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tintingz:
Like have said there are health complications for child bride, in the north many of child bride are suffering from VVF and many are abandoned not treated. This is one of the reason there are limited age for marriageable ages in law.

What does a 12 year old girl knows about things behind sex? She can be manipulate easily because at that age it is puberty stage, their sex drive in on, all this grown men trick this little kids into having sex with them, took advantage of them.

You dont even consider the father of the baby in the picture above might be "underage" 18

The way to control it is to educate kids about sex and the govt should be strict in law, the difference between U.S and northern Nigeria is, in U.S it is child molestation to have relationship with underage girls(Bill cosby, Akon, Michael Jackson were charged to court for this) but in the northern Nigeria they follow more of religious doctrines(sharia) than constitutional law, so they see nothing in it, I remember some years back when Senator Yerima wanted child marraige be legal in constitution, it was thrown to the bin.

..but it is really affecting them in the north, in Nigeria they have high rate of VVF.

Lol...they have bunch of "child education" till date and nothing changes. They actually encourage children even in high school to having sex. In New York for instance, the only thing they condemn is rape. They are not against "consent" from both party from having intercourse.. This is in secondary school in NY. So i wonder what 'education' they talking. They encourage students to carry condom. So again, i ask what's the difference btw them and northern nigeria

Rilwayne001:
Gadayuuuuuuuuummm!!

And she must have been very strong too.

she even look healthy.

tintingz:
U.S lagal marriageable age is 18, 12 is illegal and the man can be arrested for child molestation. A 12 years old kid is not mentality and physically ready for relationship and procreating, this can even lead to health complications.

It might be a norm worldwide but it is not accepted everywhere.

I really don't buy this whole idea of "marriageable age". These girls today grow up fast. Although their sense of maturity can be very low. It is a norm now but they have no way of preventing it other than so called marriageable limit set by the govt.

My question is what is solution to this bcus we are deceiving ourselves with this age limit thing. This also constitutes madness in community. There is no difference between this and that of northern Nigeria except that if it happens in wealthy society like the West, no one condemns it bcus govt steps in.

Nigerians are not alone

http://naijagists.com/photos-ugandan-woman-38-kids-one-father-age-37-says-shes-making-babies-stay-alive/

ikupakuti:
^^^

Sure! All the islamic sciences became bid‘a with the advent of wahabism.

Their argument is that “those who practice it claim the knowledge of gaib“.

If truely thats gaib, then dont they do pregnancy scanning with modern tech/sci ? Dont they do whether forecast ? Dont they do geo-scanning to find petroleum ?

These are part of what God claimed to be gaib Q31;34 Q6:59, that no one knows except him. So, if there interpretation of such vs/gaib is as they put it, then those who practise all of the above are @ par with God in regards to the knowledge of Gaib (may God be exempted from all comparisons)

The reason why olden days people use sand is because paper wasnt invented then, what they have is parchment from animal skin which is very scarce & expensive. If a document is not really important they dont write it down. So, sand is appropiate for writting & erasing @ the same time so they do their calculations on it. It is not as if the sand tells them something about the matter being investigated.

So before the advent of calculator/computers to analyze datas they use sand. The science they use has nothing to do with the sand.

Tell them brother tell them. perhaps albaqir would have a thing or two to say about this. He too believes it might be kufr but he is not sure.

@bold, they would tell you these are "worldly matters". I dont understand how they reason, especially rabiu and abdelkabi.r. I wont write his moniker properly to call his attention bcuz he warned me to get off his mention after trashing nonsense he was spewing around. Everything is bid'a in their dictionary. They are so funny. To them, talking to jinn is haram. But they can ask the Jinn questions and thats not haram

ikupakuti:
Really @empir.ee what do you think ?

I have heard so much differences on this. I believe it is personal thing. If you ask the like of sheik I posted about, he would tell you straight up it is shirk or bidah and Muslims should not pray behind you.

I don't know anything about iyepe or iyanrin tite. I believe it is some sort of scientific analysis. Some brothers likened it to ifa of babalawo and concluded that it is kufr. They consider it fortune telling and back it up with hadith.

Meanwhile most Alfas in nija do this yet they pray salat. Are they kufar because of this? .my answer is no. There might be abuses here and there but that's not the issue. I heard it was first practised in the time is nabi Nuh (as).

There are also Tira written by awon medieval alfas throughout ages where they used numbers to arrive at certain conclusions like taking a trip or want to know status of something. This one was never condemned. So in my view there is no difference unless there're is more to iyepe tite.

Sometimes I wonder how modern scholars think. If we can't chant Allah's Names and Attributes, I wonder what else or who else we should call upon.


That's one of the replies below to him

Really a controversial topic

tintingz:
Was the kid(mother) raped? How old is the father?

There are cases of childbirth by kids everywhere.

I doubt she was raped. This is quiet common in American and they call it "mistake". But it happens again, again and again till date.

As albaqir rightly raised, this is a norm now worldwide. My concern is what is the difference btw this and northern Nigeria? .

You know why there is not so much noise about this in America, it is bcus of their robust economy and also if it happens in wealthy community or famous people like celebrities, there is no noise about pollution. Why do they make noise if this happens in poor community?.

You see the man appears to have no problems with it

Following. ...

This is a friend of mine from City of Detroit Michigan USA.See what he wrote


Rilwayne001, tintingz, albaqir maclatunji yazach Sissie tola9ja

ikupakuti:
Their problem is ignorance. They use the Quran to preach but they cant use it to solve their problems.

As @Tlake mentioned Dangote...do you know what he does ?

If you go to Kano, Dangote has several bungalows in every nook of the city where his mum Mariya Sunusi used to organize mallams for Quran recitations on daily basis for his progress, cos the intricasies of acquiring wealth is nothing compared to what you‘ll do to retain it. There are no less than 100 people in each, they come & go, day & night they are always @ it. If you go to her house @ koki, lots of women, their job is cooking 24/7 to feed those people & also all the prisons around kano. I‘ve known her with this system for over a decade. Why wont he be the richest. I dont think they spend less than 2 million naira daily for workmanship & slaughter. One will see him in Lag & be wondering how manage he tops the chart & stayed for years. They understand the powers of prayers/Quran & they are exploiting it big time. That man will soon buy up Nigeria. Na Mariya.

ma sha Allah. Someone also sent me this last week about him. I guess this is isolated incident.

Aliko Dangote was born into a wealthy home in Kano. He got his first degree in Cairo, Egypt. He had always loved trading , and reports say he hawked sweets even as a primary school child , even though his family was wealthy. Dangote is really a very humble person even by the confessions of people who have interacted with him.

But Dangote is not the only hardworking Nigerian. He is not the only humble person around . He is probably not the most business savvy in Africa. But he is certainly the richest Blackman in the world . His companies employ over 11 , 000 people directly – not to mention , distributors, contractors and other vendors who depend on his businesses to thrive . Dangote is a blessing to humanity.

There is no family in Nigeria today that does not have a Dangote product in their home. If it is not sugar, then it is salt or the house you are living in was built with a Dangote Cement . Everyone has something to do with his business , so like Job he earns a little off everyone and that is the way to get wealthy.

Dangote is the 23 rd richest person in the world and is said to be the second most powerful African alive . The question is how did Dangote attain such a height ? Yes, you can’ t take away his hard work and business acumen, but that is only the starting point. The answer will not be found in the Forbes Magazine or on Wikipedia. The answer is in the verse of scripture quoted above : If you are willing and obedient you will eat the good of the land.

Sometime in the early 90 s Dangote had an encounter that set his foot on the path of destiny. Archbishop Benson Idahosa had some guests who needed to travel back urgently from Benin to Lagos to catch up their flight to the US . Unfortunately by the time the Archbishop took his guests to the airport they were told that the last flight for the day was overbooked and not a single seat was available. As a matter of fact , the passengers have boarded and were about to take off. Idahosa asked for the plane to be delayed a few minutes and walked to the tarmac where he was allowed to address the passengers. He pleaded with them about the desperate situation of his guests and asked that two persons should donate their seats for his guests to get to Lagos .


Everyone in that plane was a Christian . Not one of them batted an eyelid. Some pretended to be asleep, some pretended to be praying and the man of God stood waiting . From the back of the plane , a young man asked the person sitting next to him to get up and together they vacated their seat for the American visitors. Idahosa stopped him in the aisle of the plane and asked , “ Youngman , what is your name and what do you do ?” “ My name is Dangote , Aliko Dangote and this is my assistant .

I am a trader, a businessman .”It was there and then, that Papa Idahosa prophesied to him that “ the World will get up for you”. He prayed that God should take his business beyond Africa and bless him beyond measure . Today God has answered that prayer . God destined that blessing for someone seated in that plane that evening. But there was a condition attached to it – Isa 1 :19 If you will only let me help you, if you will only obey , then I will make you rich! Dangote ’ s wealth today was not meant for a Christian businessman who was too proud, too fixated in his mind to offer the “flamboyant man of God”, the “prosperity preacher” his seat .


My question is, if you were there on that plane , would you have taken the blessing? Enjoy your day. Nothing in life is worth fighting for. Your best clothes is someone's rag,your account balance is someone's donation at a function, your girl friend/boy friend or fiance/fiancee' is someone's Ex. Every single prostitute you see in a hotel or on the street at night was at some point in time a virgin. So what is the squabble all about? Life is too small to feel bigger or better than anybody. We're all naked to death says Steve Jobs. Nothing can save us from it. I pity those who Brag about wealth, beauty, intelligence, level of education, fame and material possessions. There's nothing you've achieved in life that no one else has never gotten. There's only one thing that is worth bragging which is "BELIEVE IN GOD ALMIGHTY". SO BE GOOD TO YOUR FELLOW MAN AND ALWAYS MAKE FRIENDS.

Always remember that the people you trampled upon on your way up a ladder will be the same set of people you're likely to pass on your way down, so cause no problem for others because if you do, they'll become your very problem one day. Finally, even banana stems will one day become dried leaves. Pls don't be selfish , pass on to friends as we're all in one way or the other guilty.


If one day you feel like crying, call me. I don't promise to make you laugh but I can cry with you.
If one day you want to run away don't be afraid to call me. I promise to be there running beside you. But if one day you call me and there's no answer, come to me, perhaps I need you. One day, one of us will not be here and then it'll be too late to say I care. Tears may flow, but I will be long gone. So, forward to everyone you care for- I just did!


Send to your best friends no matter how often you talk or how close you are. Let old friends know you haven't forgotten them & new friends know u never will. This is thought provoking. Enjoy your day and the rest of the week.

Dont know if this is allowed. But i think you should contact mod privately and or se.un for approval and procedure. Besides, you should leave ur banking details in case anonymous may drop cash in ur account without even saying a word to you. Feel me?

tintingz:
@Em.piree, Some forces are after me and they ban me.

Haters everywhere.

Auzubillah Minashaitan Nirajeem!

Lol

^^

Shaking my head. BACK DOOR

Even if "back door" is successful, isn't the same God behind it success?. Why not take"front door" and get barakat multiple fold. Types of "alfa" messing things up.

smh...u still on this?. I am not even thinking about this lately. Is there anything new in French report?. The last time you said you were wating for France report, i was simply shaking my head.


Here is France 2013 report blaming Assad for using chemical weapons.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2013/sep/02/syria-crisis-french-intelligence-assad


Syria blames France in 2016 for chemical attack
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/middle-east/syria-makes-absurd-claim-french-government-sarin-nerve-gas-ghouta-chemical-attack-2013-a7205701.html

France blames Assad for chemical attack
http://www.sbs.com.au/news/article/2013/09/03/french-intelligence-blames-assad-attack


Here rebels were blamed for 2013 chemical attack
http://shoebat.com/2013/08/27/evidence-syrian-rebels-used-chemical-weapons-not-assad/


So i wonder why you so much happy about French report. Is anything really new that we dont know?. smh

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4zlo9nc6agA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QO-kTe1qRGc

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6QYECE22-Ic

ikupakuti:
If God is addressed as such it means THE ETERNAL , THE PRE-EXISTENT etc, but if its just a qualification (adjective) it means ancient, premordial etc

just watched a lecture about it. Very interesting.

What's the meaning of يا قديم Ya Qadim ?

truthmans2012:
I'm not surprised. Muslims are carnal minded people. They do not and cannot understand the power and the ways of God, a Spirit. The secret of God is revealed to those who have His Spirit. It is impossible for a man in the flesh to understand God.

Same old lyrics

Wa alaikum salaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh


Do you know i remembered you all the times?. Most recent waz just yesterday walahi. You are welcome. So you can tell us whats your renewed view of polygamy is?

couple of threads have been opened on his subject by more than one person. I know albaqir have a topic on it. Search for it in his profile

Rilwayne001:
I thought Jesus is his own father as your fellow christian said here: https://www.nairaland.com/3761871/jesus-christ-nazareth-god-father ?

Are they different now?

you think he can answer that. Never. Here are dilemmas in Christianity



*AMAZING*

Q: Who is god?
Ans: Jesus

Q: Is Jesus the son of Mary.
A: Yes

Q: Who created Mary?
A: God.

Q: Who is God?
A: Jesus

Q: Jesus is the begotten son.
A: Yes

Q: Who is his father?
A: God.

Q: Who is God?
A: Jesus.

Q: Jesus is a servant of God.
A: Yes

Q: Jesus died on the cross?
A: Yes

Q: Who resurrected him?
A: God.

Q: Is Jesus a messenger.
A: Yes

Q: Who sent him?
A: God.

Q: Who is God?
A: Jesus.

Q: Did Jesus worship while on earth.
A: Yes

Q: Whom did he worship?
A: God.

Q: Who is God?
A: Jesus.

Q: Did God have a beginning?
A: No

Q: Then who was born on 25/DEC?
A: Jesus.

Q: Is Jesus God.
A: Yes

Q: Where's God?
A: In heaven.

Q: How many Gods are there in heaven?
A: Only one God.

Q: Where's Jesus?
A: He is seated on the right hand of his father.

Q: Then how many are
they in heaven?
A: Only one God.

Q: Then how many seats?
A: one

Q: where's Jesus?
A: Seated next to God.

Q: How are they seated on one chair?
A: Its only understood by those with the holy spirit.

Hahaha what a confusion, So beautiful to be a Muslim. May Allah have mercy on us all and grant us His straight path for us not to go astray 'Ameen.

truthmans2012:
The quran claims Jesus was a Muslim but the fact on ground is that Jesus never converted anybody to islam but Christianity. How true is the quran?

Actually he NEVER "cenverted" to islam but he (p) was born in it

tintingz:
What will the prayer point?

Oh Allah I'm about to chukuchuku my wife, bla bla bla.

This is ridiculous.

Bro, i think you missing the point. First all, it is not OBLIGATORY. It is recommended sunnah to ask Allah for good offspring from that moment. And it is not everything mentioned in his op you have to do. There are also short cuts. And even a simple "auzubillah mina shaytan rajim" is also dua before sexing your woman. Isn't this better than rough approach of "agbero" who beats the hell out of her and then starts having sex with her while at the same time cursing one another?.

So here is a hadith that gives you a simple one. ‘Bismillaah, jannibnaa al-shaytaan wa jannib al-Shaytaan ma razaqtana (In the name of Allaah. Keep the Shaytaan away from us and from what You bestow upon us).’

Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him): “When any one of you want to have intercourse with his wife, let him say, ‘Bismillaah, jannibnaa al-shaytaan wa jannib al-Shaytaan ma razaqtana (In the name of Allaah. Keep the Shaytaan away from us and from what You bestow upon us).’ Then if it is decreed that they should have a child, the Shaytaan will never be able to harm him.” Agreed upon.

It was narrated by the authors of al-Sunan and others. But if she says this du’aa’ too, there is nothing wrong with that, because the basic principle is that it is not just for the man. And Allaah is the Source of strength.

Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah (19/356).


Also, recitation of ayat kursiyu prior to swinging into action is great. It is all recommendations and wudhu is very important as well. This is better than cursing and shouting before, during and after action. So it all depends on your capacity rather than condemning it. It is up to you whichever you can afford to do even if it is just wudhu.

ikupakuti:
Have replied since that evening, re-check I just re-sent again. Thought you seen it.

Not at all. Just seeing your re-sent. Once again, JazakaAllah Khayran

ikupakuti:
Check your inbox, since yesterday, saw the one of this afternoon & replied. Check

me too actually for record Just want to get ur opinion on it

HorlarhMheporzy,

I think you should rather write in proper English. This is a Web. Not only Nigerians are here. To be honest with you I was having hard time reading your first posts.

Not that I'm saying you can't write properly. It is what you and many are used to. Kindly write properly next time . You may get more contributors if you write properly

^^^^

Be like say the man dey smoke igbo but i dont know type igbo he dey smoke. She needs to separate from him legally (not divorce) for a while. She needs to go to court regardless of type of marriage they have. Him go kill her eventually the way crap is going on.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0eL2GwaKuVw