ProphetJeroboam:
As this is good advice. It doesn’t relate to the matter up there. What most of you don’t understand is, you can face your studies and be one of the most successful man alive but not knowing how to navigate through life’s bullshit and being unable to steer through social situations makes you an inept man no matter how successful you are. This is the foundation of the redpill. There are men who are capable of juggling their work,education and social life perfectly but once in awhile they need a little guidance because it is only us men that have each other’s backs. Generic advice like yours do not help the situation. Refrain from giving generic advice like this to our brothers who come here looking for guidance. I will give you a list of the most successful men who have had women trouble, some of them would have avoided it if they had confided in their red pill buddies. Dangote,Otedola,Bill Gate,Jeff Bezos,Cristiano Ronaldo,Prince Andrew,Bill Clinton. Most of us here may not be as successful as these men,sad reality but true also their super successful lives didn’t make them immune. I laughed at 2.1 gp grade like that means Jack Sh*t here in your country or you think the western world gives a fvck about your second class upper or first class. Not everyone here is struggling to attain social status and a redpiller would know the higher your social status,the more you’ll be faced with sh*t like this. I made it clear that I advised the guy up there to get rid of his scarcity mentality, that was my input. If your input won’t contribute to the post then don’t give it at all. Thanks again for your input bro.

TarOrfeeek:

Face your studies

TarOrfeeek:

Graduate with a 2:1 or better
Get a good 6 figure salary

TarOrfeeek:

You'll know what I've done for you.

SkyFlint:

This post shows you're still scared of death.

SkyFlint:

That said, here's how things are likely to play out in a medical emergency when you're married:

1. You collapse or convulse violently.
2. Your wife panicks and becomes paralyzed with fear.
3. Inaction or inefficient action of your wife as a result of her fear.
4. You die, anyway.

Or.

1. You collapse or convulse.
2. Your wife panicks.
3. But manages to contact the nearest man.
4. The man, ultimately, finds a way to save you.

Fact is, your wife is unlikely to be capable of saving you herself. A man is sure to come into the equation.

Now if you're going to be unmarried, simply skip the wife and go straight to the man in the equation. One way you can do this is to install an emergency alarm button in your own room with the blare in your security man's place.

Emmynator:


Good thinking.
You see the thing I with life ehn, you can't predict the future. And I tell you, going your own way has its own benefits, but you need to be fully ready to bear the costs of it.

Remember, you'll get old anyway (if you're lucky enough), or sick like you have thought, and if all your family members or your wife or children are working, they will definitely contract your care to others, while they chip in with little time here and there when they are less busy.

There is no point of you making a decision on an ideology, only to end up as an old man full of regrets. What I am saying is, if you go into MGTOW without having a strong conviction, you won't even face this kind of scenario, you will be lost before with your parents bugging you, relatives, bloody everyone, asking you to get married, the natural instincts of procreation, and satisfying your urges, etc.

Now, for me to come up with an answer for you, it has to have been my own dilemma, but I am not a MGTOW person for now, and I haven't given such things thoughts. Instead I offer advice, that should guide whatever decision you decide to take.

Take this as a test to see, if you are only scared of marriage or a true MGTOW, depending on your answer.
I'll advise, make a decision that you'll stand by, no matter what.

sajmark:

A redpilled man going into marriage is like a soldier going to war with armour and weapons, WHILE a bluepilled man going into marriage is like a soldier going to war without armour and weapons.
Work on yourself and a woman will choose you (this is deeper than it appears)... In lay man's tongue, try and marry a woman that loves you more than you love her.

ichidodo:
[b] The thing about tomorrow is very hilarious... Tomorrow you can win a million dollars or get run over by a truck, the other aspect of Tomorrow is you can still win that million dollars AND get run over by a truck or you win nothing and nothing runs over you, that being said it is important to make decisions, especially crucial life decisions that we can all live with incase it goes south that's why redpill will tell you to observe all options before taking the plunge and not just delve in like a bloody simp...Yes you can get a "good" girl if you observe all redpill protocols i.e you understand the substance of her perceived goodness in the background and through the lens of redpill you know where she coming from and where she goes metaphorically. You can also live with the decisions of playing 'house' (oneitis) or running game on your 'good' girl, that she may or may not love you is a question of how you fit together in a blue pilled frame or redpill frame but I believe you know enough redpill to understand that in marriage as in all endeavors of life you can either win a million dollars or get run over by a truck OR You win a million dollars AND still get run over by a truck but you must make that decision that will enable you sleep well at night..[/b]

TarOrfeeek:




Your mother comes first before your wife.

There's a very good reason why?

Marriage vows force women to swear that they will stick by you in sickness and health, but how many of them really do? Maybe malaria and typhoid.

But when the chips are down. When you have a terminal, mind altering or physically demeaning illness - ONLY your mother will unconditionally be there for you.

Except you're not playing your part well or she's getting old.

If you LOVE your mother as much as she deserves, that woman will fight 100 lions just to keep you safe.

Lemonz:

Guy I think say na my tracking information you post like this o
We have the exact same order and tracking dates. Anyways it changed from the normal 07-25 to that message because it has passed 30 days. Calculate that August 22nd and you'd see that they are telling you to wait for another 30 days. 60days in total. It not big something. Just wait as you've been waiting before. I'm sure yours is stuck at despatched to overseas.

HarrierJumpJet:

@ccEnavie
Truth be told
your parcel just left China two days ago

Lemonz:

Departed on the 20th of this month. Hmmm
Use global.cainiao.com
to track it. Track24 has delayed updates. Not very long delays though.
But I don't think your package has arrived at the post office. It's still early
If you suspect that its in Nigeria check nipost.gov.ng and use their track and track feature (I doubt it would give any results)
Just be patient
Hope I was able to help

Lemonz:

It's unlikely. This is normal. It depends, what is your current tracking status and how long has it been on that particular status?

Valto:
10days ago

erickjany:
My name is Miracle Ujobo. I am a graduate of Microbiology. I am working but still aiming for a better salary. I have my age parents I am taking care and my younger siblings.
I have been helping them for long and age is not on my side anymore. I am thinking about to quite helping and focus more on myself.
What I need mostly now is a man that I will settle down with and make a family.
I am a pretty middle 30 years old lady. But men hardly come on my way. Sometimes I cried in my closet to ask what is wrong?
Pls my successful sisters that have settled down with their husband's.
I am nuasing a thought to have a baby of my own or should I still be waiting for my man to locate me?.
Please your advice will be helpful in this critical time of my life.
Please help me!
Moderator pls help me by placing this on the front page. Thank you

NB: I AM NOT THE ONE IN QUESTION. THIS IS WHAT A LADY FRIEND SEND TO ME THIS EVENING. THAT THIS IS WHAT SHE IS BATTLING. IF YOU HAVE ANY MEANINFUL ADVISE TO GIVE HER PLS DO SO. SHE IS READING ALL COMMENT HERE

darthv:
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