₦airaland Forum

damiso: What is with fathers and their daughters? My husband is exactly the same about my daughter and sometimes it can be annoying.The cheeky girl said to me yesterday wait till my daddy gets back .In my mind I said iwo ati baba e e jo serious po (you and your father are not serious).See her saying it like you will see, you are in big trouble

I get you on how irritating it can be atimes o jare.And how sometimes (they dont mean to sha) it can come across as if you like hurt yourself but my princess must not have one hair out of place.

That said I would not have gone ahead to take her with me, the compromise would have been for him to drive you as suggested (less work for you sef you for enjoy yourself wella) or leave her with him.She is his child too.And this is not necessarily about the village people being out to get us part, but the child safety and logistics part of it. Its your sister's wedding so you would br fully involved and as its not an environment she is used to, its better for someone she is used to watch her.

Abeg give in jare, you proved him right with the bruises so there is actually no other point to be made in this instance.
And example I can give, my husband is verrrry safety conscious as in borders on obsession, am always teasing him that he is soo british and would find it hard living in Nigeria.So my daughter has a scooter she rides and he went out and bought this over the top safety gear, helmet, shin guard, arm brace in short she looks like voltron with the whole gear.When he takes her to the park, she wears the whole get up.I always say to him she looks ridiculous and realky I dont see other kids her age wearing all this your wahala when riding their scooters.He is always like ehn those are other people this is my child.My daughter hates the get up so me and her do secret runs so that when its just us(me and her ) we wear only the helmet.

So Saturday, we went to the park in our we we fashion.Before I knew gboa on the floor (not on the grass) and her knee and leg had nasty scratches as she was wearing shorts cos of the weather. I immediately knew I was in for it.And he already had the upper hand in this argument.So I took pictures and sent them to him before he got home so he could be ranting wherever he was.Followed up with my love you were right, no vex, sorry, lai lai I will never do it again.As soon as he stepped in, na beg o .Ontop it being me dealing with the crying and 1st Aid.He could not even rake cos I take begging choke am.Its not like he loves more than I do but he was right about the safety aspect.

So just apologise and give in.Its for the best.

Ideally, there shouldnt be a problem with a little girl having a bubble bath with her grandad but with increasing cases of perverts, peadophiles and child molesters, we are now extremly careful and sometimes even suspect things that we shouldnt.
We once had a PTA forum and the school invited an expert on child sex education to talk to us and the revelations from the meeting still keeps me in fear till today.
The expert told us that that 90% of Children that have been sexually abused were abused by close family relatives, people you'll never even suspect of any form of danger, who will easily take advantage of the Children. Far as i know now, i only trust myself and will not accept my daughter have a bath with any male except her Dad, not even my kid brother who i trust and respect so much for his high morality level in this contemporary society. The world is gradually coming to an end.

SugaryBelle: Some men actualy choose to be called their first name and even insist,i have an uncle named Samuel who insist everyone calls him that,his children even call him Sammy,yet they are very respectful so its realy not disrespectful when its the man who choose it.

davseun2ta: there fore shall a man leave his mother and shall cleave to his wife and they shall be one flesh.

s3nn2x:

I am really not concerned about what some journalist writes about my country. I am more concerned about the official stand of the American Government.

I read the piece twice and I really don't see the issue there, at least the writer made a snide comment on Russia, about planes falling from the sky.

Anyway, the writer is entitled to her/his opinion and it is obvious she/he is writing based on sentiment and the piece is not value free.

I have gotten to a stage of not caring what some stranger things about me and my country.

Sheenor: wack na sure....but can't compare wit banging.....

mystiqueDZ: Too cold this morning..*Good morning*

anselm791: Is this a nice story? Yes! Am I inspired by it? Nah! I don't know why they had to wait till they're about to walk down the aisle before they remembered they've not prayed since morning. As for the virginity, I wonder how most of them girls who has lost it would feel now, but hey! The story is not supposed to inspire everyone right?

Emmyk: This is a very boring day for me.

Ugom38: He has tried at least they have hospitals that will treat him if he sustains injury.Anumpam

Babe2sure: Secrets of the sand,is a series I won't mind watching again.@Dav in fantasyland,I am fine.

gratieao: Fashola na real clown! See as em de laugh like Ode

naija noni: Yaya might deserve to win it,but we shouldnt fuckin care.Its votes that matters and this time Voting is opened to everybody.
.So lets do it for nigeria.Vote now for mikel or moses.Vote as many times as u want.Your votes count.
Nigeria is the most populated country in africa,so if a small percentage of our population vote,i see nothing stopping mikel or moses 4rm winning it.
VOTE NOW !!.
This should make front Page.

lynpetra: That I am the first daughter of dangote!!!

davseun2ta: me just dey on a very low key, watching the new guys in this room, displaying their talents...*Babe2sure, so o ti ya gbagbe mi, la ti gba wo. Si gba wo? Hmmm ko si eyan mo*

Babe2sure: Right to life,is one of the fundamental principles of life.

davseun2ta: more than joke, so it appears to me @harlos... To me, that is an expensive one! And really, I don't like it...*hello, people! I had a splufic friday, what about you?*

yusufogrin: We don miss diss guys for area.... Atleast...none of dem to threaten me again.....up iju boiz

citizenY: HOW MUCH IS ONE ROMM SELF CONTAIN? FOR THERE?

laplace19: The girl's fiance MIGHT have a hand in this since the two paramours were affected..

dulaman: These women are grandmothers now i guess.....

Babe2sure: Name whatever you want and you shall have it.

timpaker: Let him do plastic surgery na or (naija style) claim the children aren't his
BTW: how come the kids don't have eyes?