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chimchim1:
I just sent the 5k. Pls confirm it here

I've seen it, thank you very much sir. God bless you, I'm grateful... I didn't expect this....

untainted:
Your first name please

Elisha

phemocheee:
Dear OP,

I don't want you to feel bad about doing the right thing, I'm glad you stood your ground and allowed your conscience to lead you.

Please DM me your account details, let me light up your mood in my own little way.

Cheers.

1477235999

Access Bank

Thank you in anticipation.

chimchim1:
Drop ur account number I will send u 5k

1477235999

Access Bank.

Thank you in anticipation.

GeneralPulal:
So how do we know you’re telling the truth?

Kindly read it again, does it sound to you like lies? If so, no problem.

NOTINVAIN01:
If its between 2011 to 2018 and there is gig either active or paused.

Send me a WhatsApp message through the number on my signature

2021... No gig.

NOTINVAIN01:


I need old inactive fiverr seller accounts send me a WhatsApp message through the number on my signature

I've one.

foxman04:
You missed on both sides mehn

Whoever still think his/her votes counts in a jungle like nigeria needs to be flogged with matchet

My vote counted, but we didn't win because others bought votes. They're two different things, get it straight.

IyaebeTheGreat:
You are still very naive about Nigeria politics, that’s why I always tell people to leave the scene if you can’t stand the heat

Lol. I don't think you know politics as much as I do but let's allow it slide. I did what i did because of my conscience. Don't tell me about the system, I know it, I study it.

Admin, front page please.

You can share your experience too...

In the presidential elections, a few others and I were disenfranchised because of unit problems, I went to the polling unit by 7AM, I waited till 5PM but couldn't vote. INEC arrived by 2:30PM after choas that day, I went home tired and frustrated.

Today, I wasn't in my polling unit, I took risk and traveled from my state capital to my location today. The road was so dry, Military everywhere, no public transport, I almost urinated in my cloths at the sight of armed forces men... I waited and luckily saw a bus, I ran to enter, we took a bush track... We were all scared, it wasn't easy this morning...

I arrived my unit, my neighbor asked me if I'm voting PDP, I was shocked, this is someone we both agreed to vote YPP, because he's a better candidate, she had been bought over with money... She directed me on what to do and who to meet to get my 5k there.

I queued, voted and step aside. The police man was bribed, he gave party agents way to stand and look at the votes cast, if it's PDP, they take you to the backyard, write your name and account number, expect 5k while they give you 1k as initial thank you.

I wasn't too shocked, this was the system... I wanted the money so badly, I was even laughed at... Coupled with my suffering today, plus during the presidentials everyone collected except me... Today, I can't boast of a thousand naira but I stood by grounds for the sake of equity and good conscience.

PDP won the unit, with a wide margin.. I was vexed... I came back home, even posted on my WhatsApp, I'm being laughed at, and I began wondering when doing good turned to a thing of mockery now....

I pray God opens a way for me so I can keep closing my eyes when I see money like this, as a student, 6k is way too much in this economy... But we move. On God.

This is me feeling fulfilled knowing I can criticize this governmet for the next four years with good conscience.

PDP will win in Akwa Ibom State as usual, but it's trash. But I know they're people like me, God bless you.

marlow1962:
Na ppl wer dy jobless and get money to throway they do Valentine’s Day.

Is it even worth it? 😂

Front page worthy?

Valentine's day celebration is unnecessary. Read at your own discretion, my opinion isn't binding and doesn't necessarily need to sit well with you.

I'm not saying this based on religious beliefs or otherwise, I traced the whole thing about Valentine's from etymology and all I have to say is, it's not worth any single celebration of what it is contemporarily. Because, the whole thing has been abused.

Saint Valentine of Rome was martyred on February 14 in AD 269. The celebration anniversary known as Saint Valentine's Day, was established by Pope Gelasius I in AD 496 to be celebrated on February 14 in honour of the Christian martyr, that is why it's called "SAINT" Valentine.

The day was rebranded in a later century to celebrate romantic love, yet, it never mentioned anti moral vices neither was it programed to be so, what happened? Even though I am to follow what the day is about in the Nigerian sense, it doesn't still make sense.

Single out a day to profess love, visit a mall, probably exchange gifts, post with captions, "this is my val" and then lodge hotel, is that it?

The whole noise making about Valentine's day doesn't get to me, it's a silly day if I may say, because I don't see any relationship between celebrating love and orgies.

All of us know the truth about this day, last we checked, it's just a day to fornicate in disguise. People that celebrate valentine for what it is aren't up to 30%. Fornication can be done on a normal day aside 14 February too, what next? All of you should rest. Duok odudu!!

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TheGenius001:
My dear stop saying what I can call a *trash* all because you want money. I masturbate at times even when in school those days. I still graduated best in a class of about 150+ students.

Masturbation has absolutely nothing to do with ones academic for crying out loud. The same way it has its advantages:
1. Not wasting your time and energy chasing after girls around.
2. Not wasting your money trying to impress a girl you want to sleep with.
3. Wasting your energy on sex with a girl.
4. Good sleep. When you masturbate, you sleep deeper.
5. It could even help enlarging your manhood. Especially when starting out as a teenager.

I can go on and on.

The disadvantages of masturbation starts only when you overdo it. And are mostly having to with your manhood.
1. Erectile Dysfunction
2. Premature Ejaculation (though not all the time.
3. Tiredness (but cannot be compared to when you did it with a girl).

What else? I don't think there is any more damage than that.

So cut the crap Bro. If you feel Bad you masturbate, then deal with it. If you feel it's natural, deal with it. You will only have problem when you overdo it and also when your conscience plays with your mind and you feel you are doing something bad.


Find other means to make money, else you are making a fool out of yourself.

We've heard you. Someone reached out to me that it's affecting his studies, that's why I made mention of that.

[quote author=Prettygirl200 post=119239258]In what way does it affect women, I want to know bc I know this stuff affect men more.[/quo te]

Please do well to contact the number on the flier and join the class. Thank you, have a nice day.

Prettygirl200:
Really? Are you sure? Like it doesn't have side effects on women?

It affects women, it affects everybody, don't be mislead.

tafabaloo:
If you are actually out to assist people get over their ungodly addiction as you claimed; why not make it free.

Abi this one na another scam ?

Everything cannot be free everytime. It'll be fine to get over this reasoning.

This isn't the first class and there are many things shared for free before this.

Paying for something will make you get value than free.

Valid.

Hello mature Nairalanders. How will you feel if your son is performing badly academically all because of masturbation addiction?

Someone reached out to me earlier this morning that he's a victim but can't join the class because of the registration fee.

Please if it touches your heart, you can sponsor and pay for people in this case. I will go choose them.

If you are interested in the class but can't afford it, comment here with reasons, someone might help you.

Don't die in silence.

Statistics shows that 80% of youths have at one time masturbate, some turned chronic masturbators. Those who didn't masturbate had sex early in life.

Hitherto, there's nothing without side effects, masturbation addiction is bad. Being able to control it is grace itself. Don't start what you can't finish.

"I'm 20, I choosed celibacy, I swore abstinence but I realized I couldn't control myself as I frequently suffered wet dreams. Then I started frolicking with masturbation and pornography till I became an addict, I can't do without it for a day, is it normal?"

Hello!! How are you doing? This was a question asked by someone, he needs help. A greater precent of youths are in similar shoes but wouldn't speak up.

The first edition of our YOUTHS INTERACTIVE SESSION is here. We will discuss everything you need to find out about sexual urges as a growing adult, masturbation, rape, abstinence, etc.

Venue is WhatsApp group, there'll be an anonymous platform, you'll send your questions if you're shy, there'll be answers and advises.

It goes for only a thousand naira. Pay to 1477235999, Access Bank.
Send proof of payment to me on Facebook or 09067179912 on WhatsApp, you'll be added to the group.

It'll be in batches so we can discuss effectively, first 20 will be taken and nothing more.

Please this class is for youths that mean well for their lives.

It's another day for you to know this. On the issue of the ongoing ASUU strike, I'll like you to know that ASUU is currently fighting for their pockets to the detriment of Nigerian students.


"IF" the federal government has obliged to sign all necessary agreements and to increase salary and ASUU as a body still insists on payment of arrears salary then it is outrageous, inimical, and condescending to the good name of Nigerian students.

ASUU once told Nigerian students to sacrifice even two years for the future and unborn generations, we've done that with our future, our house rents, our time, our resources.

Why are they so greedy to forfeit and also sacrifice as well? Pay them a salary for what? The one they worked for? The one they've been idle for the past six months? Who does that?

If I were the key leader up to this particular negotiation stage, I tell you that the next step I would have taken would be woo, a sack will do.

ASUU has deviated from its objectives. Whatever, I forgot it's a pressure group... All things are for their good, not for others.

Government is corrupt, yes. Resources are being swindled, yes. Senators earn a large sum of monies, yes. But if you were opportune to be there, you would do worst, hypocrisy.

Nigerian politics is open to everyone, there's level playing ground. A lecturer that isn't satisfied with teaching and wants to venture into partisan politics for money should do so, no qualms, no chaos.

FG should fulfill all promises, sign all agreements and pay lecturers the amount they owed Before the strike. But you see that 6 months' salary? No, it shouldn't be paid. The economy is retrogressing and one greedy organization wouldn't be allowed to heighten things.

Currently, ASUU as a body is deviating, selfish and greedy.

This is dedicated to all good and RATIONAL Nigerian students.♥️

Please share or repost.

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19/08/2022.
© Elisha Thompson.

ZIMDRILL:
When you say we owe them what do you mean, no children owe parents as parents made a choice to bring out something that parents are solely responsible aka a child, in basic simple terms having children is no different as having a car the owner is responsible for the fuel, oil maintaince, insurance and annually roadworth cerfitificate. When the car owe the owner then it mean the car was bought for business and it should produce profit from it up and down

The same with parents, by nature whether you had planned to have kids or not the moment that child is born it is the responsibilty of those who produced that child no other excuses if you didnt want that responsibilty then you shouldnt have unprotectecd se/x

You here parents claiming i carried you for 9 months who else was supposed to do it? or i sacrified for you who else was supposed to that, African parent sound as if it was someone responsibility or they were forced to have you therefore diverting from their original plan but the truth is they knew the responsibility before even having se-x.

Yes we can show gratitude for our parents but we dont owe them anything towards looking after us from birth it is their responsibility. Yes things can be hard in looking after your own kids but dont blackmail your own kids as if parents did you a favour no it was there responsibility from day one

What you said sums up everything, but, will you be happy to hear your child say he/she owes you nothing?

Put yourself in the shoes. Life is a chain, someone gave birth to your parents, they did you, you'll do another, another will do another... And so on....

Parents are for children when they've Nothing, when children turn something and have something, parents becomes the children's responsibility.

emmaodet:
I also get you bro.

That is reason I will keep saying there is a thin line between raising a responsible child and a liability.
A very thin line
The reason why you are thinking like this is because you have suffered and it has made you wise.
Children need a level of suffering too hence they think life is a bed of roses.

Sir, seems you're trying to justify reasons why parents with no financial stability should keep breeding children. 5 good children when you know you earn less than 100K a month in this economy? Who does that? Comon, this is logic.

Children must not suffer to receive sense, I'm not suffering, I wasn't suffering, I'll not stuffer. I only lack essential thing's at times. Suffering isn't wisdom.

What you should say in this scenario you're trying to show is "proper home training." Parents should train up children in a good way.

Giving birth to a child just to expose him to suffering to get sense and wisdom is insensitive please... Give him proper home training.

This is what I believe.

emmaodet:
I am just using this medium to pour out my heart.
Sorry for my long story.
This thread really touched me.
The last born own is another case.
Finished OND since 2017, go school go finish HND as been a war since.
I wan travel, I wan travel has wasted 5 years of his life at home doing nothing.
Nothing.
Now he is 26 who still thinks he is the baby of the house.
Did US visa, failed at embassy after losing over a million.
Was processing Germany for him when mama died and we had to start processing another country, 2.5m went down the drain yet he keeps saying he wants to travel.
4m gone down the drain all in the name of traveling.
Sat him down to go back to school and asked him what him what can he do with 500k to 1m?
Nothing.
Not innovative, can not hustle or struggle. All he could think of is how to travel again like a robot.
He has become an expensive liability who will be very expensive to HELP.
I do ask the question- what if you don’t have parents? What will happen?
I have friends who are orphans, some from since homes where papa don pai since and from young age they buckled up and faced life squarely at that young age with the help of no one.
Today they are very productive and I envy them.
The over protected spoilt kids that my brothers have become, all in the process of them not suffering and not passed through what our parents passed through, they have been spoilt and over pampered.
Abeg I no support parent spoon feeding an adult above 23 years for a man and 25 for females.
Abeg abeg abeg

Hello Sir. I've Heard you, I understand the angle you're coming from, however, I disagree with your last paragraph.

Are you taking a look at the nation's economy? 23 years you said? Is it a 23 year old that is still in 200L because of ASUU and JAMB delay?

Is it a 23 year old that's struggling to read, finish off, graduate, get a job and move on with his life?

We are not talking about irresponsible human beings here like the ones you used for illustrations.

When we talk of taking care of an average Nigerian child, you should take your mind to what Nigerians address as "Trenches." With the sum of money you mentioned in your thread, someone like me haven't seen one quarter of it yet and is seriously looking for who to push me ahead to complete my law degree.

I totally understand you, howbeit, you're wrong to an extent Sir. The thread isn't about pampering children but taking care of them, supporting them and helping them. Do you know with the current ASUU strike, I opted for a state university but because I can't afford it I have to settle for a federal brouhaha. Do you know I sometimes read on empty stomachs with borrowed textbooks? My parents are trying well... Honestly. God bless them. However, the finances isn't enough.

Your brother was over pampered, he's irresponsible and you shouldn't judge others by him. Even a logical 25 year old in school needs support. Pleaseee... Parents should stop fending for children when they graduate, go for NYSC and come back. If it's for business people, when they learn a trade and establish themselves... That's the way it is.

Laslasticlala

Seems this thread is an interesting one.

Front page please....

Let's get more opinions.

Please, tag laslasticlala.

tensazangetsu20:
Actually you don't owe your parents anything but your parents owe you everything cause they brought you here against your will. I only help my parents out of goodwill but if they ever feel entitled to it I will withdraw all of it.

To an extent, you owe them a lot. Life is a chain, they took care of you, when they're old, take care of them. They can't hustle anymore. Then, you'll give birth to children, same happens. The chain continues.

Tommymoses:
Abi now.

Me that got married and my Mama still dey feed me sometimes and my wiffy!

If you like call me fool, no be you dey feed me. This life have learn something never compare your life with others..

Exactly.

It is another day for you to know parents owe their offsprings a lot. In the words of a singer, until they "stand strong", parents owe them a mighy edged sword.

Two individuals decided to start a relationship, get married, have sex and bring forth children. What was the plan? To come tell the kids in a few years that they should find their way? They're grown?

As an offspring, your parent owe you a lot, they owe you education, they owe you an average lifestyle, don't be ashamed because you're still under your parents roof and feeding from them? Where are we supposed to get all these from? Our ass?

You also owe parents a lot when you stand strong, at the end, it's a win win for everybody. Both parents and offsprings. Don't follow social media standards, they said you're 25 and living with your parents, a shame. Standards? Who set the standards?

Article Credit-- Elisha Thompson.
Coined out from Facebook.
10/09/2022.

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