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HealthRe: Dr. Stella Emmanuel On COVID-19: 'With Hydroxychloroquine I Cured 350 Patients' by Ellasure: 1:38pm On Jul 28, 2020
DexterousOne:
"DEMOCRATS WERE WORKING WITH CHINA?
This guy has to be re.tarded undecided


And no
Donald Trump is NOT winning re election
He will lose


Donald Trump has exhibited incompetent leadership
And deserves to be shown the way out
which Donald Trump?

you must have been sleeping in the past four years or in the basement with Biden your candidate
HealthRe: Dr. Stella Emmanuel On COVID-19: 'With Hydroxychloroquine I Cured 350 Patients' by Ellasure: 1:36pm On Jul 28, 2020
DexterousOne:
"DEMOCRATS WERE WORKING WITH CHINA?
This guy has to be re.tarded undecided


And no
Donald Trump is NOT winning re election
He will lose

which Donald Trump?

you must have been sleeping in the past four years or in the basement with Biden your candidate
Donald Trump has exhibited incompetent leadership
And deserves to be shown the way out
HealthRe: Dr. Stella Emmanuel On COVID-19: 'With Hydroxychloroquine I Cured 350 Patients' by Ellasure: 1:32pm On Jul 28, 2020
Jaqenhghar:
Because she said it its true. People shouldnt question anything abi.
do you have to question this?

you are only encouraged to come up with your own tests results on people you have treated. if you don't have any then shut up.
FamilyRe: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by Ellasure: 8:30am On Jul 21, 2020
omakay:
I think you and your wife should have a serious home management discussion.

Because from the looks of things, your wife is hugging all the attention (it is not a deliberate act) and that is not right.

Even when the children will 'naturally' accord all the praise to her because they see in the 'front-end' that she is the one handing them
those those things, she should set the record straight atimes and direct the accolades to you even when you are absent at home. Because, in the 'back-end', you are the one actually providing those things.

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Mummy: Children, come and have these things.

Children: Mummy, thank you.

Mummy: Yes, and thank your daddy too. He is the one that got them for you. He thinks of you guys all the time.



When you get back, the story will be:

Children: Daddy, Daddy, welcome........ Thank you for the gift you bought for us. We love you.


Now dont you think that would be a better narrative.
good idea and a starting point. a father has the right to let the children know that some of the money come from him. because children have fresh memory and a clean slate need to be written upon. if you fail to write good information on it you are on your own.
FamilyRe: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by Ellasure: 8:10am On Jul 21, 2020
emezuo17:
. My dear that is the fact oh, I work 28 on and off, I hardly and sometimes I look like a stranger to my kids, but I try to make up by staying at home with them as much as I could any time IAM in town, imagine my kids telling me mummy bought this and that for me, where as everything is paid by me, most times I have to tell them I actually have their mum the money.
you observed well. you now have to consciously do some of the house actions on your own but still allow madam her roles.

this topic of fathers relevance is good and beneficial to all particularly someone like you.

you have to start a venture that will involve you and your family with the kids seeing you playing active roles. your free ride in the family should come to a tactical end.

sometimes welcome extended family members and let your children listen to discussions without sitting in. create a farm and take them to the farm with you. plant and harvest together. if your compound has grass cut with kids. let them wash your cars, sweep house and wash clothes together. don't be aloof. you can do all these and still enjoy your evening out with friends.

get them engaged with you as the leader.
FamilyRe: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by Ellasure: 7:50am On Jul 21, 2020
Ladycewhy:
the bolded is a big lie, we will only make effort not be like dead beat fathers ,who's only achievement in life is to donate sperm.


It's called breaking the circle.
either dead beat or full fledged father. both have their roles in your life whether you like it or not.

when you are young and with overflowing energy you tend to go on your strength. where is the roles of your makers in your thinking and actions. when there is no relevance of God in your life then there will be no roles for any man.

there is a saying that a person that has relieved God of his responsibilities in his life has lost everything. in short the person is living on borrowed time. if you have not studied your father and mother as a book what lies ahead of you is confusion. look at USA and Europe today, they are just hanging on blessings of their forefathers. the people living in those territories are not contributing anything tangible anymore. only demonstrations and importing virtually all their needs from China. To open your eyes further, most of these territories are ruled by woman superiority, self opinionated women sponsored by rich men. the sponsors definitely have a selfish and wicked expected end. something not beneficial to the general populace.

the family is one unit of a country and what you see in the family will be reflected in such country. Nigeria is not immune. I hope you are not pursuing a path that will not lead you to your expected end.

look at the animal kingdom, males dominate and are loved. even authorities issues from the leading male and all of them support the leadership. the bible say if you are lacking wisdom go to the ants and other animal kingdom.

you don't come into the world with your power someone is in control. not you.
FamilyRe: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by Ellasure: 11:44pm On Jul 20, 2020
children of today become father and mothers tomorrow. if you say ur father was not relevant today your children will say the same about you. remember talking about others is easy and cheap. can you ask the question our Lord Jesus Christ asked his disciples, what do people say about me?

very important question. maybe you think you are a small boy or girl today, u are not small anymore because your mind is telling you that there is something u need to learn from you father but you have not learn it. it is your fault.

now, the way you learn from a woman is in the kitchen and corners of the house. from a man you have to be more deliberate and create your opportunity. during such created times you ask him tactically all questions bothering your mind and wait for him to answer. another challenge you face is your father will weight the question before answer to determine your mindset and usefulness of an answer.

men in the family as father don't easily open up to the kids unless they have examined you for trust and seriousness to life issues. with patience and consistent tactical probing he will open to you if you desire it. don't antagonize him with your lack of patience and improper approach.

men are not woman for a lot of reasons.

one law in life, a child that fail to cultivate the father stands to lose good knowledge of his family background and the family problems and successess. when your father sees in you a worthy friend your relationship is enhanced and reward could be immence. fight him you ruin your future. don't fail
RomanceRe: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Ellasure: 12:37am On Jul 17, 2020
it is simply a friendly matter. don't allow Satan to tempt you to rape an innocent girl. if you like the girl make her your own thru friendship first and allow time to dictate the future for the two of you. best wishes.
PoliticsRe: Edo PDP Governorship Ticket: Untold Story Of How Obaseki Emerged by Ellasure: 11:46am On Jul 04, 2020
thanks for this hatchet job on PDP and its procedures for selection or election of Obaseki as Edo state PDP governorship nominee.

your write up is behind in years of style and opresentation. we are in the era of US Donald Trump. nobody believes in crap stories anymore. Quoting unnamed sources several times spoiled to write up.

Coming to the saints corner where they don't pay to get political elective positions like in A PC. I am very sure your governorship candidate was dragged out of his mothers womb to come and contest. he is holier than the pope Francis and more honest than Baba Adeboye. Shithole people. Continue deceiving yourself and the like. just like your top leaders borrowed money to presidency , I hope he has paid back the money to his creditors and paid interest on top.

black man never change continue running the same story from 1960 till 2020 and you all carrying same sense to America and troubling the nation.

very foolish wise man.
HealthRe: Ekiti To Reopen Schools, Churches & Mosques As Governor Fayemi Gives Conditions by Ellasure: 2:50pm On Jul 01, 2020
logon599:
Why is no one talking about reopening higher institutions? I feel those are lesser risks than primary and secondary schools.

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higher institutions can not be described as school, abi?

ope e=foolish

what is corona virus? the first type of virus to visit mankind, the last virus to visit mankind. the most deadly virus in mankind history? jamb questions. which of the above. correct answer gets#500,000.00 instant. call me.
EducationRe: Oyo Re-opens Schools On Monday; Parents, Teachers In Dilemma by Ellasure: 1:02pm On Jun 27, 2020
let us live life with courage not with fear. just keep staying in one place forever does not mean danger will not come to meet you there. Baba God is in charge all the time. Don't mind your doctors and babalawo, two of a kind, covid 19 is here to stay and we either adapt to it by experiments with it or die all.

Gov Seyi Makinde is of the Donald Trump kind of mankind. Ready to go and solutions filled. little fear but more of searches. you are in the safest hand. let us trust their decision mechanism and procedure. it will end well.

there is no country that is not troubled by covid_19 currently. we cannot afford lock down because of our stomach and other well being issues of life.
CareerRe: My 50-Year-Old Boss Shows Massive Cleavage Whenver We Meet, What Could She Want? by Ellasure: 9:20pm On May 20, 2020
if you go for it, what do you have to loose.

be a man, be smart and chop. your coming together should be mutually beneficial. if you notice any danger withdrawal at the speed of light while you still have your senses.

you scorn her at your peril.
CareerRe: My 50-Year-Old Boss Shows Massive Cleavage Whenver We Meet, What Could She Want? by Ellasure: 9:19pm On May 20, 2020
if you go for it, what do you have to loose.

be a man, be smart and chop. your coming together should be mutually beneficial. if you notice any danger withdrawal at the speed of light while you still have your senses.
Forum GamesRe: If Given An Opportunity, Which Age Would You Choose To Be Forever? by Ellasure: 1:39pm On May 12, 2020
34 _ 35years.

matured, married with one or two kids I.e responsible, working, can take decisions by self, direct and lead a small team with some confidence. possibly also with my own house and cars and sizeable money in the bank.
RomanceRe: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Ellasure: 7:18pm On May 01, 2020
ladies should not loose guards or be confused by men behavior going forward.
once you have accepted the partner, going forward should be for you to REMAIN YOURSELF.

Do only things you will do to your father, mother etc because your marriagability assessment just commenced without announcement.

men tend to withdraw when doing assessment. you hear!
HealthRe: Bala Mohammed Authorises The Use Of Chloroquine For Treatment Of Coronavirus by Ellasure: 10:37pm On Apr 30, 2020
my Governor thanks for your messages. since this drug combination helped you it will surely help many other people.

people criticize because I learnt that they complain the chloroquine drug is tooooo cheap for doctors liking and it is also widely available cheaply.

The world is people are very weaked. we the people will use it anyway. corona virus will not kill us.
CareerRe: Abba Kyari & His Ranks From SP, CSP, ACP To Deputy Commissioner Of Police by Ellasure: 1:29pm On Apr 30, 2020
you look good to me. more promotions actually means more hard work.

I pray God grant you wisdom to manage well your new roles and position. please be very close to your maker and family.
RomanceRe: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by Ellasure: 1:25pm On Apr 30, 2020
brother, the experience stated is common nowadays. please move on with her.

But clarify she is trust worthy and my still thinking about the wounds inflicted by her past.
FamilyRe: I Am Ending My Marriage Because Of These (see Reasons And Give Advise) by Ellasure: 8:00pm On Apr 29, 2020
I had similar experiences@1989 with three friends. we all started life together then. Two of the marriages parted ways by@
1990/91 upon discoveries like yours. Things went well in the men life upon marriages to people they liked latter. they prospered as well.

the third guy that stayed with the patner continue to experience further lies and the woman continue to withdraw inward due to your identified weaknesses. the children don't really know who to trust between the father and mother. life was rough for the two. eventually they had to separate.

one really bad flaw you have identified is the fact that she refused to attend same church with you. she will always be shifty and can not trust you fully. she will also never obey you or encourage your children to obey you.

so you have your choice to make I have only help you to predict the future. Regards.
PoliticsRe: Lockdown: Makinde To Relax Curfew, Secretariat Reopens On Monday by Ellasure: 7:34am On Apr 26, 2020
God's blessings and guidance upon you is confirmed. you are reasonable and focus. Engineering education with oil field work experience is not wasted on the platter of politics.

very sound decisions and details progressive opening up. follow the US states opening up procedure.
FamilyRe: Can A Woman Return Her Bride Price, And Should The Man Accept? by Ellasure: 3:50pm On Apr 14, 2020
don't eat your cake and still imagine it is still in your hand,

reprobates.
FamilyRe: Can A Woman Return Her Bride Price, And Should The Man Accept? by Ellasure: 3:47pm On Apr 14, 2020
The lady requesting this advice is only selfish thinking. you are hiding behind one finger. Laws of nature and your traditions Will very soon catch up with you. you acknowledge that the man paid your bride price and fulfill your traditions but now you want to run.

first you have not given information about the cause of seperation leading to you leaving separately for some time now. you now come up with a one sided proposal for divorce.

To many youth, marriage is a spiritual joining of two and witnessed by God's angels and several people. when you marry and failed to cooperate with your partner you are just disturbing yourselves. you will be running from one man to another because all men behave same.

for the problems you have created with your bad behaviour go and complained to your church or mosque marriage counsellor and seek genuine advice from people that know you physically.

if you apply any advice from this page you are floating to nowhere and oyo lo wa.
PhonesRe: Which Data Plan Are You Using On This Lockdown? by Ellasure: 10:16am On Apr 09, 2020
try mtn and glo data services for a change. they could be good for pocket managers.
PhonesRe: Which Data Plan Are You Using On This Lockdown? by Ellasure: 10:12am On Apr 09, 2020
try them. glo and mtn
PhonesRe: Which Data Plan Are You Using On This Lockdown? by Ellasure: 10:11am On Apr 09, 2020
best tries for me mtn and glo services and prices are fairly affordable for poor man's pockets.
PhonesRe: Which Data Plan Are You Using On This Lockdown? by Ellasure: 10:10am On Apr 09, 2020
you want to start data price war with the telecommunications companies?
FamilyRe: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by Ellasure: 12:58pm On Apr 04, 2020
Thanks for the wisdom employed to raise this topic. I will be very short in my response.

for longer life and prosperity it is good to marry more than two women in your life and life time.

one woman is one nation and their life and expectations does not match a man's aspirations. there no amount of profession you do that will help because they are made of sterner stuff than men. a man needs to allow them to live life to their satisfaction watching from side and occasionally suggesting. this will enable the man to also aspire to other issues of concern.

Family development is a serious business for men while the woman busy herself only with what comes out of her. Men are more gregarious.

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