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oraclefemi: so if you had sex that night your destiny would be destroyed? Dude youre eventually going to have sex , sooner or later . Sex only plays a minute role in who youre going to become .

Like i said earlier, it was gonna be unprotected..

You know what's involved..

I wasn't treated the way you were treated@Lovette so i wouldn't know how you feel...But one thing is certain they made you feel bad..Its as worse as child trafficking..

For now, what you truly need is to believe and look to the future..See where you're going to..Make it your only focus and trust me, nothing would pull your zeal down..

I must confess you're a good writer..Get a diary, write your good moments and anytime you feel sad, read those happy moments..Try to be free with your parents for- They are the reason you're existing..

In all, don't get blinded by hatred..

Learn to love those who hate you and make sure you don't do thesame to your kids..Teach them what's best so this barbaric act of Nigerian Parents would be extincted from our country..

Thanks..

@Lovette...You don't know how sad i am..I feel like hugging you just to say a big SORRY..

It's truly appalling how your parents would treat you like an animal..Believe me you, you tried in terms of perseverance..

Trust me, there's something unique about you..ITS WHO YOU ARE..You may be a stammerer but i sense this dying urge in your statement..The urge to pour out your anger..

One word for you, Never let anyone make you feel like you're worthless..Pretend like you don't listen to them..

more to come..

Hope its helping someone?

teemy: Blush!

Wifey come over here o, some dude just made a pass at me on nairaland.

Lma0..

I don't wanna get queried by her o..Pls don't call her.

bluuu: i can laugh wt my family n discuss anything but not my love life or my friendship wt pple

That's nice.

loswhite: and yet u will not live d romance section and topics relating to sex. I think u should spend more time on other sections dat will not get u paranoid...Ehen @ op sex na food haba hw u go three 4 morning three 4 night hmmm na doctors prescription.

Lol..I love the romance section or Sextion as you would say..

egubere: @ OP u took a wise nd best decision. Thumb up. Cheerz.

Yay!! Thanks

jacksony: U don't have point at all

Ok

captianfreeman: Those who will criticise you will, over all it is a good piece.

Thanks

oraclefemi: with or without sex if youre meant to end up useless you will . Cut that dullshit and face reality. how many seminars will you attend before you become a man..i started early and i am doing very fine in life. Sex is a thing of the mind. Dont come and give us cloudy advice just because liver fail you .

Hey!! The main of the Seminar was to draw my attention from the upcoming mistake..

Thought you would get my point..

pweetixandy: yh...kinda

I'm sorry anyway..Just hope you patch up things with them pretty soon..

Tolexander: don't mind the sig bro!

Lol..I'll try not to

pweetixandy: i Wld miSs my sibS,not my Parents

You got issues with your parents?

That's not good if i'm actually right..Don't get me wrongly.

soe: 14yrs ooo....op.....you don't have to expose yourself

I don't understand you..

resurrectn: Lol, Very close indeed
I think what pweetixandy doubts is missing her parents eventually

Exact presumption..

Chylo: You seem to believe that expressing displeasure at something must be done by shouting and verbal fighting. That is quite immature. Anyway, I think we have both derailed this thread a bit.

I agree with the OP. No hurtful words should be said at any-time to one's spouse.

Lol..

resurrectn: Lol, kal it love or whatever u feel like but whenever I hook up with my sis, we usually take a trip down memory lane n laff out our brains n pray we don't end up doin the same with our kids.
The thing is some parents can really f.uck up, the kids will hv to choose to be bitter about it or b strong and get over it. I thank my parents for helping me develop a tough skin.

That's really nice

[quote author=oko-oloyun]The degree or d cause of a fight determine how crazy people might behave during a fight which also go a long way in determining what you say to ur spouse. For example, if ur spouse hit ur scrotum with a pestle during a fight i swear, u will forget all dis u wrote.[/quote]"Choi!! Ayiba"
He exclaims..

Does she wanna kill me?

pweetixandy: i doubt dat

He's not lying..We're very close friends..
Resurrectn na lie?

resurrectn: Hahahaha, nah my culinary skills are on point plus I cn always get sum1 to help out in d kitchen.
It's just nostalgic feelings when I miss them a little.

Awwww..I think i'm tearing a little..

*sobs* Such rare love..
Hehehe

teemy: @Elli-dude I really appreciate your courage especially in a state of no monitoring by peering eyes and no one else knowing buy yet you were able to make a stand and do the right thing. Sin is pleasurable and will certainly stare us all straight in the eyes at one point after the other but to decide to not go through is where the real strenght of a man lies.

Wishing you well - Teemy

I think i'm in love..With what?








Oops...Not saying






Certainly not with you, YOUR WORDS!!

Chylo: Who said anything about keeping your hurt to yourself?

You said you've seen spouses who never raised their voices on each other right?

Its as good as pretending they're alright when they're not..Except maybe its a super perfect marriage..

resurrectn: Lol, I no longer live with my parents and the first couple of months was like heaven on earth. But u ll miss them eventually, even if it's just a little.

Lol..Let me guess..You couldn't cook.

Front page suggestion pls..

You would agree with me that parents sometimes are rude to their kids and so for sure deny them rights to express their views..
With this reason, i created this topic...

https://www.nairaland.com/1551567/how-most-nigerian-parents-treat

Hope its not bad..Pls if its not worth a chance in the front page i'd like a reply from you..

Thanks a lot..

Tolexander: it's something i can do. But not now cos it's a lill tasky bro!

Truly right + funny signature.

Chylo: All these things listed here are only said in a heated argument, or a verbal fight (as was used in the topic). My point of not fighting my spouse still stands. I have known couples who never raised voices with one another.

And you think keeping your hurt to yourself as emulated by those couples, helps a lot?

pweetixandy: my sistaz n I r cloSe tho...my folks traveled n i wiSh dey wld remain there!

Lma0..Can we know why?

RedBenson: ANYMORE? So u been doing it before?

Jez twice but a long long time ago

mekstaniac: Elli I tink u have an admirer. Hook up with dis 1 and don't screw it up...ok?

Lol.. Check her age..I've resented fully..

nemesiss: the op was sent here to collect souls......thank God I didn't comment on this thread

*Smiles*

Chylo: Nope, don't plan to fight my spouse. We will sit and talk it out like reasonable and mature adults.

You know fighting doesn't necessarily mean PUNCH KICK SLAP BLOW CRASH SPLASH KNOCK AND WHAT YOU CAN NAME..

Many person's are guilty of this fault but i admire their candid sincerity..