I had this best guy friend before and we do everything and anything together. We werent dating though, We were just friends but everyone thought we were married cause we behaved like a married couple. Anyways I was happy being with him  cause he made me happy. One day he ask me if we could do sex and I was shocked I walked away from him and I started crying. ANyways, he apologized and he than said he thinks he has feelings for me and the moment I think about the future with him, my world just shattered. In Malaysia, if you end up with a Muslim guy/girl, if you are not a Muslim, you have to by force convert to a Muslim. I dont wanna be a Muslim so I told him that I dont want to be with him cause he was a Muslim. Since than we never did talk anymore.

A few years later hecalled me to meet up and we did. Than the feeling all came back to me . I really like being with this guy but I dont love him. Than he claim his love for me again and I told him that he was a Muslim that I cannot change my religion. So he was sad, I was sad and thats it. We never did see each other anymore but I will always remember the good times we had. 

Gigglin
i rem smtyms 4yrs back
i had a nyt stand wit dis dude
it wz all so romantic within dat very short period
i smile n bite lips each tym i rem him
he wz gettin married den actually
bt we still talk n lookin 4ward 4 more days of d nyt we had
it wz such a beautiful one
i jst rem him now n cant stop smilin n bitin my lips

Interesting! Mine was about this beautiful orobo that I was dating back then [I love her to the marrow]. Along the line, we lost contact for some months and the next time saw her, she has been doubled. . . .DAMN !!!

Uh, I was young and carefree    wasn't ready for what he was offering.  He had lived and was ready to settle down but I wasn't, I fell out of love and we parted ways but now I know he was the best. . . . .accepted me, understood me and never tried to mould me, that love was real and we had 5 happy years together!  I am not in love with him anymore but we are really good friends. . . . . .

Ranoscky:

Interesting! Mine was about this beautiful orobo that I was dating back then [I love her to the marrow]. Along the line, we lost contact for some months and the next time saw her, she has been doubled. . . .DAMN !!!

Was she more beautiful than before?

SA Goddess:

Uh, I was young and carefree    wasn't ready for what he was offering.  He had lived and was ready to settle down but I wasn't, I fell out of love and we parted ways but now I know he was the best. . . . .accepted me, understood me and never tried to mould me, that love was real and we had 5 happy years together!  I am not in love with him anymore but we are really good friends. . . . . .

Awwwwwww. . . That is soo sweeet

Ms. Potato:

Was she more beautiful than before?



Awwwwwww. . . That is soo sweeet

It really was, pure and real, he even taught me how to cook My lesson from that break up was "I had to lose him to appreciate a good man", he made it easy! No regrets, life happens!

SA Goddess:

It really was, pure and real, he even taught me how to cook My lesson from that break up was "I had to lose him to appreciate a good man", he made it easy! No regrets, life happens!

But have u found the one right now?

Ms. Potato:

But have u found the one right now?

Not yet, but I am good. . . .dating!!!

Never experienced such in life.

I must go back to year 2000.
I was married that time and I falled in love for a colleague of mine.
We were dating, hiddenly for maybe six months or so. Telepathy, Sense of Humor, Good Chemistry, Sex, everything was great, exept that I was married.
She start to ask to break my wedding since the beggining, then when she realised I was not intended to do (I was loving my wife, believe it or not) she broke the relation.
I remember this like yesterday. I was in Morocco to a business trip, and she was not replying to my messages and phone calls.
I called in office asking for her and I have been told she resigned the day before and nobody knew where she was.
No more news from her for 8 years.
One day, years after being separate from my wife I decided to send her an email, just to try. She replied the same day sending me a picture of her wedding. She was so cute in the Spouse Dress! However, the message was clear.
Few months ago she contacted me by email saying she was desperate because the marriage was bad, husband was cheating her and she was breaking the marriage, after less then 2 years or so. We start chatting for two months thenwe decided to see eachother. She separated from the hubby in the meantime, and I was coming out from a bad relation with another woman. So clear land! Finally, no dark stories, just a potential genuine love story!
We decide to see each other (FIRST TIME AFTER 10 years) and I invited her for a dinner, Well the fact was that we remembered the old time and we had fun talking and telling each own life, but chemistry was not the same anymore. Too much water passed under the bridge, we say in Italy.
Now I call her from time to time, but just as friends.
That's is my Missed Story.

During my placement nearly 2 years ago,One of the people i worked with was this short ,'unhandsome' and extremely dark individual,who i instantly disliked for no apparent reason.After working with him for some time he turned out to be the loveliest,down to earth and real individual i had ever clapped my eyes on.I grew so close to him(border line obsessed).When he accidentally touched me or brushed against me i just went wild,i totally took leave of all my senses.


Obviously he noticed my predicament and did not waste anytime!He took me there and then in the lab office.Standing at 5"6 he was the most well hung man i had ever seen.That was not all ,he subjected me to the wildest rawest animal passion !

For the duration of my placement(1 year) we shared the most amazing relationship.We were on the same level intellectually,emotionally ,physicall ,it was too surreal.Unfortunately he moved to the states ,i returned to uni and to my 'normal' life.We still keep in touch and i really feel he is too good for me.I shall never ever forget him,

she was denied her love by her parents and today she is lost.

7 issues with 6 men.

No, not me, I think I've loved every guy I've been with enough. I still know all the reasons why I had to end the relationships or why they ended it. The last main one that got away was in 2007 and funny thing is, everytime he crosses my mind I just know I could never be with him again as I am very clear in my head about why it ended.

Do I still love him? Yeah! (depends on one's definition of love). Do I still want to be with him? No! I have grown since then and I have learned enough, enough for me to see my tomorrow and I dont see how he may fit in.

I smile a lot whenever I think of him, fond memories is what I decided to take for myself when it ended and I have no doubt he continues to make somebody just as happy wherever he is. That's all I have for him now.

The one that got away,

There are two cases that pop into my head everytime my mind drifts off in thought.  But this particular girl was just amazing, A relationship that lasted just for the summer holiday (2months and a few weeks) but is still as fresh as yesterday. She truly was something, we were also both young when we met and the relationship as juvenile as it was back then still brings a smile backed with pleasant memories everytime it crosses my mind.

When I think about it now, we weren't even in the same social class back then when we met and still yet she never acted like a rich kid. Funny but before we started dating we were just good friends and it wasn't up until one evening when we both took a walk to buy some suya, did some guy walk up to her and starts asking her out. She tells the guy and I quote "cant you see I'm witjh my boyfriend", then turns to me, puts her arm around my neck and kisses me.

That was the begining of one of my most cherished memories, Then she had to go to school in the US and I back to my government sch. Lol, I did see her in the US about 13 yrs later and she was engaged to be married. I smiled but I just couldn't stop myself from wondering what it could have been like,

Cheers, To the ones that got away,

Mrs potato, yes, she was stil as beautiful, pretty & sexy as ever; with an additional coma knocked smile. Infact, I truely missed both beauty and personality in that girl. She's now a proud mother of 3 sound kids. *while am stil here in NL searching!!*

SA Lady:

No, not me, I think I've loved every guy I've been with enough. I still know all the reasons why I had to end the relationships or why they ended it. The last main one that got away was in 2007 and funny thing is, everytime he crosses my mind I just know I could never be with him again as I am very clear in my head about why it ended.

Do I still love him? Yeah! (depends on one's definition of love). Do I still want to be with him? No! I have grown since then and I have learned enough, enough for me to see my tomorrow and I dont see how he may fit in.

I smile a lot whenever I think of him, fond memories is what I decided to take for myself when it ended and I have no doubt he continues to make somebody just as happy wherever he is. That's all I have for him now.

O bonolo Lady (easy)       falling inlove with "every-budy"        but I know what you mean about not going back, we are always evolving and what was good for us 5 years ago may not necessarily be what we want now    

Okija_juju:

Cheers, To the ones that got away,

Well said! The ones we could have had an alternative reality with.

SA Goddess:

Not yet, but I am good. . . .dating!!!

But has it been the same like that guy or better?

SA Goddess:

O bonolo Lady (easy) falling inlove with "every-budy" but I know what you mean about not going back, we are always evolving and what was good for us 5 years ago may not necessarily be what we want now

haha! I knew as I was typing, that the lines leave room for such scrutiny . Some we Loved and some came and went. But all the same to all the boys I've loved before. Lets sing along

I dedicate this song, to all the boys I have loved before *smiling while singing in my best Julio voice*

Aish Lady, making me teary now, I love that song AND all the boys it is dedicated to

A 3-4 month relationship just ended for me about 3 weeks ago , and I've not gotten over her.

She's about 8 yrs older. Her fiance has been away and mine is far away too. She hadnt seen hers for more than 2 yrs, and I hadnt seen mine for more then 1 year [still havent seen mine].

We secretly began around November, and we've had a blissful time, hindered by the fact that we couldn't go out in public because she's afraid her fiance's people will see her with me. On Val's day, we had a fight, but passionately made up the next morning. Then I had to travel to another city for a job interview for about a week. We spoke at least 2ce everyday. When I got back, I was shocked when she said she was ending it. She said her fiance abroad wanted to start official marriage talks with her people, and it was gettin to risky.

KAI !! For a full week, I was SOOOOOOO depressed. I knew she was right since I'm not yet ready for marriage, and it would have been very selfish of me to ask her to leave her fiance. I called her for the 1st time last night [she's been calling me occasionally]. We still see almost everyday, but nothing happens again.

Even though I'm not over her. I'm thinking of asking her for one last meeting so I can say farewell properly [enter her Book of Records], in a way she'll never forget. Yeah, I know it's selfish, but still ,

SA Goddess:

I dedicate this song, to all the boys I have loved before *smiling while singing in my best Julio voice*

Aish Lady, making me teary now, I love that song AND all the boys it is dedicated to

Yeah! man LOVE is the religion.

spacyzuma:

A 3-4 month relationship just ended for me about 3 weeks ago , and I've not gotten over her.

She's about 8 yrs older. Her fiance has been away and mine is far away too. She hadnt seen hers for more than 2 yrs, and I hadnt seen mine for more then 1 year [still havent seen mine].

KAI !! For a full week, I was SOOOOOOO depressed. I knew she was right since I'm not yet ready for marriage, and it would have been very selfish of me to ask her to leave her fiance. I called her for the 1st time last night [she's been calling me occasionally]. We still see almost everyday, but nothing happens again.

^^^Something doesnt tie up, please help me out? What is wrong with those two embolded lines

You have a fiance, you are not ready to be married and you are having an affair. whats's going on

I dont wanna talk about it. It still hurts

Ranoscky:

Mrs potato, yes, she was stil as beautiful, pretty & sexy as ever; with an additional coma knocked smile. Infact, I truely missed both beauty and personality in that girl. She's now a proud mother of 3 sound kids. *while am stil here in NL searching!!*

Sorry naa. I didnt seen this your posts. Mind my manners

Awwww. . . Im so sorry to har that. I guess having three kids is what made her put on some pounds naa. But I do pray you will find an amazing woman one day. have faith my dear