Romance › Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by empress4u: 9:19pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
RickRichards: Some of them'd rather die than chyke a guy. Stupid pride. Smh its not pride. sometimes, guys see it as an opportunity to take advantage of the ladies. the ladies love may not be reciprocated |
Celebrities › Re: Fan Says Tonto Dikeh May Soon Start Sleeping With Her Dogs – See Her Response by empress4u: 9:09pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
domopps: But does this really worth this nonsense freaking out? Even with incorrect English !
No wonder she's not doing well in Music! So her Eng is so bad!
Cheeers pls let the girl be, jo. it's a minor mistake anyone could have made. even you |
Christianity Etc › Re: Youths Set Baptist Church Ablaze In Kano (photo) by empress4u: 9:02pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Lordwize: When will this stop? Oh God! fight for your children. yes dear. we've had enough of this babylon |
Politics › Re: REVEALED: The Men and Woman Who Convinced Jonathan To Concede Defeat. by empress4u: 8:44pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
hijacke: "Heroes are born not made", How can i call him a hero wen he was pressurised to make the call, so GEJ remained clueless till d end hijacke, what makes him a hero is his ability to heed to good advice and make the right choice. he could have rejected it if he wants |
Romance › Re: Shameful Habits Ladies Possess That Will Make Their Boyfriend Dump Them by empress4u: 8:04pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
seriously, i was guilty of only no. 3 but after i lost the guy i loved, i never tried it again. not for any reason. in the first place it was not my style. i was just being a copy-cat of friends. |
Education › Re: Are Science Students Really More Intelligent Than Art Students? by empress4u: 9:30pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
i dnt believe science students are more intelligent than art student. science students are made to mrmorise and work on formulas that have been existing even before they were born. but art student are made to critically think and solve the day's problem. i cant just explain why science students with all their 'intelligence' find it difficult to read and simply summerise a short novel. |
Politics › Re: Jonathan Rocks Fulani Attire As Fulani Farmers Make Him Their Patron (photos) by empress4u: 10:32am On Mar 19, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Patience Jonathan’s Rally In Kaduna: 800 Policemen, Others Guard Deployed by empress4u: 8:07pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
LewisO: [color=#000033] Power must "Change" hand soonest! [/color] i prefer the word 'transformation' than 'change'. change could be for good or bad. but transformation comes with a positive impart. |
Events › Re: (PIC) - Is This The New Trend On Wedding Day? by empress4u: 5:40pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
this is not romantic at all |
Politics › Re: Igbo APC Lagos Rally. PICTURES... by empress4u: 11:05am On Mar 15, 2015 |
waste of limited time |
Family › Re: What If You Caught Your Husband Doing This (picture) by empress4u: 3:50pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
simple. he has to start doing the cooking |
Fashion › Re: Photos: Would You Rock Actress Dayo Amusa's Simbi Hairstyle? by empress4u: 5:31pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Michaelpark: It seems you're not all serious on this nairaland a Whole General is looking for his Certificate and you are all here talking about Dayo Amusa's Hairstyle. You better Join the search before u see the wrath of General.
#OperationFindGeneralBuhariCertificate how is that our business? he should go and ask his chancellor/rector/provost or whoever. |
Romance › Re: Am I Unknowingly Dating A Prostitute ? by empress4u: 5:19pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
wisdom, i dnt knw what opnion others have to share with you but i have this to say: it could be that she said it as a result of what she hears from her friends who maybe 'runs' girls. however, watch her attitude closely so that you dnt marry a woman who would always create a scene in your house. to your girl i have this to say; its better a man sleeps with you for free than pay you after sex. its an insult to your personality. it can be free but its not cheap. |
Forum Games › Re: Eye Test: What Number Do You See? by empress4u: 10:21pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
571 |
Politics › Re: General Buhari Shares A First Shot With Prof.osinbajo His Running Mate. by empress4u: 10:04pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
buhari is already 72 and i believe this his running mate by looks is 82. from what science taught us, buhari is already thinking like a baby. why not get a younger vice president with sharp brain. this man will only be a puppet in the hands of buhari. |
Celebrities › Re: Are These The Top Nollywood Bleachers/Toners? ( Photos ) by empress4u: 6:34pm On Dec 11, 2014 |
lalasticlala: saheed balogun
jide kosoko
denrele denrele when is madness was part-time. its now full time |
Politics › Re: Senator Gemade Wins APC Senatorial Primary Few Hours After Decamping From PDP by empress4u: 9:28pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
torkaka: . . . . . . . . . .Engr. Gemade is 66yrs sir . . . . . . .thank you 66 or 85, he is old enough to be a grandpa |
Celebrities › Re: Romantic Photos: Taiye Taiwo And Wife Loving Up. by empress4u: 9:15pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
kunlesehan: Beauty and the Beast lol may God forgive you |
Nairaland General › Re: Don't Lie, Choose Your Position by empress4u: 10:25pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
no. 3 |
Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Gushes About Her New Found Love And Fat Bank Account by empress4u: 10:20pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
FrancisTony: This Toto decay nur dey rest?.
By the way, she love taking a photo in creepy ways.
See as she be like 'megamind' cartoon character. pls ler the poor girl be jare. some of you are worse than her. |
Events › Re: Independence Day: What Would You Change If You Had The Power? by empress4u: 6:07pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
i wuld make sure agriculture becomes d major source of revenue nt oil. n wil ensure adequate power supply |
Politics › Re: Group Issues 7-day Ultimatum To Governor Fashola To Arrest, Prosecute T.B Joshua by empress4u: 4:42pm On Sep 26, 2014 |
BE CAREFUL! dnt let God prove himself as d comsuming fire. ask Miriam abt her experience |
Family › Re: 6 Arguments All Married Couples Have by empress4u: 8:21pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
adonbilivit: 1. work stress
The Task: Make your marriage a place of peace.
The Solution: Acknowledge that at the end of a long, stressful day you may need time to yourselves to decompress before interacting with each other. If you bring your work stress home, it will sabotage your marriage. Build time to unwind into your daily schedule. Once you’re both feeling relatively composed, it’s time to come together and talk about each other's day. Have a stress-reducing conversation.
2. In-Laws
The Task: Establish a sense of “we-ness,” or solidarity, between partners.
The Solution: Side with your spouse. Establish your own family rituals, values, and lifestyle and insist that in-laws respect them. An important part of putting your spouse first and building this sense of solidarity is not to tolerate any contempt toward your spouse from your parents.
3. Money
The Task: Balance the freedom and empowerment money represents with the security and trust it also symbolizes.
The Solution: What’s most important in terms of your marriage is that you work as a team on financial issues and that you express your concerns, needs, and dreams to each other before coming up with a plan. You’ll each need to be firm about items that you consider nonnegotiable. Itemize your current expenditures, manage your everyday finances, and plan your financial future. If you’re having trouble, see a financial planner.
4. Sex
The Task: Fundamental appreciation and acceptance of each other.
The Solution: Learn to talk to each other about sex in a way that lets you both feel safe. The goal of sex is to be closer, to have more fun, to feel satisfied, and to feel valued and accepted in this very tender area of your marriage. A major characteristic of couples who have a happy sex life is that they see lovemaking as an expression of intimacy but they don’t take any differences in their needs or desires personally
5. Housework
The Task: Create a sense of fairness and teamwork.
The Solution: The simple truth is that men have to do more housework. Maybe this fact will spark a husband's enthusiasm for domestic chores: Women find a man's willingness to do housework extremely erotic. When the husband does his share to maintain the home, both he and his wife report a more satisfying sex life than in marriages where the wife believes her husband is not doing his share. However, the quantity of housework is not necessarily a determining factor in the housework = sex equation. Two other variables: whether the husband does his chores without being asked, and whether he is flexible in his duties in response to her needs.
6. A New Baby
The Task: Expand your sense of "we-ness" to include your children.
The Solution: In the first year after baby arrives, 67% of wives experience a precipitous plummet in their marital satisfaction. Lack of sleep, feeling overwhelmed and under appreciated, juggling mothering with a job, economic stress, and lack of time to oneself, among other things. Why do the other 33% sail through the transition unscathed? What separates these blissful mothers from the rest has everything to do with whether the husband experiences the transformation to parenthood along with his wife or gets left behind.
http://www.gottmanblog.com/2014/08/6-arguments-all-married-couples-have.html?m=1 it is very romantic wen a man helps his wife with domestic chores once in a while |
Jokes Etc › Re: Which Of These Books Would You Buy First by empress4u: 11:56am On Sep 18, 2014 |
Finepaparazy: WHICH OF THESE BEST SELLERS BOOKS... WOULD YOU BUY
1. How to Look handsome by Obasanjo
2. Secret of Successful Marriage by Pastor Chris O
3. Foods that wil make you Grow Tall by Osita Iheme
4. MyLove for Nigeria by Abubakar Sheakeau
5. Tips to get Married by Genevieve Nnaji
6.The Joy of Poverty by Aliko Dangote
7.Tips for Passing ur English Language by Patience Jonathan.
8. Good Governance by Gov T A Orji.
9. The Poeple are my Friends by Ebola
Drop your favourite book.. none of the above |