GeneralOuki: she will not cut off contact but would instead keep it away from the husband. The wife and family would become discreet with the communication with the ex. Op should accept the fact that he married into a shameless family and start withdraw whatever emotional attachment he has on that marriage.
It will be difficult for her to continue contacting him secretly. Snd the husband can change her phone number and delete his number from her phone. He should also warn her that she should never take anything from ex. She can be asked to warn her family to stop taking gifts from ex or else the marriage is over.
Feisu: My wife still keeps contact with her married ex. She says they parted peacefully so they are still friends. I didn't have an issue with it.
But I recently found out he sends money and gifts to my inlaws and they are all so happy with that. Even celebrating this in my presence and saying I shouldn't be jealous or anything because their daughter knows she's married and their relationship was in the past.
This doesn't sit well with me.
I also know for a fact that my parents wouldn't accept unsolicited gifts from my ex or that of my siblings.
If they have no children between them there is no reason why they should still be contacting each other, irrespective of whether they broke up peacefully or not. You don’t joke with matters of love, it can spark anytime. Cut off the contact between them and tell her to move on. If you do that the other man will likely stop sending gifts as the distance will prevent that.
flokii: Things dey happen for that U.K o.. any lady whether single or married can be used to cure konji. I'm suspecting it's one of her co-workers she is having affair with.. for her to be seducing you means she is trying to bribe you so you don't react. The only worry there is STDs and other deadly diseases one can get from cheating partner because most don't use condoms.
I don’t think that’s why she is seducing him. She may have had unprotected sex with the other guy and might be thinking she is pregnant. So she won’t be caught out, let him do it too so as to confuse or rope him in as the father of the child.
Samantha125: Her cheating has nothing do do with her being abroad, that's if she's indeed cheating... She was still gonna get herself a hunky looking Nigerian side dude in Nigeria while you're abroad...
Blame the character and not the country...
Blame the country too my sister. I know what am talking. We have been there. Wetin eyes see, mouth no go fit talk. You know there is so called sexual freedom in UK that cannot be matched with occasional random man disturbing you in Nigeria.
jesusjnr2020: She was raised to hate, curse and kill Jews and also Christians, but all she needed was just one encounter with Jesus (as Saul of Tarsus), and she came to know the truth and Jesus set her free and changed her story and life forever.
She said Jesus spoke Arabic with her, saying, "you're my daughter, don't be afraid."
Therefore the truth is that Jesus also loves the Muslims and Palestinians (contrary to what some Christians think) and also want them all in heaven with Him.
Hence He would do whatever it takes to bring them to salvation, even if means appearing Himself and speaking their native language to them.
God bless.
Dream or nightmare? 😀😀😀 . Even the jews believe Christianity is idol worship and jesus is idol of Christians. She must have been visited by satan masquerading as jesus in her dream. There is only one God and jesus is His messenger just like Muhammad. That is the reality. That is the truth.
tuoyoojo: Even with the high fuel price they are still diverting fuel
This was the same format they used in 2023 when they said our fuel was the cheapest in west Africa that if they increased the fuel price , diverting fuel would stop
Alas here we are now
Our weak naira still makes the fuel cheaper as Dangote buys crude in naira and sells in naira. When naira gets strong relative to CFA francs there will be less of smuggling as it will not be profitable. Same snuggling is happening with foodstuff because it is cheaper in Nigeria due to weak naira.
hush15: I wonder why FG can't make refinery work if one man can. Even if na to privatize am and make the refinery plc.... when Atiku said it, people went for his head, but here we are today, its evident only private sector can run things in this country.
But Dangote too get sense sha. That monopoly thing ehn, its coming because by the time other players enter the market, he would have dominated the market and left them with probably less that 10percent of the market share. They really came late to the party cos it takes a very long while to build a refinery.
Please stop talking of Atiku selling refineries. Ge is a selfish human being selling national assets for peanuts to his friends who will destroy the assets. What have gained from previous assets sold by Atiku? If they are sold properly, yes, we may gain from the resuscitation of the refineries by new private entrepreneurs.
DeOTR: Where's the lie? That people are not being killed in their villages in Benue, Plateau, Niger and now Kwara? Are you willing to sacrifice your entire household on the alter of one Nigeria? If you can, sorry, not all of us are that stuupid to accept that. The amount of bloodshed going on in the country everyday, it's practically impossible for Nigeria to prosper. Stop the killing and bloodshed, then maybe we can talk about the country not being destroyed. Except you have another meaning for destruction, the sheer level of insecurity going on will eventually destroy the country if not attended to.
The only place where Christians are being singled out for killing is in southeast where IPOB is killing fellow Christians. All other places you mentioned are random killings and muslims form the majority of victims. Calling for outsiders to come and help is dangerous because they are opportunistic devils looking for minerals to steal.
DeOTR: We have no country if people are not safe to sleep in their own house. It's better if everything is destroyed and everyone goes their way. Would you have said this if your mother and sisters were molested then killed by these terrorists?
Stopping insecurity is different from dismembering the country. Are you using lies to destroy the country?
HonNL: Mace, a member of the US House of Reps represents South Carolina 1st District
https://x.com/RepNancyMace/status/1982454730849738810?s=19[/quote]Paid agents of Isreal want ti distabilise Nigeria by all means. I hope the Christians of Nigeria will not allow themselves to used in destroying the country. Their WMD lies against Iraq is still fresh in our minds. They used that to destroy Iraq, these agents of devil.
chiagozien: That's good, Kanu is learned and wise.
He will defend himself without trying to be diplomatic, unlike lawyers working under Nigeria system that will want to continue being in good book of government.
We wish we could see the process, make we see Kanu asking malami and others questions.
God bless Mazi Nnamdi Kanu
Dey play….! How much does he know about treasonable felony?
SeeWahala: MNK said he will destroy the zoo with the truth and it is exactly what is happening right now in front of all of us 🤗
Just wait let his defense trial resume and those witnesses get called to appear
Yes the truth is there in the court. The videos of how he commanded his drunken devils to destroy Lagos is in court. Let him defend himself. Awon werey!
21lucky: 🕊️ A New Dawn is Coming: Peter Obi's Victory in 2027 is Already Written in the Spirit and in the Streets 🇳🇬
In a nation where hope once seemed dimmed and dreams appeared delayed, the wind of transformation is rising again—and its name is Peter Obi.
Across cities and villages, from the creeks of the Niger Delta to the rocky hills of Jos, a thunderous call echoes: "Obi! Obi! Obi!" It's not just politics. It’s not just popularity. This is divine alignment—a movement that is both spiritual and physical, rising beyond parties, beyond personalities, and even beyond the resistance of those clinging to the old order.
The 2027 election is not just another poll. It is destiny in motion.
Despite any opposition, despite any maneuverings from the incumbent or those in power, the heart of the nation beats for one man—Peter Obi. And no amount of resistance from President Bola Ahmed Tinubu or any political force can stand in the way of what God and the people have aligned.
"When the people speak with one voice, and Heaven agrees, no power on earth can stop it." — A Cleric in Enugu
According to recent spiritual and social insights, 65% of Nigerians—from the youth in Lagos to the elders in Kano, from the artisans in Aba to the tech geniuses in Abuja—are solidly, completely, and unshakably standing with Peter Obi. Not just with votes, but with their hearts, minds, and souls.
This is no ordinary support. This is covenantal loyalty. This is a revolution of conscience and character.
The 2023 elections may have been marred with controversy, disappointment, and dashed expectations—but 2027 is a different battle, and Nigeria is more awake than ever. This time, the people are not just voters. They are watchers. They are warriors. They are the custodians of a new Nigeria.
From prayer altars to protest grounds, from market squares to social media timelines, a sacred chant is rising: "We will not be bought. We will not be broken. We will not back down."
Whether Tinubu and his machinery like it or not, the Spirit of Change is unstoppable.
Peter Obi's movement is not a mere campaign—it is a call. A national rebirth. A rising sun breaking through the clouds of corruption, injustice, and failed promises.
Even nature seems to respond. In recent months, spiritual leaders, elders, and visionaries across the country have spoken of dreams and revelations—of a man with clean hands and a servant’s heart, wearing a simple suit, standing at the gates of Aso Rock, not with pride, but with purpose.
And the name on their lips is Peter Obi.
It’s no longer a question of if—it’s a matter of when. And 2027 is the appointed time.
Let it be known: No weapon formed against this movement shall prosper. No voice raised in deception shall silence the will of the people.
Peter Obi is coming—not with force, but with faith. Not with division, but with direction. Not with empty words, but with a proven record of integrity, simplicity, and service.
So let the trumpet sound. Let the walls of Jericho fall. Let the nation prepare. Because no matter who resists it, a new Nigeria is about to be born—and Peter Obi is the midwife of that miracle.
🕊️ Whether Tinubu likes it or not, the future is calling—and the people have already answered.
Muslims will take over United Kingdom, British people including France and all wicked European Colonial masters that destroyed Africa by lumping together people with different ideologies and beliefs in one country out of their selfishness and wickedness will definitely pay for all the evil they perpetrated against people of God in Africa, especially in Nigeria where they intentionally align and empower Jihadists since 1960 to hold others down perpetually.
I am glad it's happening in my generation.
God uses the wicked to reward wicked people for their past sins, and another set of wicked people will also be used to reward the other wicked people and the cycle continues until the wicked perishes and pay for their wickedness to fellow humans and humanity
Cry baby!!! Muslims have already taken over. There’s nothing you can do. There are at least 10 Muslim Mayors in UK including the Mayor of London. So nothing you can do about that.
NothingDoMe: The ant infested wood was brought home and the lizards have come to feast.
Britain was warned.
Shut up! The Isreali fans unruly behaviour in Amsterdam is the reason for the ban. They can’t try half of their provocations in Birmingham without causing a bloodshed in UK.
Bendeco02: We are in 2025 and all these politicians are thinking of is 2027.
Some funny people from SW are taking side with APC because their tribe's man is the president. Yet with all the top rank you occupied, dirty fulani bandits are still unaliving people in your region consistently.
effixxyguy1: Hello Nairalanders, I'm seeking advice on a sensitive issue.
After the first round of intimacy with my wife, I often lose interest in going for a second round.
I'm 31, and we've been trying for a child, but I'm worried this might be affecting our chances. Is this normal? Are there any underlying issues I should be concerned about? Should I consult a doctor or a relationship counselor? I'd appreciate any guidance or suggestions.
Fertility does not depend on the number rounds you do with your wife in a day. There are a number of factors involved, but definitely not related to number of rounds you do in a day. In fact the first ejaculation usually contain the largest number of sperm cells running to meet your wife’s egg somewhere in the tubes.
Zionmdde: Rubbish Waste of time Vying for presidency means being vulnerable to all these name callings and the rest. He shouldn't be found in all these petty lawsuits
Let him get distracted jare! We need his distraction from the real meat. No be MUMU him be?
Thats not true she feels uneasy and keeps looking round to see if a policeman might appear to arrest her. And most of the seats are empty and she stands by the door so as to quickly alight from next stop to escape arrest. Don’t you see that she rushed through the statements within 2 minutes? Why was she in a hurry? You know the answer.
Family › Re: My Wife's Married Ex Keeps Sending Money To My Inlaws. S by Eniitankorede: 5:41pm On Oct 31, 2025
