₦airaland Forum

AllKnowing:
It’s 2024 and this year you have to level up. You’re either levelling up by your family’s might/ connection or you’re gonna have to do so leveraging on your connections.

If you’re like the rest of us, there’s no powerful, influential family to push you up; so here’s where you need your OWN connections.

Stick with me.

Your home boys can lift you up. Sure! But what about these girls around you. Have you ever sat to think about the potent force that females possess? This is where we have to disagree with the teachings of the redpill.

The redpill teaches men that women “ain’t sh*t” and that you don’t need them for anything besides stroking your ego after you “make it”. I’d argue that the wisest man utilises all the resources available to him. Everything!

But here’s a template for levelling up. You can use it, you can vilify me. Your business.

1. Appreciate and draw women to you.

It’s always been easy for me to have girls around me. Not bragging; I still don’t know what quality I possess that draws them in. I’m not the most attractive dude I know. Maybe it’s because I have the ability to listen, to not judge, to observe and maintain the frame of a friendly outsider.

2. Mentally rise above sex

This is the most important point. If you spent 2024 without sex, I promise you, you’d live to see 2025. No bragging rights for sex. Think about it this way: If you could never fill a basket with water, then why keep pouring into it?

If you could never have enough sex in life, why kill and embarrass yourself over it? Men tend to chase and chase and chase everything just to get a 5-minute romp in the sheets. You’ll never have enough sex, my brother.

3. Let these girls know you don’t need sex from them

I live in Europe. And this is my story: dated a white girl for a year. But that fell apart. Since then, I’ve moved on even easier than I thought I would. My ex is still very much present in my life as friends. I don’t desire a rerun of our relationship nor does she.

Other foreign men here complain about not getting a girl to go out on a date. Even an African babe. I don’t know what that feels like; being sapiosexual, I find myself drawn to Caucasian females who are well-travelled, passionate about the arts, who take up solo trips round the world. I learn from them. I no longer try to f*ck them. It isn’t the first 20 things I think about. That’s changed something…

Most nights, I don’t sleep alone. There’s always some new Caucasian chick texting to come over for games, a sleepover, or an African meal. I don’t get in a frenzy worrying if she’ll let me f*ck her when she comes over. If she makes a move and I find her attractive, I’ll take the bait.

If she’s overweight and ugly, I haven’t got a white fetish, please sleep the sleep you came to my apartment to sleep. “Don’t wanna have sex; I’m on meds”

4. So WHAT DO YOU NEED?

You need to level up! Only admit classy, pretty, high-achieving girls into your circle. My new criteria: Caucasian, got a career/ passion, makes about €3000 (the models I’m close with conveniently do $8000 per month working abroad). And you? I don’t make as much but they don’t need to know that. I bring flowers to dinner, I pick you up in a nice Uber, I dress old-money, I’m well-mannered, I invest in healthy meals because I go to the gym four times a week, my apartment is cosy, I work on one new thing about my dreams every week.

See? Even if I were a loser, these girls would never know.

But this is important: When they win, you have to be genuinely happy for them. Expel envy. Draw them closer. Also, with drastic changes all around the world, women are out-earning men. Wealthy simps aren’t even helping matters.

5. The game plan.

You aren’t chasing sex. You aren’t faking it; it’s your present state-of-mind. Don’t go masturbating every so often now, that’s just worse. These women will feel the powerful new energy you possess and come even closer. They’ll tell you about the new contacts they’ve made. Listen, don’t judge, observe. As friends, you can ask for help from a point of power and humility (yes, it’s a thing). She can help you, you’ll be eternally grateful. If she won’t, it’s no matter, you’ll ultimately find the help you need.

These girls can connect you to the men, the places, the opportunity you need. She’s more drawn to you because you aren’t like the other guys who want to only f*ck her. You aren’t gay, she’ll know that because you dated hot girls before her and because every now and then during your hangouts you’ll register a sexual move and that’s it.

A few days ago, a new friend passed out drunk on my bed during her first visit. Took care of her, made her dinner and breakfast, genuinely tended to her. Made NO PASSES at her. Today I got a friend and a free hospital card should I ever need a favour.


FINAL WORDS: In today’s ever-changing world, resources aren’t only skills and degrees to level up with. Women can be your own valuable resource.

You have been brainwashed to think women hate sex and men that are proud of their sexuality.


You are wrong if you think you have to mentally castrate yourself and forget about sex first to have any meaningful connection with women.

You can only save this kinda advice for needy men that are desperately seeking women friendships and attention.

You lack experience and knowledge and still very naive, women don't have the quality and value to be a good friend like men, so castrating yourself just to get close to them doesn't worth it and most women are just going to see you as insincere, untrustworthy trying to get in their pants by acting like you don't want sex when you are not gay or impotent.

You will also be very easy to take advantage of and easy prey when many women see your desperation to be friends and get attention from them to the extent of castrating yourself and acting like you don't want sex in fact many women will hate your gut for it and will never trust you for anything meaningful.

Sctests:
When you were shoving your miserable dick into the Igbo girl, you didn't know there were caveats and clauses.

All customary laws are equal befall the eyes of the law and are enforceable anywhere within Nigeria..

The Igbo customary law comes into play here. Those kids do belong to the promiscuous irresponsible Pastor who can't pay bride price. The Igbo ladies family own those kids she carried for nine months until another man pays her bride price and cater for the kids.

In Igboland there is no notion of bastard, every child has a father, biological or not. Maybe that's why there is a lesser prevalence of agberoes, omo miles and social misfits in Igboland compared to your region..

That's only in Igbo land.

In Yoruba land there's nothing like that.

coputa:
Dangote refinery cannot cater for the needs of Nigerians.we consume 32million litres of PMS everyday not to mention AGO, they will still import to bridge the gap until all the nations refineries will start producing at full capacity.
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It was stated that the refinery can satisfy 100% Nigeria needs.

It is the biggest refinery in the world so don't underestimate it potential.

killsmith:
People wey dey bury their kings with 7 human heads dey call others barbaric.

Like how can you kill 7 people and cut off their heads so that you can decorate the grave of just one person?

That has long being abolished a long time ago.

It is you people that are regurgitating it just to find something negative to say about Yoruba culture, there's no culture in the world without it ugly and negative side but it's the willingness to change and abolish it that matter even Chinese, Japanese, Korean cultures etc all have its ugly side

Egyptians practiced it and they are still one of the most civilise society in ancient times.

Sctests:
If you impregnate an Igbo girl without doing the marital rites and paying the bride price. That child DOES NOT belong to you. You are just a SPERM DONOR. The child belongs to the man who is responsible and values the woman enough to pay the bride price.

God save you if that lady dies during childbirth, then you will visit hell and back, because you must pay that price and 'marry' her corpse befittingly before she is lowered into earth. Else you won't sleep when the whole village send their deity after you. YOU KILLED HER. Who wants to go to the spirit world with shame? An Igbo daughter?

The Akure judge should concentrate on stopping Royal cannibalism that is customary to yoruba people.

It is common knowledge that when a king, Alaafin, Ooni, Oba or Baale dies in yorubaland, it is customary for the succeeding monarch to eat the heart (cardiac muscle) of the dead king uncooked. Ask any honest yoruba traditionalist. In fact type 'yoruba royal cannibalism" in Google and research it.

More so, after the death of a yoruba king, human sacrifices are made and head hunters are sent out in the dead of the night to hunt for human head as part of their Oro practice before the late king is buried.

Let the Akure Judge face these barbaric customs of his people and stop meddling in a foreign custom that is older than his 10th great-grandfather and ancestors.
He can't win. Let him remove the wool in his own people's eyes first..

He can't dare go to the muslim North and try to stop them from marrying 10-year old girls, without his head being cut off from his shoulder with matchetes, but he wants to flex judicial muscles here in the South.

The Igbos are not your plaything. Respect their customs and stop meddling in their traditional affairs.

It happened in Ondo so you are the one being disrespectful here.


If it happened in Anambra or Enugu you might have a point.


In Yoruba land , Yoruba culture supercede

coputa:
How?

The dollar we are using to import petrol will be channel to other things and i think fuel is our biggest import if we no longer import fuel it will ease the demand for dollars.

BeautifulMind2:
Elon musk is also Yoruba

Eloni muskere is a Yoruba man from Osun state

BeautifulMind2:
Keep fooling yourself online

Typical bad belle behavior, even elon musk have more negative news than that but he is still the richest man on earth

BeautifulMind2:
Global Infrastructure Partners was established in May 2006. Two founding investors in its first fund, GIP I, were Credit Suisse and General Electric. Both committed approximately 9% of the US$5.64 billion of GIP I's committed capital.

You go explain tire.

He doesn't have to be the owner, he is one of the founder and he is also their chairman.

See another Yoruba dollar billionaire below no single Igbo dollar billionaire and you won't let us rest with chest beating.

Yoruba is the richest tribe in Africa.

Yoruba is dominating UK, US and Nigeria, i can't believe there are some Igbo that really think Yoruba can't compete in businesses.

Na you go run if Yoruba mack you but we only chase things with value, see how we own Nollywood.

BeautifulMind2 i see you sneaking around on the thread these are real billionaire not the local drugilionaire you disturb us with here every day.


See another Yoruba dollar billionaire dominating America, this year is for Yoruba we are not your mate

We will use too much success chase you back to Biafra

Lightorder:
so much energy, telling another person's story.

Oga ,go make your own money. Time waits for no man

If you are even a ounce successful like him people will tell your story like that too, bad belle somebody

Irony1:
Please with all due respect, you don't have any iota of shame. That money is in no way going to impact Nigeria whatsoever, the taxation on that acquisition will benefit the UK and not Nigeria, and most of all not even Yoruba land. Deinde Fernandez you are talking about didn't even impact yorubaland per se with his wealth moreso that he was buried abroad, Oga try and make something useful with your life and stop this praise singing.

He is a Yoruba man so Yoruba has benefitted already.

You go explain tire

For those that says Yoruba are not good in businesses, you are living in lala land

Yoruba are the best business managers, those that says they are good in business should show their billionaires in dollars not naira drug barons.

This guy is dominating the world and Oyibo bow to him as a top investment manager.

Same way Buhari ordered military to monitor Tinubu and his boys in Lagos during the presidential election, remember.

Buhari has betrayed Tinubu and was going to deal with him according to Obidunce.

Northerners would betrayed Tinubu and deal with him according to Obidunce.

Buhari was going to clipped the wing of Tinubu and his boys and deal with them if they misbehave according to Obidunce ; D

The same Buhari later turned back and rigged for Tinubu according to Obidunce.


Keep spinning out the conspiracy theory, you go explain tire

and their fans will be mocking infinix,tecno and itel users, my infinix hot 7 pro i bought in 2020 is still going strong.


I saw a post on Facebook where this same phone blew the head of a girl that slept with it place in front of her face while charging it

kettykin:
Thank God for TIB, Atiku and IBB may God forever bless then for channeling funds from TIB to glo, my sympathy for the staff of TIB who became the sacrifice to produce a billionaire

Why does it feel like you are crying with your comment ?

Dexy4yah:
May God deliver your lost soul

God doesn't exist lol

Righteousness2:
Cancer is Dangerous but it is a moi moi matter before the GOD of Abramham, Isaac and Israel! The ONLY GOOD GOD OF CHOSEN

There is a GOD in Nigeria that is Shaking the whole Earth with HIS POWER, Greatness, Wonders, Miracles and Glory.

Cancer, kidney , livers , hearts and so on are being changed and rectified by the GOD of CHOSEN on Daily basis.

Women with no wombs carry their babies.

Anyone close to the legend manager should admonish him to connect to the GOD of CHOSEN.
It is a moimoi matter.

there's no God.

Your God will rather watch people masturbate than to cure anyone.

MrMeth:
Frankly speaking, she's not yoruba, but a Benin girl.

But she is bearing Yoruba name ?

You go explain tire

You better get yourself check at an hospital

Ritual doesn't work but we have so many illiterates in Nigeria with low IQ

gearing up for another round of propaganda for the next presidential election.

Speaking against women manipulation of men and selfishness is not misogyny.

Women on Nairaland are just afraid every men will wake up and see their games, they are fighting against the spread of redpill but unfortunately it is unstoppable, many of them survive by taking advantage of men that don't know better , what are they going to do if those men wake up and start demanding for better in relationships and all aspects of men and women interactions ?

They say knowledge is power they don't want men to have that kind of power after reading articles about redpills, you see them calling for redpill threads on Nairaland to be deleted.


They just want to stop the spread of redpill so it won't take away how they easily manipulate men for their benefits.

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Speaking against women manipulation and selfishness is not misogyny

Tony Elumelu benefitted from his support of the Jagaban.

Chygoz01:
no woman can control me with pussy bro you don’t know what simping is

That's a very disrespectful statement and i doubt the woman have any ounce of respect for you to be so bold to uttered that kind of statement to you.


You are also really very weak for tolerating that disrespect, don't ever let any disrespect from your girl slide because it is going to be the beginning of more and bigger disrespect.

The psychology behind that statement mean she still believe she can do better or get a better man than you.

When a woman truly believe she can get a better man than you, she is not really your girl and that believe will always show in how she interact with you, you won't get the respect you deserve from her.

The hand writing is already on the wall, if I was you i will dump her before she do it first.

WhisperedNoise:
Leave us alone to serve our Jesus. Is there any problem with that?

Like you leave people alone with your preaching and incessant prayers.

That's your problem

I sleep peacefully every night as an atheist knowing i'm not brainwashed by any religion.

According to the religion you believe in, you are going to hell fire and will suffer eternal agony for smoking and womanizing even if you sleep everyday with Jesus cross you go explain tire