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Phones / Re: Help; How Do I Solve "Stucked On Logo Ish" On My Samsung Note4 by Emary(f): 7:09am On Jun 09, 2020
movicy:


sister. did you checked the part where i said i cant afford another phone for now?? i need to get it working.

Sorry. I understand.
Phones / Re: Help; How Do I Solve "Stucked On Logo Ish" On My Samsung Note4 by Emary(f): 11:58am On Jun 08, 2020
Sell me the phone if it proves beyond repair. I just need the LCD. Mine has ink splashes all over it.
Health / Re: I Am AS And I Am Getting Married To AS by Emary(f): 6:00pm On Jun 04, 2020
You can still marry her if you are both committed. The only thing is that you should not conceive naturally but through IVF with genetic testing. That way there's no chance of bringing in an SS child to suffer in this world. Every pregnancy still has a good 75% chance of not being SS but it's definitely not worth the risk.

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Food / Re: Snails Available by Emary(f): 5:04pm On May 26, 2020
Pickup from which area, pls.?
Health / Re: Loss Of Taste And Smell by Emary(f): 1:09pm On May 24, 2020
You probably all have the milder form of COVID-19. Those with loss of taste and smell usually have much milder symptoms which can easily be mistaken for malaria.

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NYSC / Re: Please I Need Directions To Catholic Coppers House In Abuja by Emary(f): 11:45am On May 19, 2020

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Family / Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Emary(f): 1:25am On May 19, 2020
adontcare:
God is not mocked. What a man/ woman sow, that they will reap. Ask ur mum and dad what they did wrong. There must be something evil they had done that is affecting ur 42 yr brother. The bible said, train up a child in d way that he should grow and when he is old he will not depart from it. They where sparing the rod on him and now spoilt

Your statement is extremely insensitive. John 9:2-3: "And his disciples asked him, 'Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?' Jesus answered, 'It was not that this man sinned, or his parents, but that the works of God might be displayed in him.' As a parent, one can only do one's best and leave the rest.

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Family / Re: Please Help Look Into This Family Issue (I'm Loosing My Mind) by Emary(f): 10:30pm On May 17, 2020
Ope88:
Please don't read and pass, also Pardon all my typo, I'm typing out of duress.

I am from a family of six, 3 girls, 1 boy including my parents.
I had a horrible childhood experience, My Mum (no thanks to her) was something I can't quantify, I can't start writing every of the things she did and I can't say If the religion she practiced contributed largely to the devilish attitude she put up while growing up.

My mum has no good record anywhere, in the church, with the neighbours, with her siblings, we the children, her in laws and even at work, She was always at war with people, if she dreams that someone was trying to attack her in the dream, if she sees the person the following day, she was ready to attack the person.

Also, she would curse her children at any slightest provocation and leave only my brother out(last born and spoilt), She doesn't have any good relationship with her siblings and won't allow my dad visit his family member, I remembered them (Mum and dad) always saying this (don't be unequally yoked together with unbelievers). To them anyone who isn't a Christian (deeper life) is not supposed to be associated with.. My dad on countless occasion will call his mum a witch just because she was a Muslim and one of the oloyes of allasalatu(Muslims will understand this) and had nothing to do with his family members.

This went on and on like this until my elder sister moved out of the house and in the process of trying to find her feet, she got pregnant and my mom practically tormented her life, she later got married to the man, and for that act alone, she's always at logger heads with my sister and her husband..

Later, I got married and then my younger sister followed suit, leaving my dad, herself and my younger brother (whom I have disowned).

Ever since the three of us got happily married, and left the home, my dad slipped into severe depression. Although he has been depressed given lots of things he encountered, job loss, no social interaction, unforgiveness amongst others, it became severe when all his female children left, then from severe depressgion, he started having mental issues, he would wake up and leave the house talking to himself, or start preaching and going out of point with anyone he finds on the street, sometimes he would leave and come home at night, my younger brother who is supposed to comfort and help him, treats him with disdain, my mum who is supposed to check mate his excesses would leave him to his folly and now he has started standing up to her and everyone else in the house..

At 26, he doesn't know his bearing and obviously we have been seeing signs of him wanting to inherit the houses my father built in the same compound.. (and we have noticed that my mum has been making him understand that every of the property belongs to him).

The last straw which broke the camel's back happened one week ago, my elder sister ( who is 9 year older than him) took advantage of the lockdown and visited my father, he is usually exited when we are around him whc helps his severe moodiness. There and then an argument broke out between my sister and my brother, she asked why my brother was insulting our mum for an action that happened in the compound, he beat my sister up and her three children and boasted that, the rest of us (my sister and I) dare not do anything and that by the way we must stop coming to the house, that if he sees any of us He will beat us up, My mum who was supposed to resolve the matter started blaming my sister, asking her why she always love to come visiting, that she's supposed to be in her husband's house or father in laws place and immediately called her hubby to come pick her.

Its been one week my sister left for her house, my daddy who enjoyed her company when she was present started misbehaving again at home. He started roaming, he started cursing everyone.

The reason I'm writing is this, my dad is no where to be found, he left the house yesterday Friday 15th May 2020 and was last seen in ITAMAGA IKORODU, we keep trying his number but he is not picking and now his number is switched off, I'm sure he is still wandering about.

My sisters and I have decided that even when he is found(by God's grace) we do not what him to go back living with my mum and brother.

What other alternatives do we have to care for him, as his own siblings are not happy with him either for abandoning them and their mum (his own mum),, when they needed him the most..


I AM SO SORRY FOR THE LONG POST.. PLEASE HELP ME.



Modified..... My dad has been found today Sunday, 17th May 2020, my sweet mother (elder sister) found her, she has been on her feet since he went missing, luckily he was found but in a terrible state, I saw him via video calls and I wept, he can't recognize even my sister again, and just muttering some words we don't understand, he closes his eyes while saying this and asked everyone to go and leave him, he looks so faint and weak and would not leave where he his...My sister has called his siblings and she's waiting for the next line of ACTION from them.

I'll keep updating the house with reports from our end..

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Health / Re: Still No Proof Coronavirus Can Be Spread Through Surface Contact – WHO by Emary(f): 7:01pm On May 16, 2020
So much confusing information.
Nairaland / General / Re: Here Is How A Rare Pink Elephant Was Caught On Camera by Emary(f): 5:04am On May 13, 2020
It's so beautiful!
Politics / Re: Matter Of Urgent Public Importance On The Need To Review & Renegotiate Existing by Emary(f): 2:45am On May 13, 2020
I hope the issues raised are addressed promptly.
Business / Re: Best Trading Broker That Has Easy Withdrawal by Emary(f): 11:40am On May 12, 2020
FXTM
Investment / Re: Free Bitcoin by Emary(f): 2:29am On May 11, 2020
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Pets / Re: What To Bath A Dog With by Emary(f): 11:35pm On May 09, 2020
Yes but not too frequently. Plain liquid soap will suffice.
Pets / Re: Dog Owners Help!!! by Emary(f): 12:29pm On May 09, 2020
It might have a broken leg. The first thing is to try wrapping a piece of wood with a bandage or cloth firmly around the injured leg with it to keep the leg straight and immobile. Be careful to guard its mouth as it is likely to bite out of pain. PCM won't be effective enough. You should still take him to a vet asap.

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Science/Technology / Re: Whatsapp, Has Made Sending & Receiving Money Easier With A New Paymet Feature by Emary(f): 6:15am On May 05, 2020
Great!
Family / Re: How are you coping with your Hair during this Lockdown? by Emary(f): 9:28pm On Apr 27, 2020
omoharry:
My people, I decided to do my washing and setting by myself oo!! I nor know sey the dark and lovely conditioner I got happens to be fake.Na so my hair tangle and I could not untangle due to the yeye conditioner- not even after blow-drying it.Omo na so I vex carry scissors slash my lovely long hair so that I can have some peace embarassed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed embarassed embarassed embarassed
I hope to cut it into a proper shape and style after this corona virus is gone.
Well I m just rocking my uneven cut hair for now and feeling sorry for myself grin grin grin grin

Eeyah! Pele! It will grow back.

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Family / Re: How are you coping with your Hair during this Lockdown? by Emary(f): 4:37pm On Apr 26, 2020
For the first time in my life, I bought attachment and used Youtube videos to learn how to twist and weave. It turned out very nice though not too smooth but that's ok since my hair is natural. I can't afford to sit in any saloon now for girls to be gisting over my head.

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Business / Re: Please How Reliable Is FXTM Forex Trading Company In Nigeria by Emary(f): 1:24am On Apr 24, 2020
FXTM is genuine and pays out regularly and fast. The crediting of your account doesn't take 3 days. It's same day.

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Romance / Re: Mention That Person You Will Still Hug by Emary(f): 12:29am On Apr 24, 2020
My brother and sister.
Health / Re: Do You Personally Know Anyone Who Has Tested Positive Or Died Of Coronavirus? by Emary(f): 11:34pm On Apr 23, 2020
My best friend, a doctor in Ireland, had it. It was mild and she recovered. She got it from an asymptomatic colleague.

The first doctor reported dead in Lagos was in his residency training when I was a student.
Family / Re: I Am Giving Away 50k To 5 Women / Pregnant And Mothers Only by Emary(f): 11:31pm On Apr 18, 2020
May God grant you your heart's desires, open your womb like Hannah and give you children that will stay and look after you in your old age.

I suggest you identify poor mothers in your locality and send them this cash gifts anonymously instead because there are a lot of scammers online here.

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Health / Re: Depression by Emary(f): 11:09pm On Apr 15, 2020
360psyche.com

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Nairaland / General / Re: Lockdown : Rats Break Into ATM Machine, Eat Up Money Worth N17 Million by Emary(f): 12:06am On Apr 15, 2020
scoundrel:

Yet no link whatsoever was posted. Rats are highly destructive, so I believe the news to an extent. They however, don’t eat paper. They surely don’t eat money also.

I can personally attest to the fact that rats chew paper, money, clothing and wood. I've even seen cases where rats chewed into the soles of people's feet.
Health / Re: The Truth About Nigerians Being Sent Out Of Their Homes In China by Emary(f): 9:58pm On Apr 12, 2020
It's too bad that we can't modify our behaviours even in foreign lands.
Religion / Re: COVID-19: Catholic Cleric Put Smiles On The Faces Of Needy Nigerians by Emary(f): 7:36pm On Apr 07, 2020
This is what a true relief project should look like. It comes to N2500 per person but see how much was achieved. Our government has a lot to account for.
Romance / Re: Get Your Quarantine Free Recharge Cards. by Emary(f): 7:10pm On Apr 06, 2020
Emary:


Airtel, please. Thank you.

Thanks for the airtime. It's much appreciated .
Romance / Re: Get Your Quarantine Free Recharge Cards. by Emary(f): 2:22pm On Apr 06, 2020
IamBenita:


Thanks. Which network?

Airtel, please. Thank you.
Romance / Re: Get Your Quarantine Free Recharge Cards. by Emary(f): 2:19pm On Apr 06, 2020
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