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Bblackq:
I have bin dating dis gal for abt 5 months now. We never have sex bcus i'm Hiv positive and i tried to keep it from her cos i dnt want to lose her.
Last night, she drugged me and had sex with me. When i woke up, i asked her what she has done but she said she wanted to knw maybe i'm impotent. I asked her if she used condom but she said NO. Apparently, she must ve contracted d virus from me. I've ruined someone else's life.. How do i tell her she's HIV positive. A friend directed me here. I nid a matured advice pls.

kill urself and then run away.......

phintohlar:
So irritating

this one pass water baptism by immerssion......

Bari22:
how many wives he has

4

celebsnest:
http://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/hugh-hefners-30-year-old-11250744

that is why he is called the play boy, he has played her...

make i do like others, lala where art thou？

adoyi8:
ok in 10 days I want you to ask God to reveal my full names, The geographical state I am in right now and my account number to you.

ok no problem...

adoyi8:
how many days do you want?

atleast one week l...

ekensi01:
Thats it, Regret what?


Everybody keeps telling me sex is bad but people who have sex at an extreme during youth age stil get married and live a happy life.

Please tell me something good or convince me wit ur reasons.

u must make sure that u are ready to marry her b4 doing so, if nt even if she does anything to u tomorrow, u can't easily break up with her knowing fully well that u deflowered her.......

i have dated many ladies b4 now, if they are start misbehaving i always leave them knowing fully well that i am nt the first in her life......
but if u disvirgin any lady u can't easily break up with them....

adoyi8:
can you help me ask him one question right now?

like i told u b4, when they came to me i told them to give me some days, if u want to hear from God u have to be very patience, in the book of esxodus, God told moses to come to the mountain to take the commandment, bt geting there, God did nt show up until after six day......

so i am still building my spiritual life, if there is anything u want me to ask him, u have to give me some days.....

and i promise u that u are nt going to pay 1 kobo for it.....

adoyi8:
are you saying that you have ever communicated with God?

yes i do, and as i speak to u now i am a pastor, and God has really used me to bless a lot of people, i would have uploaded some video here for u to see, bt i dnt know how to do that......... 2yrs ago when i newly came to Benue state, a family was looking for a missing girl, they looked for her for weeks, bt no result..... when they came to me i told them to give me sometimes to pray and ask God what really happend, and after some days i went to thier house and told them that she ran away from the house when she discovered that she was pregnant.....

i also told them that she would soon put to bed and it's going to be a baby girl.....

all the family made mockry of me, because she was only 14yrs, bt last year she came back with a baby girl.... and today all of them are the members of my ministry.............

i have heard the voice of God, and also of the Devil....

Softorgasm:
This is just too hard to believe. A friend of mine just told me that he slept with a young lady that just lost her husband in a car accident, last week... Though she have been lusting after him even before her husband's death.. It all happen too fast, when he went to visit her at her home and he went to her room after people had all left the house.. He is kind of worried, being that she lost her husband just last week... though i told him, there are no repercussion on what he did, but he is still afraid, please are there any repercussions on sleeping with a one week widow?

i see that ur friend receiveing that type of slap that rochas received the last time....

ekensi01:
Please i need advice this young lady wants me to deflower her, i don't know how to go about it, cause that would be my first time.


Please am puzzle, what should i do now?

I don't want to stress myself so much i have to goto work as early as 6:30am. Doing it would add to my stress but she keeps forcing me.

I have heard how hard it is for a guy to deflower a girl. Help out

ifvu truly need help, then dnt do it, because u might end up regretting.

stupidity:
Ha, the guy dey craze, if na me you for clear everything even gimme T fare join.

my nigga, weldone sire....

adoyi8:
ok

my grand mum was an ido worshiper, she carried me along, she was even preparing me to take over from her,, because as an idol worshiper u must hand over to someone......
all the time i was serving her as a kid, there was nothing like teaching me that i should nt kill, infact killing is one of thier agenda.......

and the environment was nothing to write home about, almost everyone has aborted 2-3 times..... then when i was 7yrs my own mum died and 3yrs later my dad also died.......

at the age of ten, i was already exposed to the bad environment, sometimes because of hunger i would go and steal, bt do u know that after doing that i would nt be my self for days, its as if someone was standing next to me to judge me......

to cut the story short, in the year 2006 i came to Abuja, i was working in a canteen at Asokoro hospital.....
all my male coleauge were wonanizers and igbo smokers..... it was nt too long i joined them to be going to ashawo house.....but anytime i do that i would be emotionally sick for weeks, then i had to stop, and when all these where happening to me, i was nt even a christian, bt those my friends were youth leaders and choir master in thier church.......

then one night i sneaked out to go and drink and also fornicate.... when i came back i slept, in the mid night, i heard a voice, the voice called all my names 3times each, and i asked him, who are u？ he said i am the lord Jesus, why are u destroying urself？ he asked....
then at that moment it became clear to me that even at that time that my conscience was biting me, it was God that was speaking to me, bt i did nt know.....

i almost died that night, because my spirit left my body, i saw my body lying lifless on the flaw, and all my friends were there sleeping.....
he told me to go back home and ammend my ways and also do his work, that how i came back...... and since then i have never been the same......

adoyi8:
It means that the extend to which the society influenced them is different. It is also possible to have a micro social group inside a major one for instance one of the guys may have a group of friends that pats him on the back and call him a big boy because he has sex with different women and call him a loser whenever he cant woo a girl. This also influences what makes him feel guilty

bt can i tell u from my own personal experience？

Ericsunday619:
but am not a Christian anymore

u may nt be a christian now, bt that does nt stop God from loving u or speaking to u, if u are really hearing a strange voice, if i were u, there are two things that i have to find out, .1. whos is the person speaking to me.......2... what does the person want....... and for u to get that answer u have to do what i jst told u...... being a christian is a personal decision......

even in islam God spoke to prophet Muhamed, even me that is telling u all this things now God speaks to me almost every week......

bt nt in a foreign language.

adoyi8:
It is because of social norms. The society we are born into try to make us see some things as bad and others as good. It is a process that takes time but eventually it becomes inbuilt in us so that anytume we do those things oyr society paint as bad we feel guilty. Take for example a saudi man and an Irish man. The saudi man is raised to believe that marrying four wives is ok but taking alcohol is a sin. So he can have four wives and sleep well at night but anytime he tastes alcohol, he feels gyulty. The Irish man is raised to believe that taking alcohol is ok but polygamy is evil so he Can sleep well after taking alcohol but feels guilty after sleeping with two different women and infact, he has to go and confess to a priest.

u are right, bt what about two friends from the same environment and also attend the same religion, one fornicate and deel as if nothing happend and even brags about it, while the other one can't even have peace of mind for weeks if he does the same thing.......

remember that they are living in the same environment and believe in the same religion.

adoyi8:
yes and I know why

pls can u share？

adoyi8:
yes and I know why

pls can u share with me？

adoyi8:
No

ok, no .2. question.....do u know that there are people who commit sin, like stealing, lieing and fornicating without and sign or remorse？ while there are people that can nt even sleep well for days because of the same sin？

adoyi8:
feel free

1. are u a christian？

adoyi8:
It is said in revelation 13 v 8 that he has written names of people that will go to heaven from the foundation of the world. If he didnt write my name does that not mean that he wants me to perish?

any day that u accept him as ur lord and savior, u name enters his book, and no body can erase it, apart from u.......

can i ask u 2 questions？ if u dnt mind.

Ericsunday619:
different languages

from my experience, God only speak to us in our own languages, u really have to pray and ask God for direction...... bt b4 that read the book of psalm 51.. and always feel free to ask me any question.......

as a deliverance pastor, i have seen a similar issue b4........

adoyi8:
If God knows that i am going to hell even before I was born, does that mean that I dont have the free will to make any decision that will take me to heaven? No matter how hard i try to go to heaven I will still end up in hell so that means that my going to hell is not my fault.

READ THE BOOK OF DEUTERONOMY 30 VS 19 ......AND ALSO TITUS 2 VS 11, GOING TO HEAVEN IS AN OPTION, AND GOING TO HELL IS ALSO AN OPTIONS, GOD DID NT WANT ANYONE TO PERISH, BUT SOME PEOPLE ARE STILL GOING TO PERISH...........

IF U WANT TO MAKE HEAVEN THERE ARE THINHS U MUST DO...ROMANS 10 VS 9-10, SO MANY PEOPLE THINK THAT GOING TO CHURCH OR PAYING OF TIITHE AND OFFERING CAN TAKE THEM TO HEAVEN....... U MUST CONFESS HIM AS UR LORD AND ACCEPT HIM INTO UR LIFE.....

NO ONE HAS EVER GONE TO HEAVEN BY MISTAKE, AND KNOW ONE HAS EVER GONE TO HELL BY MISTAKE......

EVEN AT THE POINT OF DEATH DO U KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO ARE STILL NT READY TO CONFESSTHIER SINS？ SO WHERE DO U THINK THE PERSON IS GOING TO？.......

TAKE UR TIME TO READ THE BOOK OF LUKE 11 VS 23, THERE ARE TWO TYPES OF SPIRIT THAT ARE OPERATING AROUND US..... THE GOOD AND THE BAD SPIRIT, IF THE GOOD SPIRIT IS ALWAYS TELLING U NT TO STEAL , LIE OR FORNICATE, AND U ARE NT READY TO LISTEN TO HIM........

HE LEAVES U, SO IF HE LEAVES U, U ARE NT ALONE, THE BAD SPIRIT WOULD YAKE OVER, AND AT THAT MOMENT U ARE ALREADY A CANDIDATE OF HELL....

Ericsunday619:
I need help, am an atheist but i still experience some weird stuff. last night i heard a voice speaking to me in different languages could it be Allah or Yahweh talking to me. This is not a joke and am not seeking for attention, I need Christians, muslims and atheists to explain the voices in my head. I keep hearing different voices in the night if am almost asleep. 2years ago i was a partial Christian and i normally see demons is it possible that these demons are hunting me down?

what is the voice saying？

ysyowel:
i thought you are asking if a church can be void of God's presence? what is a Church? A church is a gathering of a believers, if church is a gathering, and the Bible said whenever two or three are gather in Christ name he will be there in their mist. So can a church of God be empty of God's presence? If individuals can lose his presence i don't think a Church can't lose her presence. The seven churches loses their presence because their next generations forsoke God. People can live in their past glory but not the Church.

when we talk about the presence of God, they are 3 types, 1...mobile presence .2. manifest presence...3. ominipresence....... a church of God is expected to have the manifest presence...... during the days of the apostles the holy spirit was always in thier midst whenever they gather to pray, by today the reverse is the case, some churches can nt even remember the year they casted out a demon...... because the presence of God that delivers is nt there........

adoyi8:
Are you saying that God knows if I am going to heaven or hell even before I was born ?

yes i do, the bible says that God knows those who are his, and Jesus went futher to say that no one can come to him unless he draws the person to himself.........

in the book of 2kings, elisha went to damascus, the king of syria at that time was sick, he sent his captain to go and inquire from the man ...of God if he was going to die ...........

bt when elisha saw the captain he started crying, and the man was asking the man of God why he was crying..... and the man of God told him that he was crying because God had already shown him what he the messenger is going to do to the people of israel........

that he is going to burn thier houses and also kill a lot of them, bt the man replied and asked the man of God if he the captain was a dog to do such evil......

bt what happens later, did he nt do those things？ he did... bt he never knew that he was going to do that, bt God knew.... peter also did nt believe that he could ever betray his master, bt jesus knew and even told him......

as a good christian u are are even surpose to know where u are going b4 death..... no one has ever gone to heaven by mistake.....

BigIyanga:
Who thr fukc are you??

what if i tell u that when i went to cape town 3yrs ago that i saw it in a zoo......

ysyowel:
let us hear your view then

iron sharpen iron

there was a book i once red, writeen by Benny-Hill, in that book the man of God was praying thay God should increase his presence in the ministry..............bt God told him that if he truly wants to pray that he should pray that his presence should return, and nt to increase, u can't increase what u do not have.......there are so many churches today that are void from his presence ...

God is nt a respetar of anyone who does nt obey him, the seven churches in the book of revelation were all planted by God bt along the line they left God and he gave them a warning that if they do nt repent he is going to quench thier lights.........

they refused to repent and he left them, those seven churches were all in turkey, bt today,

that nation is an islamic nation，...... bt mind u, God does nt leave u first, we are always the first to do that......so many daddy GO are living on thier past glory today......

Grace001:
Here is a question for you....Why is it that the wealthy and richest pastors of different denominations are considered to be the real men of God most especially here in Nigeria. G.O of churches like Coza, House on the rock, Winners, RCCG, Christ Embassy, Kicc, Salvation Ministry etc... Is it that riches and wealth is now a yardstick to measure those that are truly called by God? Because that's the mentality of Christians in Nigeria.

2. There is no any record in the bible about these great apostles of God possessing so much worldly material wealth, and yet they did greater things even than all these so called G.Os in Nigeria. Is the faith and service of these so called G.Os greater than that of these apostles in the bible for them to have acquired so much wealth to themselves all in the name of serving God.

Please don't bring that common bible verse"Do not judge" Jesus gave us permission to tell right from wrong. We are commanded to exercise righteous judgment (John 7:24), some of these false prophets act (their fruits) are clearly evident, preceding them to judgment.

Matthew 6:21 says "For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also" I guess that said it all

3. Why is that when there is critics from people regarding these money focused pastor/false prophets, the common words you hear some Christians says is "do not judge", "touch not his anointed" and some even use "THREAT WORDS " you better be careful what you say to god of man" Why do you think we can't make critics of these Pastors?

almost all of them started from nowhere, and today God has bless them, so it serves as an evidence that God truly called them, and as for those who are still poor, if u go close to them u will see that they are nt propageting the gospel the way it out to be............


the early apostles traveled around the world, the likes of Peter and Paul, so u need more than enough cash to do that........

and that is one of the reason God is blessing them....

adoyi8:
According to rev 13 v 8, names of people that will go to heaven have been written in the book of life from the foundation of the world. Does that mean that we dont have the free will to choose between heaven and hell?

we do have, bt even b4 u decide, God already knows ur decision.