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gbegemaster:
This is just theory

Ok.

nigeriancuban:
okay, maybe he is not an animal but only someone who is not in school(university or secondary) and don't have any youth service to worry about will have such thoughts going through his mind....


Is getting a kid he main priority? Ain't you gonna put the kids in school,ain't you gonna give hem the best education so they can be useful to themselves? Well Its obvious that the guys doesn't even have such thoughts in his mind, maybe the children go go learn work(him tol)

Give birth to the number of children you can adequately take care of. No need birthing babies like rabbits when you don't have the wherewithal to train them

nigeriancuban:
okay, maybe he is not an animal but only someone who is not in school(university or secondary) and don't have any youth service to worry about will have such thoughts going through his mind....


Is getting a kid he main priority? Ain't you gonna put the kids in school,ain't you gonna give hem the best education so they can be useful to themselves? Well Its obvious that the guys doesn't even have such thoughts in his mind, maybe the children go go learn work(him tol)

No its not my brother. I'm just saying let's not neglect the important things for the urgent ones. Raise a home. And I don't like all this comments about how you'll raise them. People have been doing that from time immemorial, and doing it well. What's the essence of working if you and your wife can't give them the life they deserve? Must we 'born' 7,8,9 kids before we stop? Make we use our tongue count teeth abeg.

Alondra:
No one is saying you have to own the money in the whole world before you marry. But improper preparations leads to improper failure. I for one ain't ready to marry without having a stable source of income. I hope I'm able to help you understand my earlier post better

And that stable source cannot become unstable and disappear due to 'circumstances' beyond your control? You have it today is no guarantee it will be there tomorrow. I'm not comfortable buliding homes and dreams around 'fleeting' commodities, money inclusive. Stability is a relative term subject to change. I perfectly understand your previous post honey. Very well.

nigeriancuban:
Is marriage the main priority in life I don't know why people see children as one of the bigeat achievement of their life, its the same attitude that has put Nigeria in the population mess we are in today.....


I don't agree with the animal ooo, gone ate the days when life was about kids, now make sure you have enough to give your kids the best or else your kid will end up being killed for stealing garry

You can raise your kid(s) without marrying, your choice. I don't think his statements warrant you calling him an animal. That's wrong.

GOFRONT:
Abeg....Later he wil start tellin us that family plannin is not good....That we should try and produce upto 21 kids.......Disffrent stroke for diffrent folks Mr Man!!!

BTW, since he has realize his mistake, I hope to start seeing his Pre Weddin pics soonest or What is he still Waitin for?

You don't mean thi do you? Making fun of people to prove a point? Cmon man. We should be homies

GOFRONT:
Abeg....Later he wil start tellin us that family plannin is not good....That we should try and produce upto 21 kids.......Disffrent stroke for diffrent folks Mr Man!!!

BTW, since he has realize his mistake, I hope to start seeing his Pre Weddin pics soonest or What is he still Waitin for?

You don't mean this do you? Making fun of people to prove a point? Cmon man. We should be homies

Berbierklaus:
We know a ban will end your life

Besides watch and see if I will be banned or not
hahahahaha,what a comedian

Both of you are responsible people. Cmon. I'm very sure you both didn't really mean to hurl insults @ each other. You guys are the best ok. Just overlook everything, we're here to have fun and learn.

Alondra:
The man reasoned relatively to his problems overlooking the consequences and effect of his advice.

Poverty to begin with is on increase, average Nigerian can not feed on $3 per day and here comes a man who encourages getting married, making a family with no financial sustainability.


Crime rates elevates daily, children bore in poverty tend to be involved in criminal activities. Everyone wants to live a better live, those won't cant afford it find alternatives ( crimes) tho not all but majority of them.

Moral standard is decreasing continually. While both parents struggle day and night to feed, who takes care of the children?. Will there be time to give the children moral training needed?

If I continue on and on I will take over the whole thread. I see no reason why you should have a family when you aren't certain on what to feed them with.

My sister you don't need the whole world...you're a lady with all due respect to the female folks here. How long will you work? How much will you make before you look around and breathe a sigh of relief? Do you know how incredibly tough it is as a guy to get someone who truly loves you for who you are and not what you own? Do you know how much tougher it seems when you have all the 'money' to go around? Well people marry for various reasons. With all due respect, the greatest injustice poverty has inflicted on us is the disease of the mind. Two heads are better than one. Combine your resources with him, pull your wits and face the world together. Poverty won't kill both of you. And there's no rule that says you can't advance financially once married...that's a lie from the pit of Hades.

Berbierklaus:
One thing I have come to realize in this life is that ONE rule does not work for ALL.

Anybody will agree with me that it is a hell of a task for a couple to be married and have kids coming in with little or no means of survival or even comfortability eg an apartment,steady allowance enough to cater for basic needs like feeding,schooling and health care.

I think this advice is flawed,because most young men at 24-26 are yet to find their feet,some are not even matured enough to cohabit with a woman,and all these factors could cause a strain in marriage which could lead to other things entirely.

The best thing to do when it comes to marriage as a man,is know what works for you and the woman you are planning to marry,because its not about getting married,its about sustaining the marriage.
I on my part will not settle down for manage manage,my kids must have what I couldn't have which is why I am hustling to compliment that lucky man that I end up with.

@ Dominique,if those potentials are not feasible most women won't go for it,I for example. A lot of people have potentials but I won't eat potentials,I will eat the result.

It's good to eat results my dear. Very good. But ask any man...ANY MAN who truly values himself and he'll tell you one thing: he'd rather settle for the journey woman than the result woman. The economy doesn't favour men, and that's why some of us still struggle @ 26. I'd rather struggle in my youth with the right woman beside me than struggle @ 40 with the same woman. Be a realist. No one has it all. In secondary school days we were taught that man is insatiable. He'll always want more...just work with him and enjoy the glory with him. If I make all the money in the world what sort of wife do you think I'll be interested in having. Intelligent? Hardworking? Hell no! Let's not lose the moon while chasing stars.

Mikylopez:
den what everyday you go about begging people for money to buy baby food to buy diapers hell no. although i agree with getting married early buy u cant do dat if u aren't financially buoyant to take car of your house expenses if any guy does dat he is indirectly inviting a third party to their marriage

You do not need buoyancy to settle. All you need is something doing, a job, a business venture, something that can bring income to the home. I understand him perfectly. Most dudes want to have the 'perfect' condition...even if you make it, a wrong move with a wrong lady will bring all your hardwork crashing down to the earth. The earlier you marry the better, take the initial pains and suffer so that you can enjoy your relationship with your spouse when you should instead of struggling to train them up. Pain before pleasure. Get her down, put a ring on her finger, work with her to build a home. It cannot be always rosy but with God, Hardwork and determination, a sound home can be built. That money you'll make, won't you pay tax? Won't you take care of your family? Won't you fulfil your civic responsibilities? Things will arise my brother, you can make it even within marriage. He who finds a wife finds a good thing, infact a helpmate suited solely for him. Take that plunge and have a life you've always envisioned. Money is crucial, yes, but it's not the sum total.

2dugged:
it's rice and chicken and if you want it,come and collect it

Chicken ke...isorryt. Where you dey?

free2ryhme:
Nobody begged dem to halt support for the mention OS 31st Dec 2016. Dem use their own hands extend am

Mstchew

Don't mind them. Yeye people

bennyrazz:
Jesus Christ of Nazareth

The king of the Jews.

2dugged:
hehehehe, happy new year

Same to you dearie. Hope my rice and goat meat is on the way...

Olumaeme:
Shut your dirty mouth there, when I say APC, I mean unrealistic lies, we r talking about why Nigerian ladies accept to follow men who lie too much, and I think APC lied to much to win election in 2015, carry your preaching go your father house, dump fool

Rotf

Silentscreamer:
True sha... Its not easy to tell if a guy is a player or not. Most ladies easily fall for the ''players''

Players see games when others see humans. Maybe ladies need to learn when it's just a game and when we play for keeps.

dollyjoy:
Ladies do not love bad guys, it happens to be that most seemingly 'great' guys on the outward are devil incarnate.


Besides, there is no way one will know a guy is not what he claimed to be from the on set.

No dude is a devil-incarnate. I beg to disagree

TrapQueen77:




Abeeeeg, where are these real boiz now OP?


Let them come here coz one of my new year resolutions is to be officially someone's gf sha

Bwawawawawa. Nice!

Lihyunpark:
We live in a world that is doing everything it can to
deny the gifts that God has given to man. And I don’t
mean mankind, but male human beings. For several
decades it was politically incorrect even to discuss these differences between men and women. But we
do not need a scientific study to show what has
always been right before our very eyes. It is great though that with new MRI technology we
can now verify differences in how men’s brains work
from women’s. Not only can we see and observe the
differences from the outside, but now we can see
them on the inside as well in the most complex organ
of the human body, the brain. There are many non-Christian scientists and
psychologists today that can no longer follow the
politically correct agenda of feminists and
egalitarians. More and more scientists and studies are
verifying the vastly different physiological and
psychological differences between the sexes. Men are different from women. They are equal only in
their common membership in the same species,
humankind. To maintain that they are the same in
aptitude, skill or behavior is to build a society based
on a biological and scientific lie. As Christians we applaud and agree with the finding
of these differences. Our only disagreements come
when we talk about the source of these differences,
evolution versus the intelligent design of our God and
creator. Superior, inferior or just different? Before I go further into this I want to say a few more
things about what has become a controversial topic –
mainly the FACT that men have some superior
abilities to women in many areas. If you give this post a fair reading, you will see I do
not hate women. I do hate, and I believe God also
hates, the 'IDEOLOGY' of feminism. It seems today like
every time some study comes out that women are
better at this or that than men – everybody is
applauding it from the rooftops. But in our society we are not allowed to say men are
better than women at anything and anytime it is
brought up excuses are made and it is simply a
“cultural” thing, otherwise women will always be
equal to or excel past men – or so we are told.
There is a difference in saying “men are awesome,
and women stink” and saying “men are superior to
women in certain ways”. The fact is, in many ways
women are inferior to men, but so too men are also inferior to women in some ways. To say so is not
rude, or mean, it is simply a Biblical fact that is backed
up by science. I don’t think we are being fully truthful when we
say that a man having 50% more strength than a
woman is just a “difference”. No way! It’s a superior
capability. When I talk about how woman is superior
to man I will gladly acknowledge that women have
superior hearing and color-perception to men; again, it is not a difference, it is a superiority! Let me begin how God made man superior to woman
with this verse: 14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully
made; your works are wonderful, I know that full
well. – Psalm 139:14 (NIV) Men are superior to women in strength, endurance
and athletics God made man taller and stronger than woman. In
the United States men are typically 6 inches taller than
women. Men on average have 40% more upper body
strength and 33% more lower body strength than
women. Men are much leaner than women with
typically 50% less body fat than the average woman carries in her body. Of course there are exceptions
where a man may have very little muscle mass and a
woman has more muscle mass, but these are just that
– exceptions. Both science and general observation
show that men are typically larger and more muscular
than women without working out or doing anything artificially to change their bodies. There is a popular misconception that women have a
higher tolerance to pain than men because of the
horrendous pain they endure before, during and
sometimes even after childbirth. But that is actually a
myth. “This study has serious implications about how we
treat women after surgery as well as women who
experience chronic pain…. Because women have more
nerve receptors, they may experience pain more
powerfully than men, requiring different surgical
techniques, treatments or medicine dosages to help manage their pain and make them feel comfortable.” Men also have
stronger bones, tendons and ligaments. Men are more aggressive and competitive than
women A male’s major sex hormone, testosterone, impacts
his behavior…testosterone is the hormone most
associated with male aggressiveness,
competitiveness, and assertiveness…. Furthermore
competitiont raises testosterone levels and rivalry
fuels aggression. For example, the testosterone levels among athletes are actually highest at the end of a
competition rather than at the beginning… Testosterone also helps a man focus on a project,
competition, mission or venture….When we take into account that men have superior
strength, stamina and sensory motor skills along with
a built-in desire to compete and be aggressive, it is no
surprise that the vast majority of the best athletes in
the world are men. The likes of Usain Bolt, Tyson Gay, Yohan Blake, Asafa Powell. Just to mention a few Professional sports is an area in which we want to
see nothing but the best. Again, this is the primary reason why
even today, generations after the rise of feminism,
men still heavily dominate the entrepreneurial and management aspects of the business world. The state of our military today is a sad story. We have
allowed the politicians to force the military
commanders to allow women in combat. A man’s body is vastly
superior when it comes to combat. You put that woman on the front lines in battle and you are going
to get a lot of men killed when they go out of their
way to protect her, or she is just going to get killed.
This is yet another common sense thing, which any
person, educated or otherwise can see with their own
eyes. It would be funny if it were not so sad and pathetic. In summing up, we can see the fact that
God has designed man larger, stronger and tougher
than woman to naturally equip him for the protection
and provision roles he has assigned to man. If only
our world would regain some of the common sense it
used to have and acknowledge what is right in front of their very eyes. There are more highly intelligent men than highly
intelligent women While men and women have about the same average
IQ (according to intelligence testing), men vary much
more than women do. What that means is there are
more men at each spectrum of intelligence than
women (below average and above average).
However, after crossing the average intelligence threshold the amount of men who have above
average IQs begins to dominate the women, bringing
us to the point where there are eight genius-level IQ
men to every one woman genius. When we accept the strengths that God has given
man in his brain, then we are not shocked to discover
that there are eight male geniuses to every one
female genius. I don’t say “the survey must be
wrong”, or “it’s just a cultural thing” – We accept
it is how God made man. The first question a man usually asks another man
when they meet for the first time is, “What do you
do?” …most men identify themselves by their work.
God created men to “do” something in the field.
Watch young boys as they pick up sticks and turn
them into imaginary guns or tools. Recently a mother told us she had prevented her son from having any
toy guns or using sticks as pretend rifles, but when he
made his cheese sandwich into the form of a pistol
and was shooting a friend, she cried out in
exasperation, “I give up!” this is simply
part of a boy’s nature. He is called to be a hunter, a
worker, a doer. He wants to make his conquest in the
field of life. The academic term for this is the
“instrumentality of the male.” From childhood there is
something in a male that makes him like adventure and conquest. He wants to go into the field to hunt or
to work some way. Men are built to conquer the world around them. They
are built to lead. I believe it is Biblical that a woman’s place is in the
home: not saying she can never go out, but that
caring for the needs of her husband, her children and
her home should be the focus of her life. However, it would be Biblically, and even biologically
correct to say that a man is the polar opposite in this
area. A man’s place is outside the home – hunting,
working, achieving, exploring, building and yes, even
fighting. Some men are built to be warriors, whether
on the athletic field or on the battlefield. Mothers need to respect and help channel their boys’
God-given need for conquest and not try to make
their sons more like their daughters! Wives need to
respect their husbands’ need for achievement, to
work, and to make his mark on the world. Men have a deep need for respect A man’s need for conquest, to work and to achieve is
also directly related to his need for respect. I really
appreciated when Dr. Emerson Eggerichs came out
with his book “Love and Respect”. He may not have
been the first author in recent decades to talk about a
man’s need for respect, but the fact that he focused basically half a book to it was great. Men and women both need love and respect, but God
has wired man so that respect is his first need and the
emotional side of love is secondary to that. If a man
feels disrespected by his colleagues or especially his
wife and children, this will cause him a great deal of
pain and he will most likely react in very negative ways towards disrespect. When a woman accepts and appreciates her
husband’s need for respect, she will most likely see a
transformation in her marriage. Women who take the
attitude that “I wILL RESPECT HIM WHEN I THINK HE HA EARNED IT” will never experience the full happiness in
marriage that is possible if they would just show him the respect that he needs. Men are wired to be the primary provider for the
home God has made man with a built-in desire to be the
primary provider for his family. If his wife has a more
successful career than him, in many marriages it
eventually destroys the marriage. His self-respect, as
well as his wife’s self-respect is tied to his ability to
be the primary provider (the one who makes the most money). It is not uncommon for men who become
disabled (and their wives are forced to support the
family) to become very depressed; it violates the
man’s nature down to his very core. This is not some simple pride thing as some feminists
have tried to say, but a built-in desire given by God in
men. Well into feminism’s second generation, there are
finally a significant number of women reaching parity
with the men in their fields–not to mention
surpassing them–and winning the salary, bonuses,
and perks that signify their arrival… Yet this proud
professional achievement often seems to have unhappy consequences at home. … Neither the newly liberated alpha women nor their
shell-shocked beta spouses seem comfortable with
the role reversal. … According to psychologists (and divorce lawyers) who
see couples struggling with such changes, many
relationships follow the same patter. First, the wife
starts to lose respect for her husband, then he begins
to feel emasculated, and then sex dwindles to a full
stop. Suppose that both men and women are happier – all
else being equal – the more money their spouse
makes. In such a world, couples wouldn’t care
whether the man or woman earns more, so the
population of couples would have what we call a
“normal distribution,” and would be captured in a bell-shaped curve. But that’s not what we see in the
real-world data. Instead, there is a sharp drop in the number of male-
female couples at exactly the point where the woman
starts to earn more than half of household income. This finding supports earlier research from speed-
dating sessions, which found that while women prefer men to be intelligent and ambitious, men have these preferences for women only to the point where women threaten to earn more than they do. Aversion to wives earning more than husbands could
be leading to fewer weddings and more divorces,
according to a National Bureau of Economic Research
working paper Marianne
Bertrand and Emir Kamenica, University of Chicago
. Compiling results from surveys taken by the U.S.
Census Bureau and by the Labor Department, the
reserachers came to several conclusions. One was that
marriage rates decline as the probability that a
woman earns more than a man increases. Even people that are in favor of feminist changes in
our society see the problems. We just disagree about
the causes and the solution. Both sides agree that
men are generally not attracted to women who are
smarter or make more money than them, and when
they do get with a woman who becomes more successful it usually takes a terrible toll on the
marriage. Feminist advocates just argue it’s caused by a culture
that says men need to be the primary breadwinner. In
their view it is just about changing hearts and minds
and then men and women will all live together in a
wonderful utopia. Those of us who oppose these
feminist changes will maintain that it is something that is wired biologically into men, and if it is
biological, no amount of social brain-washing of men
will change this. Marriage rates are declining, while divorce rates stay
close to 50 percent. Divorce rates have slightly
declined from their high in the 1980s. But what is not
mentioned is that one of the contributing factors to
the divorce-rate decline is that people are just not
marrying as much as they used to. Couples are just cohabitng much more. I would argue that if we could
get good studies on the breakup rate of long-term
cohabiting couples and then combine that with
divorce rates, we would go well beyond the 50-
percent divorce rate we had in the 1980s. Either way you slice it, most relationships between
men and women do not work well when the wife is
more intelligent and makes more money than the
husband. In the rare instances where it does work, I
guarantee you will find a feminine man who is low on
testosterone, or a man who had a domineering and aggressive mother who beat his father down. Even in
relationships where a man is forced to stay home
because he is disabled, if he is honest he will tell you
it drives him nuts that his wife has to support the
family. It does not just go against our cultural values,
but it goes against male biology itself. Men are built to compartmentalize None of us will ever agree with everything in a
marriage book. But the book “Men Are Like Waffles –
Women Are Like Spaghetti” is still a great book and I
highly recommend it. The very title of the book, as
well as their other descriptions in the book, gives a
great picture of the different ways a man’s brain works from a woman’s brain. If you look down at a waffle, you see a collection of
boxes separated by walls. The boxes are all separate
from each other and make convenient holding places.
That is typically how a man processes life. Our
thinking is divided up into boxes that have room for
one issue and one issue only…. The typical man lives in one box at a time and one box only. When a man is
at work, he is at work. When he is in the garage
tinkering around, he is in the garage tinkering. When
he is watching TV, he is simply watching TV. That is
why he looks as though he is in a trance and can
ignore everything else going on around him. Social scientists call this “compartmentalizing”–that is,
putting life and responsibilities into different
compartments. As a result, men are problem solvers by nature. They
enter a box, size up the “problem,” and formulate a
solution…. In contrast to men’s waffle-like approach, women
process life more like a plate of pasta. If you look at a
plate of spaghetti, you notice that there are lots of
individual noodles that all touch one another. If you
attempted to follow one noodle around the plate, you
would intersect a lot of other noodles, and you might even switch to another noodle seamlessly. That is
how women face life. Every thought and issue is
connected to every other thought and issue in some
way. Life is much more of a process for women than
it is for men. This is why women are typically better at
multitasking than men. She can talk on the phone,
prepare a meal, make a shopping list, work on the
agenda for tomorrow’s business meeting, give
instructions to her children as they are going out to
play, and close the door with her foot without skipping a beat. Because all her thoughts, emotions,
and convictions are connected, she is able to process
more information and keep track of more activites. But
the vast majority (I would safely say 90%) of men are
exactly as Bill and Pam describe. We will cover God’s design for women in a separate paper, but their
description of how women process the world is spot
on as well. Conclusion and Application Whether you are a Christian reading this, or a non-
Christian I invite you to examine the evidence both
from biology as well as your own general
observations of human behavior. Will there be
exceptions? Yes. There are some men who have
behaviors and abilities that more mimic the typical woman, and there are some women who have
behaviors and abilities that more mirror the typical
man. But these are rare. As believers we have a source of truth that not only
confirms the differences we see in biology and typical
gender behaviors, but it also gives a reason for the
differences. It gives us a purpose, if we will only
believe and accept it. To the men I say, will you accept how God has made
you? Will you accept the purpose for your differences
and use them in accordance with his plan? Will you
lead your families, protect your families and provide
for your families even if your abilities are not as
strong as other men in various areas? Will you pray to God to strengthen your weaknesses? To the women I say, will you accept how God has
made men? Moms – will you accept that it is ok that your boys are
more aggressive than your girls? Will you accept your
little boy’s need to compete, his need to conquer the
world around him? Will you resist the ungodly world’s
call to feminize him, to soften him or to emasculate
him? Wives – will you accept your husband’s God-given
need to lead you, protect you and provide for you?
Will you stop trying to compete with him, and just
complete him with the unique gifts God has given you
as a woman? We must all accept that God has built man to
systemize, to compartmentalize, to conquer and to
compete. Accept that a man needs to be respected,
even before his need for love. Accept the differences
God has made, and do not try to minimize them or
ignore them. Our world is doing that now, to our own destruction. Finally let me end this with Corinthians 11:8-9: For man did not come from woman, but woman from man; neither
was man created for woman, but woman for
man.

Baba no vex, Wetin you talk say waec give you again for english?

2dugged:
hehehehe isorite atleast we agree on something that the lady is high on harmatan dust

Bwawawawawa. You just killed the whole thing. Go and sidon joor. How will you say such a thing? Lwkmdfh

harykeh:
This is wickedness of the highest order from the govt to her people

My sister I've seen wickedness but this is a level above others. And to think that they've not been paid since July. What are their salaries used for? Blank cheques!!! We should all be prepared for 2017, only the fittest will survive till 2019 trust me.

dealslip:
I haven't said anything out of the ordinary.

If you say so...

2dugged:
haughty attitude? , can you please expantiate? Cos I don't get it

No you just go to one section of my entire comment and pick on it. I can't answer to that

Oliviaarims:
His case is different...

Doesn't look like it was. He held it for this long. I'm sure he thought the same way.

2dugged:
yea, i used that comparism cos even at that,they didn't have to start washing thier husband's hands, and the truth is they stayed back then because there was no way out, most of them were not truly happy in thier marriages, that's why they will always tell you "my daughter if you want your marriage to last, you will need patience, a lot of it"

No way out...I don't believe that. You cannot speak for everyone. Maybe you know a few disgruntled elements, but if that was the case they would revolted. Aba women's riot taught me that if pushed to the wall, they won't mind turning on their own. You cannot deduce their state of happiness when you didn't even exist as at the time they lived. I'm sure the twitter lady used a lot of rhetorics. She's just trying to emphasive the absence of a haughty attitude to make a friendship or relationship work...both on our part and yours. That's not so difficult is it?

Mynd44:
Please don't be annoyed. I am a guy and I can wash my GF's clothes

Ok. That's good to know

dealslip:
God bless you. If this is the meaning of marriage, then the men are technically imbeciles. You should have gotten a slave not a wife. That is why the world is like this. When men barely out of puberty marry and expect submission from matured and intelligent women.

Words have a way of haunting us. Speak wisely.

lovelygurl:
Greatest honour? This must be a joke! You mean greatest honour according to YOU. Am I you? Mr speak for yourself and let me be. I know what I want. You know what you want. Likes like us don't mix. We are too different, hope you find your submissive wife and I will find my man. Easy peasy stop trying to be cursing me here by saying 'being called mummy by my husband'mtcheeeeeew

And I know I am stubborn but do you know you are annoying. Always wanting everybody to be like you think they should be. Who the fvck are you

He's your friend.

Mynd44:
I like debates like this.

So a woman shoukd be proud of being a woman….of course yes

You wrore that "each is also specialized for different functions" who described this function? Was there some kind of global meeting of the council of human elders and they ascribed functions to men and women? Please I am confused

Have you heard of the word 'gender'?

fellis:
so women should bathe their husbands if not the men will cheat with another woman that can do the needful?

If the man is too dirty to bathe himself then make he dey go abeg. He should please carry his wahala to another women. Nobody wants a lazy pig that can't even bathe himself.

Hmm...the person who really hurt you no try @ all...that's why I insist people should treat others with respect. Pls don't be annoyed, it is well

2dugged:
Even our grandmothers that their marriages lasted didn't do all this crap, she sure likes being a lesser human being, I wish her the best, I don't even know why people equate Feminism with chores

Our grandmothers went on their knees serving food to their husbands, my dear they suffered. I'm not saying you should suffer oo. Let's not really talk about them.