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I imagine you genuinely intend to help and that your advice was given with good intentions. However, maybe rereading it objectively could have highlighted some pointers to unhelpful suggestions with looming unintended consequences, especially if you are in a loving marriage relationship. The lockdown would naturally increase sex activities... Even Google indicates increase in pornographic surfing around the globe. Don't scatter someone's home with your keypad abeg.
@Iambell please be sure to find an appropriate time and way to communicate your concerns with your husband. You should know the best times as he is your husband 2. I am assuming it affects your health,so let him see that. Even if it's not affecting your health it certainly will begin to affect your emotions and feelings towards him. 3. Agree on a compromise 4. Also pray about it... You both should satisfy each other and not labor eachother. As you are complaining too much, he may also be complaining too little. Ideal number is relative and good news is... Sex drive drops with age, so the worst is gone. Don't quote me sha... [color=#550000][/color]

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

Johnson5258:
This is indeed great but i advise you to discuss with maybe your pastor or Imam. A man that hasn't sit to plan his life at 40 is who you're talking about here, Madam I hope you want to see you succeed in your life? Is it pension he wants to use to pay school fees? Meanwhile, I believe you haven't been having sex with him not to talk of abortion.

The lady is already manifesting signs of low self esteem. Nothing can be ruled out at this stage of a 5years struggle to keep him to herself.

The way I see it, her kpekus already has the guys phone number, and is the one making all the calls. Her post here is one of the few times her own inner desperation cries out and I pray she is saved.

Dear Daughter of God,
Jesus truly loves you and He gave himself to set you free from bondage!
In case you think what you are going through is only physical... you are dead wrong. Mind you, you don't need to see chains around you in a dream before you are told you are in bondage.
Please prayerful pick up your Bible and read to learn about love and what values God Himself places on you. While you are at it, ask God to make all things new for you and receive Jesus as your Lord, not just Savior this time around. Also ask for the Holy spirit... He gives sense and strength to Believers and constant fellowship with Him will protect you from stupid decisions. The sex clearly is an issue here, and will make it even difficult, but remember... you are God's property. God is with you.

checkolatunji:
Tell them

of your level of ignorance? Nah... I think you already did that yourself!

Because that is what the government is supposed to do... it helps the economy, it reduces our dependence on forex, it creates demand for our crude by us among other things.

tzoracle:
exactly..

But if his main aim is profit making as a business man why is he being part funded by the FG

Was the bus empty? I guess not.
Did any of the passengers notice the accident occur? I guess so.
But everyone there wants to get to his/her destination early abi?
We just don't care about ourselves... why then do we expect any different from the government: because they took oath abi? Make we dey fool ourselves. If you and I don't care... no one will!
May God please spare the woman's life in His mercy in Jesus mighty name! Amen. Thank you brother. God bless you.

MaziOmenuko:
Lol...u are too naive to understand my point.

I'm pretty sure you consider your self a smart person but you should have noticed the coming together in Ambodes road project.
3years time, may God keep us, I believe you will be better informed by what you see.

MaziOmenuko:
Building a magnificent transport exchange at the heart of oshodi. Looks like a wonderful world class project right?

Rubbish! The idea of a transport exchange would work were things are a little more organised: rail system, organised transport system etc. Trust me, 3yrs from now, that magnificent place will be occupied by oshodi touts. They will have self contained accommodation there, allocate rooms and space to themselves with the kingpins at the choicest spots. It will be a cool stuff to smoke weed and a joint to run to when the bag of an innocent passerby is snatched.

Prophet.... thank you for the prophetic focus. Saying things you don't know for a fact with such conviction isn't cool, just as ignorance doesn't look cool on you. There are still does of us that believe the best of Nigeria. Ambode has done what he will, let's look towards a positive future together.

Since when did being inhumane become normal?

IamD18:
It's normal with women. They'll never treat a child nice if he/she isn't her biological child.

Nothing justifies rape... nothing! A society that justifies rape should prepare to have a rational for murder! When someone was raped in the Bible... recall that what happened?

NwaAmaikpe:





Mumu girls.
I hear all they do is loiter around malls in Nigeria mostly Shoprite prowling like a roaring lion looking for whose pocket to devour.

What proof do we even have that he let her go freely?
Aunty say the truth let's know if he really penetrated your Dodan Barracks.
The truth will set you free just like a good policeman has set the accused free.

But she's still on a winning run.
She got her trips and feeebies in Shoprite,
She ended up being rewarded 20k
And she's now famous.

tuniski:
The worst of PDP is better than the best of buhari's apc.

The opposite of PDP is not Buhari. Please ask the people of Lagos State if they would prefer PDP governance. While you are at it, ask Ogun State people too. The Ekiti and Osun Gubers is pointing at something... people want good governance ... not "good" party! From my point of view, it appears APC government at least have a Blue print they are trying hard to follow and achieve while PDP wants to remain as the ruling party.

I'm sure you are feeling well informed or intelligent with these assumptions. Enjoy the feeling but please add this to your knowledge... people dug up on her past because she was up to something not in the interest of some "people" but in interest of plugging a certain sink holes in our civil service. I've met her before... don't particularly like her, but the truth is she has gone now and the hole still remains. Good luck to us... we have our work cut out for us.

seborrhic:
Story.
The only reason Kemi resigned is because she I'd a British citizen too and the forgery would have had an adverse effect on her when she travels back to Britain.It has nothing to do with this goverment.
She knows and must have been adviced that this government would last at most another 4years,of which she isn't sure of being in the cabinet again,but her long term future in the UK and her family could be jeopardized if she doesn't admit to the forgery, only that she should blame it on her naivety.
Please when will she be charged to court?

No need to hope. All you need is a little research of the man in the last 15 years and we will know if he is intelligent, lucky, smart... etc. So times ehn... we ate just too lazy to change what we hate about the future because of what we permit today.

Lucid1:
Looks like a cool guy. I hope he’s got brain too

[b][/b]The Governor is just terrible at PR. So poor at it! You would wonder how such end up in politics in the first place. Remember the issue with LAUTEC students and how he handled it on national TV? If a man this ignorant of fundamental PR can be senator and 2time governor or Oyo(1st occurrence), you know Nigerian political environment doesn't make logical sense.

Olukat:
Gov Ajimobi aka Constituted authority humbled
The look on the Oba's face says it all
It was a bad case for the Gov from day one.

youngberry001:
Arrrrrhhh

Na so people dey subscribe to born Chuky!