Politics / Re: You Were In Power For 16 Years But Failed To Restructure Nigeria – APC Fires PDP by empress4u: 8:47pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
So this shameless APC still have the nerve to talk abi? |
Religion / Re: Types Of People Who Wouldn't Like Adeboye's Words Recently by empress4u: 8:55am On Aug 04, 2016 |
It's advisable to marry a man that has something doing no matter how small it is. If you go on to marry a man that does nothing in the name of, "he will later find a job", you maybe marrying a potential lazy man. That's what papa meant. When my husband proposed to me, he was working but not being paid. |
Religion / Re: My Parents Are Treating Me Bad Because I'm An Atheist- Anonym0us by empress4u: 4:34pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
You need to read the post "32 reasons why I will continue to believe in God". You guys can't even make a fly but you open your mouth to say God doesn't exist. The Bible says "only a fool says there is no God". |
Religion / Re: My Parents Are Treating Me Bad Because I'm An Atheist- Anonym0us by empress4u: 4:19pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Did you actually read this trash before sending it? You can be rude and disobedient to your parents but please don't advise someone else to do. Maybe you sent your sense on an errand before reading this post. Mtcheeew |
Religion / Re: Adeboye Visits The Family Eunice Olawale Who Was Murdered While Preaching by empress4u: 4:48pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
Learn to stay mute if you don't have anything sensible to say. |
Romance / Re: See The Reasons She Won't Date Me (screenshots Attached) by empress4u: 3:00pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
She may have this fear that you will not respect her because of the terrible things she has done and you will keep reminding her of how bad she was. What you need to do is, show her love and never talk about any of her ex or the nasty things she did and never allow her to discuss that with you. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Is Wrong According To Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act by empress4u: 9:41pm On Apr 30, 2016 |
When did these two get married that they are estranging themselves. the way that lady goes half nude sometimes makes me think if she has respect for her husband. What is this about this fame that women cannot summit themselves and be patient in their marriages. Enjoy the fame and at old age we will see if the fame will take care of u. |
Celebrities / Re: Davido Sips Some Tea Before Leaving For His Endorsement Meetings (Photo) by empress4u: 5:48pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
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Celebrities / Re: Davido Sips Some Tea Before Leaving For His Endorsement Meetings (Photo) by empress4u: 5:47pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
Na wa o! wetin be news here?
"Davido sips tea."
metcheeeeew |
Family / Re: Photo Of A Proud Dad Bathing His New Born Baby Goes Viral On FB by empress4u: 12:51pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
You can't appreciate what you don't understand. Get your own baby first before you share your opinion on such topic |
Foreign Affairs / Re: SCREENSHOT. Rev Reinhard Bonnkie Speaks On Homosexuality. by empress4u: 6:58pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
this is wisdom |
Family / Re: Help!!! Someone Is Molesting This Girl. by empress4u: 5:31pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
it could be that the parents do it in her presence. i think you should inform both parents. |
Gaming / Re: Do You Remember This One by empress4u: 7:23pm On May 23, 2015 |
crixlight2: Where are the village boy like me... gone are the days
Once be a champion in our street Like if you play this very well i used to envy the boys in my neighbourhood when i see them play this because i didn't know how to play it. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Photos Of The Day by empress4u: 8:16pm On May 13, 2015 |
lalasticlala: OMEN SELLING PEPPERED BUSH MEAT MEAL AT DIKO MARKET IN NIGER WEDNESDAY menn! i'm salivating |
Family / Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by empress4u: 6:07am On May 04, 2015 |
Dera25: My wife says I should be greeting her each time I finish eating, if not for anything but for the sake that she take her time prepare the food and serve me. She says that she deserves a greeting from me.
I said okay, just that it is not part of our culture and I don't think I will be keep up greeting her each time she gives me food.
It is not that greeting her will reduce anything from me but the issue is that I don't usually remember this greeting after eating because it is not part of me, although I do greet sometimes for peace to reign, but the way she reminds me of this greeting of a thing gets me angry, as if it is mandatory or something to the extent that sometimes we've had issues because of it.
So daddies and mummies in the house, do you greet your wife after she has given you food? Or do your husband greet you after eating? If yes is it a mandate or just for fun?
Please let me remind you that this is not the issue of been a breadwinner or not. I beg you to forgive my long story and wrong grammer for I am not a grammerian.
Apreciation spices up relationship. Make it a habit to say thank you to her. Its a way of appreciating her effort and letting her know that you love her and you are proud to have her as your wife. But she ought not to make it look like you MUST do it. If she wants to correct you, it should be with love.
Thanks in advance. |
Fashion / Re: Which Guy Still Wears This ? (PIC Included) by empress4u: 7:32pm On May 02, 2015 |
Eggcelent: What is the correlation between a man's fashion choice & his level of social maturity? Does this mean a man who chosees to exercise his right to be different isn't matured? (Just questions to be answered. No pun intended) swthrt, to start with, wearing such pant is not healthy for a man. as side this, personally i hate the colour for a guy. |
Romance / Re: Her Cousin Impregnated Her,and She Still Insists She Loves Him by empress4u: 8:43pm On Apr 29, 2015 |
drsteroid: This is a strange but true life story that I want to share with everyone.
Last month, my friend's ex girl friend called me and explained how she was feeling with her body. After her explanation,I asked her when was the last time she treated malaria,and she said it was 2 weeks back, and she even used a potent anti- malaria drug which made me believed what was wrong with her was beyond malaria.
The whole scenario came to a head when she told me she was rushed back home from work the next day after she fainted and threw up. I told her she needed to run a comprehensive lab test, so as to ascertain what was really wrong with her,and she asked if she can make use of our medical centre for her lab test, which I accepted in the affirmative. The test later revealed she was a month old pregnant.
I asked her who was the guy responsible, because we are really very close and she finds it hard to hide her secrets from me. She told me it was a guy she met once and they both had sex together that night,and unfortunately, the guy is in UK now and he doesn't pick her calls anymore. I told her to make sure she get across to him so that she can convey the message to him,she said she doesn't even know what to do,that his number is still not going through,even when I asked her 2days after. She told me all this on bbm.
At a point in time, her number wasn't going through and her pings were also not delivering,I was scared cos she is just 22 yrs old and she may want to act in a funny way considering the number of negative ideas that would be running through her mind.
Luckily,her she pinged me yesterday evening, I was even surprised when I saw her pings saying 'doctor,gud pm." I replied her and we started chatting.
I then asked her about the pregnancy and she told me she succeeded in aborting it with the help of her cousin who took her to a private hospital in the mainland. That she just can't face the humiliation and disgrace that awaits her in future. It was then she said, 'Doctor,I want to apologize for lying to you,I just don't know how to tell you,there was no guy abroad that impregnated me but this my cousin who helped me with the abortion did'.
At that point,I was shocked, and my phone even fell from my hands. As if I didn't get what she said earlier,I asked her again with deep curiosity, ''who did you say was responsible for your pregnancy?"
She said the same thing that her cousin was responsible. At this point,something was now telling me its as if cousin is another new word or slang use in replacing boy friend. That made me ask her how is the guy her cousin? She said it was her mother's elder sister's son...
I heaved a sigh at the abomination after I heard that. She said even after the successful abortion,that the guy has been sleeping with her regularly,that the last time he slept with her was 2 days ago, and the worst part of it is that she is in madly in love with the guy.
I then asked her if both parents knew about the whole saga,and she said no,that they will kill them if any of their family member gets to find out cos its an abomination. I told her to try and desist from such act,and get in touch with her pastor immediately for a total and rugged deliverance because the whole thing is evil and there is a spiritual undertone involved in the whole issue.
Since that yesterday she told me this whole scary story,I have been so confused as to what might have led them into such act.
I have it in mind to relay the whole story to my friend because he is also not spared as far as this issue is concerned, because this girl might have been sleeping with his cousin even while she was still dating my friend because they only broke up mid last year. Hausa get married to their cousins. To them its not an abomination but she must know this: The culture she was born into does not permit cousins having sexual relationship. The act she got herself into started with her thoughts. She has been thinking of how handsome or sexy her cousin is before actually going into bed with him. There is need to work on her psychology thoroughly. She should start thinking negative of her cousin, imagine she hates those things about him that makes her love him. Another important thing is: never get yourself into a secret act because it can kill you. if you cannot be proud of doing it, its not worth doing. if possible, get a replacement for her. one who will genuinely love her. by so doing, may be her love wiĺl switch. pls don't abandon her. she needs you |
Romance / Re: Do You Agree With This??(pix) by empress4u: 7:50pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
kitnah: Okay,someone posted this on twitter with the caption 'major attribute of a real man,unlike some broke ass dude',and bingo,they all went ballistic on her.
Now,the question is 'do you agree with this'??
Cc Rokiatu Lala247 Mirexxx briee i'm a lady but i say capital "NO" to this. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Ladies Can You Say NO To These Touching Proposals? by empress4u: 10:58pm On Apr 25, 2015 |
Sile12: 3. On the New Year's eve. i love 3 |
Politics / Re: APC Manifesto Not Quran Or Bible, It Can Change ---Buhari by empress4u: 9:25am On Apr 24, 2015 |
come to think of it, shouldn't he be thinking on how to work and at least fulfill 70% of his promises rather than think of failure. Is he trying to tell us that the party never had a blueprint of how to execute its manifesto? hmmmm. this is what you get when you pay hundreds of thousands and spend years to be a graduate only to vote a man who was never been found in the four walls of a classroom as a president. |
Family / Re: Responsible Women Are Not Materialistic True Or False? by empress4u: 9:23pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
An ideal woman looks out for potentials not raw cash. a woman you wants you to have the cash first before joining you is materialistic. what if the money disappears after your union? what will she do? |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Been Ashame Of Buying This? by empress4u: 9:16pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
JbravoAdodger: You should be ashamed buying that cheap thing, I rock the purple durex with increased sensitivity, cost almost 500
Good thin I don't get intimate much or I'd be broke! bros durex is not in anyway better than gold circle. it's just that gold circle is made cheaper so that it can be affordable to anyone in order to curtail the spread of STDs |
Business / Re: Xenophobia: MTN Nigeria Warns Of 6,000 Job Losses by empress4u: 10:44am On Apr 21, 2015 |
Adesiji77: MTN Nigeria on Monday warned that should there be attacks on its facilities, it might be forced to close shop and 99 per cent of its over 6,000 workforce in the country, who are Nigerians, would be thrown into the labour market.
It also said that calls for the boycott of its services were unjustified as such an action would affect its support chain, which could cause another 500,000 Nigerians to lose their means of livelihood.
The company stated this in Lagos some hours after two groups protested in its Abuja and Benin offices against the killing of foreigners in its home country, South Africa.
According to the Corporate Service Executive, MTN Nigeria, Mr. Wale Goodluck, there are only 12 expatriates working for the company in the country, compared to a workforce of 6,000 Nigerians.
Goodluck said, “So, if people go ahead with their threats to attack our facilities, what that means is that we may be forced to close down the business in Nigeria and about 6,000 Nigerians that make up 99 per cent of our workforce will be unemployed.
“Then, when you look at our support chain, we have about 500,000 Nigerians gainfully employed. So, boycotting our services simply means destroying so many other Nigerian businesses and making over 500,000 other Nigerians to lose their jobs.
“This business supports a lot of businesses across the length and breadth of Nigeria. Many of the businesses that are affiliated to South Africa are in the retail space, supporting the growth of Nigeria and employing so many Nigerians.”
He noted that the company had spent in excess of $15bn on capital expenditure growing the telecommunications business in Nigeria.
“We see no revenge of Xenophobia and we commend the role the Nigerian High Commissioner in South Africa has played; at least there has been no fatality on the part of any Nigerian,” Goodluck added.
http://www.punchng.com/business/business-economy/xenophobia-mtn-nigeria-warns-of-6000-job-losses/
lalasticlala
and so what if nigerians lose their jobs. other network will be strengthened but do you know how much mtn will lose should the company be closed. this guy better think and pull the threat |
Religion / Re: Prince Gozie Okeke With His Beautiful Children by empress4u: 2:02pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
Atmmachine: Gozie is gay. I once lived in same street with him.
He's my brother, we are from same Hometown #NNOBI in Anambra state when will you guys learn to mind your business |
Religion / Re: Prince Gozie Okeke With His Beautiful Children by empress4u: 2:00pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
1960chic: Cute!!
Are they all from Njideka?
Heard they're divorced amebo |
Politics / Re: Jonathan & Buhari Set To Clash Over Proposed May 28 Handover Date by empress4u: 5:00pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
olas24u:
GEJ may be planning a coup or have other motives ,what is difference between 28th and 29th? ask yourselves |
Politics / Re: Jonathan & Buhari Set To Clash Over Proposed May 28 Handover Date by empress4u: 4:59pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
otr1:
What official announcement are you waiting for after the Information Minister has already done that? APC will never take part in that illegality. He must handover in the full glare of the world on May 29. It's ok if he wants to be absent because of the shame, but handing over in a dinner a night before, is nothing but nonsense. you guys can never seize to amaze one. if he had decided to hand over a day after you would have raised brick and brim stone. now he is doing it for you a day before. you see sinister in it. anyway, a man who lives by the sword is always afraid to die by the sword. if you cannot accept the hand over on 28, then you are not ready to rule the nation. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Jonathan & Buhari Set To Clash Over Proposed May 28 Handover Date by empress4u: 4:46pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
otr1: It's ok if he's ashamed of appearing in Eagle Square on May 29, but Baba will not attend that unconstitutional hand-over taking place on May 28. you apc fans and your baba shld use ur heads for once. GEJ is not a violent man. |
Romance / Re: Attitudes Guys Display When They Have Been Lured, Duped & Dumped By Gold Diggers by empress4u: 4:22pm On Apr 18, 2015 |
wristwatch: Heart break is painful and can make a sociable person to becoming an introvert and a lunatic.
A guy who has been thoroughly used by a gold digger portray red signal attitudes that can make him an outcast.
Therefore, attitudes guys display when they have been used by gold diggers are;
They become extremely stingy
Category of such guys spend only on their needs and perhaps family members (Talking about sisters, brothers, etc). For an outsider especially ladies, a kobo will not drop from their pocket.
They become chronic womaniser
"Good boy Gone Crazily Bad" In order to pay back, they unleash their hidden flirting habit(chop and clean mouth character) by getting into every ladies skirt. They stylishly show the rudiment of love painting a perfect picture in the ladies brain he is the chosen one.
Love is wicked in their dictionary
Hate is love and Love is wicked becomes their quote. This marks a permanent prologue in the dictionary of their mind. They see love as evil and any lady that expresses this feeling become a desperate "Jezebel" to them.
Negative switching to homosexuality (gay)
Their emotion switch sporadically and irreversible to same sex. They feel same sex will not break their heart unlike the opposite ones.
They treat ladies with haughty contempt
Because of their evil intention, they disrespect ladies and treat them like waste products. All manners of haughty contempt you can think of is being unleash on the innocent lady.
Job and Career becomes their true love
They hunt for job and career development like guilder ultimate search. This is the period they get extremely busy to hurl away their hurt feeling. Job and career advancement consume their thoughts, social life and relationship with people.
They become alcohol champion
In terms of alcohol drinking, they can win un countable "drink d'or". Underestimating such people in drinking can cost your pocket. They become Usain bolt and an undisputed champion in alcohol consumption just to forget they were ever hurt.
They see all ladies as thieves
Every lady whether born again or not are tag thieves in their thought. They rain un limited curse on ladies and label them as gold diggers. so guys too do have heart break |
Romance / Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by empress4u: 7:56pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
ItsAnderson:
Told her I wouldnt wanna have sex again until I Got married (which will be, at most, three years from now), and the next day she sent me a text message ending the two year relationship. I'm now caught between a cliff and a high wall. She never told me why. I just hope it's not because of the sex issue. Honestly, I feel used because she was my first and only. I Am 24 and almost through with my bachelors but I've never found sex that appealing. We've dated for more than two years but had sex a total six times. I now feel horrible. I am not very religious but I just feel like sex before marriage is just wrong. But I dont think I am willing to let her go either.
it could be that she does not believe your reason for saying NO to sex. maybe she thinks you enjoy it with another lady as such, you will soon leave her for another |
Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by empress4u: 9:39am On Apr 11, 2015 |
Skillfullulu: Its because we guys get full and need to cum, we do d digging and we request for it more than em do. you've said it all. If you don't cum, na wahala for you o. so, it's a favour. |
Romance / Re: Ladies, Do You Sometimes Wish It's "Acceptable" To Ask A Guy Out? by empress4u: 9:26pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
I once loved a guy badly but couldn't say it. i gave him all the necessary green light but he didn't say a thing. so, i decided to kill the feelings. Later on, he started asking me out but i can't date him anymore because i have killed the feelings 1 Like |