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nairaner:
I am 99% sure that Oregano oil will get rid of this......Get one with the highest Carvicol rating.

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This is one I have used for on bacterial, viral infections me or my kids have had in the past. This did what the Dr's Antibiotics couldnt do

Good luck....

Where can one get it?

Fulani in almost every local government 🥺 that's what they wanted with the Ruger. Thank God the south spoke in one voice this time, we would have had Fulanis in all the state as indigenous people.

This is bumber, wow am loving this drama Hunestley. She will be regretting by now hahaha

This Ijaw republic that the Ijaw people always mention😗 please Rivers state, Akwaibom, Crossrivers, Edo state and Delta state are they among the Ijaw republic? Did they accept to be in Ijaw republic? Did they agree that the Ijaw is there leader? Or is it because they are all in the South South zone? Please I need an answer🥺

SmartPolician:
There are people shouldn't bother reading their comments on Nairaland because it's a complete waste of time. The moment you see their comments, you skip to the next because they are full of hate. That nitwit you quoted is one of them.

That's what I normally do, when ever I come across their comments I skipped 😆

Johnthum:
Eyeservice as usual.

What is Eyeservice, "Work or service done only when one's employer is watching; service done for show. 💯

This is not eye service . If he didn't donate you will complain.

galantjoe:
You have failed her and your family by your boyish decision of yours. You asked her to resign her job on the promise that you will open supermarket for her, she did her part by resigning. On your part, you reneged on your promises. That is no 1 error of judgement.

No 2 mistake is when you lost your job or your business suffered setback, the reasons for the setback were not said here. Maybe due to your poor financial rascality and imprudence. imagine giving your wife 1k every day, why wouldn't you give her bulk 25k to 30k monthly at least to help her buy her women things.

All these your accumulated failure and mistakes over the years coupled with your current brokeness, compounded her resentment toward you. She is being threatened by what future will hold for her. Her bad attitude said them all.

Solution. Accept your faults and apologize to her. Next time, don't take decision alone, ask her opinion before taking any decision that may affect her.

Take her to cool place to reset your brains and senses with Lovemaking to default state.

Thanks for the advice sir. One of the main reason ask her to quit her job was that the salary is too poor #20k although the boss usually give them up to #200k to #300k at the end of the year. I always give her #1000 to #1500 for transport and feeding everyday.

Mindlog:
In as much you meant well for your wife regarding setting her up with a supermarket, it was a huge risk getting her to quit her job without the business already on ground then your own business collapsed, her dream of owning a supermarket collapsed with it......a huge loss to her.

Experiencing loss and grief, is not limited to losing someone to death but it is also the loss of expectations, just like miscarriage where the parents are looking forward to the birth but the journey ended abruptly. She had quit a job that gave her some form of Identity replaced with an unfulfilled dream...she is also griefing.

Many Nigerians who owned businesses also experienced their businesses crashing, so you owe yourself self+compassion.

This is a low moment in your marital life and both of you needs each others support, not time to be blaming each other.

Have your kid looked after by someone else, take your wife out to one of the public gardens in Lagos, go with a blanket and whatever snacks and drinks you may need. Spread the blanket on the grass and have both of you seated on it,, facing each other as there is something therapeutic about sitting on the ground.

Now, no distraction of the child and home environment.......... communicate with each other as you both need that talk as you go through that rough patch, you need each other's support to lessen the stress.

Thank you very much for the advice.

Jesslove:
I find this hard to believe , maybe you have treated her badly when you where working,e.g
coming home late
Not caring for her financially
Not having time for her
Making her feel worthless and all that
I think she's just trying to give you a Little dose of your own medicine but if you where nice to her all the while you were working,then she needs deliverance

No I never came back late , when ever I close my shop buy some stuff for her and the kid it's home straight. I don't normally go outting alone. I always carry them along because I love my wife.

DeeBaDan:
Simple. Learn how to drive very very well. Tolerate the hunger for the period you will use in learning. When you master it, enter garage and talk to fellow riders to link you up that you like to drive. Drivers take home at least 100,000 Naira per month

Be determined and man-up and you will succeed

Thank you very much

Good morning my dear people of Nairaland . Am not a good writer please try and understand my write up because it may help me a lot base on your contribution. Am in my early 30s and I got married in the year 2020 with one kid. Before I got married to my wife I dated her . So I will say I know most of her characters very well and her temperament. Before now we have been living well in terms of family needs, I provide for the family in everything. Though she was working before I got married to her but she always complain that her boss is lusting after her which am aware of. When she delivered our kid, the company gave her two months to resume work. But that did not go down well with me so I ask her to quit the job, because I'm planning to open a supermarket for her when we move out of the current apartment we were living. Because I want her to take care of our kid and that the work my stress her together with the house chores. She agreed on my idea. So we got a new apartment. We lived there with just four months my business crashed down. But when my wife stopped working I was paying her #1k daily and asked her what ever she want to buy for the family she should tell me. I ask her to save what ever she can that you never know what tomorrow brings. In our new apartment I continue to struggle in other to provide for the family but it's never enough, even though I usually buy foodstuffs of all kinds but it will definitely finish if you don't replace it. It's resulted to borrow money from loan shark that I so much despise. But I don't have a choice. Because I discovered that help will not come and my family is hungry. I need to find a temporary way to get money but I will not steal. So my wife later start a POS business with the little money she had according to her . She told me that from 2023 she will not wash my clothes again, or do most of the house chores, even though I bought her Washing machine . That's she is always tired because of her business and that she don't have time to do all that especially Washing my clothes and that of our kid. I ask her no problem that it should start right away that no need for the 2023. Ever since we have been quarrelling, sometimes she would wake up Good morning can never come out of her mouth. Still I don't want to involve family because I don't like it. Currently, am learning how to drive because I believe transport will help me get back to my feet and I base in Lagos. A good advice is needed please. Because right now we don't communicate with each other all because am broke. Honestly She has been providing money to make stew and food but now stop that she don't have money. Upon my financial issues I still support her for us to eat. Even the POS she's using am still the one that bought it, and still gave her little money that I have. I don't like taking my family issue to anybody and am dieing in silence and pressure. Dept is increasing. Please, am totally depressed that's what made me to bring it out here before I take a wrong decision. I can't write up everything here I have to endure some. Mod please move it to the front page.