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ubunja:
What is better,
To campaign strongly to get the girl you want?
Or
To sit back and let the girl who want you campaign to get you?




It's the hardest choice you have to make. And no one taught us about this growing up.

Only few men have the balls/mindset to sit back and let the girl campaign to get them.

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neyo0h:
Now we are making sense .

First paragraph was superb.

Nb.. this has nothing to do with broke shaming, more like telling them not to buy into silly ideals of poverty because of game, women etc.

We are saying prioritise yourself.. attraction is attraction and has nothing to do with being broke, jobless , etc.

Deuces!

That has always been my stand.

A man that has a Blue collar job can also be a Redpiller. As long as a man has a Dream and he is working towards accomplishing that dream he has every right to be a Redpiller even if he is broke or jobless at the moment. In fact His being a Redpiller will even help him Elevate is Status faster. Remember there's More to Redpill than Women and Sex.

Salute.

I have my ways and principles when dealing with women generally and one of those principles is never give a woman that is not Related to me by blood or business money.

And so far I have been true to that principles....

Maybe it's because of the kind of women I deal with, but none of them has ever asked me for FREE money. They do ask for loans which they payback with interest.

But in all my Adult life I have never given a woman money in hope of fuccking he or simply because she fuccked me to my satisfaction or because she is well behaved. I have never done it and will probably never do it.

I don't do girlfriend.

I don't have permanent or favourite sex mate. The moment you start catching feelings we're done.

I respect and reciprocate the respect given to me by them.

I don't do commitment or anything related to that.

I don't do birthdays, Valentine's or all those whatnots except you're coming over for sexual related activities...

I always tell them from the start what I want from them, and what to expect and not to expect from me. Surprisingly, majority always accept my conditions some in hope that with time they will change my mind others out of curiosity.

With what I have seen some women do, I honestly feel sorry for a lot of guys.......

Will I ever have a permanent girlfriends or wife ? I honestly don't know.

Will I ever spend on a woman that is not blood related to me ? I honestly can't say.

Will I ever love a woman the way society expect a man to love a woman, that is definitely a big NO.

an I a bad person ? Well it depends.

There's no one true version of Redpill. Whatever works for you so be it. As long as nobody is manipulating or taking you for a fool.

Personally it doesn't matter whether you're Rich, Broke, jobless, short or disabled as long as you value yourself mentally,emotionally,physically and have the Redpill mentality you have a 70% chance to succeed in life including getting that beautiful woman that other men are fooling themselves for.

To all those Redpillers who are CURRENTLY BROKE OR JOBLESS don't be discourage by your current condition. Don't let it define you. Don't allow anyone make you feel less of a man.

Keep hustling with the Redpill mentality it's just a matter of time.... You current situation is not a reason not to "Rasule" women if you so fancy. If she accept good and fine if she decline, no big deal it's part of life experience....

Back in the days I was broke, jobless but with God's Grace, hard work, right attitude and mentality, Today I can afford to take care of my myself and my own without feeling the heat.

And guess what ?

I "Rasule" Women when I was broke. Some I was successful, some I was not but the more I try and failed, they better I became in the Game....

Please don't go and be Simping around simply because you're broke or jobless. Have some self dignity while you hustle your way out of brokenness....

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Tonnyray:
The only women I spend on are the ones that have already "satisfied the one-eyed monster examiner in character and in bedding"

Whatever works for you

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TheDarkGamer:
I've got one simple little tip that could increase your success rate with women dramatically.

And it's super easy to do.




Be More Assertive with Women




Whenever you make a move or try to advance the relationship...

Don't ask!

You need to be assertive and stay in control.

For every question you could ask, you can be assertive and use a statement instead.


Examples

"What's your phone number?"

Should be:

"Let's exchange numbers so we can go get that cup of coffee."

(If you prefer not to exchange numbers, then tell her to give it to you.)

"Can you go out this weekend?" or "Do you want to go ice skating?"

Should be:

"Hey, let's go ice skating this Thursday or Friday."


Make Statements - Don't Ask Questions

In short, every:

Can you...?
Do you want to...?
I was wondering if you...?

...needs to be abolished from your vocabulary!

Make statements. Don't ask questions.

What is the point of this tip?

It's so you can get used to being assertive.

Simple changes in words have a powerful effect — and not only does it affect those you speak to, but it helps you understand where the control lies. It lies with you.

And you'll get turned down a lot less.

Guaranteed!

-Copied.

This is 200% accurate.

SOZINN:
If not for simps, women would have known the true worth of unproductive sex by now. NOTHING!
You can't blame her for placing too much value on her vagina, this is the shitty world we have to live in. Only an idiot will accept sex as a form of reward for all his expended resources in a relationship.

Unfortunately we still have a lot of men that are willingly accepting sex as a reward for their sacrifices.

On a positive note the economic situation of the country is making it increasingly difficult for SIMPs to continually spend on women.

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DieRich5:
Dat Female quote mk me laugh, she don run sex shit tire and boys don fall her hand tired now she knows sex shit don cast and more RedPills guys re made daily

https://www.nairaland.com/6633599/heartbreak-lady-weeps-she-asks

Women are beginning to realize that at this age and time men are beginning to realize that sex is overrated and they're beginning to lose interest in it. Which automatically reduce their manipulating powers.

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ThiagoKid:
Gentlemen, the only way to reclaim your masculinity, and to vanguish female 'oppression' forever is to stop paying for pvssy!

-Esther vilar, author of the Manipulated man.

That is what we have been saying ooo but they refuse to understa.
Me no advice anyone anymore.

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KiNg0G:
More mehn are waking up lately.

chaii that dayo na real nigga

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Infolenka:
I don't hate redpill. I hate the guys that pretend to be redpill when they are not.

And them plenty for Nairaland

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SweetVibe:
I have a quesion for the redpillers

Will being an Alpha male with great body stop your woman from cheating on you?

.

It depends on your definition of Alpha male.

Remember we seems to have different versions of Alpha male on Nairaland

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Martinez39s:
A lot of people are sneaking into this group to act like redpillers in order to execute their ulterior motives. It's not a new thing.

I just noticed it.

Imagine someone accusing me of encouraging brokness because I insisted a true Redpiller can successfully "Rasule" a woman without using money....

To them any man that suggests toasting a woman without using money is either Broke or encouraging brokness...

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DieRich5:
guy relax jor, not all men are simp same way not all women are useless.

Note: marriage can't change a hoe

I don see woman cheat on her broke husband for another broke man ND get Belle for am

Stop encouraging brokenness here, remember young bloods are reading ur post

Me encourage brokenness ?

I can see your level of understanding is low.
Have a Nice day sir.

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Abba114:
its the billionaire's fault.

How is it his fault ?

According to you guys, base on the situation of the country the BILLIONAIRE husband has the most important thing a woman needs which is money. So how come madam still waka go open leg for a BROKE security guard and still carry 4 pregnancies for him ?

I thought nigeria women no get time for BROKE guys ?

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Itzlinda:
I need to be serious with this gym thing in my life.

I went to with a friend to buy a smile router with and the sales girl toasted him and collect his number right in front of me.

The guy is tall and well built.

And a chubby me is just there watching like Mumu with my potbelly.

Wetin pain be say the girl fine die. See how my laziness de make me lose better pussay.

And I’m sure this girl has one boy friend that’s dying for her and think she’s innocent.

And now she just throw herself to a guy in less than 5 minutes . This life no just balance.

Wetin ubunja de talk regarding woman sexuality is the gospel truth I swear. But gym no easy o

I thought money is the only thing that Nigeria girls are interested in you for use your fainancal status take impress and win her na.

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Itzlinda:
And the irony of this all is that broke alpha that gets ladies easily wish they could be rich and have nice things in life.
I have a broke alpha friend that says there’s nothing that excites and impress him like having his own car.
This is the dude that said he didn’t enjoy fucking girls anymore.
He just Bleep them because he has to Bleep them. Dude has more pussies at his disposal than a brothel.

How came you guys are quick to tag All ALPHAS as broke ?

Haven't you guys seen fainancally successful Alphas ?

Or even broke and poor Beta/blue pill male ?

Just to justify you Simping you guys are quick to tag Alphas as broke and jobless Men.

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Abba114:
its not like i dont respect this guy ubunja or something, i respect the guy i know he is better than me nd i learn a lots from his thread, but about the issue of paying for sex we parted ways, i like fucking wth no emotions attached, i like fucking without the fear of not lasting longer, i like fucking without trying hard to impress her so that she will come back again, i like a situation where she submit completely and do whatever i like because she knows its my money im paying. lastly all i want is PUMP AND DUMP.

If you think the woman you paid to have sex with you will give you her best or surrender completely to your sexual fantasies then you have a lot to learn from women...

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babyfaceafrica:
Fact!!..Game can carry you for a while, but without financial stability You will lose to a rich guy without Game

And the Rich guys without Game will lose to guys like me that will chop both their women and their money.

As a man it is important to have both Game and money it is also of Extreme importance not to use money as your calling card when dealing with women.

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ThiagoKid:
"Women seek physical protection."
"As a man, you must protect your woman-wife."

To me, the aforementioned are nonsensical phrases. I don't know if I am the weird one here.
Protecting your woman is synonymous to fighting for her at any given time/circumstances against internal/external forces no matter who is at fault to your own detriment.

If that's what the female gender desires, it will be of their best interest to steer clear off me! I ain't playing to such rules.

I will fight for my woman and protect her dignity na he make widows full everywhere.

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Abba114:
without money they will not even look at you if you are talking about attraction how do u think a poor man will attract them. i believe the middle class men in nigeria do get pussy and the rich men too but the poor guys they only masturbate.

Imagine A BILLIONAIRE unknowingly raising the Kids (4 in number) of his security man thinking they are his children.

The man is a billionaire the security guy is broke/poor but madam still upon leg for the security man got pregnant for him and gave the BILLIONAIRE husband the children to train.

Beta works Alpha fucccks

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SOZINN:
Women cover their tracks better lol. And they are more likely to fûck someone they are not in a relationship with before their period. To be honest, you will most likely raise another man's child if you attracted your woman with money.
Believe me, I'm only trying to save your assès. There are many of you here questioning the power of biology. Please don't be a victim.

Imagine A BILLIONAIRE unknowingly raising the Kids (4 in number) of his security man thinking they are his children.

The man is a billionaire the security guy is broke/poor but madam still upon leg for the security man got pregnant for him and gave the BILLIONAIRE husband the children to train.

Beta works Alpha fucccks

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NYCnextStop:
So from no girl go look your side to you won't get enough pussy. Hmm... tell me more please. How many is enough pussy You guys confuse carrying imessage girls up and down with real attraction... mtcheew. Only if you knew how some rich guys struggle with women

BTW Speak for yourself man

You self notice am ?

They should continue using money to chase women. Las last guys like me will chop their girlfriends even chop from the money they sent/spend on their girlfriends.

Weaklings forming Redpill.

Oldoinyolengai:
So good and pleasing to read a comment like yours.
Most of the guys in this thread have a lot of misconceptions concerning TRP.
They think TRP is a means to free pussy, as a result when they are being told to not spend for the sake of pussy, they think that they are being told not to make money. This kind of thinking reveals their simping nature. That the ultimate goal of making money is to spend it for sex. Had they know once you become a real Redpiller sex will satiate you because you won't be able to screw every pussy that will be available for you.

They tend to believe that Redpillers are bunch of lazy people who stay in unfinished buildings smoking, gumbling, drinking and hunting pusses. It's true, men do that and more, but they are not all of it. A lot of Redpillers are hustlers too who have even dared to venture into the risk missions to make money. Redpill knowledge can simplify your hustling.

They don't know redpill goes beyond courtship and dating. It's applicable in politics, religion, streets, business world and more. Like where in the society will you live without interacting with women? How can one interact with a set of people he doesn't know?
There is a work to be done, little by little we'll get there.

I understand you man..

When you tell them you can actually get a woman without spending on her, they automatically misinterpret it to something ridiculous as encouraging laziness.

To them the main reason a man should make money is so that he can use it to impress women.
They believe a man that doesn't have money have no business approaching a woman.

Telling them you can actually approach and possibly sex a woman without having money automatically means you're broke and jobless.

When you're used to using money to "Rasule" women the mire thought that one can actually do it without spending a dime will sound like an abomination..

Lastly
I personally think it's impossible for someone who still "Pays women" for sex or companionship to successfully apply the TRP knowledge on Any other ventures.

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aomine:
MEN CHOOSE WOMEN THAT DONT CHOOSE THEM HENCE THE SPENDING WITHOUT EVEN SEEING LAP TALKLESS OF PANT BUT THEY IGNORE THE MEN THAT CHOOSE THEM SAME WAY WOMEN IGNORE THE MEN THAT CHOOSE THEM AND WANT TO COMMIT BUT IGNORE THESE MEN AND GO FOR HIGH VALUE MEN WHO Bleep THEM WITHOUT COMMITING THEN THEY LAMENT ALL MEN ARE SCUM SAME WAY MEN LAMENT ALL GIRLS ARE GOLDIGGERS WHEREAS YOU SIMPLY REFUSED TO BE THE CHOSEN INSTEAD BEING THE CHOOSER ,THY LORD IZZZ Y'ALL STRENTH

Perfectly said.

Calibrator:
Whilst you lot sort out your Civil War (May the best side win by the way)


*Simply resign to his fate and carry on doing the same thing expecting different results because he thinks it is a rigged game with no cheat code to alleviate his losses (what redpillers call Simps).

80% of men are in this stage and will probably remain there for the rest of their lives.

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GrammarNazi1:
Bleached/extremely bleached girls.

With body odour and extreme stretch marks

Redpill is not about hate or disrespect of the female entities.

Redpill is about developing yourself mentally, emotionally,physically and fainancally to the extend no woman no matter her beauty and sexual values can manipulate you.

Redpill is telling Men to value themselves in all Ramifications.

Redpill is Telling men there's more to life than being a provider and "protector" of the female entities.

Redpill is telling Men to have class,dignity and standards when dealing with women...

Redpill is telling Men to sit up and stop being pusssy slaves.

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Skepticus:


I won't argue anything with anyone again (concerning this issue) nor blame/curse Nigerian women for asking and taking the money of SIMPs. It's a waste of time. The ego of some dude(s), is "heavily bruised" in this discussion. To them, it's about competition.

Make a fortune of the ignorance of this men and play it to your advantage.

Any further "shalaye" (explanations) is useless.

Gregjo summed it all below:

It's as simple as that.

Anyone that feels he can't "rasule" a woman without money should please continue they should pray guys like me don't come across that their girlfriends. Because las las we go chop both their girlfriends and their money.

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GrammarNazi1:
Sarcasm?

Lol.

That's what these out of touch people actually want to make us believe.

Imagine saying that money is not important and that it is guys with game who score the most girls!

Lol.

Ubanja NEVER said money is not important. Money is very important to everyone. What he is trying to say is build yourself mentally, emotionally, physically. That you can approach and impress/win a woman even when you're NOT YET fainancally comfortable...

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babyfaceafrica:
This is just partly true. You can't get any woman you want without money, that's false!!.. In reality there are some ladies you can only hit with MONEY!!!!.. No Matter your game, some ladies won't give you coochie without CASH!!..

Let me tell you something.

If a woman choose/decide to fuccck you it doesn't matter to her if you're Rich or broke her main concern at that moment is CAN YOU FUCCCK HER TO SATISFACTION.

Likewise if a woman is not sexually attracted to you, if you like spend billions after billions on her, Oga even pant you no go see.

Be a man of Value and charisma. Be mysterious and unpredictable. Display an Aura of security and sexuality and see how women will be embarrassing themselves to get your attention even with your brokenness.

You guys should please take out time to study and understand woman on a physical level and not through social media.