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Business / Re: Jaiz Bank Dispensing New Naira Notes, Refuses To Sell To The Rich; Twitter Users by Emary(f): 6:16am On Jan 31
All this hypocrisy! There are no Christian or church-owned banks in Nigeria.
Investment / Re: For The Deriv Traders by Emary(f): 4:16pm On Jan 03
Hi. Please, any active Deriv traders within Apapa, Lagos should kindly DM me. Thanks.
Family / Re: Mum Shocked As Her Daughter Keeps Bringing Different Animals Home (Video) by Emary(f): 2:31pm On Dec 17, 2022
The mom should not bother much about it, I was like her while growing up. I owned all sorts of animals; squirrels, rabbit, chickens, goat, parrot, and made desperate effort to own a monkey and a tortoise too grin cheesy

You're like me except that I still love animals even in adulthood. I have owned several dogs, cats, baby goats, rabbits, guinea pigs, parrots, budgies, tortoises, turtles, and fish. I also often caught dragonflies and butterflies. Thankfully, my mother often indulged me. There was even a family in my neighborhood growing up who raised exotic animals including a baboon, pythons, and small crocodiles living with them.

I still have many dogs and I'm drawn to animals everywhere (I even rescued a pigeon who was too weak to fly about 3weeks back). The only challenge is my other responsibilities which are sometimes overwhelming but the love I have for animals is still very strong.

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Celebrities / Re: Julius Agwu Confirms Marriage Crash: ‘My Wife Said She Was Tired' by Emary(f): 9:28am On Dec 11, 2022
It might not be his fault. Taking care of a sick person can put a lot of strain on any relationship.


Health / Re: 1-Year-Old Boy Drowns After Falling Into Bucket Of Water In Anambra (Pix, Video) by Emary(f): 10:20am On Dec 05, 2022
A dead child was rushed into my hospital earlier this year with a similar story but I couldn't fathom how it could be true. It's really sad.
Fashion / Re: Ladies, Did You Ever Wear This & Why Did You Stop Wearing It? by Emary(f): 2:18pm On Dec 01, 2022
Please, it's not a "shimi" but a chemise which is a full-length undergarment to wear under dresses while the waist length is called a petticoat. Some clothes still require them especially if see-through.
Politics / Re: FFK And Dino Hug And Laugh Weeks After Dragging Each Other Online by Emary(f): 5:33am On Nov 29, 2022
They must be very very shameless after the horrible things they said about each other.
Pets / Re: Gray African Parrot Price? by Emary(f): 10:18am On Nov 26, 2022
They can be gotten in major markets. Ask from the Hausa communities. They will direct you.


Politics / Re: Naira Redesign: You Must Put Arabic Sign On Every Note - MURIC To CBN by Emary(f): 11:42am On Nov 01, 2022
We also want crosses on every note.
Crime / Re: Attack On Church Near Abuja Left Woman And Her Daughter Dead And Others Injured by Emary(f): 3:33pm On Oct 25, 2022
The terror attacks the USA govt. warned against have started.


Technology Market / Re: Solar Products by Emary(f): 2:05pm On Oct 25, 2022
What's the cost of the H-series and does it also have payments by installments?

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Family / Re: My Pregnant Ex Girlfriend Has Refused My Help by Emary(f): 3:27pm On Oct 12, 2022
God bless you. You be beta man.

It's a difficult situation...

1. You can't let her alone suffer in this condition with your baby.

2. It's quite difficult and almost impossible to feed four extra mouths, yourself, your wife-to-be, and her unborn baby.

Anyways, needless to judge you, let's do the positive.

I think she loves her sisters so much and don't want anyone to exploit or abuse them. But of course, she shouldn't make it look like your responsibility.

That aside. If you can, can you discuss renting a place for the other two clearly stating the degree of inconvenience it will be for all four to be with you both? Maybe, starting sth like a small-scale business they can manage and sell? Even if two of the eldest manage the business and the other little two stay with you? If you can?

Is it sth you can afford?

There are no rules in love.

Don't get me wrong. I know it's not your responsibility...but like you said, she's an orphan. Maybe she feeds her siblings..and of course, this condition will prevent that. I don't see any wrong in helping people if I have the means either.

Also attempt to erase the thought of you doing her a favor, maybe by sending her money for upkeep. Yeah, I know it's common for folks to advise you to stop sending the money since it looks like a favor...but man, remember it's your life that happens not theirs. It's your baby.

I see you only have a problem with their staying with you..but haven't a problem helping them. Whilst it may look impossible, if you are in a situation to help them from your heart, you can do so without inconveniencing yourself too.

Nice of you to take responsibility!
Ignore the irritants!
Be the man.

I wish you success.

Lalasticlala, mynd44 come help this OP

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Music/Radio / Re: Nigerian Highlife Songs Of The 1940s-1980s by Emary(f): 8:08am On Oct 12, 2022
OP, this is a wonderful thread. Thanks for the beautiful memories of my grandparents.
Education / Re: Folasade Ogunsola Emerges UNILAG's First Female VC (Pictures) by Emary(f): 10:37pm On Oct 07, 2022
That's my teacher. Congratulations, ma!

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Politics / Re: Sanwo-Olu Announces Salary Increment For Lagos Public Service (Video) by Emary(f): 3:02pm On Oct 04, 2022
How sustainable is this increment when Lagos is N5,281T in debt? We can expect more taxation during the next 4yrs to cover it. SMH!
Phones / Re: Facebook: Nigeria Sues Meta, Seeks ₦30 Billion Penalty by Emary(f): 12:08pm On Oct 04, 2022
Pure rubbish! APC has forgotten its avid use of social media during the previous elections.


Politics / Re: Lagos Island Women Walk For Bola Tinubu (Video) by Emary(f): 12:20pm On Oct 03, 2022
It's massive because they use state-owned vehicles to go pack women from other states for their campaigns. It has always been the strategy right from AC times.

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Politics / Re: Worst Roads In Obosi, Anambra - Soludo Takes A Tour Himself (Video) by Emary(f): 12:03pm On Oct 01, 2022
I am from Obosi and those are deep interior roads in the inner villages. The main roads are well tarred, and Obi revamped and expanded the main access road through the town during his tenure. The erosion issue is not a quick fix for any governor as the clay soil is difficult to bind along slopes.

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Nairaland / General / Re: Why Is It So Easy For Certain Class Of Persons To Travel Abroad? by Emary(f): 10:17am On Sep 11, 2022
The rich have valuable assets that show they have strong ties to their home country. They can prove they have the means and funds to support themselves in foreign countries instead of going to burden their economies. Also, they have extra money to spend there thereby improving the economies of the countries they are visiting.

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Politics / Re: Labor Dares INEC, NIDCOM, Goes For Diaspora Funds To Support Election by Emary(f): 6:14am On Sep 05, 2022
What about all the advertising being done in London and New York on Tinubu's behalf? Where is the source of funding from? Hypocrites!

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TV/Movies / Re: Breaking: Nbc Revokes Silverbird, Ait, Raypower Fm, Rhythm Fm’s Licences by Emary(f): 12:38pm On Aug 19, 2022
Career / Re: What Was Your Childhood Ambition And Which Work Are You Doing Now? (Pic) by Emary(f): 5:31pm On Aug 17, 2022

Doctor (It's overhyped)

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Nairaland / General / Re: New, Potentially Fatal Langya Virus Detected ... by Emary(f): 4:11am On Aug 10, 2022
China again?
Romance / Re: Mad Man Storms Church During Mass, Knocks Priest; Funny Video Drops by Emary(f): 10:14am On Jul 11, 2022
It's the demon in the man being offended by the prayers.
Politics / Re: 2023: Obi-dient Movement Is Not Violence - Peter Obi by Emary(f): 4:51pm On Jul 10, 2022
Highly OBIDient!

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Foreign Affairs / Re: The Sky Turns Green In South Dakota, USA ( Pics, Video) by Emary(f): 9:16am On Jul 10, 2022
Yellow sunlight at sunset + Blue sky reflecting dust = Green. It's nothing supernatural. Deep purple skies would be weirder. A range of colors can be seen also at the Northern lights.
Education / Re: Do I Quit My Job Or Keep Getting Distracted In Medical School? Help Me by Emary(f): 5:39pm On Jul 06, 2022
Hello everyone,
I am in dire need of your honest advice. I am a fan of Nairaland but created this because of identity.
I am a medical student studying medicine in one of the public universities in Nigeria. When the ASUU strike newly started, I started looking for things to do and clients to work for. Fortunately, I got two clients who pay me about 200K per month since April. It varies; last month, I earned 199K, this month will be 220K+ if I work harder.
I have saved most of the money to write professional exams.
However, my school still conducts lectures through Zoom and we have not had rest since the strike started. We do have classes from 8am till 5pm except on some days. I am about three months back and our test is coming up soon.
Please do you advise I quite my 200k/per month and focus on my studies seeing that i have lots of materials to read and prepare for my test?
P.S: I have tried balancing but the freelance work is highly demanding. What do i do please?

Lalasticlala please help. Push this to front page. Thank you.

If you have saved enough for professional exams, please quit and face your med school studies. What you earn even as a house officer can exceed 200k and you can earn much more if you travel out. Don't let cheap change distract you.

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Family / Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Emary(f): 10:20am On Jul 06, 2022
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

There's nothing wrong with you and you're not a failure. It's the present economy that is causing it. So long as you are helping your parents and contributing to the bills at home, don't worry. Just set aside money as often as you can towards a place then move out when you get one. Don't let anyone pressure you into feeling bad about it. During the post-2008 depression in America, a lot of young people had to move back in with their parents until things picked up again.

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Family / Re: Four Siblings Die In Fire Outbreak In Lagos by Emary(f): 9:54am On Jul 06, 2022
Which kind sleep, wey dey eighteen years old boy dey sleep?
That made him not to notice the fire in time in other to open the door.

They had most likely passed out from carbon monoxide poisoning before the flames spread to them.
Religion / Re: Fr. Evaristus Bassey: ''Virgin Mary Appeared To Church Members In Calabar" by Emary(f): 10:37am On Jul 02, 2022
I'm often skeptical about such things but the story of Fatima, Portugal, and the appearances seen by a whole community of people including journalists leave much room for questioning. I have also witnessed strange occurrences after the deaths of loved ones. It is only when we die we will have enough clarity about our faiths so we shouldn't outrightly discount what these people have witnessed.

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