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CaveAdullam:
Low IQ mentally is the cause bro. Sex is overrated! Genuine desire has always been the game for me even when I was oblivious about the redpill. But making it seem as a trophy is a worthless one.

Only narcissistic low IQ men glory in sexual escapades as if other men don't have their own experiences.

When a man rationalizes that sex is the sole purpose or round up of all purposes, just know his remaining days is buried within the thighs of a woman.

Ride on bro.

PS: idiots coming should know that sex ranks low in the Maslow's hierarchy of human needs. Meaning that after sex, you still need to climb the pyramid or die there in your current position.

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DieRich5:
dis eye contact is still Harding me big time @ (both gender) I'm use to staying indoors but I'm still trying
One thing I know for sure is easy to woo a girl with eye contact when talking to her (I'm doing it small)
Eye contact is powerful but people don't talk about it

Keep trying the Rewards of EYE contact is greatly underrated.

Logically trying to explain SEX and it's overrated hype to an emotionally premature creatures like women is like trying to run with a broken foot.


Women have one power over Men and that is SEX. The moment a Man masters the act of controlling his Sexual desires, he becames a master over women and their manipulative tentacles.

One of the greatest mistake a MAN will ever make in his life time, is to listen or take Advice from A WOMAN on how a "REAL MAN" is supposed to behave towards WOMEN....

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Tonnyray:
Which exactly is the point.
Make your take known and move on. If someone doesn't agree with an aspect of it (and clarification is sought intelligently), try and clarify it.
Anything after that leads to an unnecessary back and forth. Derogatory words then come into play.
There is no way someone who can't handle supposed online trolls can handle real time women in real life (women that we all agree are born red-pilled).

True talk.

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Tonnyray:
The thread has gone to the dogs yen yen yen yen...
When we say majority here just lip-sync red pill they call us names.
Where do alpha males run off with their tail between their legs because stray nomadic males have entered their "territory"?
I guess only on a "red pill" thread.

It might also be because They no longer have the patience to be arguing back and forth on that particular topic.

One of the greatest hoax in human history is having Men believing that their greatest purpose of existence is being a provider and a protector of the female entities.

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Skepticus:
Facts.

Also, don't be rigid with it. In some situation, it might be necessary to do the opposite, to gain leverage. It works in manipulation.

Yea that is why I added naughtiness and sarcasm.

As a Redpiller it is of extreme importance that you develop An attitude of EYE CONTACT in all your dealings. you will be surprised of it's advantages...

Also develope an AURA OF AUTHORITATIVE SILENCE.
Let you posture, dressing, movement DO most of your talking for you. Whenever you decide to speak, let it be straight to the point and authoritatively frank with a touch of naughtiness and sarcasm here and there (depending of the situation)

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Skepticus:
Apologies accepted.

There is light at the end of the toilet!

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Isaacmacdon:
Thread has gone to the dogs. Especially the ashewo beer parlour simps.


It's funny how we let our ego define us. Our differences were meant to unite us and not divide us.

Ideologies will always be different. No doubt about that.



Ubunja and CaveAdullam, your inability to find a middle-ground is the reason this thread is all shytty now.

Imagine someone who pays for sex, boldly calling himself an alpha male or a redpiller.
It clearly shows the lack of self-esteem.

Redpill was meant to teach self-improvement as well as game.
Rollo spoke about game in his book.



Find a middle-ground you two. This thread needs to maintain its essence.

Panophist drops by once in a while, but he knows for fact that soon, with men bickering like a little b***h, expect the thread to die a natural death.

The thread is gradually going to the dogs. I think it's time I enter ghost mood.

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Skepticus:
Drenimarcus, are you trying to mock Nigeria as the country having a lot of men who worship vagina over "common sense" in the world because of their high rate of "Paternity Fraud?

What happened to "Ebonyi men" being 125 percent (125%) red pilled or Zamfara muslim "Northerners" being 500 percent (500%) red pilled? Drenimarcus, you must be a liar.

The average nigerian society is a PATRIARCHY that would never legalize homosexuality and abortion. Anyone who thinks otherwise is a blue pilled beta in disguise even though, Bobrisky, James Brown and all, abortion clinics, are thriving in this "patriarchy". TUUUEEHHH!!

Personally, I want the Hisbah police to thrive in Kano and Zamfara States respectively, enforcing the Sharia Law, despite not arresting Umar Ganduje and Ahmed Sani for embezzlement/corruption.

Does it matter if the head of the Hisbah police was caught with one of the prostitutes he arrested in Kano hotels?

Abeg no vex again.
He doesn't know that our Culture,traditions and Religion will never allow fainancal independence of our women.

Even though our culture, traditions and Religion are becoming almost useless in the face of all the sexual and cultural immoralities presently taking place in Nigeria.

How can Nigeria women be fainancally independent when Nigeria is the POVERTY CAPITAL of the world. who the hell are they ?

Nonsense and women independence

In as much as MEN STILL DOMINATE THE FAINANCAL SECTIONS of this world, that does not change or deny the fact that more and more women are becoming career and fainancal wise...

In as much as AFRICAN MEN are STILL The undisputed Head of the family, that does not change that fact that because of the current economical situation in Nigeria, Men are losing their jobs AND more women are becoming the bread winners of their families and we know what happens when a woman takes over the Fainancal responsibility of a family. Remember a Rich man can be broke tomorrow. If such happens how ready are you as a man. As a Redpiller.

As a Redpiller.
How ready are you mentally,emotionally,physically to tackle this challenges and still maintain your dominance over your women.. ?

Any body that wants to believe that All Nigeria women are broke and insignificant are free to do so. As for me, I have dealt with countless women that I have noticed the slow but gradual growth of career and independent women in our society.

I personally don't do broke girls and I certainly don't deal with mentally insignificant women.

All My FWB are fainancally comfortable and are doing well in their choosing careers yet they are my sex slaves.

Their fainancal status Does not stopped them from being my intimacy gadgets.

Their delusion about feminism never stopped me from fuccking the living daylight out of their holes any time I want too.

In truth I like going after all this beautiful high class lady's because personally they are the freakiest and adventurous in sex and the easiest to dominate and manipulate..

Part of My duty as a Redpiller is to humble arrogant independent women.

I am not where I would love to be in this stage of my life, but I an in is a position where I can confidently approach anyone (No matter how high or independent they think they're ) and strike a conversation with them. Telling me to avoid independent women is somewhat impossible for me. I like going after them. Humbling an independent woman is more satisfying than sex.

At my level with women I can confidently tell you guys that sex is overrated and does not worth the time and attention giving to it by Most Men..

Whether independent ooo. Dependant ooo as long as you're a woman that catches my fancy I will have you laying naked on my bed in 2-3 weeks time. Unless the opportunity did not present itself...

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Osas187:
Emotionss
Your post reminds me of a post on nairaland front page last year or earlier this year by a woman who complains about her husband that slaps her all because he lost his job and she told him to help her wash plates she would use to serve her costomer in her food business,since she's the one taking care of him and their children after he lost his job

I remember the post.

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neyoohhh:
True, but they might just topple you guys over.

There's momentum, ngos, willing citizens all who love the western lifestyle.

I asked a feminist yesterday if she'll take Arab styled patriachy with social protection or western freedom's without social protection, she chose the later.

They're coming!

Feminism + lgbt ... Danger!

That is what we're trying to say.

Our women now do things that 10-15 years ago they wouldn't dire.

We now have NGOs in Nigeria willing to assist women fight their husbands and traditions.

We now have lawmakers passing laws in Nigeria that is favourable to women and the girl child.

The me too movement and sisterhood movement are gaining grounds everyday in Nigeria yet WE men refuse to accept the reality on ground we still believe the Nigeria women of 2000 is still thesame as Nigeria women of 2021... For how long are we going to be in denial ?

Redpill is telling us to be mentally,physically,emotional,fainancally ready for the Woke movement that is taking place around the world be we in Nigeria are saying no need for that our Culture,traditions and Religion well never allow such to happen. If only we know how weak culture,traditions and Religion is becoming in this age and time.

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Susily:
Bro don't put computer coding in that list

anyone that learns computer coding is one step away to hitting great wealth....... that's where the world is headed now

And I encourage men who have the time and the means to opt for computer programming and software engineering. You'd be doing yourself a huge favor as a man if you're savvy in these areas

My point is our young men are not taking managerial career paths as serious as the females counterparts.

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drLammy:
I laff when I see some people's comments here
The few number of redpillers we have in this space thinking they can change what's coming or what's already here.
The best for any male on this space is to make good use of Red pill information so you will be totally aware and save yourself and perhaps men that are willing to be saved.
Currently, Naija is breeding an outrageous number of simps
Or is it not the same Naija a pretty lady with good curves will most probably get a Job ahead of you even when she's underqualified?
International communities or NGO's will rather employ a lady claiming to balance gender equality.
It's everywhere already, but maybe some guys can't see it or feigning ignorance.although I don't know where some guys resides that it isn't clear to them this ladies are getting more independent with each passing day.

And to the person hailing the Northern Nigeria, mehn I don't even want to go there cuz those guys are the worst Simp I've ever seen in my life
Presently their modern boys are being manipulated to taking one wife as against their normal polygamy
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Its a trend and there's nothing any redpiller can do about it as the Simp far outnumber the masculine men. We can only arm ourselves with redpill awareness and when you finally get a chance at making laws put your brothers interest first

They keep allowing ego and sentiments to cloud their judgment.

Let's use the last 3 BBNaija as an example how many of the male house mate are as successful as their female counterparts outside the house ?

More and more men are losing their managerial jobs to women in Nigeria. Go to banks, IT firms, Breweries,media houses, multinational corporations and see how women are gaining ground on the top managerial positions that was mostly dominated by men few years ago...

While our young men are busy dominating the menial jobs, construction jobs, Yahoo Yahoo, Driving jobs and other stress related jobs, the women are busy gunning for the managerial and other higher paying jobs. Yet some of us find it hard to accept that more and more women are becoming fainancal independent in Nigeria....

The purpose of Redpill is not to stop that evolution, but to equip men with the Mental and emotional maturity to deal and counter any negative issue that will arise as a result of that..

More and more men are losing their jobs on a daily basis thereby making the women the bread winners of their families.
As a man who depends on his fainancal status to dominate and control your environment how do you handle such situations if you're not mentally, emotionally and physically prepared for it.

How does a man that earns 200k a month attracts the attention of a woman that earns 500k a month if he's not mentally, emotional, physically different from other men.

As a Man. Without your fainancal status, Do you have the required mental, physical and emotional maturity to make a statement for yourself and impress others (men and women alike) if you're not a true Redpiller. ?

The world is changing how many men are ready for such change ?

I intend to remain a king in my little kingdom and for that I will continue to watched, abserve, adjust and improve myself when necessary while still maintaining my Redpill masculine mentality...

Any man that wants to remain in 1999 delusions about women independence is free to do so.

Time will tell.

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DieRich5:
if the woman is more rich than her husband, the marriage well no last ND divorces is sure to come

And when it comes who will benefit from it ?

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BLOODYSPERM:
Anyone in support for female independence is a feminist and these very ideology is antithetical to the redpill praxeology

As it stands currently there's nothing Redpillers can do about the growing number of musiline and fainancal independent women in our society. As long as the number of weak feminie men A.K.A SIMPs keeps increasing, independent and musiline women will be on the increase whether we support it or not.

More and more women are being empowered by the society. Go to most companies one or two women are occupying some of the top 5 position in those companies.

While more and more women are studying business management, administrations, accounting and other managerial career courses that will put them at the top, The men are busy studying mechanical engineering,Yahoo Yahoo,computer coding and other courses that will put them under the managerial authority of the women...

For now the men have the upper hand but what will happen when all the old geezers start dying off. Especially with the increase of feminine men and musiline women.

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demanuel:
This is another level of the redpill conversation. This is on a deeper level. 90% of guys will shy away from this conversation.

90% ? abegi more like 98%

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drealbenard:
The storm is inevitable. Even here in Nigeria, the number of educated girls is on the increase. More women will venture and likely succed in the same career paths as men. More women will become independent in future. More women will stop needing a man and will only want the men that makes them wet.

We keep telling them. Those men depending on ONLY their fainancal status to get a woman are in for a very rude surprise...

More and more women are getting educated, fainancally independent and successful in their careers for a man to capture the intrest of this women he need something other than his fainancal status. Sadly our egotistical selfs are too rigid to see it.

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TheDarkGamer:
The issues being discussed have led me to make this post:

Everyone has his opinion on the broke vs rich matter. But, I believe that most people here do not fully understand the situation in question. That is why we are seeing different responses. I just want to add another perspective to look at things.

Inasmuch as we believe in female hypergamy, it doesn't mean that it is an absolute variable in the equation. Women will always try to find the best available guy to pair with, and that is what hypergamy postulates. Now, in some situations, the best guy may not match up to their romantic ideals, but they will still pair with him nonetheless and get additional benefits from other sources when her 'rich guy' is secured. It is a survival strategy.

To be honest, I don't know why a lot of people get angry over this when it's quite simple. I think it's because we are used to getting girls through money and material means and not through pure emotions felt by both parties.

A woman might marry a rich man, but still desire someone outside her marital home. The rich man is usually overweight (due to poor eating habits and/or excessive food intake), egotistical (because he is rich and everybody treats him like gold because they want to be in his gold books), polygamous (not saying that it's wrong, but in this period it's unusual and the girl may not feel secure because she doesn't have her man all to herself), etc. He may be unable to have good sex too.

Now what is the woman to do? She is already rich and living a glamorous huband via the rich husband, but she is not enjoying her marriage. Her husband is fat and she does not gain pleasure when they have sex. He also never has time for her because of the nature of his job and whenever he does, it's only unfulfilling sex and probably treating her like a slave. Afterall, he bought her, so she's just his trophy wife. This situation might be different with another rivh man but there are still some underlying factors there.

Alas, what is our woman going to do? She notices the driver who is a young man that recently graduated from the university, but due to the nature of the country and his lack of connections takes a job as the rich man's driver. She looks at him and he's everything her husband is not. He is tall, muscular, funny etc. (all the good stuff). She begins to be infatuated and steals looks at him whenever she can, she always makes sure that he is the one driving her and she tips him generously.

Now, do not be mistaken, our young man is broke and can barely support himself and his family. If she were younger or to pick a spouse, it would most likely not be him. However, she has secured her luxury ticket through her husband and she wishes to really enjoy life. The young man is caring, passionate, has a 'boyish' energy, etc. She can't help herself (it might not be love, but there is definitely an attraction). He knows how to make her laugh and listens to all her problems (unlike her rich husband who never has time), he has a great body and she also notices the positive looks he gets from other ladies (unlike her husband who only gets such looks when he flaunts his cash), he makes her feel young again by gauging her imagination and giving her a fun time (unlike her husband who makes her go to his formal parties and meet his older friends). Do you notice what is going on here?

With women, the imagination is everything. You have to engage her and keep her wondering about you. Yes, if you are broke there is a possibilty that she will reject you. However, one thing most people fail to understand is that if you show ambition, it can play a part in hypergamy. Say you like playing football or love writing, if you are passionate about what you do, it is a turn on for her. This is because it makes you seem like a driven man with goals and there is a possibility of achieving your goals someday. So you don't need to be rich to activate that hypergamous instinct in her.

Another thing is, women love to feel. That's why they are very emotional. Taking her on regular dates where you people eat dinner, watch movies etc will not have the same effect as taking her on action dates where you guys play games, run around and have fun etc. Women like to be lively and hate boredom. You can make her happy, angry, sad, etc but she will not tolerate boredom from you. If she is bored in your relationship, she will look for that source of liveliness from somewhere else. They like to feel young again and having fun with them can make a huge difference. Most men, however, are not original and send the same type of texts (Hello, How are you, How was your night? etc), the same regular dinner dates, the same words (which have been overused and lost their value). With women, you have to engage her more than that. That's why it's advised that you should be spontaneous, mysterious etc. (Maybe I'll talk more on this in my telegram group)

One more situation where 'broke' men may trump 'rich' men is that they are less formal. Rich/civilized/educated etc men may treat her formally, without caring if she is having fun and feeling any emotions from the encounter. However, these poor/brash/uneducated men do not care about literature, cryptocurrency or care about hyper text markup language. These broke guys just make her laugh, make her feel good and have a fun aura around them. They are not subdued by how to make money, different stocks to buy, responsibilities etc. They just try to survive each day and live their lives to the fullest. Girls like that too because it reminds them of childhood where there were no responsibilites and repercussions for your actions. From my personal understanding, this is another factor that can attract the girls.

Now, back to the woman in our example. Her husband has none of those qualities that I mentioned above. What does she do? As fate would have it, one day she found herself talking to the driver and she then found herself together with him on a bed. She had sexually fantasized about his body and having sex with him. Now it's time. He makes her feel like a woman and screws the living daylight out of her. He is dominant and she is submissive. He makes her feel good and she orgasms in the course of the intercourse. At the end of the day, Okafor's law takes place. She is attracted to him and the sex. The broke man has nothing to do (so he has sex with different women and is experienced), he makes her feel good, blah blah. You get the gist.

Now she is in between a rock and a hard place. She loves her husband for his money but she loves the driver for his sex and his masculine nature.

What am I trying to say here?

It is not a constant. The above instance could still occur but in a different perspective. I'm just trying to show you some possibilities of rich women with broke men. It's possible but it doesn't mean every broke guy can score a rich woman. It doesn't mean that all rich men are chumps, fat and have bad sex. It can be the reverse. It doesn't mean that being poor=good sex r being rich= bad sex. It doesn't also mean that poor men all have great bodies and rich men don't. Some rich men are handsome and some are not, some rich men have great bodies while some do not, some rich men understand how to handle women and some do not, some rich men have a good d*ck game while some do not etc. Same applies for broke guys.

That's a problem with men. We are too rigid and hardly change our opinions on issues.

We have all heard or seen rich women having sex outside their home and most times with someone that is considered below her level. Different factors are at play in such situations.

I hope I have given you a new perspective concerning this broke-rich disagreement, and even if I haven't, at least you've seen why it can happen.

Don't just think it's impossible. If you are a masculine man(rich or poor) and you understand how women work and how to make them feel good, then you will get scores of girls (rich and poor).

P.S Not edited or proofread, so ignore any errors.

Barman Abeg give the guy 20 bottles of Hennessy vsop on my account....

This Rich dickk vs broke dickk civil war should end with this post.

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JESHAL:
Because men are repulsed by Masculine women. Men don't give a fvck about financial security from women.

Fvcking a rich woman is the same as fvcking a poor woman, both have the same primal instincts, poverty doesn't make you Alpha, being rich doesn't make you beta


Some rich people have game
Some poor people don't have game

Some rich people are Simps
Some poor people are Simps

Majority of men rich or poor are Simps ubunja is not emphasizing the broke Simps

He is not emphasizing on broke SIMPs because broke SIMPs don't make noise like Rich SIMPs.

Even Rich Redpillers don't make noise like the Rich SIMPs.

Can someone please explain to me why Some men are afraid of Rich independent women ?

Because to me they are the easiest set of women to fuccck without compromising your FWB rules.

To Achieve great things in life one need to be Confident of himself first and foremost. Unfortunately most men are not.

As a man how confident are you without your fainancal status ?

How confident are you without your friends by your side ?

How confident are you in a public or an unfamiliar environment especially when outnumbered ?

Are you confident enough to communicate with the opposite sex with nothing but your eyes ?

Before you start shouting Redpiller up and down this are some of the few questions you honestly need to ask yourself.

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aomine:
AOMINE IN DAA HOUSE, THE PROBLEM IZZ MANY MEN DONT KNOW HOW TO DRAW TRUE DESIRE AND ATTRACTION FROM A WOMAN SO THEY AVOID WOMEN WHO DONT NEED THIER MONEY

And get angry when broke guys accomplished what they couldn't accomplish with all their money.

If there's something I have noticed about some of our so called Nairaland Redpillers is that they are more comfortable going after broke or fainancally dependant women. With such women their fainancal status will do most of the talking and convincing for them.

But when they encounter a fainancally independent woman that is not moved by their fainancal status, they come up with silly excuses of how uncultureed and unapproachable she is while running with their ego between their legs. Because apart from their fainancal status they really don't have anything else to offer.

I have had dealings with fainancally independent women, women who where born in wealth and I can confidently tell you those set of women need something more than a fainancal status to be interested in a man.

The importance of being unique physically,mentally,emotionally can never be overestimated.

A broke mysterious man has a better chance with women than a Rich predictable man.

But when a man is Fainancally stable, mysterious, authoritative, mentally, physically and emotionally matured, he becames a mini god in the eyes of both men and women. To achieve this you need to start from the bottom. You need to experience the hash realities of life and relationships.


Any man that measures his Values base on ONLY his fainancal status still have a lot to learn in life

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Drenimarcus:
This shit is the new game now brother, even the Caucasians are into it. WTF is going on?!!!

Biblical prophecies coming to fulfillment.

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GrammarNazi1:
True. It happens, but guys who do it are simp lords.

When I did my first degree, a thing like this happened.

There was a day a guy, with tribal marks on his cheeks, visited a lady who was a polytechnic student.

He met another guy, this was a guy who always came to "shine the girl's congo", in her room.

Then the guy from the village put up a scene, making the girl angry. Then she started asking the guy if he was the first to send a girlfriend to school.

Or should we talk about how some married girls, during NYSC, hide their wedding rings in order to flirt/cheat since they are protected by the isolation of NYSC camp?


I ask again. Why would any sane man invest in a girl?

Lol.

The answer is probably low self-esteem or scarcity mentality.

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heartofcity12:
Told ya, their whole lives revolve around sex. What else are you bringing to the table bitch?

Women like being sexual objects it is we men with our ITK mentality that wants them to be something else.

And it always backfires.

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Stupidquestions:
Misery loves company ...No mind them
Nobody will ask when u are building house, or when u are buying car, or when u are starting a business, or when you are pursuing ur dreams...but once u are past 28 or 30, na so so stupid question of when u are marrying....

My eldest brother bought Titles for me and my other bros them. and hag them on a coconut tree pending when we're mature enough and ready to carry the title. One of the conditions to carry such title is you must be a married man. Me kuku ma no de interested in both of them.

I cannot come and use my hand by myself and marry depression all in the name of tradition.

I value my freedom and peace of mind above everything else.