even felt that it was a subliminal diss to you.

I must admit I admire your ability to easily type a lengthy post but yet find it very difficult to lift a finger to reply any troll kudos. Some of us will learn sha.

To the second troll that invaded this thread, you seem sensible enough so get this into your head.
This is a male space, you don't invade my space and expect me to listen to you.
If you have any objection/question concerning the redpill you will do well to open a new thread for that.

ma373733:
Man loves a woman because she's a woman

Because She has Feminine characteristics

Kids have invaded this thread

I had to water it down like this to make people understand. Even you that wrote this is yet to understand.
When I say men I mean unenlightened men.

Mentholated:
An ignorant man loves a woman just because she is a woman.

A knowledgeable woman loves a man cause of how he makes her feel and how he contributes to her progression in life.

An ignorant woman loves a man just because he is a man.

A knowledgeable man loves a woman cause of how she makes him feel and how she contributes to his progression in life.

Now you know what a redpiller is.

Lightway:
Exactly, you see that men love opportunitically as well... Because you're a woman, I love you so if anything happens and I find you're a man, then I don japa.

Simple... But this is more rare.....

I rest my case.

CaveAdullam:
Nice summation!

In addendum: The intersexual dynamics, will not say it is complicated but wide and contains a whole lot of nuances that must be understood and puzzled together in order to ensure a successful relationship or have a good knowledge of its framework and mode of operation.

For anyone to mention that men and women are hypergamous by bringing up some absurd linear equation (emotion + knowledge = Hypergamy) is funny and at same time, stupid!

Mr light like I said before has a point, but the framework from which he is defending it is not appropriate.

Hypergamy got two sides: alpha fvcks beta bucks which is rooted in the feminine psyche. He is concentrating on the beta bucks side and how men are exploited which is true. What about the Alpha Fvcks side--- the genuine desire we talk about? That women fvck broke dudes? That women fvck bad boys? We all know that these alphas, jerks or don juans does nothing to win a woman's heart, it just happens! If that's the case, what do we say it is if it is not an emotional attraction called love?

Men love, women love, but how they express this love differs. I agree with Mr light in the aspect of simping, the beta portrayal of love by media outlets and the ignorance men are being led. Although his childishness has warp and woof his brain that he is unable to arrange these pegs accordingly.

Withal, this shouldn't stop us from saying what is true as present until a better knowledge arrive. And no one here knows it all; I grow by learning and interaction and I believe it is same for others. But then, a reasonable individual should set himself aloof from the unintelligent and their emotional whims---if it means not being open-minded, I prefer it rather than be a goalpost for nonsensical melodramas.

Thanks.

PS: Lordcassy, my lord I sight you!

Believe me if he didn't have a point I wouldn't have logged in to reply him. I feel the same way.

Lightway:
What men want from women..... Women are born with them

What women want from men... Men have to work for them.

There are three things that make the world go round in a natural sense.

Money (resources, food etc)
Pleasure (Sex)
Children

Women are born with the other two... Men are born with none. Men work for money and need pleasure and children from women. To get this, they provide.

Men are born with none?
You mean men are not born with sex organ?
Can women impregnate themselves?

Women are born with pussy and a womb. They need money and get it from men.

Men also need money.

That is how life works in the patriarchy. That is why men think they love women for who they are.

Men don't love her for who she is.. no man can love a woman born with a dick. She is not longer a woman.

That's all

You have arrived.
A man loves a woman because she is a woman. She has feminine characteristics.

Lightway:
I took
love between man and woman is caused by the misfiring of some neuromodulators (oxytocin, dopamine) in our brains which have been set off or stimulated by one of the possible catalysts like wealth, physique, physiological patterns. In reality, what you feel when you see someone is just dopamine, or any of the feel good chemicals; Serotonin or Endorphins. Remember that feeling that comes over you when have sex. Remember how you feel when you touch a woman's naked body and you want to have her. Remember how the lust dies off after you have her. The same thing happens when you see someone and you say you love the person.

I took my time to educate myself on what emotions are. That is why I like discussion like this. This is what I found out
"Our emotions are controlled by a group of brain structures called the limbic system. The limbic system releases chemicals which spur on our emotional states. The type of emotion we feel depends on which chemicals have been released. For example, the hormone oxytocin allows us to experience feelings of love"

Love is just one of these feel good chemicals and after a while they fade. You can reignite them via memory or by doing something new. That's why you see couples going for therapy, going on vacations, going on trips to experience something new and rekindle their love. YOu can search for this on Google and you will see evidence. True love doesn't need to be rekindled, but you see couples doing that, because true love doesn't exist.

Please read this
https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/news/20131125/how-the-love-hormone-works-its-magic

Love does not exist, but the feel good chemicals oxytocin, dopamine, seretonin, and endrophin exist. What the world tries to do is make these chemicals last longer in the brain by telling people that a man can love one woman forever. These chemicals are being interpreted as love. Think of yourself fuxing a woman, and you love her smell, her figure 8, her breasts, just think of her naked. After some months of fucking non-stop, you will definitely get tired and want something new. Because emotions don't last forever. In fact, leaving the girl might make you want to go back to her, because you start missing those feel good chemicals. When you go back to her and stay again, you will get used to it and your body will begin to yearn for more. I'm just trying to explain how these chemicals work.

"When we are intimate with someone, oxytocin, also known as the "love hormone" is released into the body "during intercourse and other forms of intimacy," Dr. Sal Raichbach"

"Oxytocin release causes the sense of trust and makes us miss our partners. People with high levels of testosterone may probably not feel the connection, because this hormone suppresses oxytocin activity."

There are animals that have one mate for life and there are animals liike lioness that sleep with many lions when mating. Humans are not the kind of animals that have one mate for life. But love teaches us that this is possible. Love does not exist, but these feel good chemicals exist.

Love is an emotion how does it teach?
Are you sure your understanding of love isn't based on the western fantasy which you attack.
I never knew you were meant to love one woman your whole life. Men of the past didn't love like that.

To the poster, I will like your input on this.

Love exist and just as any other emotion is caused by neurophysiological changes.

A man's love is unconditional
A woman's love is conditional

A man loves a woman just because she is a woman
A woman loves a man cause of how he makes her feel and what he provides.

Lightway:
Love is about fidelity, allegiance, commitment, being there with each other through sickness and in health, and establishing a well fortified bond underneath all that sexual dopamine bullshit.

This is what another redpiller describes as love.

Do you agree with his definition?

The truth is that, this love we talk about is a social construct. Just the way sexual harrasment is a social construct.

Here is the meaning of social construct

Interesting, are other emotions social construct too because they don't have physical representation?

It is not something natural but something that was born from the West. It is something designed to make life look more beautiful. Because in life, no one wants to be alone, no one wants to be lonely. And love means someone will be there for you always. So humans or white people created this belief of love to make life look more beautiful.
But since there isn't anything like love in nature, the feeling wears off after a while. Just like any other feeling (anger, hate, sadness). The feeling can last long just the same way depression can last long.

Can you say that other emotions such as fear, anger, happiness etc don't exist because "the feeling wears off after a while"?

When I say the feeling, I refer to the feeling we think that is love. There is no such thing as love, but we as humans have managed to create a feeling that we can be with one woman and one man and hope that it lasts forever.

Remember they say that "true love lasts forever". Remember I say that no one wants to be alone or lonely in this life. This is why so many people are chasing true love.

However, it is not real. That's why you see some men after marriage start cheating with younger women with fresh bodies. But some men will stick to their wives no matter what. These men believe so much in the social construct and will not want to pull out because if you say that there is no love in this world, then the world becomes a on dark place with no colour.

Men don't fall in love
Women don't fall in love

They said... What do you say love is? this is a very important question.

The reason why a lot of blue-pilled men provide so much for women is that they see themselves as providers, they have low self esteem, and they think that by providing for her, she will love him back. He want's to her to be his. And he thinks she is worthy of his money. He thinks that by doing this she will see it as a sacrifice, he thinks that it is love. No. it is a Hollywood dream, because women are smarter than that

Would you agree with me that they were taught that was how to express the feeling they call love?

Lightway:
the rage
Men don't fall in love. Men don't love sacrificially

What is your definition of love?

Sophistry! Sophistry! Sophistry! you are quick to use the term ego but you have no idea what ego is.

A man with a weak ego is easily manipulated while a man with a strong ego is not.