Zzor:
For obvious reasons,you defend men alot,my regards to your good husband,you and my mom are just among the few lucky women.

Karleb:
You people think Nairaland revolve around family and romance sections?

Mariangeles:


[s]I don't think that is even possible.
A mother will always be emotionally tied to her child. The best that is expected of her is not to be too selfish, other than that will be asking for too much of her.
You don't expect a mother to just emotionally detach from her child simply because he or she got married do you? To a mother, her child will always be her child.
If she's not dependent on her children for emotional support when she gets old, then who is she going to depend on?
Infact, the older they get, the more emotionally attached to their children they are.
What then is her gain in giving birth to her child/children only to have to "give them up" emotionally when they get older?



Not necessarily true.
That initial war of who has more rights over the man will almost always play out, until they come to that understanding that each has their own place in the life of that man that they both should respect.[/s]

crackhaus:

I need her to die mad from the constant rejection and inability to gain my attention. That particular alternate will be banned soon just like the last one and she'll create another.

Na the work wey I don give her be this.

crackhaus:

No they won't, they can't split property equally when they break up.
So it's not quite exact, is it?


Those are some of the specific criteria for qualifying as common-law couples and here you are claiming the opposite that it doesn't matter.
You also talked about husband and wife lifestyle, he called himself her husband, etc... Is this information you're privy to from an insider because I saw no such thing on this news.

But like I noted earlier, I'm willing to believe you but I can't take your word for it until you provide something from a Canadian website (preferably that of the Home office) that supports your claim about buying gifts, or helping out with mortgage.

If you can't, then I figure we're done here.

MrBrownJay1:


How many normal people do you know pay $50k monthly in spousal support...only millionaires/billionaires in Dollars can pay such amount. Your mistake is to believe that the man in question is a nobody. Abeg educate yourself on the Latner family in Canada.

Now the reason why more men pay for spousal support than women is because more men think it's their duty to pay for everything while their wife stays at home doing very little. After children are born, then within 3yrs wifey should be back at work. If you allow your wife to stay home watching telemundo all day, then blame yourself for allowing such lifestyle in your own home.

angelfallz:


Please don't argue with that guy.

MrBrownJay1:


I could have also mentioned celebrity men who are paying spousal support, but that ain't the point.

senatorshegsy5:
I spoke with my brother just now. He is with her at the hospital. Thank God she is stable now base on the doctor she is out of danger.

mariahAngel:


[s]Let me put it this way EmperorMaria: Even if I were a close to a hundred years old, almost blind with a walking stick, you would NEVER fall into the category of guys I can ever get attracted to. NEVER!
I've NEVER been so unattracted to a guy as I am to you.
There's NOTHING about you that fascinates or interests me. NOTHING! [/s]

mariahAngel:


[s] Na de koko be dat naaaaa

EmperorMaria wan use me catch cruise for dis cold day...aswear! I like dat your monicker EmperorMaria
[/s]

mariahAngel:


[s]Marriage is a burden?
Marriage should be about two people who enjoy each other's company[/s].

crackhaus:

Lol...
Understandably, anyone who says that is obviously not a mother-in-law to anyone yet – that's the perspective of a wife/future wife.

I'm pretty certain that if we ask those MILs who don't get along with their DILs, they will all have some distinct reasons to give.

The OP ought to find out from the MIL involved to know what the issue is. Only after hearing her own complaints and then deciding if it's tangible/intangible, can any headway be made.

Richy4:


To be honest I have seen a friend that saw someone for the first time and disliked the person... when questioned about why she disliked the person, she couldn't just give one reason.... It could be that the mother in law was not feeling her 'vibe' at all right from the beginning...

AreaFada2:


Lol. Yet most women need marriage like oxygen in 9ja. Just be ok a bit as a man, comfortable and they soon want a lavish wedding.

My dear you know you just made that up. We date the women and we know how they role.

Petyprincess:

Like seriously, even mod pushed this rubbish to front-page to promote bashing of Nigerian women from frustrated guys.

They masturbate on any topic that bashes Nigerian women but will lick a white old granny ass for green card,these men can't tolerate shit from Africa American women,they will lick their ass to get a green card while bashing Nigerian women.

Most of these guys are not sincere,some are suffering to keep their status while be deceiving gullible supposed "fans" and "asslickers" on nairaland at the same time bashing Nigerian women. Even fresh immigrants will start shouting "a white lady picked me up,payed my bills,etc

Believe these people at your risk!

mariahAngel:


She had done something like that before, so I couldn't allow that to happen again.
I get uncomfortable when pretentious people are around me.

mariahAngel:


Now, this is the REAL YOU.
I always knew you were too fake to be real!

You've deactivated some of your old account but it still doesn't change who you really are.
You are a pretender.
Remember when you lied to everyone on the food thread that someone sent you an email to beg you for money, she asked you to prove it, you couldn't, then out of shame, you deactivated. When you came back, I knew it was you instantly but I thought you had changed and gave you the benefit of the doubt, but alas....

Stay away from me please.

QuietHammer:


...so much that they couldn't even stand up or see her out?

QuietHammer:
E sweet me as the housemates didn't give two fvcks