₦airaland Forum

sandraanakebe:
Why date her when you know she is not the type you would love to settle down with?

You started it, so finish it...But try to finish it well cos such ladies could be dangerous.

So every guy you've dated is th type you want to settle with. I don't understand again oo

Elesta:
Nawa oh in my entire life i havent come across this kind of self centered person n i dont pray to see.Na real wa.Hisses

He is not self-centered my dear. Even you will admit that it's not everyone a lady dates that she wants to marry. Face it!

prittygift114:
So you prefer wasting a ladies time and then advising her to go geh married when she must have been in love with you. Let worst guys like you treat your sisters same way!!! Animal

Please before you insult t life out of him read his post again. He told her from the onset and she agreed. Nobody sees anything wrong with her making a U-turn in the middle of the relationship, all you see is him refusing. Is it by force to marry her? Do women date only one guy in their lives? Why don't they marry all of them to prove their love?

rosalieene:
What advice exactly do you need.
Please just leave her alone to move on with her life irrespective of any unfinished business. You will only end up causing her more hurt.

But he made it clear to her where he stands from the outset.

luscioustrish:
Move on after the unfinished business.

Short and simple!

elyna:
its better you leave now if she finds out you were using here or the thing she had with you meant nothing but business to you eh guy, there will be serious problem. she will never be friends with you after you leave stamp that at the back of your mind.

Elyna do people 'use' others? For real?

ToriBlue:
I don't know why guys keep dating women they can't marry. Its sheer wickedness.

Must you marry anyone you date?

Pidgin2:
People like you are the reason why incurable diseases came into this world. When you talk rubbish about God's servants you are only asking for trouble, continue.

Don't be pained...take it like a man.

alexialin:
Lol
I can just imagine his face after receiving the slap and still holding to the bweats, and saying am sorry pls... Lol
Ol boi

The nipples were too tempting for comfort
Lol.

Na wa

Quite tempting!

Jammiiee:
Lool so u could react this way I guess u found the situation worrisome ;Dfunny one but u directing it bk at me. Ok leme answer u. I kept repeating this. I ain't talking about when u r in distress. When a woman wants to give birth or in very serious illness, that's no p for her coz all she wants then is for her to regain her good health. But m talking about, a woman that just needs some preventive measures or in some mild conditions and needs to go to a male gyn. Perhaps to check lump in her breasts or to examine her V. . Shey u will alow Well as for me I will prefer my wife to go see a female gyn. .

Please list the so called 'preventive measures or mild conditions' and I'll tell you why they do what they do. What's your glitch? You give your babe infection you got from God knws where and someone offers help and you're here talking trash. Why don't you examine her and treat her yourself? Why come around and display a high level of foolishness?

chizzy4love:
How dare you use the word juvenile on a thread you dont even comprehend what the OP is talking about.Did you just come across the word or what?.I think you are suffering from juvenile deliquency if not you wouldnt have typed it atall.You really need to reset your brain and next time if you come across a post that you cant seem to assimilate into your brain, you simply get lost and try reading another post that your juvenile brain can comprehend.NEVER USE THE WORD JUVENILE WHILE REFERING TO ADULTS NEXT TIME. What Nonsense!

Adults that ain't afraid of telling lies to bring a noble profession into disrepute. Well done. Clap for yasef!

Jammiiee:
And is that bn practised here If it was then did u read dt lady's story up there? . . Ryt nw we ain't talking abt when u r in distress. Plus get ur facts ryt. Gynaecologists check breasts, examine them for lumps and what av u with their bare hand, sth that looks like handling the breasts they examine the vagina as well , there isn't any part of the woman anatomy that they don't av access to if need be, that's why the emphasis on them.

Madam, if u r faced with a very mild condition of aving ur bossoms or V checked every 2 months. Will u allow the male Gyn on u? For whatever reason... and are u saying u av no biggies with that? Or u'd find a female Gynaecologist at all cost.

Young man, you no nothing about medicine. Stop exposing your ignorance. On no account will a woman with breast pain or lump present to a gynecologist. She will be referred to a general surgeon for examination. The breast is considered an accessory organ and not even one for reproduction. Gynecologist are simple concerned with the female reproductive tract even though some parts of their examination extends to the breasts. No gynecologist goes looking for breast lumps. I'm a final year medical student and I speak from a knowledgeable point. When you utter things, speak with facts, knowledge and not vain blabbings. Keep emphasising, they're doing a damn good job of treating your gf or wife of all those Shit you give her. Stop peddling nonsense here. That girl that said she was examined by a gynecologist for breast pain, that's when I realised she just lied. Period! Big lie. You've got breast pain, you meet a general surgeon not a gynecologist. You've got breast lump, you meet a general surgeon not a gynae. Get these facts straight!

salsera:
I find this topic juvenile .
Gynaecologist don't treat breasst matters anyways so what's the issue exactly.

You do realise that even when you have surgery you will be naked regardless of your gender.
Even to take some certain injections doctors not even the specialist will see your bum.
Appendicitis o
Chest exam o
Heart attack o
What about accidents nko?
Doctors will see your body one way or the other.

Typically its standard practice if a medical person of the opp gender.has to do a body exam then a nurse of the same gender has to be present.

Please tell this hooligans what it means to get breasts examined. All I see is just ignorance having a field's day in their minds.

Jammiiee:
Exactly that's the part m hitting on the most. Med. Checkups

You can simply check yourself @ home and commence your treatment. No be by force to go hospital. Babalawo house dey...your pastor house dey. Dem fit check you kwa, no big deal.

Jammiiee:
Wow, very interesting, hearing for and against. But sincerely I think it can't be less than 2 out of every 5, dt myt b the least, that's 40%. But m certain a lot of ladies will av stories to tell. Of course, u r a veteran gyn with such wealth of experience. What else have ur eyes not seen. The good, bad and the ugly . I hail ur professionalism sir. But m sure many can't subdue that reaction

You are sure many can't? Why don't you go study medicine then show us proof? Ladies coming up here to spill trash. So when you are examined there is no female chaperone beside him to ensure he doesn't get out of line? Well done.

Pidgin2:
I think more females should be encouraged to specialize in this field. It is not right for a male to be handling a females body in the name of medical check up..

You may not be like that but let's face it some male doctors are in it for the sexual passion they satisfy through this means. I even think it is wrong religiously, why should a woman open her V for a strange man to access na, haba.

I know childbirth is messy and all but I am talking of regular check up of that private region not to talk of accessing a busty lady

You can open it for your pastor. I'm sure his 'holiness' will cast out those STIs from that aperture without charging you a dime. Afterall he ain't strange.

Pidgin2:
I think more females should be encouraged to specialize in this field. It is not right for a male to be handling a females body in the name of medical check up..

You may not be like that but let's face it some male doctors are in it for the sexual passion they satisfy through this means. I even think it is wrong religiously, why should a woman open her V for a strange man to access na, haba.

I know childbirth is messy and all but I am talking of regular check up of that private region not to talk of accessing a busty lady

So he will spend 6 or more years, thousands of sleepless nights, insults from consultants and professors, zero hours of holidays, xmas, new year and valentine in the hospital just so he can get a certificate to derive sexual passion Please try and sound reasonable. I know economic recession is biting hard but it must not hit your brain in this manner. Later when you pick up that sti from God knows where, you'll run to him for help and open that shameless hiatus for inspection. When next you need that help, visit your woman of God to pray out those infections okay. Nonsense!

Jammiiee:
Wow, this is quite interesting. Good info, no wonder I kept wondering how they can manage d situ. Haba. As if they ain't men, bn faced with different women structures Unclad, except they r wooden structures. And some of them will come here now, claiming professionals. Professionals my foot. Haba, dt course should be for females, seriously. . M sure a lot of women still av stories to tell.

Stories like this cock and bull writeup bah? Why don't you go straight up and tell the world you dislike them naturally? What's all this? What joy do you derive from maligning people?

chizzy4love:
I had to sign up today just to share my experience and let you know it's real.50% of male doctors can't control themselves.so females should visit them in the company of friends if possible.
Even my friend that felt itches down there not long ago was told that they will need a swap to do a test and immediately she opened her legs for the doctor to collect it,his trouser became swollen and he started asking her out instantly.hmmm.i rest my case.

Sister before you rest your case, lemme ask you something...no vex oo. Have you heard of 'female chaperone' before?

chizzy4love:
Funny enough,I have been harassed by one.I went with my boyfriend to see a doc because I was feeling pains in my both breasts.immediately I brought out my breast from my bra,the doctor lost control,It was really visible in him as he was caressing it and before I could say jack,he was already sucking it.i gave him a slap though I must confess he got to me because he instantly put me in the mood because he was so good at it but thank God I could control myself as he started pleading with me still with his hands in one breast and his mouth in another firmly and still caressing it.Meanwhile my boyfriend was still waiting at the reception.well,I insisted he should leave me or I shout which he did and promised to call me with the number I filled in the form.I dint tell my boyfriend because he would have beaten the doctor to a pulp and he dint charge me for the drugs and consultation bill.He later keep calling and I refused to see him privately until he got tired.IT IS REALLY NOT EASY TO BE A WOMAN.what about other female patients,who knows.

Lai mohammed!

Mzflexydeeva:
so lets start by making the room fun. just give a little description of urself and ur likes>>>>>>>>>>>> i like to be called deeva_da boss cos i am love the idea of independence. from edo state and love to meet people.

I'm Israel, from abia, lives in Lagos, studies in Enugu, in my mid-20s, I love laughing, I like interacting, I'm in love with places I've not been to. What else ma'am

Quintessential1:
Lol. Nahh. Free those muscles and smile, regardless.

Abi...Oya make I smile small. . You no go sleep?

Quintessential1:
At all...it's more or less for the sake of fun

No time for fun dear. With the way things dey now, my default appearance na frowning. No time to smile until oga @ the top change venue.

MasterRahl:
One man's meat is another man's poison. As far as I'm concerned, I will not go into marriage until I'm comfortable and financially ready to bear the task. Is it that easy to manage a family? An average private school here in Akwa Ibom State charges N75,000 as tuition fee for a nursery 1 pupil. I don't want to mention the name of the school. So assuming a broke guy gets married and has four children, how will he educate such? This is the reason why we have little children moving up and down the streets with trays of groundnuts and banana on their heads. Potential parents should wise up.
The fact that he has seen his mates playing with their children does not necessarily mean that all is well with them. He might even be more comfortable than they are. Not all that glitters is gold.

You dey broke come marry born FOUR And you still broke...oga there is something called vasectomy. Let's keep that little man quiet for a while cos the way you dey go...hmm!

montanaguy:
Even if you a not ready for marriage, try to impregnant one girl, at least when you are gone, there will b something to remember you with.

goingape:
Obama is a chronic smoker!


Donald trump is a womanizer!

Bill Clinton cheated on his wife.


and all of them got a woman by there side.



you are talking trash bro!

TRASH!

When you make 'money', start smoking weed, until then, bro, stay off drugs. You mentioned 3 people, with money on drugs. I'll mention 1000 people in Ajegunle and Bariga in Lagos, oga, even Donald no smoke reach them, and what they drink is garri in the morning and night. Make money before you start smoking pls. Gone are the days when big phallus dey trip babe.

Quintessential1:
Shey? I don't fancy pre-wedding pics, though.

Those things no get value.

goingape:
I'm sure your mother work her a**e out for your father!

when did I give that expression that I will make billions and marry a rich non- naija girl

you just jump into conclusion without thinking! that's how myopic you are in your way of reasoning.

Thanks man. I don't have to condescend to address this. Thanks.

lefulefu:
lol but bros wit d way u hate naija girls who u go come date na? Abi u based outside naija? If u in naija weda u like it or not na nigerian woman u go end up wit as a wife.

No he won't. He will never do such a thing...not after calling them apes. Sometimes I wonder if people compose and type before proof-reading it or the phone just automatically sends it. He'll make billions and marry a rich non-naija girl who'll work her a**e out for him. I'm very sure.

poweredcom:
thank you bro


this guy advising an average nigerian youth to get married at 24 or 22...this guy need some slap

how many Nigerian youth of that age...can afford an apartment and again how many nigerian girls are ready to listen or love you for who you are...at that age if you are broke...


dont rush into marriage my people......ooooooo its not what you think it is

That's because the 24 and 25 year Olds are busy smoking marijuana and drinking their liver to death instead of hustling and making themselves better. It's sad to note but we guys dey Bleep up, look around you man, see men making a nuisance out of themselves. Nothing replaces hardwork anyday, anytime.

bukatyne:
I don't know why we can't stick to one side...

On one end, the average Nairaland guy believes a woman's forte is caring for the home/family and foam in the mouth whenever someone suggests otherwise.

On another end, same guy believes a woman should contribute financially to the household and starts asking what a woman wants to contribute if she doesn't want to drop money at home.

Jokers...

@OP:

I 100% agree with him

The idea of waiting till eternity before marriage doesn't appeal to me. I rather we build together and look for ways to develop ourselves and family.

You're wise. Better husband dey wait you...

Alondra:
No one is saying you have to own the money in the whole world before you marry. But improper preparations leads to improper failure. I for one ain't ready to marry without having a stable source of income. I hope I'm able to help you understand my earlier post better

That stable income...can you lose it tomorrow if you have it today? Is it possible?