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HelloHolla:
Good evening everyone, I've been a guest for quite a while, created an account cause I need advice from the audience.

How long should an engagement ring be worn for? I've been engaged since last year May (dated for 4yrs), my Fiance hasn't talked about proceeding to do introduction or marriage, it's like he just proposed to me because he felt like.

This man has refused to be on his own, his Grandma and 5 siblings (younger and older) live with him and he takes responsibility for them all, two of his siblings living with him also have their partners living with them. It's only a 3 bedroom flat. I feel like quitting the whole thing cause I don't feel comfortable going to his house. When I do, he wants me to cook for everyone which gets me strained.

With the look of things, he has no plans of moving out for them cause he rented the apartment, neither do they have intentions of moving out on their own, it's more like a family house. My period is two days late and I'm scared to the marrow.

Please advice me on what to do cause I can't live with him if they're still there after marriage, he's not even talking about marriage, I've not asked him yet so as not to sound desperate but why propose if you don't have plans of doing the next thing after a max of 6 months?

He's 31 and I'm 24

Thanks.

NaijadrivaCars:
Six persons, out of which were four adults and two children, were reportedly crushed to death on Sunday afternoon, by a truck at Ijebu-Imushin, in Ijebu East Local Government Area of the state.

The Ogun State Traffic Compliance and Enforcement (TRACE) Corps confirmed the incident. According to TRACE Corps Public Relations Officer, Babatunde Akinbiyi, the accident was caused by wrongful overtaking by a tricycle (aka Keke) rider.

He added that all the passengers of the ill-fated tricycle lost their lives while their remains have been deposited at a private morgue in the town. An angry mob set the truck ablaze, while its driver was taken to Itamogiri Police Station for investigation.

Source: https://naijadriva./2019/12/16/truck-crushes-6-persons-to-death-in-ogun-state/

wordbank:
If your preek will lead you to death, cut it off

cenaman:
This guy just get body for nothing, if the soldier find my trouble i go slap am and nothing go happen.

MrWondah:
Amen.
Tnx

ijustdey:
Lagos, Rivers, Akwa Ibom can survive without federal allocation





https://www.thecable.ng/budgit-lagos-rivers-akwa-ibom-can-survive-without-federal-allocation



Kogi and Venue

kushercain:
#itsalways4:20somewhere
God made weed..who do you trust?

Suspect33:
This is Barcelona, we dont need referee to qualify us like a certain team did yesterday, merciless messi needs no offside goal to get his hattrick, and we dont need anybody sent off wrongly before we rape juventus.. We are Barcelona... MSN oya jare

Alisegun:
According to a twitter user, a group of young boys and girls were spotted past 10pm queued up for JAMB Registration..

http://www.secretgist.com/2017/04/see-hurdle-boys-and-girls-go-thorugh.html

Buhari2019:
https://www.thecable.ng/buhari-appoints-osinbajo-nema-chairman

noetic5:
A Twitter user with the handle @fatimaaliu, in series of tweets, alleged that Indians are currently beating up black races, especially Africans. In some of the tweets, she revealed that Nigerian students, in India, are currently being held and beating blue black, because an Indian boy got missing in the compound, where foreigners leave.


Read her tweets below

Source: http://www.latestamebonaija.com/2017/03/xenophobia-is-happening-in-india.html

cygnus05:
Guys checkout the cars owned by senator Melaye.!!!

Anonymous1234:
I want to start this post by saying PLEASE do not judge my situation. (I'll try to be brief. Please ask questions if you have any)

So almost 2 years ago I met a guy online. He was from Nigeria but he was here in the states. No green card. He had a job but lost it later in our relationship. Super sweet. Very attentive. We hit it off immediately, talked and text on the phone all day everyday for about a month.

Then out of the blue he starts acting shady then I came to find out he had a girlfriend. We stopped talking for maybe 2 weeks but started back up again as friends (he told me that he wasn't with her anymore, I believed him) and eventually we became "exclusive" we moved in together.

Since we've been together he has cheated on me several times with multiple different women. I would find him on dating sites messaging women I've found Facebook messages, if messages, text messages. Most of them the women never responded to. Some of them did. Some of them he revealed his real name to and some he gave a fake name. Every time I would out information he would apologize cry, beg, plead for me to forgive him and take him back and I did every time.

I later found out that he was a scammer. He pretended to be other people online. Sometimes men sometimes women to get them to send him money. He would scam people on eBay making up fake PayPal invoices and taking the product and never giving them the money for it.

His friends also have taken people's credit cards and swiped them. He somehow got a hold of people's bank info etc. (I've now come to understand this to be 419 scamming) I never saw any of the money, meanwhile I was working and taking care of us.

Whenever we went out I paid for everything. Vacations. Birthdays. Literally everything. He never pressured me to marry him or asked me for large sums of money. He would ask for money for his bus card or phone bill. Small things like that. I loved him. I supported him. I wanted to help him. I wanted him to do better and be better. I wanted him to change so badly but he never did.

Cut to 2 months ago. I find out he's been cheating again. And in my house. I kick him out, we break up. He's apologizing he's crying he seems genuinely sorry promises to change the whole bit..

The minute I have him another chance he flipped the script. Started acting shady. Was telling me one thing and doing the complete opposite. He would tell me he still loves me and still wants to be with me etc.

cut to 2 days ago I find out on Snapchat that he's in a new relationship and "in love" and taking trips with this girl.

Mind you just last week he wanted to still work things out with me. I'm completely over it now. My question is was I apart of the scam? Or was this just a typical case of dealing with an unfaithful man? I knew he was a scammer. I begged him to stop but he wouldn't but for whatever reasons I never thought he would scam me.

Jajayi:
Ndigbo Students are currently holding a Solidarity Rally for President Muhammadu Buhari tagged #igbokwenu4Nigeria. They displayed a banner carrying the image of Nigeria's first president, Nnamdi Azikwe and President Buhari.

The students are insisting on one United Nigeria. See Photos below;

Source: http://www.cambellsblog.com/2017/03/ndigbo-students-hold-rally-for-buhari.html

CEOJAMIENAIJA:
Nigerian Musician, Terry G shared his account deposit of 500 million naira and said he is still feeling broke.


Funny joke hehen?


https://www.instagram.com/p/BRszlVuD2lL/?hl=en

ebosie11:
As shared by Imam Umar......

'President Muhammadu Buhari at his family house in Daura. See the floor of the house, the chairs they are using and even his dress. They all signify integrity, humility and simplicity.
Allah ya bashi ikon sauke nauyi, ya kara masa lafiya'.


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/03/see-type-of-chairs-floor-at-president.html?m=1

wink2015:

forandy:
Can someone kindly explain the concept behind this. Me myself I'm not understanding

cc Lalasticlala

metronaija2:
More at http://www.metronaija.com/2017/03/photos-lai-mohammed-visits-nigeria-lng.html

Papykush:
They will never listen...dick is too sweet for them to stick to one


These Hoes, they for everybody...
Pass them all around they at every party
They ain't go'n be loyal not for anybody

Still I ____________________?

BeeBeeOoh:
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/03/obasanjo-is-helping-nigeria-secure-its-future-osinbajo/

Frankdotcom:
A female student of Nnamdi Azikiwe University, Miss Onyinyechi Ezeugwunne was found dead this morning in room 16 at Anita Lodge near Yesa pharmacy juntion,Ifite road Awka.

An eye witness disclosed that the lifeless body of the girl and an unconscious young man, said to be the security man to the lodge,known as Sulieman,were found after the residents of the lodge broke down the door.

According to a facebook user, "Unizik Parrot", The said security man had kept his generator in the Kitchen (No escape for fumes), hence Carbonmonoxide from the Generator exhaust pipes found its way into the room killing the Young lady while the Security man is said to be in Coma.

However, another eye witness who pleaded anonymity revealed that the girl is believed to be dating the security man. According to him, it was believed that both smoked weed throughout the night because the room was filled with odour of weed as at when the door was forced open.

Meanwhile the Lodge President posited that around 9:00am, he was called by the lodge mates that the security man has not been responding to knocks at his door by the workers who came to collect the generator used for the work at the lodge well,which was in Suleiman's custody.

He stated that with the permission of the caretaker who was called on phone,the door was broken down,seeing that the young man was still breathing,he and another resident of the lodge entered bike and rushed to the security department of the institution.

The security officers came to the resident and took the unconscious man to the school medicals.

The body of the deceased girl was also taken away after the father and policemen came.

The cause of the death is still unknown at the time of filling this report.

http://www.franklinonwubiko.com/2017/03/unizik-female-student-suffocates-to.html?m=1

Frankdotcom:
A female student of Nnamdi Azikiwe University, Miss Onyinyechi Ezeugwunne was found dead this morning in room 16 at Anita Lodge near Yesa pharmacy juntion,Ifite road Awka.

An eye witness disclosed that the lifeless body of the girl and an unconscious young man, said to be the security man to the lodge,known as Sulieman,were found after the residents of the lodge broke down the door.

According to a facebook user, "Unizik Parrot", The said security man had kept his generator in the Kitchen (No escape for fumes), hence Carbonmonoxide from the Generator exhaust pipes found its way into the room killing the Young lady while the Security man is said to be in Coma.

However, another eye witness who pleaded anonymity revealed that the girl is believed to be dating the security man. According to him, it was believed that both smoked weed throughout the night because the room was filled with odour of weed as at when the door was forced open.

Meanwhile the Lodge President posited that around 9:00am, he was called by the lodge mates that the security man has not been responding to knocks at his door by the workers who came to collect the generator used for the work at the lodge well,which was in Suleiman's custody.

He stated that with the permission of the caretaker who was called on phone,the door was broken down,seeing that the young man was still breathing,he and another resident of the lodge entered bike and rushed to the security department of the institution.

The security officers came to the resident and took the unconscious man to the school medicals.

The body of the deceased girl was also taken away after the father and policemen came.

The cause of the death is still unknown at the time of filling this report.

http://www.franklinonwubiko.com/2017/03/unizik-female-student-suffocates-to.html?m=1

teamv:
incase e reach

PrettyCrystal:
Pictured is Gbenga Aruleba, the anchor of Focus Nigeria on AIT -has become a subject of an online discussion after dressing in this garment like a woman. His friend, Emeka Oparah, shared the photograph on Facebook and captioned it: Man caught in maternity ward....

http://www.nationalhelm.net/2017/03/gbenga-aruleba-see-how-ait.html

Abalado:
market don finish for d gel shop na,waiting remain..mk d gel or d both of them swear if dem neva sleep with anoda man or lady,yeye dey smell,abeg hw bubu health nw?he don dey hear word?him throat nko