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Politics › Re: Unknown Gunmen Have Disappeared From Anambra After Election, Just Like Play by EngineerOloye: 9:09pm On Nov 21, 2021

Taich:
Actually this needs to be studied if we are serious about our security.

Same as NADECO things

Family › Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by EngineerOloye: 8:53am On Nov 19, 2021

simplepee:
You did not eat the food. Ebi ni o pa e..

When I tell girls, stop rushing into marriage because of just love. They say I too like money. Yes, I like money. Reason I have let love rest and ....

Carry your cross op and continue "managing". Shebi suffer dey sweet una??

How much money you do gather o....
E no go fit finish?

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Family › Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by EngineerOloye: 8:42am On Nov 19, 2021

Her main concern is probably the conception and may be she feels you are not paying enough attention there. The funny thing is that the more you focus on it, the more it becomes a big issue in the home.
My advice, cheer up ... Keep your countenance happy, read your Bible and trust Gods plan for you. Make the most of the time, before the kids come (build intimacy, trust and enjoy each other). Problems no dey finish o... Even with 10 children sef... Or 10 million.

Use your head... Equation 1. Happy wife, happy life. Almighty Formula: What God cannot do doesn't exist.

distinguish:
We have been married for a year now. We have been trying to conceive. Because of the emotional stress attached my wife said she can't be staying at home alone, it causes her stress. She said she wants to start doing something. At least a business.

I took a loan from my place of work and we started the business for over 2 months now. The issue now is that, I don't always have cash on me anymore. Any little money I got it's for the business. Basically, we mostly feed from the business.

Yesterday, after we returned home, she started giving me attitude, I asked her what the issue was, she started telling me how I am killing the business, not taking good care of her, not having money to take care of her and all sort of rubbish, she brought out how incompetent I am as a husband and what have you. I never said a word to reply her and its eating me up seriously, I could not sleep the whole night. This is the person that I sacrificed a lot for. I was supposed a take a professional course this November, but because of her I had to postpone it.

Please I need your advice.

PS: I did not eat the food she prepared last night.

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Romance › Re: I Am Growing Fond Of My Neighbors husband by EngineerOloye: 9:19am On Nov 18, 2021

One of the lessons I learnt early as a kid and still makes sense later in life as a grown up is what I would like to use as a response to your position today. First, I would like to appreciate you for your sincerity. Growing up, I lived in an area where it was common to have flowers in front of houses and along my way home, there was a particular flower I loved to pluck that ticked all the boxes like your neighbours husband ticks yours. Each time I went past, I would pluck one and be on my way with it. Yellow, smelt mild and nice and soft on my nose when I sniffed it... but all those qualities begin to die off the moment I plucked it and soon afterwards, I find myself hating the flower I enjoyed so much.
The moment you have that man, either by seduction, or by divinely finding him in your bed without you knowing.... The appeal ends. He stops being the same "good man" you loved, but an empty relic you may be forced to hold on too out of a despiration to make sense of your folly.
Keep walking... You need your own plant (man), not plucking at flowers and petals next door.

NovesaTillie:
I moved to this city because of my new job and my neighbors have been very homely and helpful to me especially the ones next flat,a young man and his wife with a kid . They have been very kind to me, sometimes when I get home late from work his wife calls me to join them for dinner and hangouts. M
My issue now is I am beginning to grow fond of the man because of how gentlemanly he treats his wife and how dotting he is of their son. He ticks all the qualities that I dream of and sometimes I just feel like inviting him over to my place when his wife is out to tempt him a little
What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family

Please don't insult me. I am in a relationship though very young relationship. I'm just human admiring someone else.

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Politics › Re: Grace Atinuke Oyelude Turns 90 (Photos) by EngineerOloye: 9:02am On Nov 17, 2021

greymiles:
She won it when nepotism, cronyism and tribalism was so deep in this country’s polity
The hate on the igbos have been long before today
Everyone one knows igbos are the beauty Queen in this country, how the award goes to a yoruba person is what I don’t understand

I know it's your choice, yet I fail to understand how an individual chooses to live in bitterness.
Open up... There is more to living than dwelling on negativity.

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Family › Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by EngineerOloye: 7:23pm On Nov 13, 2021

Iyaebe:
All of you men going to pay only bride price and postponing the rest are just looking for ticket to free sex.She's fully your wife and free to move in with you only after church wedding.

Lol....
Let me cheer you up with a reply.
The ones looking for free anything are those waiting for you to cook rice at 3 events for joining two people together and extra two times.
Truth is we have adopted cultures without purpose guiding the process. That's why we call knickers short-knickers, rather than knickers or just shorts!
When you go to court and get married, you don't really need to kill cow for people anymore. Same goes for when you marry inline with customs of your wife's tribe. I did all three, so I know how silly it is especially when we now both agree that the first "joining" represents our anniversary.
If I could turn back the hands of time, I would have only the trad done, since that meant the most to my wife and ignore everyone else thinking like you. If d free sex worry you, go collect some.

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Celebrities › Re: Mr Macaroni: Why I Declined Osinbajo's Invitation by EngineerOloye: 10:21pm On Nov 05, 2021

fergie001:
Popular actor, comedian & content creator, Debo Adedayo also known as "Mr Macaroni" has given reasons why he declined an invitation to visit Vice President Yemi Osinbajo.

Some popular skitmakers: Maryam Apaokagi (Taooma); Josh Alfred (Josh2funny); Ayo Ajewole (Woli Agba); Adebamiro Adeyanju (Mr. Hyenana) and Adeoye Adeyemi Elesho (Yemi Elesho), were among a delegation who met the Vice President yesterday.

The VP was later presented with an awards insignia.

"Daddy Wa" as he is fondly called, bared his mind via a social media microblogging site.

Ohin.... You are doing well!!!

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Properties › Re: Femi Osibona & Italian Architects At The Top Of Collapsed 21-Storey Building by EngineerOloye: 10:29am On Nov 02, 2021

Engineering fails are one of the loudest professional fails we have of all professions.

More emphasis must be given to the actual engineering than political or economic ends during projects.

May God be with the families of all affected.

Meanwhile, hope the claim that the owner was killed there isn't away to avoid taking responsibility for the failure?

Politics › Re: NLC, Residents Block Lagos-Abeokuta Expressway To Protest Against Bad Roads by EngineerOloye: 8:29pm On Oct 27, 2021

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright

Must we always bring tribalism and regionalism

Funny enough we don't do this offline......

We only do this online......

Then offline....we huzzle, smoke and drink beer with each other
Then we come online to start misbehaving

I'm not a drinker, nor do I smoke but this has to be the best comment I've read all day on nairaland. For me, the tribalism here is a major turnoff and is actually a limiting factor to how relevant or great the platform can be.

Way to many hateful content!!!

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Barcelona Vs Real Madrid (1 - 2) On 24th October 2021 by EngineerOloye: 7:22pm On Oct 24, 2021

ReeLoaDead:
Dry Classico now has the same excitement level as Arsenal vs Spurs

Hate speech cheesy

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Politics › Re: Winners, Losers As 32 States Get More VAT Share Than They Generate by EngineerOloye: 10:16pm On Oct 18, 2021

Fahdiga:
According to the report south western states apart from Lagos will feel the brunt if states starts collecting VAT since they depend solely on FG

Are you saying this because you are informed or because you feel so?
In any case, it should interest you to know that Ogun State has maintained between no 2 to no 4 highest IGR among the 36 States in over the last 10 years. So, please check again with your source, if at all you have any.

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Family › Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by EngineerOloye: 10:11am On Oct 11, 2021

Vireani79:
U know u are a total idiot
Na ur papa make the gal prostitute
That a person smokes doesn't mean she is a prostitute
Grow up
Leave nigeria for once
Even go to Benin republic
It's will cost u just 3k from mile 2
Una no know anything
I have lived in the UK and these things are normal
I have been here long enough to know what is woke and what's not
The woman's problem is she thinks the gal is beneath her family
If she like agree if she like no agree
That gal is here to stay and the son loves her
She do pass herself she go carry belle to solidify her stand
And nothing a fool like u will do about it
Anofia

Hope I'm not mistaken responding to your message, but I will take my chance to dialogue and hope we can exchange ideas and not insults and emotions as is common on social media today.
Now, though I struggle with your opinion that a girl walking around braless in a boyfriend's family house is normal, I can certainly detect from the Mother's tone that it is radically abnormal to her, and we have to respect her reality.
And being a parent, you are granted the right to have expectations for your child/children/ward, and the girl not meeting those expectations is not necessarily a fault of yours. How you go about it may constitute a problem but the girl not meeting your expectations is certainly not a crime at this point. The son in question should however share your expectations of him, otherwise... there will be conflict. It's not too late though. We should train our sons to have a picture of a glorious future, and they will know when they see it in a woman... regards of how "rich or poor" her parents/background is.

Family › Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by EngineerOloye: 9:57am On Oct 11, 2021

wisemum:
I am bringing this topic here to see if I can get any good advise from youths of the same generation.

My son returned from schooling abroad two years ago and after completing his NYSC, has been trying to get a job. None has been forthcoming but he tries to keep occupied, trying his hands on different projects. He still lives at home but says that once he is financially stable, he will get his own apartment and move out.

He is generally a calm, law abiding , likeable gentleman until when he recently started bringing home this girl who dresses like a prostitute and who I discovered stays overnight in his room with him. His dad and I have fought him over this subject to no avail. I confronted the girl to tell her I do not feel comfortable with her sleeping overnight in my house especially since I do not know her family and will be held responsible if anything happens to her. She apologized to me and promised not to come to sleep over again. However, I noticed that after that, he started sneaking her in at late hours of the night when he thinks we have gone to bed, sometimes when it is past midnight. He hasn't introduced the girl to us as anything to him even though I have asked him several times what his intentions with this girl is but he will just say she is a friend that makes him happy- that's all.

He told his uncle that he likes the girl. I don't even know what else to do. I have tried talking to him, reasoning with him, but it all falls on his deaf ears. I do not like this girl at all. She comes across to me as a street girl- even though she is generally polite when she meets me at home anytime she comes during the day. I investigated and found out her work place is not far from our house. What I do not like about her is that she dresses, exposing delicate parts of her body and is a chain smoker.

Furthermore, to me, a girl who sleeps out in a mans' parent house, continually disregarding how his parents feel about it, cannot be good news. Once, I caught her almost naked in the night walking along the corridor leading to my sons room. She ran inside his room when she saw me. I was so embarrassed and wondered what if my husband had been the one who ran into her? What kind of thing is this? Only her pant on, breasts bare. It was the following day I traced her to her work place and gently but sharply and firmly told her I do not permit her to sleep over in my house again. His dad also spoke with him. I also spoke to him. Everything has been to no avail.

He still sneaks her in. Or did she jazz him?, Please advise me. Thanks.

This never spoil nah...
Wait for one of the days he will sneaker her in, but make sure it is on a Friday night, so you are sure the next morning the girl no dey go work.
Buy yam, palm oil, small aso ebi & small small engagement things... Around 2 am Saturday morning, Knock down into the room and bring those things in. Tell him you are okay with the choice he has for his future, be serious and talk about future with the girl and all. Finish all your shenanigans before 4am to leave their room, but make sure to tell tham that you are following him, taking those things to the girls house by 7am in the morning. Afterwards, excuse them and let the fighting begin. He will get sense by force to decide if that is how his destiny wants to run his tomorrow for him!!!

Family › Re: Man Shares Picture After First Sex With His Virgin Wife (Viewers Discretion) by EngineerOloye: 10:39pm On Oct 01, 2021

Focus people.
The message his trying to pass is simple... My wife is a virgin and I'm proud of here. Simple!

Every other thing is secondary here
Make jealousy and hypocrisy no kill some people.

Crime › Re: Gunmen Burn Ajali Police Station In Anambra, Kill 5 Officers (Video) by EngineerOloye: 12:56am On Oct 01, 2021

So many people who on a normal day cannot vocalise their expressions meaningfully at a gathering or in person, but with social media can't stop pressing nonsense on keypads... Oh well, the new society is yours. Enjoy what you make it!

Staysave:
Ma gee
You dey craze.....

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Politics › Re: Angry Youths Protest Bad Roads In Sango Ota, Ogun State by EngineerOloye: 5:29pm On Sep 06, 2021

It is sad that most of us are just focusing on the "politics" and not even addressing the issue. Some roads there are so bad, a pregnant woman may loose her baby plying it in public vehicle.
J.B has been on the Lagos Abeokuta stretch now for more than 3 years, and I wonder why the Governor isn't on it considering the size of industry in and around that axis.
It's a shame that Ogun State with one of the highest IGRs in Nigeria and Sango a major industrial hub suffers so.

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Education › Re: Covenant University Officially Responds To Transcript Controversy by EngineerOloye: 2:23am On Dec 17, 2020

I'm just looking at all her mouth complaining. I take one full calendar year plus one month look for transcript in OOU to be sent to U.I and you are hear crying out! Is the Babe okay at all? Hope she knows that if you spoil school wey you go, it still doesn't change school wey you go.

shogsmania:
Covenant is an excuse for am higher institution ,oga no be only you go covenant we know many of their alumni and they all have something bad to say about the school

Politics › Re: Gbajabiamila’s Security Aide Shoots Newspapers Vendor by EngineerOloye: 1:39am On Nov 20, 2020

He's people should call for his resignation and have him repplaced with a petition signed from his constituency... That's how we can stop the nonsense. This one shouldn't be about the police that pulled the trigger or the tribe of the victim. Go for the "big men" ... Let us go after them with the law in numbers. If they continue perverting the law, provided we don't stop it will still show the world who they are. Justice will come one way or another if we do not relent in asking

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Business › Re: #ENDSARS: Access Bank Sued By Gatefield For Freezing Account by EngineerOloye: 7:35am On Nov 05, 2020

When you read some comments here... You will understand why we have the sort of leadership we have in Nigeria.
I'm exasperated... being able to entertain a thought critically and objectively without having to accept it yet is indeed for the enlightened. Yet so many people here by their comments are clearly incapable of logical reasoning.
Who will save us from ourselves ��

Christianity Etc › Re: Virginity Vs Character by EngineerOloye: 4:12pm On Nov 01, 2020

Chastity is the character that makes virginity unique... We shouldn't mix it up. It's not about hymens or what what not for men. Chastity is the virtue being emphasized by virginity

Richmoney1:
Virginity is overrated

Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Salutes Soldiers Who Rescued An American Kidnapped In Nigeria by EngineerOloye: 9:50pm On Oct 31, 2020

So e mean say all the people wey BH dey kidnapp and kill have all died because of 1. No rescue attempt. 2. Incompetent rescue attempt. 3. No political will?

Health › Re: Mercyships Surgically Transforms The Life Of A Boy (Before & After Pics) by EngineerOloye: 11:00am On Oct 06, 2020

Waoh.....

Politics › Re: FG Asks All Account Holders In Financial Institutions To Re-Register Despite BVN by EngineerOloye: 8:07am On Sep 18, 2020

I had to drop the 1000 like
Experience they see is the best teacher for fools. Now that we have even failed to learn from previous generations... we make the same mistake as they did.

coolcharm:
The Egyptians and Taxmasters are here.

An irresponsible and insensitive government.

They can keep the schools locked down but want to force everyone to go to the Banks.

In less than 1 week:

Fuel price... Boom!

Electricity tarrif... Boom!!

Then this!

Yet minimum wage is below 25k in most states.

Where are all the 4+4 and sai Baba people?

Well... We are all in this together

One Man saw through it all.

"The choice before Nigerians in the coming elections is simple: A choice between going forward or going backwards; between the new ways and the old ways; between freedom and repression; between a record of visible achievements and beneficial reforms-and desperate power-seekers with empty promises."

~ Goodluck Jonathan, 19th February, 2015.

Politics › Re: NBC Fines Nigeria Info N5 Million Over Mailafia Interview by EngineerOloye: 1:16am On Aug 14, 2020

Good question!!! Or the papers that print their speeches. Clearly ... They've had it in for Nigeria Info and anything to hit at them at this point will do. Be it known onto you...if Nigeria Info open account say make we the citizens join to pay the 5 Million, I will gladly drop my 2k contribution

GamalNasser:
How much will they fine Miyetti Allah Radio that has been in operation

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Sports › Re: Juventus Appoint Andrea Pirlo As New Manager by EngineerOloye: 10:43pm On Aug 08, 2020

I wonder why a number of Messi and Ronaldo fans blurt stupidity season after season! Just enjoy these guys.. but no, you compare, refer, detract, slander and even curse not just them but each other. Rivery and cult devotions don't pay bills

Pimpmaride:
Modified: Barca won.. Who saw that first goal Messi scored? It was superb... Ronaldo must be wailing right now

Watch Ronaldo fans blame this one too anytime Juve lose..

Failurenaldo..

All Ronaldo fans are like him... Failure dem...

I pity pirlo coz Ronaldo wil ruin his career like he ruined sarri own..

Ronaldo has been known to ruin coaches career all bcox of his over sabi... I too know...

Na only me must score, na only me fit score.... Useless Ronaldo....

I am jobless though but if Ronaldo give me a job offer, I will have to ask Messi first...

Cox Ronaldo favour be like devil, give u one and he will collect ur glory to shine..

Barcelona... We are winning Tonyt

The household of Ronaldo and his fans shall be put to shame over barcelona match... Enemies dem......

Failurenaldo fans are beginning to mention me....

I say it wide and clear.... Failurenaldo and fans.... Shame on you people....

God wil perfect ur shame when barca wins Tonyt... I wil give it to u guys hot....

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Education › Re: Disinfection Of Schools Begins On July 7 - Muhammad Mahmood, Minister by EngineerOloye: 3:04am On Jul 08, 2020

More questions come to mind now.

Were the schools infected before the shutdown?

How many schools do you really want to "disinfect"?

The ones not on the list, are the students there not important or that Corona just wouldn't be there?

Does the virus survive indefinitely in schools, seeing that schools have been closed for several weeks?

How sure are we that this process will not further expose those schools to viruses by this activity (have those carrying out the task tested and confirmed negative)?

How much is invested in disinfecting each school?

Is it contracted and what was the process in awarding such contract?

Just hope you know its blood money some of you are spending for your families and allies.

Crime › Re: 70-year-old Man Rapes 8-year-old Girl In Niger, Gives Her N80 To Keep Quiet by EngineerOloye: 8:33pm On Jul 06, 2020

bolaayenimo:
rape is the new money ritual

I believe this is the exact reason.
One Baba asking them to have sex with someone that hasn't had sex before.
The penalty for defiling a minor should be more severe than rape in my opinion. Once a man is caught in this act, I will suggest that he be locked for life. Opening skirt of a 12 year old or 12 weeks old child should just not be allowed to repeat itself, let alone be common place.

Phones › Re: Fraudsters Sell Fufu As Iphone 7+ To Man At Computer Village As He Cries by EngineerOloye: 9:26pm On Jun 11, 2020

gurunlocker:

An average Nigerian is greedy!

How will you buy an iPhone 7 plus for 20K?

I hope they added okra soup to the phone box

Ahhh.... Apostle must hear of this!!!
Oja mi lara he.

Crime › Re: Cubana Chief Priest On Rape: Don’t Wait For Rapist To Be Rich Before Reporting by EngineerOloye: 7:13pm On Jun 07, 2020

So he's mad because he has a contrary opinion, or because he runs a club?

Sterope:
This one is clearly mad! Coming from a club owner in Nigeria, I won't be surprised if he is one of them.

Crime › Re: Robbers Attack First Bank In Kogi. Kill Many Policemen, Customers (Graphic) by EngineerOloye: 9:28pm On Jun 04, 2020

Waoh.... Very shocking scene. We need to live prepared. Christ died to save us from eternal separation from God and God loves us so so so much. It's unbelievable how we waste time on things that are inconsequential. Accept Jesus today.

Righteousness89:
Condolences to the Families of the Bereaved..

Healthy Men and Women sent to their early grave, Just like that!

No sickness! No Accident!

Life is Really Vanity!

No one knows his date or Time! Anyone could just go at anytime..

The Best Gift to give to our life is to Live Prepared!

Live Prepared for Eternity!

Live Life with Eternity in view

We know the day we were born! We don't know the day we will go..

Not all of us Alive Today will be Alive this time Tomorrow!

Prepare for the Main Life..

Say YES To The PRINCE of Peace

Say YES To JESUS CHRIST

Kindly See our Signature

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Family › Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by EngineerOloye: 3:17am On Apr 28, 2020

I imagine you genuinely intend to help and that your advice was given with good intentions. However, maybe rereading it objectively could have highlighted some pointers to unhelpful suggestions with looming unintended consequences, especially if you are in a loving marriage relationship. The lockdown would naturally increase sex activities... Even Google indicates increase in pornographic surfing around the globe. Don't scatter someone's home with your keypad abeg.
@Iambell please be sure to find an appropriate time and way to communicate your concerns with your husband. You should know the best times as he is your husband 2. I am assuming it affects your health,so let him see that. Even if it's not affecting your health it certainly will begin to affect your emotions and feelings towards him. 3. Agree on a compromise 4. Also pray about it... You both should satisfy each other and not labor eachother. As you are complaining too much, he may also be complaining too little. Ideal number is relative and good news is... Sex drive drops with age, so the worst is gone. Don't quote me sha... [color=#550000][/color]

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

Family › Re: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by EngineerOloye: 8:47am On Mar 07, 2020

Johnson5258:
This is indeed great but i advise you to discuss with maybe your pastor or Imam. A man that hasn't sit to plan his life at 40 is who you're talking about here, Madam I hope you want to see you succeed in your life? Is it pension he wants to use to pay school fees? Meanwhile, I believe you haven't been having sex with him not to talk of abortion.

The lady is already manifesting signs of low self esteem. Nothing can be ruled out at this stage of a 5years struggle to keep him to herself.

The way I see it, her kpekus already has the guys phone number, and is the one making all the calls. Her post here is one of the few times her own inner desperation cries out and I pray she is saved.

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