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Family / Re: Women Who Didn't Marry As Virgin Should Return To Their Parent's House -Man Says by Ellabae(f): 8:50pm On Sep 14, 2018
cheesy so Funny.

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Celebrities / Re: Miracle Ikechukwu Arrives In Imo After Long Vacation, Shares Adorable Photos by Ellabae(f): 10:02am On Sep 14, 2018
Looking good. Collins has a Big God smiley

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Romance / Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Ellabae(f): 11:27pm On Sep 05, 2018
toyflare:
Warning! Long post alert!
Men get molested, and we hide it because it's either unbelievable or sounds ridiculous. My life as a kid until adulthood wasn't funny at all. First, it was the neighbor's housemaid, I was about 7 at that time and my parents were busy with work so I had to stay at my neighbor's house after school till our house maid is back from school. One day I went there, the maid called me into the kid's room and took away my clothes, made me lay down and did things I didn't understand as a child. It was confusing, and I really didn't understand what she was doing but I remember she was on top of me unclad swinging back and forth. This continued after a while, then I told mom. She didn't understand me, so I stopped going there myself and our maid told my mom she met me outside when she came back from school. I guess this made her believe me, so I had to wait in school then.

Then I was molested again by my own friend angry f4cking best friend turned gay! I was 10 then, and my friend was 6 years older. He was enrolled in a boarding school, I guess he learned the shit from there. When he came back he would always come to the house as usual when I noticed when we play, he touched my genitals and I wasn't comfortable with it. One day I went to his house, he was alone and locked up the place, said he wants to show me something in the room and I followed him. He went to the kitchen and brought a knife, told me to take off all my clothes or he will stab me. I was like haha very funny and he started swinging the knife and told me he joined a cult group and I shouldn't dare him. I was scared as fvck, took my clothes off with speed, he ordered me to lay on the bed and started the thing (can't go into detail cause it makes me sick) but I cried so much. Then after it he was like don't worry, you will start enjoying it soon. So I stopped going to his house but he kept coming to my house and I would lock my self inside the room and my dad will come knocking that my friend is here and I should come out. Then he started begging me that his not in any cult group, but was attracted to him. I didn't care to listen to him! So one day he came with a fancy toy and told my Lil bro he got it for him, but won't give it to him unless I followed him home. So my Lil bro asked me to go get the toy for him and I refused so he started crying, I couldn't tell him what was going on. He was very little at that time and wanted his toy, so I agreed to go, but my plan was to take the toy and fight with my friend if he tried anything stupid angry, so I went with my brother (my friend lives across the street) but when we got there he insisted I come in alone or he won't give it to me. My brother was like okay grin I'm going home grin. So I went in and he locked the door, I asked him for the toy and he said he won't give it to me unless I let him touch me again, I said no!!! And headed for the door, he grabbed me and pushed me to the chair I tried pushing him off but he was very much stronger than I was. Long story short, he did it again, gave me to the toy, I went to him, gave it to Lil bro and he hugged me. I went into the room and cried seriously asking God to forgive me. But it didn't stop here, it continued for years until I got older and strong enough and fought him one day before it all ended. Up till now, I still haven't told my brother what really happened.

Then again 3 years ago I was raped by my church group leader! I won't mention the church. This woman is married and older than my own mother! All her 3 kids are schooling in the UK! Her husband is a manager in one of the top oil companies ( Name withheld). At my workplace, I was working in the customer care sector and meet clients daily. Lots of sugar mummy's wanted me to be there son, some told me directly others where hiding about it but opened up later. This woman was just good to me and at the same time always preaching to me about Jesus so I didn't suspect her in any way. She invited me to her church because I just moved to the state recently and didn't have a church at that time. So I started worshipping at her church, so one day she invited me to her house fellowship and I went, after the fellowship she asked me to wait behind so I could help her tidy the place and I did before I left she gave me 4k for TP, I refused but she insisted so I took it. I kept going for house fellowship every week and she always gave me TP (4k, 6k, 10k). Every time I asked her why she gave me so much just for transport, she will say she's encouraging me because she knew I wasn't earning much.
So one day I went for house fellowship, as usual, I stayed behind to arrange the place, then took the plates to the kitchen. I noticed someone walk into the kitchen and turned off the light I was like, ma did you off the light? She said yes. I said okay... But I'm still using it, she didn't answer me and kept walking close to me then suddenly hugged me. I just stood, and was like ma is there any problem, she said no! And kept hugging me. After a while she let me go and I rushed off the kitchen and started gathering my stuff to go home. But when I wanted to open the door, I noticed it was locked! I searched for the keys and it wasn't where it supposed to be. I started calling for her and told her I couldn't find the keys, she said she kept it in her daughter's room I should go there and take it. I went there to look for it but couldn't find the keys, so I told her and she said she's coming to get it but she didn't come out, she was inside her room and refused to answer me. I stood there thinking of what to do next, then my girlfriend started calling me! I told her I just left the fellowship and she was shouting at me that it's almost 11 pm and I'm not back yet, I pleaded with her that we had a meeting blah blah blah. I ended the calling and started calling madam to come open her door let me go home for christ sake. The woman no gree, I called my roommate and told him the situation of things and he told me not to worry, I shouldn't answer my girlfriends call again, he will call her and tell her my phone was stolen and they beat me up but I'm home sleeping.
I was there waiting in the sitting room till past twelve before she opened the door almost unclad and was smiling at me. At this moment I was already angry angry asked her to open the door let me go and she started shouting at me before I knew it she slapped me! And my body went cold instantly. She said I should forget about going home today except I do what she says. Then the next minute she started begging me that she's sorry, she's lonely and needed someone to talk to. I couldn't say anything, as she was begging her hands were already going inside my Jeans. I was like Ma please I beg you in the name of God please stop let me go. I started preaching to her that she's married and this is evil the woman stood up and started crying that she's sorry it's the devil's hand work.
At that point, I thought everything was fine but I need to leave immediately! She told me the key is in her child's room and where to get it. I didn't trust going into that room alone, but I went anyway, the key wasn't where she said it was. And I as I was about leaving the room to go tell her, she's already at the door, then walked in and closed the door. She told me I can't go, and she hasn't had sex in a long time, so If I don't want her to tell her husband I raped her I should allow her do what she wants or she will call her husband and scream on the phone.
My eyes flashed before my eyes again, I tried talking to her again and she started calling him on the phone and put it on speaker phone so I can see she's not playing about it. I thought of going to prison and losing my job and worse ending up in the news. Then I accepted on the condition we use protection, she already had everything with her, even a lubricant! Then I knew she planned the whole thing. The sad truth is at that time I was still a virgin and never had sex with a woman.

Again sorry for the long post, but before you ask what's the name of this movie I really don't care if you believe it or not! And if you think it has no physiological effect then you're very wrong. I'm very withdrawn and find it extremely difficult to trust anyone. I have no friends! I don't ever near a church or want to hear anything about churches. (she attends a big church and I see her on TV sometimes singing praises). The moment I see an older woman I look at you in disgust, and before you say anything I'm already hating you. It's been years and I'm battling depression, so I need sleeping pills to sleep properly. At some point, I turned to drugs and later stopped because of its effects physiologically.
Being forced against your will to have sex is rape! And men get raped too and I don't think it's fun when it's a woman your mother's age and if that's a fantasy for you then you need to get your brain examined.
cry wish I could hold u right now nd tell u it's gonna be fine. Jst be strong dear.

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Celebrities / Re: Tope Alabi In Pain As Fraudster Extort Money In Her Name On Instagram by Ellabae(f): 6:35am On Jul 21, 2018
ayusco85:


Why are you this jobless? Are u sure you are human not a robot?

Just asking
So commenting has made one jobless? Ah Mind ur own business.
Health / Re: "Having Multiple Sex Partners May Give You Cancer" - Doctor Warns Women (Video) by Ellabae(f): 9:14pm On Jul 12, 2018
undecided Sincerely I don't see any reasonable reason why a lady should av multiple sex partners.

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Family / Re: "Cheating Is Okay If Your Home Is Okay" - Nigerian Man Advises by Ellabae(f): 7:02am On Jul 10, 2018
I hear women say that a lot. It's really surprising. Cheating is a no no for my marriage. I can never stay with a cheating man.

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Sports / Re: World Cup: France Vs Belgium - 1 - 0 (Final) by Ellabae(f): 3:14pm On Jul 09, 2018
Belgium for the cup
Romance / Re: Pharmacist Refuses To Sell Condom To A Lady, Say It's Against Her Faith by Ellabae(f): 3:06pm On Jul 09, 2018
Hmmmmmmmmmmn
Romance / Re: Corper Proposes To His Girlfriend During NYSC Passing Out Parade In Bayelsa by Ellabae(f): 12:47pm On Jul 09, 2018
Congrats to them.
Culture / Re: Ooni & Oluwo Princess Hanna And Joseph Alexander's Wedding (Photos) by Ellabae(f): 5:07pm On Jul 08, 2018
This ooni of Ife is handsome.
Sports / Re: Jose Gimenez In Tears As Uruguay Crash Out Of 2018 World Cup (Photos) by Ellabae(f): 8:46pm On Jul 06, 2018
cry Sorry for u guys. Some people commot from Group stage. Them nor cry

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Romance / Re: Braless Lady At Club Jokers In Benin Causes Commotion Online As Nigerians React by Ellabae(f): 7:18pm On Jul 06, 2018
Harrynight:


If u ain't check ur mail pls do tnx
I have replied u.
Crime / Re: Wife Cuts Off Husband’s Penis, Throws It Out Of Window For Cheating In Thailand by Ellabae(f): 6:16am On Jul 06, 2018
shocked This is shocking.....jealousy can cause some really bad things. Control ur emotions.
Sports / Re: World Cup: Colombia Vs England - 1 - 1 (3 - 4 On Penalties) Full Time by Ellabae(f): 9:46pm On Jul 03, 2018
[quote author=oshe11 post=69058334][/quote] U re entitled to ur opinion darling
Sports / Re: World Cup: Colombia Vs England - 1 - 1 (3 - 4 On Penalties) Full Time by Ellabae(f): 9:17pm On Jul 03, 2018
oshe11:
Na Every game you dey WIN oooo
cheesy Atleast be happy for me Na. Must u get bad mouth?

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Sports / Re: World Cup: Colombia Vs England - 1 - 1 (3 - 4 On Penalties) Full Time by Ellabae(f): 9:10pm On Jul 03, 2018
Wow 12k settled. So happy

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Family / Re: 61-Year-Old Woman Gives Birth To Triplets After 40 Years In Marriage. Photos by Ellabae(f): 8:32pm On Jul 03, 2018
Congrats ma'am
Sports / Re: World Cup: Colombia Vs England - 1 - 1 (3 - 4 On Penalties) Full Time by Ellabae(f): 8:27pm On Jul 03, 2018
Pls Colombia jst score one Biko

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Romance / Re: Deaf And Mute Couple Wed In Akwa Ibom . Photos by Ellabae(f): 7:29pm On Jul 03, 2018
Congrats to them
Romance / Re: Yvonne Orji And Emmanuel Acho, Her Boyfriend Vacation In Mexico (pics) by Ellabae(f): 5:58pm On Jul 03, 2018
The guy is cute. I love that muscles
Celebrities / Re: Benson Okonkwo Shaves His Hair With Razor Blade For N150k by Ellabae(f): 3:37pm On Jul 03, 2018
Ok good for u. U gat passion for ur work.

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Sports / Re: Sweden Vs Switzerland: World Cup (1 - 0) On 3rd July 2018 by Ellabae(f): 3:29pm On Jul 03, 2018
Goal Goal nd over 2.5
Celebrities / Re: Georgina Onuoha Reacts As Juliet Ibrahim Builds A New House by Ellabae(f): 11:40am On Jul 03, 2018
Congrats girl
Crime / Re: 4-Year-Old Boy Killed By His Father's Landlord In Ogun (Graphic Photo) by Ellabae(f): 11:34am On Jul 03, 2018
RIP son. So sad

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Sports / Re: Ronaldo-Messi Fight Ends Russian Couple’s Marriage In Divorce by Ellabae(f): 10:53am On Jul 03, 2018
shocked This is shocking
Family / Re: Man Died Of Heart Attack After His Wife Confessed To Him That She Cheated by Ellabae(f): 8:09am On Jul 03, 2018
I don't believe this story. But if true, the woman is a disgrace
Family / Re: Husbands Cooks For His Pregnant Wife, Feeds & Pampers Her In Warri (Photos) by Ellabae(f): 10:19pm On Jul 02, 2018
donstan18:
Nigerian women will prefer getting credit alert from their husbands than that shiiiiiiit
grin Seconded

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Family / Re: Husbands Cooks For His Pregnant Wife, Feeds & Pampers Her In Warri (Photos) by Ellabae(f): 10:18pm On Jul 02, 2018
Really romantic.

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Sports / Re: Belgium Vs Japan: World Cup (3 - 2) On 2nd July 2018 by Ellabae(f): 9:23pm On Jul 02, 2018
[quote author=Dead post=69028253][/quote] cheesy Lol I will jst start crying
Sports / Re: Belgium Vs Japan: World Cup (3 - 2) On 2nd July 2018 by Ellabae(f): 9:03pm On Jul 02, 2018
AxceX:
lol I'm not sweetie
How's the japan and over 1.5 coming along
cheesy I'm still on the safe side. I can't never stake on one team. Japan own is over but Belgium own is settled till tomorrow
Sports / Re: Belgium Vs Japan: World Cup (3 - 2) On 2nd July 2018 by Ellabae(f): 9:00pm On Jul 02, 2018
Them try. Up Belgium. Over 2.5 settled
Sports / Re: Belgium Vs Japan: World Cup (3 - 2) On 2nd July 2018 by Ellabae(f): 8:44pm On Jul 02, 2018
MrCork:
..any chicks on this thread wanna discuss marriage? ..not football (Proper convo) smiley
Welcome back. Where av u been?

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