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RomanceRe: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by empress4u: 9:19pm On Apr 09, 2015
RickRichards:
Some of them'd rather die than chyke a guy. Stupid pride. Smh
its not pride. sometimes, guys see it as an opportunity to take advantage of the ladies. the ladies love may not be reciprocated
CelebritiesRe: Fan Says Tonto Dikeh May Soon Start Sleeping With Her Dogs – See Her Response by empress4u: 9:09pm On Apr 08, 2015
domopps:
But does this really worth this nonsense freaking out? Even with incorrect English !


No wonder she's not doing well in Music! So her Eng is so bad!






Cheeers
pls let the girl be, jo. it's a minor mistake anyone could have made. even you
Christianity EtcRe: Youths Set Baptist Church Ablaze In Kano (photo) by empress4u: 9:02pm On Apr 08, 2015
Lordwize:
When will this stop? Oh God! fight for your children.
yes dear. we've had enough of this babylon
PoliticsRe: REVEALED: The Men and Woman Who Convinced Jonathan To Concede Defeat. by empress4u: 8:44pm On Apr 08, 2015
hijacke:
"Heroes are born not made",
How can i call him a hero wen he was pressurised to make the call, so GEJ remained clueless till d end
hijacke, what makes him a hero is his ability to heed to good advice and make the right choice. he could have rejected it if he wants
RomanceRe: Shameful Habits Ladies Possess That Will Make Their Boyfriend Dump Them by empress4u: 8:04pm On Apr 05, 2015
seriously, i was guilty of only no. 3 but after i lost the guy i loved, i never tried it again. not for any reason. in the first place it was not my style. i was just being a copy-cat of friends.
EducationRe: Are Science Students Really More Intelligent Than Art Students? by empress4u: 9:30pm On Mar 19, 2015
i dnt believe science students are more intelligent than art student. science students are made to mrmorise and work on formulas that have been existing even before they were born. but art student are made to critically think and solve the day's problem.
i cant just explain why science students with all their 'intelligence' find it difficult to read and simply summerise a short novel.
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Rocks Fulani Attire As Fulani Farmers Make Him Their Patron (photos) by empress4u: 10:32am On Mar 19, 2015
PoliticsRe: Patience Jonathan’s Rally In Kaduna: 800 Policemen, Others Guard Deployed by empress4u: 8:07pm On Mar 18, 2015
LewisO:
[color=#000033] Power must "Change" hand soonest! [/color]
i prefer the word 'transformation' than 'change'. change could be for good or bad. but transformation comes with a positive impart.
EventsRe: (PIC) - Is This The New Trend On Wedding Day? by empress4u: 5:40pm On Mar 18, 2015
this is not romantic at all
PoliticsRe: Igbo APC Lagos Rally. PICTURES... by empress4u: 11:05am On Mar 15, 2015
waste of limited time
FamilyRe: What If You Caught Your Husband Doing This (picture) by empress4u: 3:50pm On Jan 09, 2015
simple. he has to start doing the cooking
FashionRe: Photos: Would You Rock Actress Dayo Amusa's Simbi Hairstyle? by empress4u: 5:31pm On Jan 04, 2015
Michaelpark:
It seems you're not all serious on this nairaland a Whole General is looking for his Certificate and
you are all here talking about Dayo Amusa's Hairstyle. You
better Join the search before u see the wrath of
General.

#OperationFindGeneralBuhariCertificate
how is that our business? he should go and ask his chancellor/rector/provost or whoever.
RomanceRe: Am I Unknowingly Dating A Prostitute ? by empress4u: 5:19pm On Jan 04, 2015
wisdom, i dnt knw what opnion others have to share with you but i have this to say:
it could be that she said it as a result of what she hears from her friends who maybe 'runs' girls. however, watch her attitude closely so that you dnt marry a woman who would always create a scene in your house.
to your girl i have this to say; its better a man sleeps with you for free than pay you after sex. its an insult to your personality. it can be free but its not cheap.
Forum GamesRe: Eye Test: What Number Do You See? by empress4u: 10:21pm On Dec 18, 2014
571
PoliticsRe: General Buhari Shares A First Shot With Prof.osinbajo His Running Mate. by empress4u: 10:04pm On Dec 17, 2014
buhari is already 72 and i believe this his running mate by looks is 82. from what science taught us, buhari is already thinking like a baby. why not get a younger vice president with sharp brain. this man will only be a puppet in the hands of buhari.
CelebritiesRe: Are These The Top Nollywood Bleachers/Toners? ( Photos ) by empress4u: 6:34pm On Dec 11, 2014
lalasticlala:
saheed balogun

jide kosoko

denrele
denrele when is madness was part-time. its now full time
PoliticsRe: Senator Gemade Wins APC Senatorial Primary Few Hours After Decamping From PDP by empress4u: 9:28pm On Dec 09, 2014
torkaka:
. . . . . . . . . .Engr. Gemade is 66yrs sir . . . . . . .thank you
66 or 85, he is old enough to be a grandpa
CelebritiesRe: Romantic Photos: Taiye Taiwo And Wife Loving Up. by empress4u: 9:15pm On Dec 09, 2014
kunlesehan:
Beauty and the Beast
lol
may God forgive you
Nairaland GeneralRe: Don't Lie, Choose Your Position by empress4u: 10:25pm On Dec 05, 2014
no. 3
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh Gushes About Her New Found Love And Fat Bank Account by empress4u: 10:20pm On Dec 05, 2014
FrancisTony:
This Toto decay nur dey rest?.

By the way, she love taking a photo in creepy ways.

See as she be like 'megamind' cartoon character.undecided
pls ler the poor girl be jare. some of you are worse than her.
EventsRe: Independence Day: What Would You Change If You Had The Power? by empress4u: 6:07pm On Oct 01, 2014
i wuld make sure agriculture becomes d major source of revenue nt oil. n wil ensure adequate power supply
PoliticsRe: Group Issues 7-day Ultimatum To Governor Fashola To Arrest, Prosecute T.B Joshua by empress4u: 4:42pm On Sep 26, 2014
BE CAREFUL! dnt let God prove himself as d comsuming fire. ask Miriam abt her experience
FamilyRe: 6 Arguments All Married Couples Have by empress4u: 8:21pm On Sep 18, 2014
adonbilivit: 1. work stress

The Task: Make your marriage a place of
peace.

The Solution: Acknowledge that at the end
of a long, stressful day you may need
time to yourselves to decompress before
interacting with each other. If you bring
your work stress home, it will sabotage
your marriage. Build time to unwind into
your daily schedule. Once you’re both
feeling relatively composed, it’s time to
come together and talk about each other's day. Have a stress-reducing conversation.

2. In-Laws

The Task: Establish a sense of “we-ness,”
or solidarity, between partners.

The Solution: Side with your spouse.
Establish your own family rituals, values,
and lifestyle and insist that in-laws
respect them. An important part of
putting your spouse first and building
this sense of solidarity is not to tolerate
any contempt toward your spouse from
your parents.

3. Money

The Task: Balance the freedom and
empowerment money represents with
the security and trust it also symbolizes.

The Solution: What’s most important in
terms of your marriage is that you work
as a team on financial issues and that you
express your concerns, needs, and
dreams to each other before coming up
with a plan. You’ll each need to be firm
about items that you consider
nonnegotiable. Itemize your current
expenditures, manage your everyday
finances, and plan your financial future.
If you’re having trouble, see a financial
planner.

4. Sex

The Task: Fundamental appreciation and
acceptance of each other.

The Solution: Learn to talk to each other
about sex in a way that lets you both feel
safe. The goal of sex is to be closer, to
have more fun, to feel satisfied, and to
feel valued and accepted in this very
tender area of your marriage. A major
characteristic of couples who have a
happy sex life is that they see
lovemaking as an expression of intimacy
but they don’t take any differences in
their needs or desires personally

5. Housework

The Task: Create a sense of fairness and
teamwork.

The Solution: The simple truth is that men
have to do more housework. Maybe this
fact will spark a husband's enthusiasm
for domestic chores: Women find a man's
willingness to do housework extremely
erotic. When the husband does his share
to maintain the home, both he and his
wife report a more satisfying sex life than
in marriages where the wife believes her
husband is not doing his share. However,
the quantity of housework is not
necessarily a determining factor in the
housework = sex equation. Two other
variables: whether the husband does his
chores without being asked, and whether
he is flexible in his duties in response to
her needs.

6. A New Baby

The Task: Expand your sense of "we-ness"
to include your children.

The Solution: In the first year after baby
arrives, 67% of wives experience a
precipitous plummet in their marital
satisfaction. Lack of sleep, feeling
overwhelmed and under appreciated,
juggling mothering with a job, economic
stress, and lack of time to oneself, among
other things. Why do the other 33% sail
through the transition unscathed? What
separates these blissful mothers from the
rest has everything to do with whether
the husband experiences the
transformation to parenthood along with
his wife or gets left behind.

http://www.gottmanblog.com/2014/08/6-arguments-all-married-couples-have.html?m=1
it is very romantic wen a man helps his wife with domestic chores once in a while
Jokes EtcRe: Which Of These Books Would You Buy First by empress4u: 11:56am On Sep 18, 2014
Finepaparazy: WHICH OF THESE BEST SELLERS BOOKS...
WOULD YOU BUY

1. How to Look handsome by
Obasanjo

2. Secret of Successful Marriage
by Pastor Chris O

3. Foods that wil make you
Grow Tall by Osita Iheme

4. MyLove for Nigeria by
Abubakar Sheakeau

5. Tips to get Married by
Genevieve Nnaji

6.The Joy of Poverty by Aliko
Dangote

7.Tips for Passing ur English
Language by Patience Jonathan.

8. Good Governance by Gov T A Orji.

9. The Poeple are my Friends
by Ebola

Drop your favourite book..
none of the above

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