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heartofcity12:
Marriage is not for the weak!
Single people seem to be happier these days.
Sad our society expects every able bodied man to be married even though they have no contributions to your life once you’re in it.

My uncle asked me when am I getting married in our family August meeting last year.. I asked him when will he die.
Meeting scatter that day..
I will attend this year August meeting make I see who go ask me marriage question again.

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Oyin2212:

Wahala o

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GrammarNazi1:
I don't think anyone can ever object to this.

Why would any sane man "invest" in a woman?

My guy you will be surprised.

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Tonnyray:
Anybody who has introspectively studied the bible will realize the female gender actually have far more in common with the devil than the male.
1. They both wanted to usurp authority. Why did it never cross the mind of Adam to attempt becoming "like GOD"?
2. How can 2 walk together except they are in agreement? Why was the devil comfortable approaching only Eve though Adam had been in physical existence much much longer (only GOD knows how long)? There definitely was a nexus he could sense and relate to and with.
3. Both are angry because they both have but a short time. A sizeable frustration of the other gender is that they have but a short 10-15 golden year period before they are no more worth reckoning with in the reproductive and sexual market. Most bickering of theirs stem from this reality and understanding just as much as the excesses they exhibit in their golden years.

Bless you for this.
Me I have said it before and will continue to say it.
Until Eve or her descendants tell us exactly what was discussed between she and the serpent, no man should trust a man...

Who need male masculinity when your fainancal status can do all the talking for you.

That is the motor of the Morden Man.

Back in the days it is extremely difficult to hear a man Act, talk about or even mention the word LOVE.

But you see the 1990s and 2000s set of men, the way they get all emotional and talk about love at any given opportunity is really pathetic....

The Morden day men are more Emotionally and mentally pathetic than their female counterparts. If nothing is done about the decline of Male masculinity, then indeed the future is truly female.

When we tell them not to invest fainancally and emotionally in a relationship with woman be it platonic or intimate they call us unspeakable names. Just checked all the thread in Romance section 95% of the topics is about Men complaining about the manipulative, self entitlement mentality of an average woman....

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ObinnaValentine:
Mugu! U think say u wise

It's called Sacarsm

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Oyin2212:
E don do na

My Nairaland account was hacked.

The sooner all this broke Old school Redpillers realize that a new school Redpill is taking over the better for them

We don't care if you guys have been fuccking numerous girls for free since 2005 your Redpill days are over because we the new generation of Redpillers are coming to snatch your women with our fainancal status.
It doesn't matter to us that you and other guys have fuccked them a million times over the years, we are coming to snatch them from your broke hand.

Who need mental,emotional,physical elevations when you're already fainancally elevated.... Na mental and emotional maturity we go take impress nigeria girls ? This old school Redpillers are something else...

Make unna no worries we go show unna sheke with the new school Redpill .

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Martinez39s:
Die? Ajebutter! You too soft, bro. You can't survive in face-me-I-face-you kinda environment... the southern area...

While others are working hard to leave such environment and give themselves and their children a better life and upbringing, let me use the fact that you didn't live in and can't survive, I foolishly presume, such harsh environment (that others are trying to avoid) to belittle you. ...

While your father made it in life and gave you a better life and secured your future, my father fumbled and I was raised in the streets... so I am better than you and other insured, educated and secured ajebutters like the children of Bill Gates, Dangote, and Otedola...

You see ehn... I am one of those that stupidly glory in and flaunt suffering and hardship like I get gold medals for them... no caps... you no suffer pass me... I can endure and survive here and there...

Oomo! I be strrreeeeeeets!

Who is this broke Redpiller trying to form street

Guy don't worry I am coming with my fainancal status to snatch that your girlfriend that you and others have been fuccking since 2018 then you go know never to play with an OG.....

Don't you know that after fuccking her since 2010 you should have elevated her status so that guys like us will use our fainancal status and snatch her from you. ?

Be their forming Broke Redpiller we go snatch all unna girlfriends wey unna don dey fuccck since 1999 from unna with our fainancal status. Nonsense broke Redpillers.

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Peaceyw:
My dear brothers in the redpill, something funny happened today that anytime I remember it, I just start laughing. Let me first give you some information; next week is my second semester exam. Back to story;
Last year November was my first semester exams, I sat beside this girl during accounting exam. Out of answer 5, I told this girl 4 when she started asking me for the 5th one was when I got angry and ignored her, she started begging me and was even rubbing my arm in the exam hall to make me tell her, I got angry and went to submit. After the exam, this girl never spoke to me so i told my friend everything that happened and he said that i bleeped up that i am not supposed to do like that, that i should have used that one has a chance to get close to her. I just said i wasnt interested in her so he died the matter. Fast forward to today, this girl who haven't spoken to me since last year November came to me today, July 7, 2021 and said she remembered that I was the one who taught her accounting in exam, so I said "ehn, what now happen?" This girl said that she want to tell me thankyou and she stretched forth her hand and said I should shake her. Chai, I just walked away so she ran to my front and said "shake na" so I pushed her away although gently.
The whole thing that is even surprising me was her confidence, like she was so sure I will shake hands with her. Did she think I am desperate for a woman's touch that immediately I shake her, I will run to my room and use that hand to masturbate or what?
Women are fucking crazy.

She wants to be friends again because of the incoming exam.

She will try again tomorrow.

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Fatalveli:
Do you believe this woman can cheat on a Redpilled man too?

Infact women are the eventual winners whether we like it or not

Chances are that if she stops fucking the both of you, it’ll pain the guy who called her more because he is too emotionally invested.

The goal is to never be emotionally invested in a woman, because no amount of money, status, gym, etc will stop her from cheating.

Can anyone here boast that any of the girl he is fucking is seeing only him? This excludes the married people abegii

Redpill or no Redpill a woman will cheat if she so desire.

The difference is that a Redpiller expect her to cheat so her eventual cheating is of no effect on him.

Before any man boast about the faithfulness of his woman, he should have it in mind that I am probably one of the guys their girlfriends is cheating on them with...

Even married men can not HONESTLY boast of 100% faithfulness from their wife's.

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MetalJigsaw:
Me and a customer (a woman)

Me: I so much love this Oritse Femi song... Hes so talented. Its sad to know that he's not been singing lately since he got married.

Her: Good for him.. He's now a responsible man

Me:

One idiat told me to sell my Ps4 and 5 that it's for irresponsibile men. Told her the ps4/5 is more valuable and beneficial to me than her if it comes down to choosing na she go go.

No be person tell am to respect herself since then.

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The5DME:
You made mention of going for girls who chose you right? Let's say I go out on an occasion and see a girl I think I like, do I just discard the idea of approaching her since you said we must only go for girls who chose us? What if I see a girl in the road that I might be interested in, what do I do? That means we have to stop approaching girls and wait to be chosen right?

If you see a girl you like, study her ,then go for it. If it works out, good and fine if it doesn't move on. ( don't make the mistake of toasting her longer than necessary)

But when a girl choose you, she will most likely make the moves/toasting herself while giving you the impression you're the one doing the toasting and it will be an easy toasting.

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tobe1985:
Brilliant take.
As a man, women should never be the focus of your life.
It should even be the 3rd most important aspect of your life

Women are not even on my top 5

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SOZINN:
Exactly brother. This is the point I was trying to make.
By the way, I wasn't even asking for myself, I was asking for the examiners.
Anyone who has read most of my posts should know my take on marriage.
I no even get strength.

I have one FWB member that is currently in a 2 years No Sex until marriage Relationship with her fiance. This girl have been donating her HOLES every week for the past 7 months.

There's was a day she was at my crib, laying naked on my couch when her fiance called her. Guy you need to see how this girl was whining this Guy with soft, inoccent and loving voice while the guy was laughing sheepishly and probably thinking how lucky he is to have her in his life.

Any man that Underestimate the deceptive and manipulative nature of a woman is honestly digging his grave earlier than necessary..

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Fatalveli:
I agree.

Also, we have to remember that money is a means to an end.

Same with being Redpilled

Same with working out.

A considerable amount of time has to be spent to achieve these individual aspects of a mans life.

Some people will never work out no matter what, they believe their money can get them anything.

A broke man can never snatch the wife of a rich man no matter the game he has, he can only fvck her. A few have done so, but most rich women always pretend to have standards to fool the society, a broke man is probably the one fucking Bill gates wife but she most likely won’t reveal him, at least not until she upgrades his status

While a rich man will fvck, snatch and do anything he wants with a broke mans wife.

A rich man wife will cheat, a broke and redpilled mans wife will cheat, in fact everybody cheats.

The goal should be having money and being redpilled, that’s the only thing that can limit the chances of a woman from cheating on you, but then you’re not totally safe, she can still cheat if she wants to.

Understanding these dynamics and not affording a woman too much affection so that you won’t be hurt no matter what she does is the ultimate goal for me.

This is it. Good one.

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Fatalveli:
Not spending at all on a woman you’re fucking is only feasible if you don’t plan to marry her.

But once a man decides to get married to a particular woman, he has to spend on her whether he is red pilled or not.

Let’s all be realistic sometimes too even if we don’t want to be.

It is totally impossible not to spend on a woman who we CHOOSE to get married to one way or another.

The only ones we should never spend on are random girlfriends and side chicks, etc.

And if you decide to have a baby mama, you will still be billed under the guise of child support. There’s no getting around it.

Spending on a fuccck mate or a fiancee should be the man's choice and not because it's what is expected off him and it should be on a minimal occasions. That is for those that can't resist the urge to impress their women fainancally.

If I ever decide to marry and my fiancee is billing me unceremoniously should I go ahead and satisfy her entitlement mentality simply because she's my fiancee and it is expected of me to spend on her ?

Maybe it's because of my lifestyle (introvert) or because of the caliber of women I roll with, I have never been asked or expected to spend on any of them. There's a 100% probability that this women will be the ones doing the spending (for reasons best known to them) Our dealings is Strictly FWB and occasional businesses. Let their boyfriends/fiances handle the spending and commitment.

Maybe in the future I will meet a woman that will ginger me with her beauty and charisma enough for me to want to spend on her but for now, I find it extremely difficult to spend on any woman that is not blood related (Even that one self get limits)

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SOZINN:
How does unpredictability help a mate with my question? The problem is not about passing of failing the test. You want her to be genuine in her exertions. But you are not married, so you'll get what is requisite.

Personally, I think it's almost impossible for a woman to be genuinely herself when dating.
The only time a woman may probably show her genuine self in when she is married with at least a child. That's when you begin to see her true character.

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BKayy:
Good morning Southerners oh.
But how do some people think/believe that after what the North/Fulani has done under Buhari's tenure that they will agree to give power to the South so that they will do them their own back?

Very soon (2023) they south will understand why Electronic voting was removed from the Electoral act bill.

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aorseer:
What is sexual shadow? Please shed light as I'm knowing of the concept for the first time

It's kinda of a dark clubs where you go and experience some weirdly sexual fantasies. That is where you see all kinds of women. Married and single committing sexual atrocities that makes Sodom &Gomorrah looks like child's play...
I know of such places in port harcourt, owerri and calabar. Entry is strictly by membership of invitation.

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aomine:
ACTUALLY I AM IN UNIBEN AND I SEE IT A LOT GIRLS DATING BROKE GUYS BUT THE FACT IS SOME PEOPLE HATE THAT CUZ THEY DONT KNOW HOW DEM BROKE NIGGAZ GOT THOSE GIRLS

Majority of Male undergraduates are always broke so they shouldn't toast and sex women simply because they're broke ?

I don't understand why some people are angry that a broke guy can get and Sex the same girl they have been fleshing and spending on for free.

Its obvious you guys don't know the difference between being BROKE AND being permanently POOR.

A man can have millions in his bank account or investments and still be broke.

It is a known fact that salaries earners go broke from the 20th to 30th day of every month.. And because they are broke once in a while they should not enjoy the benefits of Redpill or women ?

A taxi/uber Driver that saves 150k a month can call a Bank teller that earn 70k a month broke.

A man that earns 200k a month can be regard as Broke by a man that earns 10 million a month.

A man that earns 100 million a month can call a man that earns 10 million a month broke....

As long as MAN is not LAZY and HOPELESS, he has every right to enjoy the benefits of REDPILL.

The Man being fainancally broke is just a situation that can be overcome by INTELLIGENCE, HARD WORK AND DETERMINATION. it's not a sin to be broke but CHOOSING to remain so Might be.

The worst thing that can Happen to a man is not fainancal brokenness, BUT MENTAL, EMOTIONAL And INTELLECTUAL BROKENNESS.




I am done with this topic.


Next !!!!!!!

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Peaceyw:
I remember telling my friend about the redpill and he didn't believe me. He said that without money you cannot get girls. Then I told him about sexual shadow world and he didn't have anything to say. The thing is that most of this guys find it ridiculous that you can get women without money. They find it illogical. That is why they twist it to" to be an alpha, be broke".
I spoke to one of my friend yesterday and he said to me" nothing beats getting women with intelligence, if you use money girls will leave when money finish. Most of this guys use money because it is easier and they can't think" I just laughed.

You have said it all.

Using money or the illusion of money is easier to get women and that is what 90% of men are used too. So telling them that a man can actually toast and win a woman with nothing but intelligence is somewhat difficult for them to comprehend and before you know it, you're tag as being broke or supporting brokness...

When it comes to dealing with women, we have to types of men.

Those that use money to illustrate, control and dominate their women,

And

Those that use Good old confidence, mystery and intelligence to dominate their women no matter their fainancal situation.....

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CaveAdullam:
1. @Emotionss, THE REDPILL doesn't have different definitions! People only act differently towards the REDPILL based on their predispostions which is characterized by their experiences, level of comprehension, belief, exposure, environment etc.

2. Redpill definition: unplugging from the matrix. The matrix is what the government, society and religious leaders wants us to believe hook, line and sinker. The matrix is the Bluepill.

3. Redpill again is neither an ideology nor a movement. It's not a religion. It's a set of heuristics that confirms underlying hidden truths. Anyone that claims that REDPILL is a movement but claims an understanding of the redpill is a shaman.

4. Of a truth, the zenith of TRP IS THE DARK TRIAD TRAITS(Narcissism, Machiavellianism, Psychopathy). It's not possible for an individual to imbibe all of these traits in its entirety, we can only arm ourselves with it and use them as circumstances required. If there are individuals with 100% of these traits, they are in the less than 0.1 percent of the human population or in fictional books or movies.

Choose what works for you is a common tenet in the redpill, but it shouldn't be conflated with the ideas of the Bluepill, Pinkpill, PurplePill and Blackpill.

Thanks.

Alright man.

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DieRich5:
he was trying to save her nd think the chain is curse way he give her............for me na he brothers mk her die cus Thomas for die dere

Really ? I need to re-watch that episode.

I honestly thought he used her as body shield come de form heartbreak over her death.

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DieRich5:
Thomas way broke some rules and principal cus she have feeling for Grace normally peaky blinders for kill grace for wat she did na mk Polly hate grace till she die
Still she still save Dem all "life"

Thomas wey use Grace do bullet shield when that Italian man wan kill am ?

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DEMZEE:
How won't u spend on ur wife and u expect her to respect u, women that love opportunistically uhn

Please explain it to me because una just dey sha tf!

As I said PERSONALLY you don't have to accept my

At first he was all dominating and intimidating. But with time she made him forgo some of his Rules and Principles and he started catching feelings and getting all emotional and eventually married her to me he compromised more than he should have.

Again that is me and my weirdness.

On the issue of brokenness.
Nobody is supporting brokness all I am saying is A man don't need to belittle himself simply because he is CURRENTLY BROKE OR JOBLESS. it is a temporary condition that he will eventually overcome.

Thirdly, there's MORE to Redpill than Women and Sex. A broke man can be a Redpiller because it will help him see and achieve more in live... Afterall Redpill is all about our mental, emotional,fainancal and physical Elevation.

A Keke driver, a mechanic or a jobless graduate has the same rights as the CEO of a company or millioner business man to be a Redpiller because las las Redpill is all about self Elevation. Remember not everyone is destined to be millioners....

Las last we go dey alright.

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DEMZEE:
Some mothafokas Here have turned redpill to poverty just imagine tuehhhhhhh

Ahan how can masculinity be reduced to poverty all because of pussy that's cheap and worthless tf!!!

Guy how far ?
Long time hope you're good ?

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aomine:
AOMINE IN DAA HOUSE,BUT WAIT O I THOUGHT REDPILL IZZ FOR YOUR SELF DEVELOPMENT THE FOCUS IS YOURSELF NOT ANYBODY ELSE FOCUS ON YOUR OWN JOURNEY

E shock you ?

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Fatalveli:
In the Movie 50 shades of Grey.

The guy bought nice things for the lady, does that makes him a simp? I’m curious?

PERSONALLY that 50 shades of gray guy is not really a Redpiller.

At first he was all Redpill, dominant and whatnot, but was later manipulated by the girl to forgo some of his rules and principles and started catching feelings for her and getting all emotional at some point.

Personally Thomas Selby of peaky binders is more Redpill than that 50 shade of gray guy.

Again there's no single definition of Redpill.

Some believe spending and dominating their women makes them Redpillers.

Others don't spend a dime and still dominate their women.

The most important thing here is not to be manipulated by her and her likes.

Salute.